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 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 38 (view)
 
What dating mode are you in?
Posted: 7/22/2018 3:06:00 PM
“And yes, they are living on what she has. Her ex-husband pays a nice alimony and and she got a nice settlement in the divorce”

The guys a mooch, this and not paying child support his one of the worst idiots I’ve read on here!

Yes you will have a reputation if he pissed everyone off because his a low life mooch.

Making his children go without. He is only in relationships , and I use that term very lightly indeed to exploit. She will get rid of him because he is utterly ridiculous to have around and eventually she will feel that his “body guard duties” as too expensive!
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Modern dating
Posted: 7/22/2018 1:28:03 PM
^^^Who should get upset about it? The bombshell receiving the attention that men wish they could receive and are butt hurt because they want all that attention too? Or the men giving her attention should be upset that he is that superficial that he feels such an urge to “despite his better judgement”Give attention to her anyway.Women don’t care how much attention they receive ,it’s quality over quantity and if guys were not so wishing to apire to wishing for variety and amount of messages equally wanting quality they would stop pushing this guilt trip on” Its women’s fault too” constantly.

Edit sorry misread ,you said this isn’t something people should get upset about. I agree
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Modern dating
Posted: 7/22/2018 12:46:18 PM
Well most of my relationships are not about denying or controlling men. They are free to come and go in regards to hobbies or guy time. Think you are talking about co dependent unhealthy relationships and using them as an example of neglect “It’s the controlling demanding women’s fault”. This is not what was even in question or in the research . It was otherwise healthy relationships where obsession and placing emotional burdens on women to maintain it ,while a guy becomes absorbed with other things can and does end relationships. Lack of nurture does these things for some reason.
Edit it’s also a myth that women wish to be around their partner all time too and don’t wish for girl time and nights out. In fact a women’s desire for personally freedom can be stronger in many ways than a mans, but if she acts on it a guy will usually be upfront if it becomes neglectful for him “I don’t feel appreciated” or just descend into downright Jelousy on his part. He plays up to regain control over said women. Usually by shaming her on her “traditional role” which is him first him middle and him last.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 589 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2018 12:08:21 PM
Ohenryx , I’m glad you asked that but I doubt I will be able to make sense of why it isn’t contradictory here but it isn’t .
A relationship ,say a friend of the opposite sex may be a friend because they have good qualities but you lack sexual desire for them. In order to separate a sexual romantic relationship to a platonic relationship ,we need to feel motivated by sexual desire. If that is lacking it will be difficult to maintain a relationship where we are not wishing to keep having sex with said partner. But most will agree that sexual desire alone doesn’t make a relationship, we may need compatibility and other desirable qualities and those need to be intergrated into and form a relationship where sex is an expression of that love. of it. The ace card isn’t the sex itself , it’s the ability to allow the space and time to form a relationship while bringing in the sexual aspect as part of an integrated already formed relationship. If we go straight to a sexual relationship then it has more chance of being a sexual relationship only as it’s pot luck what forms if anything after.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Modern dating
Posted: 7/22/2018 8:21:47 AM
Do women really go for 'bad boys'? Here's the science that settles ...
theconversation.com › scientific studies coma


Edit double standard in dating^^^ because women get more attention or find it easier? That’s not a double standard. A double standard is applying a rule or principle to different people of groups. In who gets the most attention it would be men driving that not the women and is neither a rule or principle .It is not a rule that men give attention to what they wish to give it to. Like they may initially give attention in relationships and then neglect them in favour of paying more attention to hobbies, work or whatever which also leads to break ups. neglect
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Modern dating
Posted: 7/22/2018 3:51:08 AM
Really? Hundreds or more it’s well documented. We were studying it way back on my various psychology courses. Bad boys are short term flings. The successful relationships that are long term are with men who are higher quality. A women usually leaves a relationship if she can’t influence a man with her good intentions in a relationship. Rather than put it on me to find all this, why don’t you research it ,seeing as you manage to use your finger for POF

