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 Author Thread: INSTANT Turnoffs?
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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INSTANT Turnoffs?
Posted: 12/2/2008 11:41:13 PM
Vain Pride
Sanctimonious Attitude

 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Hugs or kisses, which is more important to you?
Posted: 12/2/2008 11:28:57 PM
Hugs for me are the best way to physically show compassion & empathy without crossing to many personal boundaries.

Kisses (other than the 'peck' on the cheek) are an amazingly powerful way of showing an intimate love for another.

Which do I prefer?!?.....Depends, but I am ALWAYS happy to give a hug or recieve one for that matter...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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FREE tickets for AIR SUPPLY TONIGHT!!!!
Posted: 2/9/2008 9:27:19 AM
hello everybody...the tickets have been claimed...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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FREE tickets for AIR SUPPLY TONIGHT!!!!
Posted: 2/9/2008 8:43:38 AM
I have two tickets for AIR SUPPLY's concert at River Rock Show Theatre for tonight's show ~(Saturday, February 9 at 8pm) Section LC, Row P, seats 39 & 40(aisle) girlfriend is too sick to go and would hate to see them wasted...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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How Satisfied Are You with your life today?
Posted: 11/2/2007 5:44:34 PM
I am very satisfied with my life...found someone to love and cherish and who feels the same way about me(thanks to POF!!)...career wise, I will be going to school next year to do something I very much enjoy doing...Its all good!...strike that GREAT!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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CRUISE SHIP PARTY INTEREST
Posted: 7/28/2007 1:38:12 PM
this sounds like it would be a blast!...I like the idea of small deposit & payments...Guess I better get goin on that passport!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Old Souls......only
Posted: 7/28/2007 1:32:38 PM
I look to the heavens above
Wonder what he makes of our follies
This lie we live
The hate we learn to embrace
Leaving love out in the cold
No remorse for those less fortunate
I hope he truly is forgiving
We need all he can spare
Forgetting the difference wrong and right
It's all the same anyways...isn't it...
Will we ever learn
Lessons not learned from our past
When judgement is at hand
Where will we be
Will we be spared or maybe burned
Is it to late....
When will we learn the strength of Love's value
Bring Love in from the cold
Use it often
The more you use it...the more you will have
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 2984 (view)
 
Old Souls......only
Posted: 7/28/2007 1:19:57 PM
Children of the Street

They come from parts unknown
Left alone in the darkness and the rain
From their hearts their soul is stolen
For them life holds no champagne dreams
No family
Nothing to gain
Nothing to lose
Nowhere to turn except the escape of a needle or bottle
Sooner or later the sands of time will run down
They become society's sacrifice
Playing with their lives like the toss of the dice
Is tthis a price we should be willing to pay...
They are the children of the street
LISTEN to the stories they tell...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 295 (view)
 
Haiku
Posted: 7/28/2007 12:45:31 PM
wields honor's sword
dies by the flash of the blade
honor still intact
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 294 (view)
 
Haiku
Posted: 7/28/2007 12:44:00 PM
electric blue flash
earth shaking crash from above
powerful lightning
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
why are some women/people on here for years?
Posted: 7/20/2007 9:04:01 PM
Yup...definitely been on here for waaay too long, but dammit!...I've met some pretty cool people here, the forums can be fairly amusing at times, the events are lots of fun and a great 'excuse' to get out and about plus it is helping me with my shyness (I actually TALK to people once in a while now!)
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Does anyone believe or seen a Ghost??
Posted: 7/20/2007 8:54:17 PM
I have only had one experience with a ghost...when I was younger I was camping up in the mountains and thought I heard something outside my tent...when I looked to see what it was I saw a wolf standing on a large boulder and it looked like it was howling...only reason I knew it was a ghost was because I could see through it...It was one of the coolest experiences I've ever had!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Deal Breakers......
Posted: 7/20/2007 8:21:30 PM
deal breakers?!?...
the easy ones are the habitual ones: drug use, excessive drinking, smoking (the occasional one is semi-sorta okay)...
the behavioural ones would be: control issues, jealousy and intolerance(you know...racism and the like...)
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Jolly Mac's Hawaii party July 21, 2007
Posted: 7/3/2007 6:00:39 PM
I'll be comin' in from Abby, so if anyone needs a ride, let me know! I can take up to five fishies...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Truth about jobs in Canada....
Posted: 6/25/2007 8:28:13 PM
manufacturing pays well?!?...since when? The few jobs I've had in this field the pay wasn't much better than what you can get at some of the unionized 'fast food' shops now and as for companies heading south...well yes of course, business is business, our dollar is strengthening so it gets too expensive to export. Easiest solution is to reduce wages. How do you do that? Move your company to a country with cheaper labor! Also, its not just eastern Canada, BC companies are moving out as well...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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FUNTASTIC SLO-PITCH TOURNAMENT & MUSIC FESTIVAL
Posted: 6/25/2007 7:40:40 PM
FOUR more days!!!...WOOHOO!!! I am lookin' forward to this playing in the tourney. Looks like its gonna be a blast!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Mistakes you don't regret
Posted: 6/21/2007 5:58:26 PM
Yeah, similiar to th OP...that damned 'little voice' kept telling me it was a train wreck waiting to happen, but I have a fabulous little boy to show for all the stress, trauma and nightmares...He is my equivalent of a 'Pheonix' I suppose...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Do you have a LIFE To Do (Goals) list?
Posted: 6/21/2007 5:51:02 PM
I just kind of have a general outline of things I would like to see to fruition...I have long ago given up on making any concrete plans because everytime I do, something happens...(what was it again, hmmm...what is that keeps happening....thinking!!!) OH YEAH!!!, Life keeps happening! I pretty much just go by whatever doors open up for me as they come...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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highway driving nightmares
Posted: 6/21/2007 5:43:11 PM
Aww....Sam...if you can or have driven they Sea to Sky...The Coquihalla would be a breeze! It's actually a pretty boring run. I've gone back to driving the Hope-Princeton, more twists and turns not so many hills (hills kill any kind of fuel economy on my car). As for more nightmarish driving...the Salmo-Creston in the winter can be quite a handful!!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Do you RENT or do you OWN your own home?
Posted: 6/14/2007 4:36:34 PM
I own the little motorhome I live in...does that count?!?
Do I care if a potential partner owns or rents?...either or...don't really care...
...a pulse on the other hand IS somewhat mandatory...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 110 (view)
 
