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 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Pregnancy risk
Posted: 2/20/2019 11:10:17 AM
Don't like the idea of kids? then I suggest don't have sex. Accidents happen then whoops here come the stork ;)

Don't play that pull out game because all it takes is one good one :)
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 315 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/19/2019 10:12:07 AM

I notice GG has taken out the bedroom photo.


Yes and replaced it with a really pretty no war paint one. Wit-Woo :)
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 257 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/14/2019 8:44:51 PM
Anybody want some?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSb7mlz7Hag

 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 221 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/13/2019 10:19:06 AM

How the hell to you get rid of the suspician that someone only shows interest in you because he wants a temporary sex partner?


Easy. Don't get intimate when barely knowing them. Don't act in a way that allows you to be treated as such.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Playing Hard to Get Vs. Mixed Signals
Posted: 2/12/2019 11:13:57 AM
4 days and no traffic either way equals done deal. Move on. If there is issues like this early on it will only get worse if you get involved on a deeper level.

But it could be that their mental issues don't allow them to form relationships as easy as other people can. They may have not been social all that much in their life.

If you're really really keen then have it out with her. If not move on. Nothing to see here.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Wish we could warn each other about bad dates
Posted: 2/10/2019 8:48:45 AM

That is a good question, why did you have him in your house so soon?


This is a pretty common thing to happen. The lady isn't on her own there by far.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Women always wanting men quite taller than them
Posted: 2/9/2019 8:09:15 AM

I can only presume it's an 'alpha' thing where women want taller men because of the natural desire for 'better breeding' not to mention the perception of taller means better attributes a-la-romance.


Most dangerous and alpha men I've come across averaged 5ft 5. A bit more to being Alpha than height lmao.


It's a bit off-putting though to find it a common theme in profiles, and particularly in profiles of women who are of the more attractive kind.


What you think is attractive may not be to others.


I guess it can be used by women as a simple 'pre-filter' like culling of job applicants. ;-)


Yes, It also works for me because there is nothing less attractive than a thin woman that is 6ft+ tall and lanky. Don't do it for me.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Why do some women want to talk on the phone while driving their car?
Posted: 2/8/2019 9:25:26 AM
If you were to answer the question if a women asked it. What would you say to her OP?
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Need Help With Profile
Posted: 2/5/2019 1:44:16 PM
I would remove this line from your profile

"There are many women out there I would like to meet but keep reading don't waste my time so I am afraid to write them."

Message them if they really take your fancy ;)

If they say don't waste my time if you're below 6ft then simple don't message.

As proud as you are of your children the profile is for dating so should have a few photo's of you only, and main one should be close up face pic.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Why do I consistently attract women over 40 and 50?
Posted: 1/27/2019 9:13:13 AM

It's weird because these women are not desperate...


They can bar hop and scratch their itches too ;)
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Blocked
Posted: 1/27/2019 8:55:19 AM

Many women take sarcasm as it was meant - sharp, bitter, aggressive, designed to be mocking and painful.

So-called 'humorous' sarcasm usually requires a vocal inflection and lots of expressions to work so it doesn't work well over the internet.


Many men too, and it's exactly how I take it.

There is nothing worse than when you're serious about something and the person gets sarky when it's pretty damn obvious that it will only add fuel to the fire. The people that are constantly sarcastic and don't know when it is appropriate, I avoid and will not engage as can't be @rsed with them.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Help ASAP
Posted: 1/17/2019 8:37:32 AM

If this woman is willing to see you again, that in of its self, tells you she is willing to forget and forgive, although YOU should forgive yourself. Let it go. To learn from one's mistakes means, don't screw things up again.


This right here. She has moved passed it and so should you. If she hasn't then I'm sure it wouldn't be long before something gets said.