Edit
This one is just a quick one I found on google. It’s a beginners guide I guess. Who Is More Likely to Leave a Bad Relationship? | Psychology Today
https://www.psychologytoday.com › ...
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Pre and post online dating experiences? From heaven to hell
Posted: 7/21/2018 6:56:11 PM
I’m not bothered whether I meet a guy or not really, so this is just another method. For fun.I had good dates so far, A guy took me out , a lawyer and was so funny telling me these court stories, we were out for 7 hours, quite like him and another guy who works in IT and I quite like him too. The only one I didn’t like was this over confident city worker, who took me to a trendy bar and was rude to the waiters and had an argument with the barman. I thought DRAMA. Total show off and asked me what guys I liked and I described the opposite to him and he asked me if I was meeting others on site and I said”got two lined up this week” and being**** he said ,only two I got four and then started saying some names. I thought you’re not macho ,your just an idiot and after his tenth drink ,he went to loo and I left while he was still in there. . So far it’s overall been good meeting people. I like to see what else is out there.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Anyone ever wear a disguise to a first meet?
Posted: 7/21/2018 6:32:30 PM
No I just leave. I’ve done it a couple of times . I don’t feel I lack the confidence enough to wear a disguise.If you look like someone else or I’m not comfortable ,I just say I think we will end it here and leave.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 28 (view)
 
What dating mode are you in?
Posted: 7/21/2018 6:24:47 PM
you're dating for fun, sexual relations is your main underlying motivator.

For you, I date for fun and sex doesn’t even come into it. Dating for fun can mean going on outings, Sporting events, socialising in groups. Doesn’t just mean getting body intimate.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 17 (view)
 
How to attract women for serious relationships and not casual sex
Posted: 7/21/2018 5:55:47 PM
I’d say women who are desperate for guys are not best bet. If you are heavily invested in ego like most guys ,then that is no good either because my advice is if you want to attract staying power women you are going to be looking at the high end market here. In other words a women who could take or leave you depending on your attitude and behaviour. No yes women, no I’m desperate for a man ones and no hook up ones that sleep around. A women with dignity and self respect ,who knows what she wants and isn’t desperate for any man . An equal .
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 176 (view)
 
Has #Metoo invaded online dating?
Posted: 7/21/2018 5:27:49 PM
July storm don’t blame yourself . There are a lot of dirt bags out there. That’s why I recommend courting. Really getting to know him before getting ditsy and falling for someone you are just not going to like.Saves time and hassle.


Edit I've had women grab my butt and more in clubs, yeah course, what night was that dream
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 398 (view)
 
Wanking off costs less than dating
Posted: 7/21/2018 4:55:58 PM
^^^Guys do that too in dating . They use women for favours like can you drive me here or there. Treat me to a meal “I’m poor” and On the list goes. That is a cheapskate and they also date various women for free meals. Women need to weed out those when dating because they are on the rise. I even know guys that have shacked up with women on welfare with kids they need to support and will take the food out of the child’s mouth by being a hobo unemployed, wreck.Such
A turn on. They usually groom with, Ive left my wallet at home, or I’m on a project and going to be making money soon just so they can exploit them financially.Its even on the rise with the ones with money as in really well off.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 95 (view)
 
