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Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 19 (view)
how do i get a girl to talk to me
Posted: 1/27/2013 9:01:09 PM
Hey man,

I'm into this type of field, based on my personal experience a lot of what these people are advising is true. But losing hope is not an option there mate. If you want an in depth explanation on how you can statistically increase your chances on this site. Send me a message and I'll give you some insight.

Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 729 (view)
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 6/14/2012 1:13:44 AM
She is completely right, ignore the comments on most old fashioned guys in here. Welcome to this new society and its population explosion, which has increased the desperation on males due to the amount of competition. If they want to say "you are hot" why not just say 'I like the way you maintain yourself' same compliment two different perspectives.
Contact me if there are any other questions. I'm a dating coach.
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 25 (view)
talking too much, tell me about yourself crappery
Posted: 2/27/2012 5:23:04 PM
Does this happen to you often on first dates? One person's mouth is blabbing on and on with misc. speech sounds coming out. I'm quite talkative but only with people I've known for a while. I find that on most first dates or even chats on the phone, I know more about them than they know about me, like significantly. These men talk on and on about themselves and then make the dumb statement of, "tell me about yourself" to which I reply, "What do you want to know?"
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 17 (view)
Why do men never call when they say they will?
Posted: 2/27/2012 5:02:46 PM
Do not telegraph too much interest too soon, it's like shooting yourself on the foot.
Instead sub-communicate your unique qualities as a person to attract him. A guy will not call if he feels he's entering 'commitment' too soon. Remember guys want the best they can get therefore if there's not a good potential mate in front of them, they will try to keep looking...
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 3 (view)
Conversation going round in circles
Posted: 2/27/2012 4:59:02 PM
He might be a little off track with social skills to not ask anything.
Just ask away! If he the guy says yeah, you will stop banging your head against the wall.
If he says no, move on. There are plenty of people out there.
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 54 (view)
What does a serious relationship mean to you?
Posted: 2/27/2012 4:48:07 PM
That's basically what forms a relationship, "Connection".
But here comes the magic word, "Serious"...
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 11 (view)
If a woman is into you......
Posted: 2/27/2012 4:39:57 PM
Will she make any moves?
It all depends on the level of comfort and trust you've developed.
Even if she has confidence or not she will eventually give you signs
and you should know when to spot them.

What moves should I look for?
Body language signs are usually unconciou, check for the voice tone as well.
Know 90% of what she's communicating is not coming out of her mouth.

Am I in the friend-zone forever?
She might find you interesting but not enough as a potential mate.
but perhaps a great friend, so obviously she will not want to lose that.
You must evolve yourself to a point where you can provide AT LEAST
a few of the qualities most women are looking to highly increase your
changes, in other other words... stepping out of the average circle.
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