How about start planning how you're going to woo her and enjoy your new found chance ;)
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Getting to Know a Great but Busy Person
Posted: 1/14/2019 9:02:11 AM
If you're really keen then offer her to go bowling again. If you get let down again just delete that number of hers and never look back!
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Very Fancy Restaurant for Second Date?
Posted: 1/11/2019 7:40:07 AM

I went back to her place and we got physical, but I sort of blew it at the end. I drank WAY TOO MUCH truth serum and for some idiotic reason thought it was okay to tell her she smelled like cottage cheese downstairs when I was going down on her.


She could be carrying a dose with her smelling like that. Get yourself checked out.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Very Fancy Restaurant for Second Date?
Posted: 1/10/2019 10:43:05 AM
If you can afford to do it then I see no reason not to indulge.

You get one chance to impress so go for it. I wouldn't do it myself unless it was someone I knew a while then dated(Steak and chips meal / bowling/ picnic/ cinema etc this stage for me). But if you have the cash to spare then it's only money :)

Go all out fella and be serious. One white rose lad when you first meet on the date :) Just don't f*ck it up by trying to get you d!ck wet!
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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My turn for a torturous profile preview.
Posted: 1/7/2019 11:10:45 AM
The profile says to me on a whole do not date me as I don't have any time for you. It's how it comes across. It is just on the borderline of too much to read. Be concise, and say less about things.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Women can't hold conversations, that's why they're here
Posted: 1/5/2019 4:05:08 PM

soon as I asked about getting a phone number... blocked lol. And I was totally normal about it. Very weird.


Likely some guy posing as a woman :) Some people will do some pretty mad things just to feel wanted even if it's a delusional lie to ones self.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Philospohy about responding to a Viewed Me.
Posted: 12/30/2018 8:31:00 AM
A lady local to me has "The only man I'm chasing is the Ice cream man" as her headline and I think it speaks volumes.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Annoyed with self and him
Posted: 12/30/2018 8:24:24 AM

But he wants to talk real soon as in the Next 24 hours


All I can say is make sure this is a talk in person and in no other shape or form. No text, no phone call. Eye to eye. That's my advice.

You have already said what you have to say. It is, what it is. Never tell someone something that's important over text and I'm gathering that's what happened?
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Is this girl testing my nerves ?? Please advice !
Posted: 12/27/2018 5:43:11 AM
@Trooyy

You aren't important to her. She isn't engaging with you. Do you need a big sign in lights before you take it on board? Move on for god sake and stop making a fool of yourself.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Airing of Grievances
Posted: 12/20/2018 12:05:56 PM

Books that have been found last century such as the Dead Sea scrolls


5 of them were considered to be fake.

https://edition.cnn.com/2018/10/22/us/bible-museum-fake-scrolls/index.html



MGTOW is a backlash of third wave feminism. It was perhaps not part of this ancient culture. Unfortunate it is mainstream in ours.


I wouldn't exactly call them mainstream.

Feminists and MRA's are mainstream, but MGTOW is just a bunch of guys that sit in a circle and have a w@nk. I'd take them serious if they weren't just internet based. One MGTOW on youtube made me laugh. He was renting a whore for sex HMM funny stuff.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 42 (view)
 
blocked
Posted: 12/20/2018 8:10:36 AM
If you use the site via desktop. It tells you that you have messaged the user in the search results. It won't if you change account though.
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 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 37 (view)
 
blocked
Posted: 12/19/2018 6:50:09 PM
^^ Why bother doing that move on.
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 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 35 (view)
 
blocked
Posted: 12/19/2018 1:03:36 PM
No wonder women block. I was just reading a profile and the woman is seeking permanent weekend buddy and obviously she has kids and works which stands to reason. I seen a screen shot saying this:

You want to see someone at weekends only no wonder why your ex left you for a real woman who cant do sex, you fat old sexless freak of a c*nt.

https://pics.pof.com/dating/1157/26/37/4fcc3e1b8-5e00-4429-b943-2de5ce669fff.jpg

That's a first message 0_O. Gentleman or what lol?
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Autism, depression, social anxiety.
Posted: 12/19/2018 5:53:27 AM

Thanks for taking the time to read and reply to me. The thing that makes me socially anxious is the fact i have aspergers and i’m unable to socialise in a normal way. That makes me anxious because i’m usually leaving the impression “what a weirdo”. I don’t get how to be normal.


