|Have you ever loved someone enough to let them go?|
Posted: 2/29/2012 9:30:42 PM
|Yes, I met an amazing man on another date site. It all started rather precociously, as neither of us were very sure about the other. However, we had many, many a stimulating conversation on an array of topics. In each, we had our own opinions which caused the other to grow. We were both still looking, if you will. Then, I realized just how special he was but he'd found someone that he really, really likes. |
I care very deeply for this man. He's the first man to ever treat me with true respect and unadulterated candor. Yet, I never spent a minute nervous or intimidated around him. Mind you, I was married for 12 years and never felt the love this man gave to me.
I want the very BEST for him... am I good enough for him? Absolutely. However, he too must believe the same about me, without it, it would lead us nowhere.
I did this same thing a couple times prior to my being married; however, I didn't know then what I know regarding the many and varied dynamics of love. This man is the real deal; deep, sensitive, intelligent, and unselfish.