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 Author Thread: Things Not To Do Or Say On A First Date !!
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Things Not To Do Or Say On A First Date !!
Posted: 10/21/2012 9:13:26 AM
are they false? let me feel..
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 42 (view)
 
great first dates...no second dates
Posted: 8/22/2012 7:19:10 AM
I ve been dating now for just over a month, met some great women, some are friends, some were scary but you know what, after nine years with my ex, I`m not ready to date. Dipped my toe , the water is way too cold.

I think if your ready for the dating game, then yeah.. I think many arn`t, maybe why some back off.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Anyone else growing old alone?
Posted: 8/22/2012 7:08:07 AM
your never truly alone, they say `you never more than 10 feet from a rat!`

But women who choose solitude, good on you. Least you know who you really are. Plenty of chat here, and fishing!, enough to chuckle over anyway.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 543 (view)
 
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 8/18/2012 6:51:15 AM
girls that have battery operated boyfriends, not cheap nowadays, you seen the prices of them things?


Agreed with quite alot here, should be and always free!
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 7 (view)
 
How to get over your first love?
Posted: 8/18/2012 6:37:30 AM
"rather of loved and lost, than never loved at all"

I still think today of my first love, wonder how is she, what she is doing. I just smile and carry on doing the dishes.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Is there anything with wanting to see someone everyday?
Posted: 8/18/2012 6:07:42 AM
"Take a picture :P" awesome!, could`nt put that better my self.

Do you know what makes us strangers?... Distance
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 109 (view)
 
When to kiss for the first time
Posted: 8/18/2012 5:51:23 AM
If i like some one, I get close, just stare into the eyes (great communication), move closer! Ever see a rabbit in the headlights of a car!? Then a soft peck on the lips. lol


If she is stunned, then its just a waiting game! 9 out of 10, I get more than I bargain for. :)

Take your time chap.. communicate without words.. you know when, it just "clicks"
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Mods, Rockers or Punks...
Posted: 8/18/2012 5:41:54 AM
Alway have loved the Jam and the WHO... "going underground" the fred perry shirts! yup! Mod.

Now adays I have turned into a mod`ern biker!. Linkin Park Yes!
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Is there anything with wanting to see someone everyday?
Posted: 8/17/2012 7:01:38 AM
Love is - "When you both can`nt stand being apart, just be toghther"

I just call it, a butterfly event! I think many of us has been down that road.

In a new relationship, unless its an instant love at first sight moment, take your time, both of you might "phase" if not, we are just all ships passing in the night.

x
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 118 (view)
 
Ever think someone is out of your league and not messaged them?
Posted: 8/14/2012 11:48:48 AM
when i see this>

Age between 46 and 60.
Live in United Kingdom
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
You must have a picture to contact this user.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Dating
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married

Out my league, thats out of the planet..lol
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Dating sites, do they really work
Posted: 8/13/2012 6:05:12 PM
Fashion today is to use dating sites, I prefer the more tried and tested ways, going out, socialising, holidays abroad, and new hobbies approach.

Not saying would`nt use dating sites, im here now. It just open more doors, But I do have a time limit for online dating. As to working, of course they do.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Toe curling kiss
Posted: 8/13/2012 9:06:54 AM
1 woman ever has for me. Thats was somthing else!..

A glint in the eye`s, just in those 10 seconds, pupils wide, move slow, touching lips so gentle, grabs the ass, pull her towards you, moment!.. Yup!
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 116 (view)
 
Ever think someone is out of your league and not messaged them?
Posted: 8/13/2012 8:46:31 AM
I grab hold of my long rod, swing it back, a quick flick, and plop!

Now I just wonder what you just thought of :) , I just sit off the rocks, soak up the sun, and watch the world go by, till my line gets pulled. Well it is a fishing site!..right?