Have you ever considered these people you think aren't weird could be possibly hiding behind a vail of some sorts? You would be surprised. Be yourself and you will become less anxious. Accept yourself and pretty much fk what anyone else thinks. Self acceptance. Only one person will truly look out for you and that is yourself.


As for meetups, that sounds like a good idea (albeit a scary one.) I still find it frightening talking to people online because you can’t predict how someone will respond to you. Having low self-esteem and insecurities means rejection or abuse stings a lot more. The anxiety of that happening becomes crippling.


People online respond in such ways because there isn't any repurcutions where as in life when out and about and you're in a group of people. Most will wide berth such behaviours. Stop over thinking scenario where things could happen rather than deal with things as they happen. Art groups on meetup to and you like art so maybe a good start to find common ground with others.


A positive profile is something i can understand. Although i personally wouldn’t reject a girl for sounding negative in her profile. If she was hostile then i would avoid lol


I was more referring to the all men are shit type profiles and you could likely do with positivity rather than negativity in your life at the moment.

Be yourself because being anything else leads to not so great pastures.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Being on the Autism Spectrum
Posted: 12/19/2018 5:35:02 AM


I'm far from a troll. I'm sorry but I'm not going to sugar coat things for you. In my opinion, your chances of landing a date here are somewhere between nil and not to dang likely.


No sugar coating allowed. Don't like the blunt truth then don't ask the question. Ableist my arse! Not one person can legitimately think that. Spot on initial advice.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Autism, depression, social anxiety.
Posted: 12/18/2018 5:57:36 PM
I see on your profile you're working at becoming less socially anxious and that's awesome young man. What I would like to say is when you're anxious remember this. There are 3 stages. the start, middle, end. My point is think of the last time you overcame your anxiety? Are you still here to this day? Are Stronger than you think you are? of course you are. You have overcome most hurdles in your life to this day :)

How about start fishing outside of your league that you put yourself? I think your being way to harsh on yourself when thinking your ugly. I think you just lack some confidence. Try meetup.com and look to go on walks with people that will help build your confidence. You will make lots of new friends and don't worry about being judged as you'll be the only one judging yourself. We tend to be the ones that are harshest on ourselves. I know it can be hard meeting new people but we all have the same worries regardless and want to be liked so that's natural.

The only thing I would say about profiles is not to be negative on them at all. Oh and I can't help but pet every cat I see, and bubble wrap for the win.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 30 (view)
 
you are all blocked bah humbug
Posted: 12/17/2018 4:56:48 PM

There is a work around for blocking a person who has not messaged you but I won't post it. Suffice it to say that the average user won't know how to do it.


That was far to easy to accomplish on one of the bot signups.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 25 (view)
 
blocked
Posted: 12/17/2018 2:47:37 PM
Picture of a xmas tree as main pic? Are you hoping someone plays with your bauble's? :)

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 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Reconnect w/ a date from many, many years ago
Posted: 12/17/2018 11:27:00 AM
A good friend of mine reconnected with a woman he lived with for 7 years in the late 90's whom contacted him via Facebook. She initiated it and was all over him etc. But within 6 weeks she went cold because she couldn't take advice on simple things like her 2 1/2 year old needing own space in his own bedroom, and couldn't let the young child breath without hovering over him constant.. He referred to her as the love of his life so was gutted. She should've just stayed clear of him and out of his life.

If you are 100% serious then sure remain in contact but really think it through is all I can say. Living in the past is just that the past so just be careful for both of you.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 22 (view)
 
blocked
Posted: 12/17/2018 11:11:33 AM

The only way to know you were blocked is that you sent another email after not getting a response.


