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 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Profile review
Posted: 2/18/2019 2:16:51 PM
You could use some better photos. Only the main one is decent. The text is too long in my opinion. You go on and on about music. Stating that looks arent important is a little silly. Dont kid yourself, looks are important. You want someone that looks good to you.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Women always wanting men quite taller than them
Posted: 2/11/2019 9:44:56 AM
Arent most men taller than women anyway? So why all the fuss if a woman prefers it?
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Why do some women want to talk on the phone while driving their car?
Posted: 2/8/2019 10:09:54 AM
They want to talk in the car because theyre alone and not at home with their boyfriend or spouse. Same applies to men. I dated someone once that did this and I asked a male friend of mine about it. This is exactly what he told me.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Need some advice regarding my profile.
Posted: 2/2/2019 8:23:41 AM
Delete the main photo. Shirtless photos are a no-no and can get your profile deleted. The write up is ok but it feels forced. Like having a realtionship is a chore or a hassle for you. Expand on what you do for work. Smoking is a deal breaker for some women. Delete the 1st date stuff. Youre pouring it on too thick.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Would you rather I lied about it?
Posted: 1/29/2019 9:55:23 AM
You arent obligated to meet anyone you dont feel comfortable meeting. Being honest is basic. Just like being nice. Those qualities arent extra.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Ageism, the last taboo
Posted: 1/28/2019 2:22:20 PM

sex offender

Sounds like you were in jail for the last 10 years.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Do muscles make it easier to attract women (srs question)
Posted: 1/23/2019 9:40:56 AM
srs=serious

You can have muscles but if you act like a douchebag, they wont help you attract women. Fit men are attactive in my opinion. Muscle head types, not so much.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Men with no friends
Posted: 1/18/2019 7:33:38 PM
I dont think men are nearly as social as women are. Ive never met a man that had lots and lots of friends, usually just a few.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How much texting after a first meet is too much?
Posted: 1/14/2019 7:36:09 PM
You only had 1 date so why did you accept his friend request? You arent friends. Now he can hassle you when he sees you online.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Getting to Know a Great but Busy Person
Posted: 1/14/2019 10:03:51 AM
People dont fall in love over text messages and phone calls. Spending actual time together is necessary. If she works that much and cant make time for a coffee date, what makes you think she will have time for a relationship with you?
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Swap numbers, then next day get a brush-off
Posted: 1/14/2019 9:59:02 AM
Its doubtful she is friendzoning you. She met someone else she wants to pursue. She prolly doesnt want you calling her at all.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 19 (view)
 
How to respond to her; she is mirroring me
Posted: 1/11/2019 2:31:51 PM
This all sounds exhausting. If youre interested in her, just be interested. No need to play games about it. Youre not 18.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 6 (view)
 
wow
Posted: 1/10/2019 12:34:29 PM
She wants you to see her nice, new apartment so you know how good she's doing without you.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Living with parents... a turn off?
Posted: 12/31/2018 11:50:01 AM
If you want to be intimate with a lady, what do you do exactly? Sneak her in after midnight? That reason alone would be enough for me to want to have my own place.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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Profile Review
Posted: 12/29/2018 9:58:42 AM
Lots of pics with attractive women is not such a great idea in my opinion. Delete those or at least identify the ladies if they are a cousin or sister. You didnt really write much as far as profile so I cant really comment on that. Women your age are working or going to college or both and cannot 'travel the world' with you. That seems unrealistic to me.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Is this girl testing my nerves ?? Please advice !
Posted: 12/29/2018 9:52:03 AM
If you dont care if she is interested then why are you messaging her ? She doesnt message you back and has turned down date requests. What more do you need?
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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Please Review My Profile.
Posted: 12/27/2018 9:42:59 AM
There is nothing positive about what you wrote. Youre basically telling people to not message you.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What's Your DMV?
Posted: 12/27/2018 9:38:23 AM
Doubtful anyone believes you picked up a hot 29yr old but
cool story, bro.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 11 (view)
 
You're replaceable.
Posted: 12/26/2018 9:40:08 AM
Sometimes it takes a few months of dating to see a persons true colors. I dont see anything wrong with breaking off a relationship and looking for someone else if things arent working out.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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Is this girl testing my nerves ?? Please advice !
Posted: 12/21/2018 2:15:07 PM
Theres nothing really to 'handle' You had an ok date. She hasnt shown any interest in meeting up again. Dont contact her again.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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Please Remove All My Posts / Topics
Posted: 12/11/2018 9:58:09 AM
Not really sure you can delete any of those. You may want to delete your profile and create a new on with a diff user name so those posts are not associated with you.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 3 (view)
 
How do I word this?
Posted: 12/11/2018 9:54:04 AM
You have a long list of what you like in a woman but no mention of athletic, fit, in shape, active, etc. Nothing wrong with putting those preferences in your profile.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 13 (view)
 
