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 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
The L word
Posted: 9/11/2009 4:38:01 PM
For me, its about honesty.

I dont say it, untill I feel it.

If she says it, then I will assume that she feels it.

Who says it first is no-nevermind, dosn't matter one bit.

Just as long as when its said either its recropricated, or at least appriciated.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What does he REALLY want?
Posted: 9/10/2009 2:53:12 PM
Hm.

And, you have just discoverd why FWB dosnt work.

Eventually SOMEONE gets attached, and when only 1 person feels that way, trouble is bound to come around.

By the way... Why are you sleeping with this guy when you KNOW he has a GF? Im sure there are plenty of other SINGLE guys around that would love to take a crack at you.

 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
A miracle of sorts... at least for me!
Posted: 8/13/2009 5:09:06 PM
Just pay attention to the 3 month rule :p


Some people get it, some people dont.

But, after 3 months, you actually know if they do or are just good at fakeing it :p
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Not interested
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:45:44 AM
I agree with some of the above posters.

Simply "Sorry, but I am not intrested" would suffice.

Getting rejected by a woman isnt really all that bad. We get over it pretty damn fast belive me.

Just remember, the year that Babe Ruth set the record for the most home runs ever in a single season, he also set another record. Most strike outs in a single season ever.

So, were if were going to swing for the feneces were apt to miss a few times too :p
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Okay guys...explain this one please.
Posted: 7/22/2009 4:33:21 PM
He dosnt want to be upfront about picking you up for a date, hes just hopeing that you will be avaliable for a booty call on sat night.


So, now you just have to decide if you are, or if your not.

Seems pretty simple to me.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Women with guns, turn-off or turn-on?
Posted: 7/22/2009 4:32:03 PM
I think if she has guns that I had better really pay attention to just what my plans might be :p

heh.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Cure for a hangover?
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:51:16 AM
Some people swear by water...

Heres my take on it.

Vitamins. And water. And a little grease to help coat your stomach.

So...

Drink lots of water before and during the drinking.

Fruit juice and a gatoraide before you sleep. Add in a multivitamin and get a decent sleep. Wake up to McDonalds breaky, or if you slept past that, substitute for bacon, eggs, and some burntish toast.

Youll feel fine in an hour.

Works for me everytime.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Forgot woman's name...should she have heard me out?
Posted: 7/20/2009 10:15:05 PM
rule #1.

Dont use first names.


If they are all baby, its hard to get em confused :p
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Do women really think all men r the same?
Posted: 7/20/2009 10:13:34 PM
Hm. Sneakly hidden as a Nice Guy post.

OP- Do a search for NICE GUY, theres about 1000087847293820 of them on this site.

Im sorry, all I heard was the wahwahwah.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Should I give up?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:59:18 PM
Hm.

I myself am guilty of this, and its not due to any lack of intrest, sometimes when im writing a responding email I just get so wrapped up in answering her questions that I forget to ask any of my own. I think its mostly due to just needing a refresher in writen english.

Could just be me tho.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
If your girlfriend loses it and cusses you out do you end it?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:43:59 AM
Nope.

Crazy might take awhile to show its head, but once it does im out.

No need to date a psycho possive b!tch when there are plenty of normall girls out there.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Why the sudden draw back
Posted: 7/16/2009 12:46:21 PM
Maybe he got hit by a bus and is now in the hospital and in a coma!

How long has it been since you talked to him?

 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Hey Guys, I really need your help with this one....
Posted: 7/15/2009 9:55:08 PM
Practice makes perfect.

Well, horriable could mean alot of diffrent things, some of witch could be changed or fixed im sure. Some of witch, well... yeah.

There both adults, my 2 cents says to tell them to talk to eachother. But tell the guy, id rather know, even if it was bad. zzz
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Reading relationship books is a problem?
Posted: 7/15/2009 8:17:28 PM
I think that over analyzing anything is bad...

Once you get all the *tidbits of info out of those books you start looking at your relationship and comparing it to the picture perfect one in the book, at witch point you will inevatiably see diffrences, and where you see diffrences you see areas for improvment...