why do do many women have body type = thin
Posted: 7/21/2018 4:40:17 PM
Women say they want honesty in a bloke? No I don’t,but don’t be surprised if I find out your lying while I’m in courting stages. I don’t find things like appearances lying on women saying age, height, weight being really dishonest. It’s quite the norm and harmless lying. When they say they would like honesty from guys, that usually means not being a serious whopping great liar like I’m single ( when they are not)or I’m the faithful type, when really they have been with everything with a pulse.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Modern dating
Posted: 7/21/2018 4:29:55 PM
Not that old myth. Women like bad boys and find nice guys boring. According to researchers, most women value proper decent qualities in a guy. I know some guys want an excuse as to why they are not getting dates or in a relationship, but all research suggests in practice women have relationships and want proper quality men and are only sticking to relationships where the guy is nice and “boring”.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 585 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship?
Posted: 7/21/2018 4:16:29 PM
I don’t think sex is of any high value at all .Im saying first date sex doesn’t guarantee a relationship . That’s how undervalued it is. I’m saying that the whole dating situation by some men has turned it into a service for free escorts.
Call me old fashioned, but I remember the days where dating and first meets were about getting to know someone and enjoying their company and sex wasn’t even on the menu. I also remember that if someone did have sex on first date locally,that she ended up getting a reputation for herself and all the local guys wanted to date her or have a go as the local bike. They would even say how dumb they were behind their back for putting out so quickly. So far from overvaluing sex, it was undervalued. Lucky I don’t attract dates that think our first meet is an invitation to have sex , and if I was ever stuck on a date that did ,I’d leave in the second half.I date for my own needs and reasons not to service horny guys .
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 583 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship?
Posted: 7/21/2018 9:35:23 AM
Well as I said there are always exceptions to the rule. But plenty of girls who have sex on first date, do not get a relationship. What your saying if if a women doesn’t put out and have sex with a stranger on first date. You are not interested in her because you haven’t test drived her first. I don’t like being blackmailed into having sex just because I’ve meet someone and had a few drinks. They can get knotted.
Edit It says a lot to me about a mans charachter too if he can’t even go on one first date without expecting sex.SeLFISH horny entitled idiot! Next>
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 581 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship?
Posted: 7/21/2018 8:52:13 AM
Yeah but that’s how men think. Like it of not the experts on men say time and time again that a woman’s ace card is her sexuality. Heart isn’t what they are dating a women for. If they don’t want her sexually, she can be as sweet as sally fields and get trodden on in their race for sex.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 19 (view)
 
writing first message
Posted: 7/21/2018 4:19:37 AM
I’m annoyed by hi messages . I mean your grown men , on a dating site ,wishing I assume to meet women. I expect that level of lack of effort from little girls who don’t want anything and are just responding to something, like my nieces will text K or other such short messages . Lazy
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 579 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship?
Posted: 7/20/2018 8:40:36 PM
For women,unless they are just wanting sex without anything else, it’s lethal .There is no bond and she has given her ace card away for free, without any work on his part to prove his worth being in your life( and will judge you for it usually) unless that is all they want in life from a women, or in non commitment stage themselves then you are great for their needs and will get a pat on head.or chance of feeling anything for her emotionally. So yeah, I’d have sex on first date ,if I really was lusting and wanted a fix, but if serious or wanting him to get to know me for anything but a one time or a long term booty call, definitely not venture into those waters . It has too many pitfalls of leaving yourself in a potentially vulnerable situation or developing feeling for him later and him just enjoying the sex part so easierly flowing his way ( usually from various other women) for a women ,that does later start to want more it’s like this “trying to renegotiate a contract” after the fact or any were signed and usually that’s too late. Your either hook up material or potential relationship material and it’s up to you which catagory you wish to place yourself in. Men worth having, don’t appreciate things that come easy to them., but sure it can turn into a relationship as anything can in the world. Guys never fall in love through sex, they may love the blow jobs you give though and women who want a relationship don’t get one just because they are having sex, they are merely teaching guys they can have sex outside of meeting your need for a relationship. I’m sure true love has happened in these situations though, but I would have to overlook the hundreds of thousands other scenarios where it’s not worked out.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Any chance she might come back?
Posted: 7/20/2018 8:07:28 PM
At my age I’ve not once, even considered dating, much less developing feelings for someone “SEPARATED” and you know why? They are not available. A rebound at best or a ploy at worst. I don’t wish to get involved in such hopeless messes, that are other people’s messess not mine, So I’m not carrying the can back for it and I’m not naive enough just because a couple of times someone found true love that way! Forgetting the hundreds of thousands who got used and discarded once they have sorted out their emotional turmoil. You laid your cards on table and she doesn’t feel you are a match, age, no kids and doesn’t really fancy you, now how much more can she say to swing it for you two to NOT be sailing into no sunset together, if you keep putting yourself up after that to be used, it’s on you. It may not be love, may just be an ego challenge for you, it’s for you to figure out and try best move on. I’d say someone separated even if true will be fed up with commitement anyway after it going wrong and will want to see what options out there, before tying themselves down again or never wanting to tie themselves down again.”one of the casual die hard daters” I meant in another post.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 22 (view)
 
