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 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 96 (view)
 
CRADLE SNATCHING
Posted: 6/22/2013 6:35:01 PM
Like anything else...A matter of preference...

I'm 51...At my age now, I wouldn't feel comfortable with a younger person, especially someone with 20 or more years difference...The last thing I wanted at that age was a permanent/long term relationship, and since I've never been married, nor have brought up any children, I'm not too sure I want an LTR even now...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 194 (view)
 
Beauty over age 45
Posted: 9/22/2011 6:07:08 PM
I like how women over 45 look...What's wrong with a few wrinkles, callouses, and possibly a pair of eyeglasses? These women still rock!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
New meat at the local Meat Market??
Posted: 9/22/2011 6:00:16 PM
Wow! Eighty-nine cents a pound...OHH! THAT kind of meat market...Silleye me...My mistake...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 295 (view)
 
Women question a man over 50 and not been married?
Posted: 9/22/2011 5:53:18 PM
If she has that kind of attitude...Just tell her to keep it movin'...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 117 (view)
 
Turning 50....does everyone experience a twinge?
Posted: 9/22/2011 5:45:00 PM
Nope...no "twinge"...Backache, excess gas, sore feet...but no twinge...Oooh, sucks to be me...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Does it hurt more if they are young and beautiful?
Posted: 9/22/2011 5:40:26 PM

It is more humiliating. When the trophy wife takes off everyone you know knows you were used.


I so dislike the "trophy wife/lover" terminology...

I call it "Barbie on the Shelf"...Aside from tapping resources (in more ways than one), she really does little more than compliment the decor...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Act Your Age?? What the heck does that mean???
Posted: 9/22/2011 5:25:45 PM
Sometimes, it means that someone else is trapped in a scenario they now regret, and see you living life to the fullest...Sucks 2 B them!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 68 (view)
 
What about women my age with a child?
Posted: 9/22/2011 5:14:50 PM

Your child comes first - great - good for you. Now please go raise your children. The fact you don't have an s/o isn't anything to do with other singles. Get back to datingland after your children are raised, or at least find an s/o who also has young children to raise.


Kind of cold...BUT this is true...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 93 (view)
 
who gets your stuff?
Posted: 9/22/2011 5:10:32 PM
...The stingy shylock lawyer that prepared the documents...Whom else?
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 136 (view)
 
Childless men
Posted: 9/22/2011 5:07:00 PM
Never married...no kids...Jealousy? I find that some that went the marriage/family route are now jealous of ME!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 273 (view)
 
Are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 9/22/2011 5:04:10 PM
Nowadays...only in a fantasy...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 293 (view)
 
Why are we still so affraid to let people in?
Posted: 9/22/2011 5:03:04 PM
...Because some don't have the same idea of love as you might...and nowadays, some just don't care...They're in a relationship for whatever they can get out of it, and then move on either when the scenario becomes tiresome, or tapped out...whichever comes first...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 147 (view)
 
Ending Up Alone - Who fears The Reaper?
Posted: 9/22/2011 4:58:53 PM
Many of us fear the reaper...Whenever it happens, it happens...I wouldn't mind coming back as a ghost!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Ok, so there's this 18 year old at work that got me thinking
Posted: 9/22/2011 4:56:11 PM
I never lost the 18 y.o. inside me...He just won't do some of the dumb #@%$ he used to...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Stripping and relationship....
Posted: 9/22/2011 4:03:48 PM
I suppose there are lasting relationships, but I've never heard of any...It's not exactly a healthy foundation for relationships, and it takes mucho strength from both parties...I couldn't handle that....
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 119 (view)
 
Women faking orgasm
Posted: 9/22/2011 3:57:10 PM
Faking orgasm?

You mean there's a prompter only she can see?

"Oooh!...Ahhh!...OMG...Yiii!...Ohhh!...Bayyybeeee!...and (Insert your own message here)..."
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 561 (view)
 
How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 9/22/2011 3:51:45 PM
...Til she pushes you away and says, "Quit!"...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Women post pics in sexy sleepwear?
Posted: 9/22/2011 3:48:29 PM
MmmmmmmSexySleepwear...Long silky gowns, spaghetti straps...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 79 (view)
 
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/22/2011 3:46:05 PM
I have...but never with anyone I was romantically involved with...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 360 (view)
 
Women that wear too much makeup at our age....
Posted: 9/22/2011 3:29:27 PM
There aren't many @ my age, but a Victorian Goth woman looks great in full dress!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 172 (view)
 
sugar mommy?
Posted: 9/22/2011 3:20:25 PM
Sex can be fun with an older woman, some can get crazy...But that movin' in and scroungin' crap? I'm too old, and too much of a gypsy for that!

And this is also true:
"Sugar mama's go for guys in their 20's and 30's. So if you want a guy to be that young you better be willing to pay just as men have been doing for years."

Dudley MacStudley says: "If Suzi DeFloozi can do it, so can I!"
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 120 (view)
 
suddenly aware that age 50 looms ahead
Posted: 9/22/2011 3:16:29 PM
That's early next year for me....Yeah....And....So?
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 159 (view)
 
Too old to be in this pond?
Posted: 9/22/2011 3:14:25 PM
Some "young-uns" are like that...They think anyone older (or their parents age) started walking on twos just last week, and don't belong wherever they are...