When a block happens the mail disappears from sent items :)
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 44 (view)
 
She's great but... she doesn't like bacon!
Posted: 12/17/2018 8:42:02 AM
^^ :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8c5wmeOL9o
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 15 (view)
 
blocked
Posted: 12/17/2018 8:21:54 AM
^^ Don't give it a second thought. Most are here to rot away...
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Football t-shirt when you're not a sports person?
Posted: 12/17/2018 4:29:52 AM
I've not worn a football top since forever as in since I was a teen. I do avoid profiles with women that are wearing football shirts.

An example would be a city supporter saying on her profile no reds as I'm a blue. all I think is are they retarded in some way that they would risk missing out for something as stupid as that in the love game plus wouldn't it add a bit of rivalry and banter as they call it to the mix.

I do think on a whole that people want to feel they belong in some shape or form so you thinking the I'm part of the gang is spot on. I'd agree it is part of their identity.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 7 (view)
 
blocked
Posted: 12/16/2018 3:14:16 PM

Why is it I notice that when I reach out to someone and say hello , hi , how are you , or some type of greeting , to introduce myself , some , like 33% block me ?? AND all I did was reach out first and say hello . Am I wrong for reaching out first ??? is there something about me that is that bad for you to block me??? it is discouraging to me . any ideas on how to rectify this?? thanks guys and gals for any input .


It could be as simple as it's the only power they have to exert in their tiny existences. Try to initiate with women in the outside world fella as you will increase your chances 100%. Not confident. Well, Here is something.

What's the difference between a confident guy and a non confident guy? The confident guy is faking it till he makes it ;) They got all the same worries as you do like will she, won't she etc. I'm not saying you aren't confident but feel it needs saying.

If you only rely on POF then sadly you're in for a rough time. You will see in years to come the same women that block have in their headlines stuff like " Please save me form this website" and pictures are years old ;)
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 39 (view)
 
She's great but... she doesn't like bacon!
Posted: 12/15/2018 4:30:10 PM
^^ :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1lJFlB-89Q
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 9 (view)
 
How do you meet someone nice and genuine?
Posted: 12/15/2018 1:40:24 PM

……….....To women who are single, divorced or a widow.


Anytime, I've had relations with a women that was Separated, there has always been issues with the ex.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 150 (view)
 
If looks do matter.
Posted: 12/15/2018 1:34:23 PM
1) We read profiles of locals/ not so local profiles rather than have to jump through the hoops to see if we can get a date to to find out if we are compatible. Good for both sexes as nobody's time gets wasted or resources. Good weed out tool, and with the massive ratio difference majority are still here. Some really good women on here too. Shame get chucked in same boat.

2)Men congregate everywhere Women will be. Its not exactly a new concept or rocket science. SMH.

3) We filter out the children in Women's bodies that have multiple kids, loads of debt, mental issues with loads of drama all rolled into one while hear them moan constatly about their ex? What do we get at end of day? 3 words and a **** here and there and only there to prop up their ass, and to come last each every time hahaha?.

Why on earth would anyone give the easy life up for that sh!t fest lol? Delusional. Wake the **** up!



JulyStorm's ex has a 9 year live-in relationship in his history.

Would you want HIM?


No women would but it's all a one sided story! Take 2 to tango and judging from her post it's all about me, me, me so don't just take word for it. Not like anybody says well I was a complete tit to is it? She can invite her ex to make commentary anytime. But I'm sure that wouldn't suit the mandate.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 574 (view)
 
Random Musings - Talk About Everthing
Posted: 12/15/2018 5:50:20 AM
I use sign in at top right. Works fine. Could be blocking cookies?
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 26 (view)
 
She's great but... she doesn't like bacon!
Posted: 12/14/2018 3:14:34 PM

Fussy eaters are a pet peeve of mine. Absolutely can't stand it. Like I said, I would rather date a smoker. I love to cook a lot of different foods and it would aggravate me to no end to cook for someone who had a list of over 10 things he wouldn't eat.