What dating mode are you in?
Posted: 7/20/2018 7:19:15 PM
I never date without the intention of finding a long lasting commitement ,that is just us two and we don’t wish to have or see anybody else.I get that from my gran, she didn’t like a lot of her husbands ways, but they had a commitment to fall back on to ride the waves. I’ve not met anyone I actually wish to marry for real, I’ve had offers but didn’t feel I liked them after long term relationship and I’ve also had ones where I might have wanted a commitement ,but they feel otherwise so both those situations have ended any further dating with them. No point I dont have patients with something or someone ,I’m not that bothered about, or they are not bothered about or not feeling it with me. Too many potentials around that could be a great fit. What I definitely know is those that are casual and will be a die hard casual dater, either just with you or with anybody, the latter being for various reasons.The former being they just are not that into you. Men go for what they want simple. The ones that are getting something rewarding but wish to not commit will throw up every obstacle they can muster if not interested, they will do this if they sort of like you but it’s just for now with them and sometimes I’ve tested that for my own amusement to see what excuse they will come back with next, while not even being anywhere near that page myself.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 99 (view)
 
Are men who don't ask questions self absorbed?
Posted: 7/20/2018 6:43:48 PM
You can’t tell by this if someone is self absorbed or not. It’s only if in time ,they are never asking about you, you can get a sense of self absorption. Some impressing ,which is a very good start, shows they like you and feel a sense of duty to promote themselves as a good catch, others may do this simply because they are nervous so sticking to subjects they are comfortable with, themselves, so unless it’s a situation that always happens for a good amount of dating time with them,then don’t worry too much, but if it goes on for much longer ,then they are very bad relationship potential, as in you will have strong competition to find a space or interest in the world of me, myself and I because it’s bordering on psychosis material.
Edit One give away to that level, is they will probably accuse you of being self absorbed or disinterested, once you stop asking about them and asking questions. That means they are absorbed beyond help.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 9 (view)
 
new topic
Posted: 7/20/2018 6:32:40 PM
Eh? Just giving advice, what you asked for. You can and will live the life you wish, without anybody giving a damn.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Help lol
Posted: 7/20/2018 6:12:39 PM
I’ve had to look it up “Schizoaffective disorder is a chronic mental health condition characterized primarily by symptoms of schizophrenia, such as hallucinations or delusions, and symptoms of a mood disorder, such as mania and depression”

Can’t help you mate. I’d not really be understanding ,unless I had same condition as you. If you started hallucinating on a date, I’d feel uncomfortable and out of my depth. Maybe don’t disclose it ,till some emotional connection is happening or meet others in same boat, or if connection established take them to meetings if they wish,to educate them on it.
Edit That guy from nirvana had Bipolar and got Courtney, so maybe scrap the advice of same boat option.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Help! Stuck between 2 guys... Needs advice!
Posted: 7/20/2018 5:48:07 PM
Firstly this happens loads, where you can meet many potentials that you could settle with and be happy, secondly you don’t chuck in, in that case your cards too early without risk of losing the other in meantime. So I’d say not to put too much pressure on yourself to make a decision without knowing what is on offer from both men, which means them laying their cards on table first. Guy 1 is just getting to know you though so anything can happen, but the other guy you have known for longer and seem like you have a good foundation to build a relationship on, but has he told you at this point what he wants and where he wants this to go? You may be assuming too much and not communicating enough in the process ,so in my opinion I make no decisions until the Guys cards are laid on the table and options are given to me. Otherwise I’m jumping the gun.
Edit also if they don’t say it, they lose it eventually.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 7 (view)
 
new topic
Posted: 7/20/2018 5:27:40 PM
Well that’s my point too. If you think people are better than you, by birth lottery and think it will make you have more value , going after it, you need to have self respect or whatever class they are,will see it, exploit it and leave you worse off.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 248 (view)
 
