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 Author Thread: Why do some guys write they want friends first?
 LookingforgoldintheDesert
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 321 (view)
 
Why do some guys write they want friends first?
Posted: 10/8/2015 9:14:28 PM
Yes, I want a friend first....Maybe women do not understand what that really is.
Somebody with similar interests , that I can speak openly with for hours on end.
Some one who doesn"t judge me for everything I say or do not say.
Somebody who is not afraid to tell me the truth, but will do their best to support me if i need support.
So why do women not want to be a friend first ?
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 196 (view)
 
is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 7/17/2011 9:40:13 AM
Because those sites are not free but pof is ??
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 118 (view)
 
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 7/15/2011 2:55:35 PM
Perhaps you women been meeting the wrong men ??
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
World archery festival....
Posted: 2/28/2010 5:35:50 PM
I went to the WAF in Las Vegas and had a great time. I did not meet anybody from here but maybe next year . Shrug.
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Why very few actual dates from this site?
Posted: 2/8/2010 10:25:24 AM
I've have standards ? I posted trying to see if anybody could suggets where to find friends. But seems honest threads get deleted. And being honst gets nothing.
So go ahead and lie your butt off.
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Why very few actual dates from this site?
Posted: 2/6/2010 8:46:05 PM
I think this thread is just another whine but go figure.
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
World archery festival....
Posted: 2/6/2010 8:22:28 PM
I'm wondering if anybody is going to the "World Archery Festival" at the Riveria hotel.
It is During next weekend 2/18/10-2/20/10. I'll be there shooting all three days.
It's just a question if anybody who is on this forum and interested in archery is going.
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 132 (view)
 
legalized prostitution
Posted: 1/29/2010 3:24:03 PM
Your logic is flawed. all I said was that you could not deny is use of the road based on whom payed taxes . we tax you for maintence to the road. If we all pay we should all have equal access.
If he does wear a helmet and you dont wear a seat belt do we automatically take you off the road ?
just because women earn money in strp clubs does not mean that they are free from negative situations. There are women being brought into this country and forced into illegal prostitution every day. It is a complex problem.
Across the board women should have the right to do as they wish free from recrimination.
A woman marries a 65 year old man for whatever reason and she is young she's a gold digger.
Yet the double standard is the old guy in just a sugar daddy.
A kind old guy getting what he wants.
Its all perspecive.
It;s no different than the drug problem. There is a major market that will always be there. The law cannot handle the size and scope. We could reduce the whole problem if we could remove the need for an illegal market. Ifn there was a way to fulfill the desire for the service then whom would they be forced into prostitution to service. The second way is to remove the value of the service they provide. There for is peole could find jobs that made what they could make stripping they would not be stripping.
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 128 (view)
 
legalized prostitution
Posted: 12/18/2009 10:01:06 AM
uhm those same roads that are paids for by your taxes were also paid for by their taxes....So your point is kind of invalidated. You might wish to rethink that idea.
I you want to ban them pick something ONLY you paid for?
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 127 (view)
 
legalized prostitution
Posted: 12/5/2009 8:49:44 AM
prostution is legal in all 50 states.....it is called marrige.
yet the payment is dependent on barter skills.
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Why do women get ready for first meetings and men don't
Posted: 12/5/2009 8:19:47 AM
I wonder if there is a basic difference between men and women that prevents them from just seeing the truth.
1 most women get ready put on a false face and go to a meeting.
2 most men go to the meeting as who they are accept me as I am?
3 months later they find out 1 is different than they seemed ?
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Would you serve on the jury?
Posted: 11/25/2009 10:17:36 PM
Why you do not want me in charge...
1 nobody can claim they do not know whom the terrorist are.
If you know your brother is a terrorist and do not turn him in you are as guilty as them .
2 same rule goes for every country state town in every foreign country.
If they did not turn in the person or persons willingly then they are accomplices or at least guilty of aiding them.
Taking this to a civilian trial is a joke. But hey I think the streets should be cleared for 4 blocks around the court of all vehicle traffic and filled with the friends and relatives of the victims of 911.
Then let them sucker walk out of the court house free .....or they can confessand be brought back inside. (of course No police will enforce any laws if the crowd dismembers them when they try to go past)

After all You have to keep in mind that these people are not our friends. They believe that we are to be killed. What part of it is their way or no way do you not understand. Their is only one way to deal with that way of thinking. And to stick them into our penal system to try and recruit more anti social members is ludicris.
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Match/Search Options that should be added
Posted: 11/25/2009 7:44:49 PM
i'd like to see women and all there must not not be included in my listing. when i do try to message then i am then told that I cannot. So why did I even get them as listed in my matches ?
 Lonely_in_NYC
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
New Yorkers Freedom has been Violated!
Posted: 11/25/2009 5:12:31 PM
Just a few questions to think about...so how much of those item/products are in the flue shot. I'm always amazed when that people leave the amount blank. Every water fountian in a work place in california because of such knee jerk , patterned thinking.
As for flu shot, no I never get one because the real cause is not the flu but the carriers.
 Dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
A Theory on The Game (feedback wanted)
Posted: 5/16/2008 2:04:35 AM
Problem is not that women train men to be any thing or that men teach women to be anything. The problem is as human beings we think!!! We are above the birds and the bee's. It all very subliminal and ingrained. Women are naturally attracted to the aggressive dominante jerks because that gets the species to continue. If women waited for the nice/gentlemanly guy to make a move she would be an old maid. It's all ingrained and a part of nature. For a really sad viewpoint to the "game" log onto yahoo personal's as a guy and read the tip's about how to find women... It will really open your eye's on how players are being created.
 dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Say What You Really Want
Posted: 5/1/2007 4:07:57 PM
Thats ok, I'm Not the one for anybody read my profile and you'll know I gave up a long, long time ago in a galaxy far far away.
 dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Valuable Coin Alert!
Posted: 2/5/2007 8:10:43 PM
Hang on to any of the new Arkansas Quarters. If you have them, they may be worth much more than 25 cents.