Till the sun goes down, I pack up my tackle, grab my pole and go home.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 111 (view)
 
Ever think someone is out of your league and not messaged them?
Posted: 8/13/2012 5:31:07 AM
I have.. i thought, well... lets see


and nope


not a responce.

question answered.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 70 (view)
 
wants to date but nothing serious????
Posted: 8/13/2012 5:23:51 AM
I had one woman say, she passed by because of this statement, want to date and not nothing serious. ( just add this on the end) right now.

Does it mean right now? or later? Dating I thought was just a way of getting to know a person, serious means later, or have I got all this wrong?

Firstly, who dates and has a serious go at it, from the off, lives in bongo bongo land! esp from an online dating site.

The meaning is just too off centre. Not to be taken too literal.

I think POF needs revising.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Bad spelling
Posted: 8/12/2012 7:12:07 AM
Op, I have just read through your own profile. One paragraph, I have auto-corrected it for you.

"I’m quite an intelligent woman (yes, I can string more than 2 sentences together!), but laptops, mobiles and sat-navs cause me a few problems. Although I can be quite shy at first, it doesn’t take long for my friendly personality to take over and then I find conversation quite easy. I do miss the connection, friendship and communication that comes with a relationship. I want to talk and not just via a computer screen."

Oerrr.. might be flamed for this!

Seriously tho, Im pulling your leg a little here, light hearted banter.

x

PS.. On the up side, you are a very pretty girl. :)
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Bad spelling
Posted: 8/12/2012 3:40:44 AM
God forbid if any one decided to alter your cutlery drawer.:)

My view is, `yes` to basic writing skills, but to undermine a "communication" with little thought. Perhaps you could be a super god fairy of POF grammer.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Masturbation
Posted: 8/10/2012 11:44:51 AM
Finding your self is really rewarding, I would suggest toys to find that elusive spot.

Have a read here huni..


http://www.theregister.co.uk/2012/04/25/doc_hits_the_spot/


I know from my ex girlfriend of 9 years, my manhood would hit it every time. It`s just the right shape n size. Earth shattering, orgasms, Every woman is different, what works for one is not nessary the same for others.

Have fun, take your time.

x
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 11 (view)
 
a nice lad or a car?
Posted: 8/10/2012 11:25:13 AM
I had a 1969 classic VW bug a few years ago, its was Cadburys Purple, lowered on Chrome Alloys. Cute lights n all. The women flocked like it was lynx advert. Pizzed my mates right off!. Tight skirts in a bug is a sight too see!.. I loved being a taxi!

Then got engaged to my last GF, then sold it for a modern car, Wish i bloody kept it now!. Thats said tho, some girls love quirky cars over the GTi`s and alike.

Get a classic mini!.. that will get the chat juices flowing too.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Why did i get blocked for saying hello?
Posted: 8/10/2012 3:29:44 AM
Just checked you out, hope ya dont mind,

Perhaps she hates yellow cars, and music lol.. maybe into bad guys with tats, blood!

I would`nt worry chap, just not intrested in you, Dont bother chap, if she has no decency in being honest, in a reply, she is not worth knowing at all.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Things that just don't need saying.
Posted: 8/8/2012 9:17:48 AM
I better start to re-arrange the cutlery drawer . Or stack my change like pyramid before i go to bed.

OCD! eat your heart out.

Common sence prevails! preveils. what ever!..lol


And Einstein did say this too "Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile"

What a guy! Probally the founder of POF :)

 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 42 (view)
 
What constitutes cheating?
Posted: 8/8/2012 8:25:54 AM
I think in my last PM, i said "Lurid txt"

I dont mind if my GF has convo`s with who ever, but emotional sexual chat, i draw the line at.

I think a set of standards are very much part of being togther.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 189 (view)
 
why you get no reply
Posted: 8/7/2012 11:22:52 AM
^^^^ i like that idea ^^^^shall we chaps,? got to be fun!


<<
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 182 (view)
 
why you get no reply
Posted: 8/6/2012 5:44:00 PM
I just think POF is way too serious, we are just too honest.

May be it needs a good lick up the rear end, and turn into another porn site.

Plenty of Forking! perhaps.