Regarding dutch dinner dates...
Posted: 7/20/2018 4:46:58 PM
If a man asks a potential romantic interest out on a date and then insists in the middle of it to go Dutch, he doesn’t wish to invest much in you and may wish for FWB. Either way his not a gentleman ,so his reasons are usually from a bad place. If his on disability and can’t afford financially to pay, that’s a different matter. If he is comfortable and thinks it’s not politically correct to pay for the dates HE IS ASKING FOR,then it’s speaks volumes of a potentially bad character upfront early on ,that will most definitely not change. What you are seeing is what you get and if not comfortable with such bad manners so early on. Move on to someone with a hint of good will and healthy standards in dating. Save trouble long run.
Edit It’s either free sex without commitment or Many male gold diggers do this ,so watch out, starts off with you paying for odd meals , no biggy eh? but type to move in to your house, eat all your food and not contribute and see what else you got coming in that’s on offer, while having all their sexual needs met! You don’t have to be well off either ,just have a roof and regular paid employment .Type if they had a job at time will quit it as soon as feet under table with your great generosity. Do not give them any money or allow them to move in and you will know better soon enough what they are interested in with you. This used to be a guy only problem but with women now more affluent it’s become a real issue for them to be guarded too in dating.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Is she for real or is she keeping me on a string
Posted: 7/20/2018 4:24:33 PM
My thoughts are I have food in my fridge older than this (3 weeks chitchat.).Why should she as a given trust you in that time? You may be an introvert ,wishing to also string her along without a meet for same reasons as you say she could be. You may have your own girlfriend or have various reasons for being on this app, hell she doesn’t know anything about you or you her. It’s just chat . She may be being truthful,. It will depend on how long you are still sitting around with no meet
Edit Also if you are both introverts for real, you would understand most don’t jump and take many risks and would understand this caution.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 206 (view)
 
Rejection...
Posted: 7/20/2018 4:06:36 PM
My dating style is many dates with many potentials. I’ve been on dates where I’ve thought , not bothered if I see them again and that may work out with them ringing me and I’m on another date, they hear a male voice in background, laugh and skip away, without me doing any big closure ,making a massive mountin out of ,for most a tiny mole hill. If they react badly over one date then I think they have an over inflated ego or just dumb and playing at “pretending they have invested” after an aquantaince level meet up. I don’t care when guys do same because I’m mature. I understand the many levels of falling in love. Takes more than one meet and couple of hours.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 67 (view)
 
What things turn people off when viewing profiles pics?
Posted: 7/20/2018 3:46:23 PM
I tend not to give photos until I’ve done a fair bit of screening. Messaging when it comes to dating for me, has to have some potential of another date or something leading to more. I’m not interested in meeting every quick random person who sends a quick random message I receive . I like to be sure the foundations are in place first. Like good communication and a build up of consistent communication,so I know they are not just impulsive and mucking around. Then when selected,they go on a meet list and if we don’t wish to go further than one date, usually have met up and had at least a good fun date.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Men age and lying
Posted: 7/20/2018 3:29:33 PM
I don’t think it’s older women they are interested in as such. It’s any women and especially those stating a preference that isn’t a mold they fit. Challenge isn’t it. They do love a challenge. It doesn’t matter with opportunists what you state you’d like or not like on a profile because it’s about what they want ,not what you want. They are just clutching at straws due to rejections on here and hoping deceptive means will pull the Fish in or at least one fish good to go. Sometimes they get lucky, sometimes not.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Is it normal for guys to ask personal questions before meeting you?
Posted: 7/20/2018 3:09:33 PM
They only understand your personal boundaries by a Block, Next approach.Then ask someone else, till they get the desired results. It’s hook up questions. No cherry or fancy frills, just straight up getting to the point , while engaging by the information received, how easy or willing your bones might be to jump. Working out if it will cost them a McDonald’s and numerous hours ,before they can go in for the sex, that’s if they want to meet you, some do it just for stimulating sex chat at home,because they don’t want to pay a dollar a minute phone service. Randy but Randy cheap is the kind.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 3 (view)
 