What do you find beautiful?
Posted: 6/9/2007 7:54:39 PM
~a waterfall nestled enshrouded within a rainforest...
~the look of innocent wonder in my son's eyes...
~silent embrace of a lover's gaze...
~life...

...and a rockin' good snowball fight!!!....
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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What makes you horny, Baby?
Posted: 6/8/2007 3:54:05 PM
hahaha...what MAKES me horny!?...I'm a guy!...I don't NEED anything to make me horny!!!...




VVV...yeah...what he said!...VVV
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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June 3 - Grouse Grind #3
Posted: 6/2/2007 4:57:50 PM
I'll be cancelling out...be back in on this in a couple weeks...Enjoy yourselves!!!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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June 3 - Grouse Grind #3
Posted: 5/30/2007 4:38:16 PM
Well....plans have changed, so I will be there...Oh how I love to punish myself!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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MAY 27, Grouse Grind #2
Posted: 5/27/2007 1:39:10 PM
ooops!!!...I was about 15min late(stupid traffic!!) but...I continued on & fully abused my lungs!...felt GREAT!...now to eliminate those air gasping breaks!...see you in 2 weeks, going to Kelowna to see family next weekend...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Do men care about a women's career?
Posted: 5/26/2007 9:03:40 PM
Do I care about her career?...yes and no...If it makes her unhappy/ miserable then yes, but only because it can affect a relationship with her. Of course I would encourage her to explore other option as far as work/ career are concerned and offer any support or help she may require...If she is happy/ satisfied with work then no, I don't concern myself with what she does for a living. What she does for a living will never be a determining factor in whether or not I will date her.
(obviously illegal jobs are an entirely different matter~I choose not to be around someone on that path...)
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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MAY 27, Grouse Grind #2
Posted: 5/24/2007 4:53:06 PM
Suuure...why not...let's see if I can burst a lung!!(both?!?)
tis always good fun to abuse my body!!!...(of course its MORE fun if someone ELSE does it... )
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Chinese Astrology, how close do you match?
Posted: 5/22/2007 4:31:13 PM
YUP!...a dog...more specifically a metal-metal dog...and an aquarian to boot! yes the description is scary close...obviously there are a few traits that don't match up (ie: narrow-minded, dogmatic, judgemental, anxious) but otherwise...

Soooo, where's are those Tigers and Horses!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Olympic Protest (APC)
Posted: 5/18/2007 6:14:00 PM
There is no way this type of behaviour will sway people to their 'side'. They **** and whine about VANOC taking money away that could be used for affordable housing? What about all the money they are costing joe taxpayer in police man-hours & overtime for security/ investigations for their misguided protests and entirely inappropriate tactics......I could go on with this, but the APC is not worth wasting my time on...kudos to bluecollarguy101 for doing it the proper way!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Are you the jealous type?
Posted: 5/14/2007 5:42:28 PM
Jealous?!?...what's that?...the answer would be a definite NO...I have actually gotten had ex's dump on me for not displaying any signs of jealousy. Funny, I always thought trust was an IMPORTANT trait to have in a S.O. Maybe next time I should just feign it...but probably not...I am what I am