Flood it with t it s n c oc k pix... then see how many pm`s u get..
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Ever had someone of the same gender come onto you?
Posted: 8/6/2012 5:28:27 PM
Yes!

That is if i need attention, may i add tho, some guys no how to treat a bloke.


Do I take it personally, no.

It is a shame, but very its true.

x

<<<< looks around and then runs for cover
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 6 (view)
 
What constitutes cheating?
Posted: 8/6/2012 5:16:06 PM
Any lurid txt convo`s, with any sex,whilst being attached, is reason to drop, like a hot potatoe.

Online, on paper, in any media, is classed as cheating. Why would any one do that, if they had respect for their other half? married. engaged or BF/GF.. it is very dis-honest indeed.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Where's your smile??
Posted: 8/6/2012 3:52:37 PM
My bum makes up for my smile..

:)
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 8 (view)
 
All I want is good conversation...
Posted: 8/6/2012 3:19:48 PM
Phew!..

Some times typing, is just too much bother, my tounge has no action. Fancy a phone call instead?


Oh wait... stop! LAW! , Do I need to be CRB checked?

Seriously, your going to have no problems..,
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 19 (view)
 
The Distance Thing
Posted: 8/6/2012 10:17:32 AM
All depends on the distance. I often did a commute of 60 miles at week ends. No shame.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Ever had someone of the same gender come onto you?
Posted: 8/6/2012 9:48:30 AM
I had a friend that is gay, for a night out, invited to go to gay/lesbian club. Just to remind you guys, I am straight. Thought `in for a penny in for a pound`. No sex for me tonight! I thought BEER!

I had the best night of my life. The amount paper with numbers stuffed in to my shirt pocket..lol.

and i am still straight!

Sheesh. I am dressing up as a lady and going to a lesbian only club from now on..
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Time for a change in approach?
Posted: 8/6/2012 9:35:19 AM
Great words from WomanInProgress

I have to agree. Just go out, be your self, enjoy the night. Dont worry about picking up the ladies.

I just go out to have a great time, get drunk, see a band. meet with friends, I am supprised how many chicks jus buy me drinks! I got asked this week end if iam going to be around next week end.. if that aint a pick up line i dont know what is.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 341 (view)
 
Never been married, no kids. Is this a red flag?
Posted: 8/6/2012 8:40:46 AM
45, never married, no kids,

Can we have a George Clooney room then..? Just for us singletons.! free bar at the end too!
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Not sure I understand...
Posted: 8/5/2012 4:47:29 PM
I add you to my FB any time!

How are ya!.. well.. somthin to hide maybe is my first thought. Your quite a catch so i dont really understand why a guy would just block, with out any warnings.


Hope you get somwhere..

Drew
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Do you need to live with your partner?
Posted: 8/5/2012 1:35:34 PM
wow, I am so supprised.

I live with my ex for 5 years, we split, then got back toghter, even tho we had seperate homes. Toghter so wished not to be apart. I can`t see how two people that love each other so much, can`t be apart. Its not in my nature at all.

"For the duration" I don`t do part time.

Every one is so different i suppose, what make`s our world go round.

Interesting!
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Do I Contact Him or Not?
Posted: 8/5/2012 11:41:50 AM
Hey huni, howz it going, I am in very simular situation, different in years, 9 in fact, I walked away. For alot more deeper reasons, Cheating on me was one. The lies too. But there was once a very strong bond between us. It very hard to break away, But i know, she will destroy me in the end. Thats is why i felt the need to move on. Take what i know, everything that is precious in love, and give it to some one else.


All i can say, is, if there is a bond between you and him, he will come back. It is in his system for now. If you can sleep at night, if your conscious is clear, then you have nothing to be afraid of.

sending out a hug to you x
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 126 (view)
 
women hate short men
Posted: 8/5/2012 8:34:48 AM
I sometimes wish i was taller at 5`11, so its not just you. I have a off road bike, it is so tall, my feet just touch the floor. But like in relationships, once your moving, its ok and just enjoy the ride.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Havent experienced an Orgasm: is she the only one?
Posted: 8/4/2012 8:04:47 PM
its a sad fact that some really nice girls can not achieve pure pleasure, either on thier own or with others. I have my own stories, but no doubt, it will come good in the end, with a great partner.

