let me tell ya they all want small. I've been bigger , having my kids and now super fit. very very different treatment.
I must be an anomaly. I vastly prefer a larger, more rubenesque woman with delicious curves and lots of padding. They feel better to snuggle up to, and they are usually happier because they aren't starving themselves in order to fulfill some gay misogynistic fashionista's vision of what an attractive woman should look like, which is basically a twelve year-old boy with a sex-change operation.
I'm all for getting healthy, but trying to look like Barbie when your natural metabolism is not geared in that direction is totally unnecessary IMO.