Besides...jealousy in relationships always seems to something of a poison.(or least that has been my experience!)
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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The things you miss most about being in a relationship...
Posted: 5/8/2007 6:13:26 PM
I miss......
~the companionship
~the intimacy
~giving a massage after she's had a tough day
~pillow fights
~the feeling of knowing she has chosen to be with me
~cuddling together to watch a movie at home
~falling asleep with her in my arms, waking in her's
~going for a long drive with her leaning on my shoulder
~going for hikes and bike rides together
~lazy sunday mornings
~spending the day in bed.........
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Where do YOU like to nap?
Posted: 5/4/2007 5:46:00 PM
whenever my eyes decide its time to close! whether I am sitting, laying down, crouched, driving , bath...whatever

gottagonapnow

 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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How do you feel about Child Support
Posted: 5/4/2007 5:29:24 PM
I have absolutely NO problem with paying child support, I helped create him I need to help support him, but it creates a bit of a catch 22 as the more I end up paying, the more difficult it is to actually do the travelling/ hotels required to actually SEE my son.
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Pick Up Lines
Posted: 5/4/2007 5:18:23 PM
1~If I could rewrite the alphabet, I would put U and I together.

2~If I could rewrite the alphabet, I would put you between f and ck.

3~Guy goes up to a girl, licks his finger, touches her on the shoulder, and then
touches himself (all this while she is watching him) and says:
How about you and I get out of these wet clothes?

4~Say, didn't we go to different schools together?

5~At the office copy machine:
"Reproducing, eh? Can I help?"

6~If I told you that you have a nice body, would you hold _IT_ against me?
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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kayaking group
Posted: 5/3/2007 4:38:06 PM
I can't contact ya either.... let me know the particulars when you get them...

 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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What's the first stat you look at?
Posted: 4/10/2007 5:50:36 PM
~their restrictions
~type of relationship being sought
~age- within 8 years either way
~body type- (why do people get offended by this? I work pretty damn hard to keep mine, why can't I hope for the same in a potential partner?)
~smoker- occasional ok, anything else...NO
~drugs- prefer not
~city
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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favourite halloween/horror movies
Posted: 4/5/2007 4:57:08 PM
Has to be the Saw trilogy...hack and slash with some clever traps and a bit of a positive message to boot...what more could ya want?
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Kumsheen - White Water Rafting - Thompson River - June 22-24 2007
Posted: 3/31/2007 1:28:10 PM
I am going have to sit this one out...gonna go see my son instead...hope y'all have a blast!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Having another birthday....
Posted: 3/27/2007 4:43:51 PM
Birthdays KICK ASS!!!
I'm damn proud of the fact I've survived 37years (especially considering some of the dumb ass stunts I've pulled)
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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A little list of getting to know you...newbies too.....
Posted: 3/24/2007 5:29:18 PM
1. FIRST INITIAL?........R
2. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE? ......Dad's friend
3. WHEN DID YOU LAST CRY?........cry?!!?....me? no reason to
4. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?..... Yes
5. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT? ....Turkey
6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU? Of course my horse....I like who I am..
8. DO YOU HAVE A JOURNAL? .....NO!!.....NEVER leave a paper trail!!!
9. DO YOU USE SARCASM A LOT? ....neeevvveeer
10. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS?..... no
11. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?....Hell Yeah!!....I'm an adrenaline junkie!!
13. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF?....no
14. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG? ....physically, personality more stubborn than strong
15. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM FLAVOR? ....if its all natural ingredients then vanilla....otherwise its mint chocolate
16. SHOE SIZE? .....9.5
17. RED OR PINK? .....red.....like Ferrari
18. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF?......shyness
19. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST? .........my Grandfather, he was like a father to me
20. PEPSI OR COKE?....Neither
21. WHAT COLOR PANTS AND SHOES ARE YOU WEARING? .....what?!...I'm supposed to be dressed for this?
22. WHAT IS THE LAST THING YOU ATE? mocha frappacino
23. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW? ..... Twisted Transistor~Korn
24 IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE? ....What the...???
25. FAVORITE SMELL? .....The scent of a woman(occasionally one passes by...don't know what they are wearing but WOW!!)
26.THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED WITH ON THE PHONE? my brother
28. DO YOU LIKE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOUR?.......humor?!...what is this thing you speak of?!
29. FAVORITE DRINK? .....flavored water
30. FAVORITE SPORT? ....to watch: Hockey...to play: toss up between beach volleyball and slo-pitch
31. HAIR COLOR? ...blond
32. EYE COLOR? .....Blue
33. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS? .......No
34. FAVORITE FOOD? ....ethnic
35. SCARY MOVIES OR HAPPY ENDING? ......Depends on my mood
36. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED?...300
37. WHAT COLOR UNDER GARMENTS ARE YOU WEARING?......again with the clothing!!
38. SUMMER OR WINTER ....Both
39. HUGS OR KISSES? ....Hugs
40. FAVORITE DESSERT?.......Tiramisu
41. WHO IS MOST LIKELY TO CALL YOU THIS MORNING?.......co-workers calling in sick
42. FAVORITE SEXUAL POSITION?.......me on bottom....doggy style
43. WHAT BOOKS ARE YOU READING? .....a couple of them by the Dalai Lama
44. WHAT'S ON YOUR MOUSE PAD? ....Marvin the Martian
46. FAVORITE SOUNDS? .....music, the rain, the ocean, children's laughter
47. ROLLING STONES OR BEATLES?..... neither
48. THE FURTHEST YOU'VE BEEN FROM HOME? ....New York
49. DO YOU HAVE A SPECIAL TALENT? ...nope...just a talentless hack...
50. WHEN AND WHERE WERE YOU BORN? ...Richmond...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Where should i go?
Posted: 3/24/2007 4:05:07 PM
with regards to finding the kind of job/ career you want, try workopolis or monster. Between them I'm sure you could find what you are looking for...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Tattoos
Posted: 3/19/2007 5:51:02 PM
just one, on the back of my right shoulder:
.....Celtic Cross with the Star of David in the center.....
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 135 (view)
 