why do I have no luck with girls?
Posted: 7/20/2018 3:01:13 PM
Looking for men in profile ,is disqualifying lesbians straight away. Why would they message you, if things are complicated and not clear on~probably the most basic part of a profile. Too much hassle
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 4 (view)
 
new topic
Posted: 7/20/2018 2:43:34 PM
Total train wreck.Why do you think the upper classes ,want to bypass their peers and opportunities for lower classes when they are so far up their jacksy that they feel entitled to best of everything, including good stock? Usually it’s because they think they have found an unpaid servant, that they can treat like scum and get more out of the deal. I know a women that went with an upper class millionaire, had children and was treated like crap and in the end had to walk out on all of them, as the children (boys started showing the same contempt the father showed her) she also could not fight for custody as he had the money,not her and is now in full time work in a crappy bedsit.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Are you failing in relationships/dating all the time??? Consider the number 1 and number 2 theory!
Posted: 7/17/2018 6:13:55 PM
That is quite true.I avoid them types and just had a good date with a guy that bought me a meal, without crying over it. Was a very polite gentleman and seemed to enjoy the date. It was relaxing. The opportunist guy, low esteem kind are all out there and are easy to suss out with no effort at all. Sure people will come across them, but the trick is to just not invest or stay put. Only invest what they are willing to invest. The kind you mention will be the low hanging fruit variety ~ Give little or nothing , while expecting huge returns and that will be a start as you mean to go on mode. Invest nothing,expect loads back is the kind of date you can count on,for all the wrong reasons ..me myself and I lalala. Give me your goods lalala. They will use words and give little . You can tell this in courting. The reason the esteem is low is because they can’t hold onto anyone for long and pine after the high hanging fruit, but end up with several low hangers ,that also have low esteem, so are happy to indulge and give everything to him,while he still will not invest.This is why I’m very strong on courting to weed out the ones you mention.
Edit Just to add the reason they treat you In a unpleasant way at the start ,is to get you used to bad behaviour ,so it will not be a shock later.The lower your expectations ,the less they need to give. Tip there.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Modern dating
Posted: 7/17/2018 5:36:10 PM
^^^Exactly Like they have a gun pointed to they’re head and that dating isn’t an option,choice. OP If you think women have it better than guys in dating, you are a grown man and do not have to partake in it. Harping on about how women have it better than men in dating, sounds about as sexy as a teenager in a sulk who has some grudge with women. It’s too much psychosis going on and not enough sexy. Stay home and bake cookies.

Edit trying to be men. Going out to work is not trying to be men. It’s giving us an opportunity to not be married to teenie weenie teens like you raising other brats:)
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 41 (view)
 
How can you tell a catfish?
Posted: 7/17/2018 5:28:36 PM
It could be organ harvesting. If you are not looking for a one night stand ,then why you wishing to see if she is fake or not eh?. You go to next profile.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 126 (view)
 
