Notice: Forums will be shutdown by June 2019

To focus on better serving our members, we've decided to shut down the POF forums.

While regular posting is now disabled, you can continue to view all threads until the end of June 2019. Event Hosts can still create and promote events while we work on a new and improved event creation service for you.

Thank you!

          

Show ALL Forums
Posted In Forum:

Home   login   MyForums  
 
 Author Thread: What will she think to NO for Sex
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What will she think to NO for Sex
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:01:00 PM
Was at the bar the other night and met someone quite interesting. Bottom line she wanted to get it on on the first date and I said No. I really wanted to respect her and did not want to blow it. Either way I am afraid I made a bad choice. What will she think of me.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Will Love Find Me
Posted: 9/22/2009 9:01:27 PM
I hope I will find love again. Why is it so hard to run into that special someone. Tell me why its not like the movie Sleepless in Seattle and the MAGIC just happen. Where is a good place to meet that special one.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 166 (view)
 
Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 4/16/2008 8:11:01 PM
Everyday of my life. I can only hope to find the MAGIC.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
empowered women and casual sex...
Posted: 4/13/2008 8:02:28 PM
Women should be empowered. But as for casual sex - guess I am still old fashion and believe there should be MAGIC between 2 people. Hate the whole casual thing and call you later and it never comes. Whats wrong with giving from the heart.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 213 (view)
 
why do men say they love you?
Posted: 1/7/2008 7:48:29 AM
Wow jaded is the word - do I believe in love at first sight and can I really fall in love. Who ever said there is a master timeline we need to follow. I hope to fall in love again and I truely hope it hits me like a speeding train. I want her to steal my heart and and make it ache. If I do say I love you it inside my head and the words come from my lips the really mean something. And NO us men do not always look to score and least not by saying I love you - those words are kept for the special someone.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Does she still want a man to open her car door.
Posted: 5/18/2007 6:15:22 AM
Its not that we think about it. I just do it - it feels nature like you would have to go out of your way not too. Maybe I was programmed as a boy growing up.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Does Anyone Remember?
Posted: 4/5/2007 8:54:51 PM
Remember the Beattles and going to the submarine races. How about turning out the lights and playing spin the bottle. Innocence ya right
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
bi- focals
Posted: 4/5/2007 8:52:47 PM
hate to admit it - need them also. wait a minute where did that keyboard go. the monitor the mouse it use to be on this damn desk.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Men who arrive for the 1st date with a rose.....do women like it?
Posted: 3/30/2007 2:24:00 PM
Love to show up with a rose - Love yellow for some reason. Holding her hand and looking into her eyes can be breathe taking. A rose / her eyes / a smile it all seems so magical.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Women in short skirts and heels
Posted: 3/10/2007 7:41:25 PM
Sorry I did not even think a lady showing some leg is trampy. Just always though legs are one hell of a sexy look on any lady. I just get tired of ladies who always wear jeans. Besides isn't the first impression everlasting
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Women in short skirts and heels
Posted: 3/10/2007 1:00:19 PM
Just wondered why more women do not wear such sexy clothes. There is something to be said for a lady who knows how to dress. As a man I just get tired of women in jeans all the time. How do you ladies feel about being dressed for a first date
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Compliments
Posted: 3/10/2007 12:55:39 PM
Do nothing and just smile. We can't help it its just like a ray of sunshine. Except in this case you are lighting up our hearts
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Loves the romantic scenes in the movies
Posted: 3/10/2007 12:53:44 PM
When I watch a good movie and the romatic parts come on screen. The tears just seem to flow. Does a lady think any less of a man who gets emotional at the at the romantic parts. Just like in the movie the notebook. It broke my heart.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 83 (view)
 
WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY????????
Posted: 3/8/2007 8:28:12 PM
I had the same dream and when I fell out of bed and hit the floor. Shit I woke up. Yes Yes Yes it was only a dream. Back to chasing 70 year olds in wheel chairs.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Does she still want a man to open her car door.
Posted: 3/8/2007 8:22:39 PM
Am I considered old fashioned if I still help a lady put on her coat or open the door for her. Opening a car door is that a sign of respect or just being an old bugger. How about pouring her glass of wine first. To be honest it would not feel right not doing all these little things.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Difference between hot and cute??
Posted: 3/7/2007 7:36:32 PM
Hot / cute / eye candy / why can't a woman just look inside us at how we really are put together. What happened to personality, charm, warmth, love
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/7/2007 7:14:51 PM
Instant turn on - When you look into her eyes and all you see is magic
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
what would you do
Posted: 3/5/2007 7:38:28 PM
Sounds like he is in a win win situation. Be careful sounds like he is just leading you on. Sorry old school here - 1 man - 1 woman.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Women who won't commit
Posted: 3/5/2007 7:20:25 PM
Hate to say but I have not been lucky enough to run into that situation. Guess I am still looking for the one. If one is to commit should it not be the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 147 (view)
 