Morbid..but what song is a must to your good-bye
Posted: 3/17/2007 2:08:03 PM
mine's gotta be:
~Good Riddance (time of your life)~Green Day
~Amazing Grace~Charlotte Church

and just for sh!ts and giggles:
~Tubthumping~Chumbawumba
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 208 (view)
 
ST. PATRICK'S DAY Bash March 17/07
Posted: 3/17/2007 11:34:59 AM
HAPPY ST. PATRICK'S DAY and HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!

May all you wish for be the least you recieve!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Women Making Initial Contact
Posted: 3/10/2007 12:15:33 PM
intimidated?!...hell no...I I have absolutely no problem with a woman making the first move. Bring on the the unsolicited e-mail!!!..... like it'll actually happen...haha!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Pirates 'n Wenches.. Sat, April 21st at Eclipse in PoCo
Posted: 3/2/2007 8:16:51 PM
HEY!!...I still have my pirate outfit from another event....ARRRR.....I gets to use it again!!!. sounds like this is gonna be a HOOT!!!

HNP....if ya wants ta be a PIRATE....then be's a PIRATE!!!

WHERE'S MY RUM!!!!!!!!!!!!.........WHY AM I ALWAYS OUT OF RUM!!!!!!!
.......oh wait!!!.....I keep drinkin it....damn!!!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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How dodgy are you??
Posted: 2/27/2007 8:49:22 PM
Dodgy
Alright geezer! Fancy yourself as a bit tasty? It may be against the law, but what they don't know won't hurt 'em eh? We know your heart's in the right place… but watch out or that place may be a 3 to 5 stretch in Pentonville with 'Mad' Frank, Harry the Horse and 'Wristy' Rich Richardson.

Based on your answers, we have calculated the maximum penalty for your crimes*:

Years in prison: 38 Potential fine: £9500


hmmmm......maybe I should be planning my escape to a non-extraditing country
gottagonowbye!!!!!!!!!!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
What kind of tree are you!!
Posted: 2/24/2007 1:03:16 PM
CEDAR TREE (the Confidence) - of rare beauty, knows how to adapt, likes luxury, of good health, not in the least shy, tends to look down on others, self-confident, determined, impatient, likes to impress others, many talents, industrious, healthy optimism, waiting for the one true love, able to make quick decisions.

rare beauty~???....uh....yeah oooookay
knows how to adapt~true
likes luxury~sort of a little bit, but not stuck on it
of good health~most of the time
not in the least shy~????....dead wrong here...well....until I feel comfortable with someone
tends to look down on others~...WTF...definitely wrong
self confident~sometimes I am...other times....not so much
determined~...ie stubborn?....yeah, can be
likes to impress others~...unfortunately tends to be true
many talents~...yup....really good at hiding them too!!
industrious~...yup...
healthy optimism~...mostly....unless I am stuck around very negative people
waiting for the one true love~????yes but....does this even exist??
able to make quick decisions~...sometimes yes...sometimes not so much...
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
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Abbotsford Valentines Dance & Party! Feb 17 - 7:00pm
Posted: 2/15/2007 8:27:23 PM
Finally!!!......a BIIIIIIIIG BASH, close to home even!! Looks like it gonna be a blast!
 zenhaven
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Red & White Valentines Party~Sat, Feb 17th in PoCo!!
Posted: 2/15/2007 8:23:53 PM
hmmmm.....decisions...I think I'm gonna stick a bit closer to home this weekend and hit the Abby get together.....catch ya'll at the birthday bash!!!!....I'll be there for SURE!!
 
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