Touch wood you never end up with Crohn's or something along those lines. You'd soon change your stance.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 52 (view)
 
ew Russian friend
Posted: 12/14/2018 9:21:13 AM
When she asks for the money. I'd ask for an address as you need to send it via snail mail then send her some Monopoly money hehe
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Would relationships be better if the honeymoon hormones never went away?
Posted: 12/13/2018 5:55:10 PM
The Movie 50 first dates with Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler comes to mind where he has to make her fall in love with him all over again everyday. Maybe that's the key to it all right there.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Ladies. how many messages do you receive?
Posted: 12/13/2018 5:47:47 PM

Been there, done that, did NOT buy the t-shirt.

But to bring this back around -- I almost never receive messages here when I have not initiated the conversation myself. And I don't do much initiating here these days, so the last 3 messages I received were from 2 forum regulars and Marcus.

Such is life.


Most men receive very little messages as old school rules tend to still apply to most women that want to date. It's the mans job(hate calling it that) to chase blah blah as you know so the onus is still on us. Faint heart never won fair lady! The fact that you don't get a lot of messages and you initiate them is perfectly normal.

The problem with online dating I feel is that men don't think, and what I mean by that is. Take how it used to be and still is if you want it to be. You would notice a woman, so you would make an effort to get her attention and for a while you would concentrate on her. She could be part of your social group or someone you see at the pub every saturday night.

Let's fast forward. you tell her you like her and her feelings aren't the same so you'd go away and recuperate your emotional state before you went on another merry journey to wow the next female that really caught your eye.

Men on here don't look after themselves mentally that way as i's so easy to message, so they blast out messages not realising that every non reply/no ty reply hits their confidence. They do not take their own well being serious. Not one bit.

I rushed home the other day just to make sure a certain woman wasn't on POF so I can initiate the next step and luckily she wasn't. I take pof as a pinch of salt. It's a filter for me. I'm not saying woman on her are any less than women out there. But I really find it hard at times to take most of them on here seriously.

I generally wait a few month to see how they react to the men onsite and might nosey back at their profile to see if they have snapped yet and in what way.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 130 (view)
 
if wishes were horses, beggars would ride for free
Posted: 12/13/2018 10:23:44 AM

I have come to completely mistrust good-looking guys on pof. I think most of them have figured out they can go on pof at any one time and find a woman who will sleep with them quickly.


Absolutely. Always have one eye open. It's full of f*ck boys on here, and dashing guys really don't need pof because when they're out and about women are throwing themselves at them. Think young guy in Taylor Swift Blank Space type of fella. If he was on POF? Yeah right he's here for a relationship.


The only exception to this is a good-looking guy who has just come online because he just ended a longterm relationship. Those guys are usually looking to jump into another relationship but not really over their old relationship but from what I've heard and observed, if a girl can stick it out while he gets over his old relationship, there is a fighting chance.


HMM. It's a toughy this. I remember a good friend when a long term relationship ended coming on pof rather quickly. I was keeping my eye out for him while I was looking and spotted a lass for him.
I said this girl is the one for you.

Off he went and they spoke a decent while then went on a date. They did the deed. Now she was more than ready so she was all over him lovey dovey like you do but he ran a mile because he was not ready for that part of things as he hadn't dealt fully. Obviously he told her and that was it comms got cut.

To this day if she was to appear again he would be there in a heartbeat. He said it was a big regret of his to me and wished he had been ready :( I'm gutted I could've had cupids job hehe.



But after that guy gets a rebound in from a longterm relationship, if they spend a couple months on pof they end up on the casual sexcapades route because then they want to enjoy single life for a while.


Bingo! It can turn out this way. I've seen it.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 28 (view)
 
How do I word this?
Posted: 12/12/2018 4:20:57 PM


Just write, " if you are one Big Mac away from a massive heart attack, please don't contact me. I have no desire to be a widower by 50." That should do it!


R.I.P hahahaha
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 18 (view)
 
This was a decent topic on the relationship forum
Posted: 12/12/2018 4:19:41 PM

woah.....a bit far


Not really.