And, as any guy will tell you if something is not broken DONT GODDAMN FIX IT.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 7/15/2009 6:37:22 PM
Get over it.

16 years and your STILL pineing for her?

The one that got away... GOT THE HELL AWAY, let it go and cast again.

But, id swap lures, fish seldom bite the same one twice :p
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Ram truck drivers
Posted: 7/15/2009 6:32:07 PM
There are good qualities of the dodge pickups to be sure.

The powertrain, is one of the best in the industry.

And WHO can argue that the 12 valve cummin's turbo diesel isnt the best engine on the market? (Piss on that 24 vavle electronic lift pump bullcrap, give me proven realibility any day)

Everything else about them is sh!t tho.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Do I have a chance at finding someone?
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:36:05 PM
Millions of people buy lottery tickets every day.

Only 1 will win.

So, sure you have a chance, why not?
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
First Message
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:34:40 PM
I agree with the above poster.

And, if I could elaborate for him...

Sometimes we as men can be pretty dense. Be OBVIOUS about starting a conversation too. Something along these lines...

"I liked your profile, check out mine, if your intrested we should chat about the trip to nevernever land I took last night on the back of a flying house hippo while stoned on acid and antifreeze"


That would at least get a conversation rolling id think.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Same two questions!
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:32:06 PM
I think, by asking if you have ever been with a caucasian man they are politly trying to discern if you will sleep with them.

^^
I love pointing out the obvious.

 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
what do guys have against tomboys?
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:26:32 PM
Ok. I got this one.

Girls who play guitar have hard fingers. Thats not so great all the time you know.

Baseball hats = Hair our fingers will get caught in.

Skateboard chicks typicaly dont wear skirts. So, of course there out.

Heavy metal girls cut themselves, and only chicks dig scars.

Girls who like sports are obviously spys.

Girls who dont get scared when they should disallow us the chance to be MANly men. And bravely throw rocks at that squirrel thats terrifying you. Unless of course your talking about not being scared by that cougar, witch would be fine, because then you can fight it off while I run like a chickensh!t.

Sigh, silly people.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Would you date someone who wore braces?
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:14:26 PM
Your from england, and you want to have good teeth? Isnt that a social fauxpaux there?

Kidding Kidding! Do not send the queen after me!

ahahahaha... ok im done.

Yup your right. There are alot of shallow guys out there.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
If you were actually interested in a girl, would fifteen minutes be that big of a deal?
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:08:25 PM
It doesnt happen often.

But I totally agree with that rant.

Id rage too, lazyassmofo.

Goodbye good riddance, and may the path to hell be slippery, the walls lined with razors, and may intermittant clouds of popcorn salt be blown in his face.

There that good enough?
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
what do you mean by friends?
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:06:23 PM
I think mine says friends.

To be honest, I havent even looked at my profile in well over 2 years now lol...

Either way, if I was looking for something more than friendship, friends is still a damn good place to start.

As guys, WE LIKE PRETTY GIRLS. As girl friends, wifes, lovers, mistresses you name it. Hell, we will go to the far side of town, and eat sub par food, just because the waitress there was smokeing hot. We consider driving to the next town if shes smoking hot, wore a low cut shirt, and didnt mind picking up our fork for us.

Sorry, its the truth, someone had to say it.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
HELP AM I A FOOL!??
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:01:25 PM
The most obvious answer is usually the most correct.

But, for fun, lets consider the options here.

Yes, you are indeed a fool. And? Its perfectly fine to be foolish sometimes, hey its your life. Eat ice cream and pickeled herring tidbits for supper, who cares? In by this I of course mean, do what you want when you want. But, quidproquo, hes going to do the same. So, a forewarning this may be.

Or, no. Your not being at all foolish. Witch of course, would mean that he is indeed all the horriable things your thinking he may be.

Either way, looks like its dumpsville for this dude by my deductions.

On the other hand....

It could be your both just wondering the same damn thing.

Mayhaps... TALKING TO THE GUY INSTEAD OF POSTING CRAP ON THE INTERNET might be a good decision as well.

Thanks.