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Apparently the duct tape holding the two dimes and the nickel together keeps jamming up the machines.
 dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 102 (view)
 
how is everyone planning on handling new years eve alone?
Posted: 12/31/2006 5:39:59 PM
Sorry I have God..I just don't have a life anybody else would be interested in.
Seems they (mods) would rather delete any qyestions I ask so This will be my last post.
Have fun.. doubt any will find anything real here.. I sure haven't...
 dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
guys - what does this mean?
Posted: 12/31/2006 4:57:37 PM
what does it mean ? No way to know for sure. If I was ever on trial I surely wouldn't want people guessing to make a discission.
 dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Should prostitution be legal?
Posted: 12/31/2006 4:43:33 PM
To some people think that prostitution will make for more rapists and serial sex offenders. There is no true correlation between the two....
 dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 100 (view)
 
how is everyone planning on handling new years eve alone?
Posted: 12/31/2006 4:29:41 PM
Depends on how much deeper my depression sinks.. so far I havent left the house this weekend and it looks to me that any real questions about where I am mentaly from the board in a general way have been deleted...but thanks for pushing me over the edge..
 dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
What do women do ?
Posted: 9/26/2006 8:26:56 PM
I dis in no way say I was miserable. I would like to find a partner. But I have given up looking.
 dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What do women do ?
Posted: 9/25/2006 3:41:40 PM
As a man I know what men do when things become dull and they give up on looking and life in general. They invest their time in things they can control and basically just avoid the rest of life. For me its different hobbies and online games. Nothing illegal. So what do women do when they give up ?
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
so who else likes to play penny slots
Posted: 9/7/2006 12:23:53 AM
I love monolopy....
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Married and looking
Posted: 9/5/2006 2:08:34 AM
Out of curiosity I have to as a question?
The 2 most recent posts or 3 depending which ones they are...from when this post hits the board, leave me wondering whom they are bashing.....
I see a its people like you but If they do not say specifically who they are talking about it leaves me wondering which post they are actually responding too?
Fact 1 I'm disabled...
Fact 2 I am married and have been seperated for a minimun of 5 years...I am bad with dats so it could be 6...
Fact 3 Money is a big issue and divorce can make that far worse than I care for it to be.
I am sure there are otheres out there whom will put their 2 cents in.
You do not know me or my situation....
Bottom line is I have given up looking for a woman or friend in this day and age...
Live it or love it for those that wish to meet the opposite sex I see why they lie...
Rather than admit to the baggage their life comes with.
And that's with both sex's.
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Here's my testimonials
Posted: 9/4/2006 3:08:18 AM
Been here for over a month..maybe two.. have received that many emails....replied to the first and havent heard from them since. Today I ot one from somebody 2500 miles away, whom sent me an email to be contacted privatly...sounds more like a run around for one of them emials about collecting million dollars from somebody in Nigeria.
Oh well..at least my score is consistant. batting 2 for 2.
Think I'll take meds and try to sleep ....its only 3:12 am as it is....
Sucks being disabledy and lonely.
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Hidden profiles and other stuff...
Posted: 9/4/2006 2:40:19 AM
I am not quite sure I understand the use of hidden profiles...
Why post on a thread that says whats wrong with the person's profile above you if your profile is hidden ?
Along the same line i am not sure I understand how maches and such are made.
I look at those online in your city and see many whom aren't in my city.
I also see so many whom post a list of must not be that covers so much there really isn't anything to imply any matches with me. Shouldn't there be some way to eliminate them from showing up in my search period ?
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 183 (view)
 
What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread?
Posted: 9/3/2006 9:38:19 PM
She's 1/2 my age ?
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Married and looking - Both sides have a point
Posted: 9/3/2006 9:08:39 PM
Married and looking, seperated and looking..whats the difference.....well in the minds of those That have Posted their Opinions ..Nothing ..So I no longer bother to ask
In the minds of the women that come to these boards and every other board I have looked I have seen the same women still looking.
Must be something wrong with what they are lookin for or their expectations...
Me..I have given up looking...
I have taken up hobbies. None that women seem to have interests in...
Call me jaded or worse....I care not....but this is MY honest view of the online dating scene.
As for the people whom have reached out to make just friends.....oh wait there haven't been any.
After all I choose to be honest...no wonder most lie about their situation......
 dark_desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
pay versus free? your experiences please...
Posted: 8/11/2006 5:07:27 PM
Out of curiousity I have to wonder what abut spending money to find a MATE makes pay sites much different than legitimate sites of prostitution. Sure Your not guaranteed sex but it is the bottom line.
I am on other sites but will not pay for their use in any event. When the time comes for me to meet that perfect someone I am sure it will happen...or not.
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
some girls are mentally deranged, i swear.
Posted: 7/17/2006 10:58:05 PM
Hmmm I have never been im'd here or any other site..so My confidence in My self is not the issue......
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
What is it that Women love?
Posted: 7/16/2006 4:19:24 PM
Just a thought.. could it be that the guys who will stand and fight to meet you aren't the ones that will rub you back , take out the garbage and put the seat down ?
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
some girls are mentally deranged, i swear.
Posted: 7/16/2006 10:13:05 AM
Be thankful, at least you got an im or two.
 Dark_Desire
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
What type of relationship would rock your sox right now? :)
Posted: 7/16/2006 1:23:13 AM
Just finding somebody that actually showed some kind of interest in me would make my day.
 
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