In the past I have made custom website modifications for a guy that used to be affiliated alongside a well known porn brand hence not that big of a deal. Paid well though.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 24 (view)
 
How do I word this?
Posted: 12/12/2018 2:23:58 PM
I know seen it with my own eyes. I've been lucky enough to see the nonsense that goes on when their ego's between their legs gets hurt.

A lady I was dating let me play about with 1 of the clowns for 30 mins before deleting her account. I revealed I was a guy and said hope you had a good w@nk lol. Updated her main pic with both of us tongues out with hand w@nk gestures. See, I'm not a saint. It wasn't met with nice words hehe :)

I've had to say the above in my previous message to a woman that has served me out shopping. When I've landed a few days later on their profile by chance. They have messaged instantly. Now that's when you know you got a set or grow one because you got to go back and face the music, so to speak.

I seem to attract cashiers for some reason. It could be because I'm chatting any old rubbish to them or maybe when they ask me how my day is I reciprocate taking an interest in their day. One thing I'm always sure to do is check ring finger for being married etc as that's a no go zone.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 22 (view)
 
How do I word this?
Posted: 12/12/2018 11:31:35 AM
Thanks for the message, but sadly, I do not feel we are a match.

Simple as that. No leading on as that would be cruel.
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 15 (view)
 
She's great but... she doesn't like bacon!
Posted: 12/12/2018 11:22:10 AM

Not only un-dateable but also unbearable.


I was with one for 17 years and in no way ever did she ever get on her high horse. In fact she could cook bacon to perfection and all other meats.

I used to laugh at her making her fake bacon :)
 spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
Msg: 20 (view)
 
How do I word this?
Posted: 12/12/2018 10:43:06 AM

@Spec.. I don't agree that someone who doesn't respond to you has no decency or manners. That is a strange presumption to me. Woman that can not take the "hint" with silence are the ones that are "ignorant". Men too. Would you say "anything" to put yourself on a moral high ground.
Ridiculous. It's not about manners it's about being selective.


We'll just have to agree to disagree. Moral high ground no chance. It's just what I think and no I wouldn't say anything to just be on moral high ground. I really couldn't give a damn if I ruffle feathers or not but I'm not going out of my way to do that for the point of it.



Blocking someone is not kind at all because after a certain number of people block you POF discards your entire profile. Where are your manners then?
I don't listen to men who brag about pumping and dumping. They are crass and I don't need that kind of negativity in my mind. I never hear it except on radio talk shows like Tom Leykis. Some men are just looking for sex. So what?


Swings and roundabouts and ignoring them in the first place isn't kind.

It's good that you don't hear it. I'm glad I don't have a daughter! I didn't know they auto delete account for blocking. I don't block anybody for the point of it . If they got abusive then sure but like I said never had a women go off deep end. In fact been thanked the in past for responding. I don't like doing it. It isn't a nice feeling. I don't get off on it. It's how it is.


I don't know why your response to me is about "banging" I wasn't talking about men just looking for a F*ck. That is a whole other subject.
Even the men that are looking for marriage and all sainted and wonderful nice guys eventually want to have sex on the wedding night.
Who are you trying to kid?


Banging was part of my response because it is relevant and no man is a saint. Men are primarily driven sexually as you know. I'm far from a saint. It's about how you go about things and conduct ones self. Is it a bad thing to have a structure of some sort of morality in place? It may not be your version of morality but it has to be better than spread my seed at any cost and at any woman's cost?


You state you have only contacted 3 women here. Were they ladies you know your "serious" about women that you were NOT attracted to sexually. Try to gloss that over. Of course they were. Did you contact 3 "jabbas". I'm guessing NO.


Women that were attractive to me. 1 was Big & Tall/BBW body type and other 2 were average. I do usually go for a woman that has meat on her to be fair. I've contacted and dated a fair few in the past which are all different type of women. I wouldn't call em jabba's.
 
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