 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 49 (view)
 
If asking kills attraction...
Posted: 6/19/2008 5:36:38 PM
Dont ask.

Tell.

Asking implys that your looking for approval.

Telling them just states whats going on.

Trust me, theres major diffrences in how you say what you want to say.

Dont come up to a guy and say "Do you like me?" Because that just comes off as super needy and while you might get a curtiosy lay, odds are hes no longer intrested in you for anything mroe than what your packing between your legs, or down your shirt, or ... well, you get the idea.

DO come up to a guy and say "Your cute, I like you". That just oozes of confidence, and to everyone everywhere, confidence = sexy. Sexy = Attraction.
 roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What is meant by a fun girl?
Posted: 6/19/2008 5:32:30 PM
A fun girl?

Hmm, well a fun girl for me is a girl who can not only keep up, but will push me to go harder and have more fun. The type of girl who will wade knee deep in mud teasing me about being dirty to help get a tow line on my jeep. The kinda girl who can then toss on a skimpy bikini and suntan while relaxing with a beer and somehow still manage to drive me crazy.

The kind of girl who can come home and have a nice polite dinner with my parents and then very subtly whisper something very naughty in my ear.

A "fun" girl is one of the guys. With boobs, and preferably a nice ass. Basically a best friend that its ok to still have sex with.

At least, thats how I look at it.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:13:44 PM
Girls dont like boys, Girls like cars and money.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
I just dont get it
Posted: 2/17/2008 6:16:32 PM
"im a nice guy, why dont the pretty girls want to sleep with me"

Do a thread search buddy, topic's done to death.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Too honest on here ???
Posted: 2/17/2008 6:15:51 PM
They honestly want you to honestly agree with or honestly belive whatever it is they honestly think you should.

Honestly.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Where is the point at which I'm being too friendly?
Posted: 2/17/2008 1:35:40 PM
As stupid and dumb as this sounds...

You basically have 2 dates to show that you want more than friendship, as once a woman developes "friend" feelings for you, your never ever getting any further with them.

So, keeping being a "nice-guy" if its working for you....

But, if your intrested in having sex with more than your hand or paid professionals I would suggest LETTING THEM KNOW that you find them attractive sexually. Dont tell them "you sure look pretty tonight" say something like "Wow, you look amazingly sexy in that *whatever"

Bascially the onus is on you to show sexual attraction, if thats how you feel.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
A new holiday for men, Spread the word!!
Posted: 2/9/2008 6:54:30 PM
FYI...

Its March 14...

http://www.steakandbjday.com/

Check it out!
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Men of Plentyoffish
Posted: 2/9/2008 6:50:13 PM
lol!


I like it...

But I think I fit into more than one catagory, am I a new species? Or destined for the lab and experementation?
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Taser for the wife
Posted: 2/9/2008 6:48:14 PM
This is up here somehwere else, but its hilarious.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
When a girl calls you nice does it = boring
Posted: 2/9/2008 6:43:25 PM
Nice guy = Friend, but no sex.

Learn to live by the rules bud.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 48 (view)
 
how great is no arguing in a relationship
Posted: 2/9/2008 5:11:11 PM
If you never argue, you never get to have makeup sex.... And really now, makeup sex is where its AT!
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 5:06:01 PM
No such thing as too hot.

 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Guyliner and all things manly
Posted: 2/8/2008 8:06:50 AM
Guyliner?

Thats makeup right?

Uhm. Nope, cant say I wear it lol!

Theres few excuses to wear makeup.

Your in a band.

Its Halloween.

You passed out dead drunk. And your friends thought it would be funny. (we have all been there im sure)

Some of hers smears off. (Lipstick -lol!)

Camo! If its tough enough for the Seals, its tough enough for me.

Or maybe a little eye black when we are playing football baseball or soccer.

(By the way, does blistex count? Cause in the winter I tend to keep a tube of that kicking around. Stupid chapped lips)

Ok, im wracking my brain here, its early and im still in need of more caffine, but I cant think of any other reason that I might wear makeup. Very similar to shaving our legs, unless we are olympic swimmers (and therfore quite possably poofters) my hair is staying the hell on my legs.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 34 (view)
 
do guys really assume things from our underwear colour?
Posted: 2/8/2008 7:54:37 AM
Black lacy things usually mean your going to get to see them.