It seemed so promising.
Posted: 12/7/2018 4:29:10 PM
Was he sick or was he working? Hard to believe he was sooo busy or sooo sick that he couldnt make time to meet up in 3 months of correspondence. He prolly never had an intention of meeting and was just looking for someone to string along.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 11 (view)
 
How to Know If Your Partner Is Financially ‘Cheating’ in Your Relationship
Posted: 12/4/2018 10:37:26 AM
My boyfriend and I dont live together and we arent engaged. I assume you are referring to couples that are married or living together. He spends his money how he wants and I do the same.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What responsibilities should teens have and expected to do.
Posted: 11/27/2018 2:39:40 PM
It sounds like you have a really good kid. She isnt perfect. She isnt going to be. She gets good grades and is involved in a lot of things, church and volunteering. If youre main complaint is not doing the dishes or scrubbing the bathtub, consider yourself lucky. She isnt involved with drugs or getting arrested or pregnant. Having a boyfriend is normal at 17, so is wearing makeup.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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What responsibilities should teens have and expected to do.
Posted: 11/26/2018 6:59:25 PM
It sounds like your daughter has a lot on her plate, all the time. When does she find time for social activities or hanging out with friends? or just being a teenager? To be honest, the only thing she needs to really focus on is doing well in school and planning for college. She is not a housekeeper. Some chores are ok, but it sounds like youre expecting her to do everything.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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A Question about Match
Posted: 11/20/2018 6:38:11 PM
^^Eharmony also does this. I was a member years ago. I would join for 3 months at a time. Towards the end of my membership, I would get flooded with matches and not have enough time to reply unless I extended the subscription another month. A total scam.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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Can’t get this girl off of my mind
Posted: 11/20/2018 6:31:30 PM
It doubtful she felt the great connection that you did. Hence the never actually meeting. Its been a year. She may not even remember you.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 10 (view)
 
wow I paid so I can get this message
Posted: 11/20/2018 6:28:00 PM
So you spammed over 55 women in a 24 hour period? How are you even remotely interested in that many people?
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Photos of ladies
Posted: 11/15/2018 11:03:54 AM
OP, your posing with a dog in one of your profile pics so why is it an issue for ladies to do the same?
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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What would you expect from a partner?
Posted: 11/13/2018 6:48:02 AM
Like attracts like. If you dont possess those qualities yourself, youre probably not going to find them in a partner.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 66 (view)
 
How Long Should You Date Someone Before Moving In Together?
Posted: 11/10/2018 1:09:27 PM
I would not move in with a man (again) unless we are engaged to be married. I mean with an actual ring on my finger, not just talking about it.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 307 (view)
 
A man and his car...
Posted: 11/8/2018 1:34:54 PM
I guess Im a car snob. I like trucks, jeeps or suvs. If a guy shows up in a beat up POS full of junk , his home is prolly also that way.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Please Review My Profile!
Posted: 11/8/2018 1:29:43 PM
^^^+1
Waayyy too long and boring. No need to update with random things every day. Delete all of that stuff.
Undecided about kids at 56? Looking for a woman 48-59? Doubtful a 48 yr old woman or older wants to have babies.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Weight loss drugs: Worth it or Not?
Posted: 11/6/2018 3:07:39 PM
Sienna, youre 5'2 and weigh 137 lbs. Hardly overweight or obese. Doctors dont prescribe weight loss drugs unless youre BMI is 30 or more.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Unfriended, then re-friended woman who rejected me. What did this tell her?
Posted: 11/3/2018 10:37:45 AM
Honestly, youre behaving like a 13yr old drama queen. I doubt she even realized you unfriended her in the first place. Its not like anyone gets a notice when that happens.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Cancelled/rescheduled date. Feeling vulnerable & irritated, thoughts?
Posted: 11/3/2018 10:29:50 AM
You pretty much answered your own question about him: You dont want to take on a truck load of issues. This guy has plenty so unless youre looking for a project, I would pass on him.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Why Office Air Conditioning is Sexist
Posted: 11/1/2018 12:06:05 PM
Air conditioning blowing up their skirt? Where are you working that a/c comes out of the floor? Mine blows on my head all day.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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Cancelled/rescheduled date. Feeling vulnerable & irritated, thoughts?
Posted: 11/1/2018 12:00:40 PM
I agree, saying youre 'unwell' is an excuse to get out of a date. Ive never been too 'unwell' to go on a date with someone I really like. Maybe he think youre expecting sex on the next date? Not sure why you mentioned making 'other plans' with someone else? if he cant make it. It sounds like youre dating others and want him to know it. Let him contact you if he is still interested.
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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No Single month options?
Posted: 10/31/2018 7:07:26 AM
Dont waste your money on an upgrade. Results prolly wont be any better. Extra features wont make your profile and pics better.
 
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