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 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 22 (view)
 
He had 5 kids
Posted: 2/25/2013 10:04:26 PM
Hi Dave I hope you know you asked me why I dated him if he had 5 kids after you just said you had the same issue with a woman who had 4 kids and you dated her anyway
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 18 (view)
 
He had 5 kids
Posted: 2/23/2013 9:23:39 PM
He spent the majority of the date talking about his bills and how his kids like all these activities that he can't afford to take them to
Then after the date he was getting very personal, saying he thought our kids would get along together, getting mad for not wishing him a happy Valentines day
yes he was definitely looking for mommy#2
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 17 (view)
 
He had 5 kids
Posted: 2/23/2013 9:20:01 PM
surprisingly same mom and no she doesn't support them
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Anyone else found this to be a common issue...?
Posted: 2/23/2013 1:25:27 AM
omgosh I feel exactly the same way - like are you really that obsessed with yourself?!
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 152 (view)
 
feminine man
Posted: 2/23/2013 1:23:35 AM
if you're not attracted you're not attracted but I have dated more than one caring - maybe you could call them sensitive people, I like nice guys but it sounds like from what you're describing you're not exactly liking this style
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 143 (view)
 
Common 'run for the hills' lines you hear
Posted: 2/23/2013 1:21:40 AM
"I make a lot of money/have an expensive car/big house/travel all the time/"
Bragging about resources is always always always a bad sign
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Dr Phil show
Posted: 2/23/2013 1:16:47 AM
sounds weird but does it ever hurt your feelings to get a scammer - I feel like wow do I look like I'll fall for anything?
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Sociopaths amongst us !
Posted: 2/23/2013 1:03:52 AM
lol on 'sociopaths being sent to me'
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Is this manipulative?
Posted: 2/23/2013 1:02:11 AM
I don't think you're manipulative he sounds confused and is mad you moved on and didn't settle for him acting like a child
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 99 (view)
 
LOW INCOME EARNERS
Posted: 2/23/2013 1:00:50 AM
I've found men can be just as picky about a woman's income as men are. In fact it is usually the men to bring up the issue of money. They brag about their jobs, what they own, and yet they are the first to accuse of gold-digging. I think they're the ones more obsessed with money
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 114 (view)
 
How many men are lying about their HEIGHT??
Posted: 2/23/2013 12:08:56 AM
men lie about their height and women their age and weight
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 349 (view)
 
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 2/23/2013 12:07:37 AM
wow I've never heard of this
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Why do we fall for the guy/girl who hurts us?
Posted: 2/23/2013 12:02:18 AM
I still have the same problem sometimes even at my age and even though sometimes I know what they're doing, it does take me a little longer than I should to snap out of it and realize I'm being manipulated. Looking back I think it may be because I had a rough childhood, my dad wasn't around, and being treated mean to me was better than being ignored - I had a strict upbringing and equated meanness with love. Then I met a man who really treated me well and I found out it was ok for me to be myself and he would still love me and treat me well. Try a nice guy and you will be surprised at how much happier you will be
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Never had sex and very scared of it - please suggest
Posted: 2/22/2013 11:50:59 PM
some ppl are not wired like that, it's ok it's just your personality
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 146 (view)
 
Single Dad w/Special Needs Child - Down Syndrome
Posted: 2/22/2013 11:45:50 PM
It's going to be hard but honestly there are a lot of women out there who would love to date a great dad like you
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 107 (view)
 
How do I tell a friend I cant go with her to kill another baby?
Posted: 2/22/2013 11:44:24 PM
you're in way too deep don't take her to any more abortions
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Single Mothers
Posted: 2/22/2013 11:43:28 PM
men say the exact same thing all the time
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Very distraught here
Posted: 2/22/2013 11:41:25 PM
totally agree hang in there
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 1 (view)
 
He had 5 kids
Posted: 2/22/2013 11:33:55 PM
I went on a date with him but honestly I came away feeling like I would be raising and supporting his 5 kids and he's a single dad - is that shallow of me? Should I be honest about why I'm not responding to his texts?
 braveheartlion
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 3 (view)
 
I am not sure about marriage or kids
Posted: 7/5/2011 9:16:29 PM
you're still pretty young. And the fact that you question the fact of whether or not you''ll be a good parent and /or husband is a really good sign. You won't go into it blindly or assume that you'll be the perfect parent, there's always something to learn. When it comes to actual marriage, I guess it depends on what you believe in. Maybe you'll do the domestic partnership thing, maybe you're scared of the idea of a big wedding and would rather go to Vegas or the Justice of Peace and get it done quickly. Whatever your choice, I'm sure you'll find a woman who shares your views. Of course I think most women would rather have a ring, but there are some who will do without
 
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