Same for matching sets.

Actually, now that I think about it whatever the hell color they are were going to go for it, but theres a few that can slow us down. Old white grannie panties usually mean your visitor is here, so that slows me down. Wearing a pair that say Thursday on them on a Monday might give me hesitation too.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
security clearance
Posted: 2/8/2008 7:52:21 AM
Hmmm

Anyone seen Gattica?

Bring something like that up ASAP. Dont mess around, if its that important to you, you should be upfront about it.

 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
am I really that obvious that I'm interested in this girl?
Posted: 2/7/2008 10:53:42 AM
"Are you researching me?"

Yeap.

"Thats nice"

Nope.

Id be scared witless if somone started reaserching me and we wernt even dating, thats creppy stalker type stuff there bud.

*shudder*
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Why are girls attracted to a man who is already with someone?
Posted: 2/7/2008 10:20:42 AM
1- Girls are just as competitive as guys, worse in my opinion when it comes to matters of the opposite sex. They dont fight fair like guys.

2- YOUR MORE CONFIDENT when you have a gf.

Or, then again, it could just all be in your head.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
What is the best first Meet
Posted: 1/28/2008 5:35:03 PM
Depends on the people.

I like meeting someplace to play pool or just have a coffee. Yelling at eachother in bar is bad, but a quiet pub with a pool table or soemthing is perfect.

At least, imo.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Friends, dating, hangout
Posted: 1/24/2008 7:56:28 AM
Change your topic heading.

"Looking for fun" MIGHT come off as sounding a little like you are on the prowl and are attracting guys that are looking for the same thing.

Besides, who isnt looking for fun.

I mean, "Looking for NO FUN AT ALL - Seriously"

sounds dumb dosnt it?
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
This is Why Women should never take Men Shopping
Posted: 1/23/2008 10:03:05 PM
lol!

I think perhaps a trip to wal-mart is in order now.... Just need someone who isnt afraid of getting banned to bring a camera ;)
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
He blocked me, but keeps looking at my profile daily!
Posted: 1/23/2008 9:59:07 PM
Ok...

Those little pictures of people are DAMN small, and if you have one thats attractiveish to him, then hes going to click on it.

Or, could be he was kinda into you, and his GF/Wife found your profile.

He decided that while approaching the topic carefully, he threw out the 'friends' vibe withought meaning to, and decided that he wants more now and your not willing to go there, so hes saving himself time.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Guys I Need Your Perspective
Posted: 1/23/2008 9:57:10 PM
He is my friend?

If thats the case, im going to let him know shes seeing other guys too, I couldnt NOT tell him.

Now, if shes my friend...

Id warn her that one of her guys is starting to get attached.

/shrug. Gotta give friends the heads up if there about to hit the ditch.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Do you think it is reasonable to sleep over soon?
Posted: 1/23/2008 7:43:28 PM
Yes.

However, I think you would be best off being VERY clear what your expectations are. Sex/NoSex.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Assertive
Posted: 1/23/2008 7:25:24 PM
Assertive, or B!tchy?

Assertive = Confident.
Confidence = Sexy.

B!thcy = Not attractive.

So, your walking a fine line. Guys that are not so confident themselfs are not going to be prone to becoming attracted to you. Think of it as a built-in "nice-guy" (ongoing theme here I think) zapper. Similar to those ones for buggs.

And, if your B!thcy, no-one is going to be attracted to you.

 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Some Blimps Are Better Off Dead
Posted: 1/22/2008 8:17:44 PM
Ok. That was good.

LOL!

Bumped because everyone needs a laugh from time to time.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Quickies as sexual supplements?
Posted: 1/22/2008 12:50:43 PM
I am sorry.... The question is if guys like quickys?

um.

What else are you going to do in a coffee shop bathroom?

Isnt this similar to asking if we like blowjobs?

Or boobs?
 
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