"cloud 9"

x
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Question for women. How do you feel about men that crossdress ?
Posted: 8/4/2012 7:53:04 PM
@Serephena i be more than happy for her to borrow my clothes! whoaaaaaaweee
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Question for women. How do you feel about men that crossdress ?
Posted: 8/4/2012 8:32:16 AM
I could`nt.. i just dive into bed starkers! Helloooo Huni! :)
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 20 (view)
 
British for fun
Posted: 8/4/2012 8:01:07 AM
I am British! with a celtic backgound.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 16 (view)
 
How do you cahnge someone's mind??
Posted: 8/4/2012 7:48:51 AM
Get him drunk, tie him up, whip his ass! and say " You will!"

LOL
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Repulsive penis ??
Posted: 8/4/2012 6:08:00 AM
I am sure, guys here can dig out a picture for you to rate, Would be a fun 0-10 scoring system.. I be glad for the feedback, but then in the field its been no trouble for me. , never had a problem. Maybe then you can see mr average, mr big, mr small, mr HOW BIG....lol

I think my quote of the day would be " Its 50 shades of grey huni"
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 27 (view)
 
What's so Wrong about Wanting Passion during Sex?
Posted: 8/4/2012 5:52:39 AM
Hey huni, its that golden question of all time is`nt?


All I can say, is your looking for some one with just the same mind set as your self. I think that word is compatibility. Its pushing all the right buttons, in the right order at the same time. "un-conditional"

Best way I can explain it is, ever ridden a push bike, changed gear, head down, with both legs spinning, then you look on the road side and see a pretty flower!.

My mum said to me along time ago this " there is a lid to every pot"

Good luck.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Would you date a Bisexual
Posted: 8/4/2012 5:37:15 AM
Quite a difficult answer TBH, mmmm.. It would down to you, what your needs are, what you want from this guy.

Even tho i have been with a bisexual girl, I am straight. I remember the convo`s we had toghther. Lust was the main factor, Family planning was off the cards!.

Competing for others, would just too much in a relationship tbh.

Good luck tho.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Men - would you consider dating a woman who's ex turned out to be gay?
Posted: 8/2/2012 3:15:07 PM
I would be very happy if you ex was gay, He wont hitting on you, when he picks up the CD collection. But then again, say if we met your ex toghter, then I be holding on tight to you!.

x
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Is This Guy For Real??
Posted: 8/2/2012 9:58:51 AM
"I'm not looking for a soulmate or a husband" written in your profile, Perhaps he is looking.

best put your cards on the table with him huni, say what you really need and want.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Can you have strong feelings for someone just by messaging etc
Posted: 8/1/2012 10:35:19 AM
I met my ex of 9 years on a chat site, when we met, it was an instant attraction, it does work. Chatted for weeks online, talking about every thing n anything, we just clicked. It`s faith an honesty huni.

Proves that you can find some one, and when the physical side kicks in, say good bye to POF!. Good luck gal. wish ya the best.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 26 (view)
 
can pics of younger days give insight into the person of today?
Posted: 8/1/2012 10:21:07 AM
Bit like going to your folks ,and pulling out the old teen pictures, or when you were in dypers<< is that right spelling?..

If Garf brooks was here, get`s his guitar out, I can see some excited woman..

"Now where is my Stetson.."
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 13 (view)
 
what does this mean
Posted: 8/1/2012 10:11:37 AM
I got an idea!

Drive past in your Ferrari, holding a winning lottery ticket, with a one finger in the air.

seriously chap, she not intrested. Its a shame but true. But Good luck tho.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Is this the Norm..
Posted: 8/1/2012 9:25:42 AM
You are so georgous, Great smile, in great shape. Young too, Attracting guys is not going to be a problem for you. Just pick out the good guys. block the rest.



can i say "whoaaaweee" got that off my chest

now go and have some fun gal.
 
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