Does independance intimidate most men?
Posted: 3/5/2007 7:16:17 PM
Its great to see a woman who's independent. A lady who is firm on commitment should be applauded
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Is kissing more or less important to you in a relationship as you get older?
Posted: 3/2/2007 8:28:06 PM
One kiss - the things dreams are made of. Just wishing for that one kiss. Love to kiss / love to French / love to nibble. It all seems so right. Nothing nicer than a woman in your arms gazing into your eyes and just melting your heart.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
older gentleman - longer hair
Posted: 3/2/2007 8:24:38 PM
Had long hair in the 70's but guess what time to move on. Just does not seem to conform to what society expects now. Do women think long hair is sexy.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
giving oral- wasting my time?
Posted: 3/1/2007 9:02:12 PM
I was flipping through the forums and saw this one. I have to agree with the ladies. If you have to ask you are doing something wrong. Its ok to be oral. but I would rather see a lady really have a great time then just be a muff diver. Bottom line its the whole experiance which will either make it or break it. Besides I think a woman wants a man to be true to her heart - just take the time and really really appreciate her.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Weird but true
Posted: 3/1/2007 8:21:17 PM
I sure know the feeling as well. Just seems like I am looking more often than not. Must be why I seem to always be at home watching romantic movies and daydreaming.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Demanding oral sex
Posted: 3/1/2007 8:18:46 PM
He's way over the edge. Making love should be enjoyable. Oral sex should be fun also - but it needs to be good for both. I always say its better to give then recieve. Love a partner who is willing to enjoy being with a man who likes to take the time to please.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Are men the true romantics?
Posted: 2/21/2007 8:55:50 PM
The ladies have to be kidding in this thread. Men are 100% sincere and romantic. God just give us guys a chance. Nothing better that soft music candles / bottle of wine and nibbling on the special ladies neck.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 283 (view)
 
Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships?
Posted: 2/21/2007 8:51:42 PM
Hell give me a woman with brains any day. Nothing more sexy whan a lady with wit. The smarter she is the more I feel attracted.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 257 (view)
 
Do women ever wear garters and stockings anymore?
Posted: 2/21/2007 8:32:40 PM
Wow - I truely think I am falling in love all over again. All these garters and stockings . Seems to me I want to take all these ladies home with me.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Over 50-Where do you go when you are lonely?
Posted: 2/20/2007 8:10:09 PM
Ok you will probably lol at me but here goes nothing. Light a fire turn on a good movie like Sleepless in Seattle and and just dream of it being me. Hoping that one day there will be that SPECIAL MAGIC once again. If not for the dreams not sure if life would be an adventure.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY????????
Posted: 2/20/2007 8:04:59 PM
The real problem is what does the lady consider older. She is 25 and the guy is 30 - is he older. I am still searching my true feelings to see if I am a gentleman.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 68 (view)
 
WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY????????
Posted: 2/20/2007 8:04:53 PM
The real problem is what does the lady consider older. She is 25 and the guy is 30 - is he older. I am still searching my true feelings to see if I am a gentleman.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/20/2007 7:58:19 PM
Bottom line like all guys here we are all pigs at heart. I say bring it on and let the party begin.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
sex on the first date
Posted: 1/31/2007 4:32:32 PM
Im torn on this. I guess I am like most guys just a hound dog at heart. But we want to show respect and look for that SPECIAL connection. Most 1st dates I never try and get too emotionally attached. Deep down inside we get that crushed feeling when it just seems to fizzle. Why complicate things too early. Besides the 1st time with a new mate should be special for if it turns out to be the one - and you never know. It will live in your heart forever.
 dandydan45
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 224 (view)
 
Do women ever wear garters and stockings anymore?
Posted: 1/9/2007 3:40:20 PM
Nothing sexyier then a woman in stocking's I say. Sure makes my heart pound. As then say its the hunt that sure counts. Ladies do all us men a favour and throw on the heels to with the silk
 
Show ALL Forums