I say to those few -
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Is dating a widower/widow that scary?
Posted: 9/22/2011 3:02:17 PM
Don't know...never been in that scenario...And if she's got a fairly large oil painting of the deceased sitting above the mantle...F-O-R-G-E-T I-T!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 346 (view)
 
You've been THIS long without sex, why is it still a solid requirement?
Posted: 9/22/2011 2:59:07 PM
Depends upon the individual...Some can hold out...some can't...Amen...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 318 (view)
 
Confused about You're too old for me responses from women
Posted: 9/22/2011 2:47:37 PM
I'm 49, and I do exactly the opposite with the occasional young woman that might be interested..."Sorry, you're much too young for me..."
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Dating People Over 45 With Dependent Children
Posted: 9/22/2011 2:43:45 PM
The chances of meeting someone with a child/children over 45 are pretty good...Meeting someone @ that age who has never had children is a rarity, and most difficult to find...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Love on the 'net, at our age. . . .
Posted: 9/22/2011 2:40:44 PM
Unless it's someone I know, or grew up with...no internet-based romance for me...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Wanting that elusive last word or knowing the truth about the end. Anyone else feel the same?
Posted: 9/22/2011 7:24:19 AM
It hurts, and nips @ you for awhile...Then you keep it movin'...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Requesting more info.
Posted: 9/22/2011 7:19:50 AM
What more is there to request? That always tells me someone's looking for a "dream come true" scenario...Like, Whoa! Time to keep it movin'...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
First impressions
Posted: 9/22/2011 7:13:47 AM
Depends upon whom you are and what exactly you're looking for...Some don't give a $*@#...some are meticulous about every little detail...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Being honest about dating
Posted: 9/22/2011 7:09:52 AM
Nowadays, it's called, "Friends with Benefits"...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 148 (view)
 
Should money be a consideration in a relationship
Posted: 9/22/2011 7:07:46 AM
It shouldn't...but unfortunately, it is...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Does it hurt more if they are young and beautiful?
Posted: 9/22/2011 6:58:20 AM
It would be hard to find someone @ a younger age that really is ready to accept the needs of an older person...When I was in my 20's, I wasn't ready for anything really involved or permanent like that...I'm still not ready even @ 49...
Nowadays, with the economic hard times, that May/December scenario (especially with younger women/older men) is more becoming a mutual benefit / for-profit racket, based mainly on eye candy and sex for the guy, and financial gain for the woman...No love loss there...

Does it hurt? Taking into consideration what I see around me? Not in the least!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 191 (view)
 
Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 6/13/2011 1:49:05 PM
No, unless your idea of love is a lapdance or single night stand...I call that "spur of the moment pay as you go" lust...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 127 (view)
 
Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 6/13/2011 1:42:42 PM
Nope...just so long as it's green...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Cultures that live at home for longer - how do people date?
Posted: 6/13/2011 1:40:16 PM
In these economic times, don't be surprised to see people in their 40s living back home w Mom & Dad...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 281 (view)
 
Beware: eHarmony sucks...
Posted: 6/13/2011 1:21:35 PM
"E-WhoreMany" should be more like it...Any paid dating site that exemplifies matrimony on the opening page (Key word here is "paid")...should raise flags...Far too many gold-digging men and women over there...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 209 (view)
 
How important is a THREESOME???
Posted: 6/13/2011 1:04:14 PM
Unless your with a woman that is into that...Ask yourself, how important is it for you to find yourself on the outside, looking in?
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 215 (view)
 
Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas
Posted: 6/13/2011 1:00:50 PM
Even if I had "sugar", I'm nobody's idea of "daddy"...Amen...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 94 (view)
 
dating and unemployment
Posted: 6/13/2011 12:56:55 PM
I don't usually venture into the dating world even when I've got gainful employment...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 148 (view)
 
Should you tell how many times you have been married?
Posted: 6/13/2011 12:53:55 PM
I'm almost 50 and never have been married, but how many people are apt to believe that?
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 962 (view)
 
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/13/2011 12:39:45 PM
No...Knew one for quite a few years, mostly out of the strip club environment...We were good freinds, but when she started taking a liking to me in a more romantic fashion...I turned and ran...I can't deal with that lifestyle, except at a distance...
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Women who aren't ready!
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:58:52 PM
To the OP:

She's not ready?

What about YOU?

Take it from someone who knows...You wouldn't even be INTERESTED in someone who doesn't know what they really want...if you really did ...yourself!

...Because you're AWFUL FAST!...Too fast!

Birds of a feather...flock 2-gether!!! Remember that!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Settling
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:50:52 PM
"Settling"....To tell you the truth...I don't really know if I can...I may have romanced Sweet Lady Freedom...far too long!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
do you have to love yourself before you can love another..
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:39:00 PM
Umm...YES!...Yes you do...It's a MUST!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Would you follow your partner if they wanted to sell it all and join a cult?
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:37:03 PM
^^^^Oh yes...I forgot groups led by lethal psychotic religious fanatics...I could pass on that too!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Women who aren't ready!
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:35:10 PM
I like women whom aren't ready!

Hell, I haven't been ready most of my life...it doesn't bother me any!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Would you follow your partner if they wanted to sell it all and join a cult?
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:31:55 PM
Since I have never been married and have no children, and would prefer a transient, on-the-move lifestyle...it would depend greatly upon the NATURE of the cult or organization involved...

An art group...Definitely...I'm an artist!

Yoga...Oh yes...I LOVE a flexible body!

Goth and Vampires...Umm...NO THANKS!
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Lunatic Magnet
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:26:02 PM
Personally...I think you have to be a LUNATIC yourself...in order to be a "Lunatic Magnet"

Crazy KNOWS Crazy! ...and we often seek, and stick with...our own kind!
 
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