Have Something to Say to Your Ex? Say it Here.
Posted: 7/17/2018 5:14:40 PM
I should have picked the better looking, rich,other guy with a great personality. That day I was in a charitable mood,I learnt the best ones should always be picked first because charity comes back to bite you.I was most resentful ,I let a great guy go for the bargain option just because I felt sorry for you,. However I got my own back and cheated on you numerous times and eventually got with my first choice who replaced my mistake of going out with you by day three , he’d managed to put a smile back on my face which lasted longer than the whole episode with you.twat features.:)
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Relationships with Bartenders and Waitress
Posted: 7/17/2018 5:03:13 PM
His been out lots having too may alocholic drinks. He will learn the hard way. My boss always knew when I’d been out night before. Inability to communicate past Hi and bye., my lack of focus and general effing up most my tasks for the day.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Why did you message the last person you messaged?
Posted: 7/17/2018 4:50:20 PM
I’ve just been on date and what I liked about him is he was just normal. He was relaxed and charming. His profile was same. Funny, Polite and not prone to being boastful, which is a turn off. Modesty is so attractive for me. He also is quite sporty and seems like a healthy good communicator. Might date him again because his so far got a really chilled, relaxed persona. I felt safe, comfortable and enjoyed myself in his company. I got a few more lined up so will go on those dates and if he still contacts me and is still awesome will consider another date.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Profiles that Turn the Ladies on ???
Posted: 7/17/2018 4:41:41 PM
I’ve just been on a date with someone and I liked his profile because he was modest, humble and Polite . He had a few reasons to boast about things but didn’t and was very charming . In world where people want more of this or better that ,it was very refreshing just to communicate normally, where we were just content in the simple things. Anybody that boasts too much is a turn off completely. He didn’t and that’s what I liked
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 598 (view)
 
the women may get short, the men may be short, but the posts are long
Posted: 7/17/2018 4:19:20 PM
We don’t know where the men have been either but deal with it. It’s an excuse to control a women. Contraception is in a neighbourhood near you. If I got pregnant then I will check my calendar. He doesn’t need to work out who is the lucky guy, I’m sure most sprint like Linford Christie anyway.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Lazy malingers aren't my idea of hot dates.
Posted: 7/17/2018 4:09:53 PM
^^^ which channels might tune in.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Modern dating
Posted: 7/17/2018 4:05:46 PM
The examples you are showing isn’t anything to do with equality. Equal pay and rights to vote like men,were the deal , not men being too selfish to pay for a meal after asking a lady out .
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Times are changing
Posted: 7/17/2018 4:01:00 PM
Men telling women what they can and can’t do. Utter control freaks. Sad part is they want sex on demand but don’t want to pay for any kids. Hell will freeze over before any guy tells me what I can’t do! Not that they are getting any sex off me anyway!
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 408 (view)
 
Why do men lie to get a woman
Posted: 7/13/2018 6:31:04 PM
^^^ how uptight are you. Look from what I read in posts you are a stay at home dad so I’m assuming your partner is the breadwinner, so who pays on dates would be her,so it’s not applicable to you. You’ve won kept man of year award:)
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Left heartbroken and confused
Posted: 7/13/2018 6:14:47 PM
Yep sounds to me like she probably wanted, when she married you, to bring it up yourself starting a family, after five years got fed up and realised it was on her to suggest it,so thinks the relationship hasn’t worked out. Women want men to be psychic and assertive and sooner men get that, the better their relationships will unfold. All may not be lost though. Be assertive and say you really want a family too and you wanted it with her for a long time but didn’t want to frighten her off. Just lie good
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 401 (view)
 
Why do men lie to get a woman
Posted: 7/13/2018 5:39:19 PM
^^^^and they’d be right. I pay when with my mates we split bills cos we are friends. If they want to be another buddy yeah I’ll pay for my “date”!
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Cheating
Posted: 7/13/2018 5:21:13 PM
I date lots of men at same time. I assume they are dating lots of women too. If I was married I’d think I was in a commitment that deserved some “I’m committed now exclusivity” but before that no. I’m not staying indoors why he plays the field and keeps his options open while I’m the “married “cushion, pillow,security blanket or whatever long suffering playing wife but not good enough to be one crap. Dating is not even to me serious it’s just dating.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
Msg: 178 (view)
 
this ladies, is how good guys become jerks
Posted: 7/13/2018 5:14:34 PM
Oh great takes 3 whole weeks to turn a nice man into a Jerk. Women it takes probably at least 10 years of these bad boys behaviour. The weaker sex babe .
 
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