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 Author Thread: Of which astrological sign are most divorced people?
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 187 (view)
 
Of which astrological sign are most divorced people?
Posted: 6/29/2013 3:19:35 PM
I think I met a unicorn once, I think it was quite the most wonderful thing
to behold her under the moon and stars and
she talked to me of signs and wonders in the heavens, and of dreams and fresh coffee
and of imaginings and dragons who danced on the seashore
and many things that I could do. She makes the stars.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 183 (view)
 
Of which astrological sign are most divorced people?
Posted: 6/29/2013 10:10:53 AM
Seems to me that all divorced people have star (astrological) signs. All non divorced people have star signs. Ambiguity in astrology is the norm and (unfortunately) everyone will fit one star sign or another. All that has to be done is stretch the imagination a little and into the box one jumps. What total twaddle.
Mathematic statistics are manipulated into what ever is required for the purpose. Astrology just fits with a juvenile appreciation for a lack of personal responsibility for ones choices.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 33 (view)
 
[H]Women who are addicts/traumatic pasts are attracted to me..
Posted: 6/29/2013 9:38:28 AM
^^^^^good response, although I am of the opinion that this op is not being very honest.
The fundamental laws of attraction stand true until a person decides to take advantage of another then it is called manipulation. Women with issues are attracted to you. Perhaps it really is a matter of you having some different insights into some womens' weaknesses and exploiting them. You are the common denominator. Consider well that you do great harm and the universe may well kick your rear end in unexpected ways.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 50 (view)
 
stay or not to stay?
Posted: 6/29/2013 9:25:25 AM
There is no empirical evidence of depression...there is neither a diagnosis of depression nor any other diagnosis, except by a few armchair analysists who see monsters under the bed and then feed those monsters.
You are in counselling as is she, it would appear...good choice. Having children is a serious human responsibility and sometimes the thought of such responsibility is not very pretty. You chose this woman as your mate and all that that entails. (She conceivably sees such responsibilities as being beyond her current state of growth and development). Honour that. You ( I assume) did share some promises to one another on the day you married...honour those promises. No matter your romantic ideals regarding children or not, you chose to be with her through sickness and disaster, good times and bad.
You chose...you gave your word, now you want changes. There can be no changes to your word without consequence. Is what is occurring now a consequence of change? You have not been freed from you promise to honour her, with the many notions that this entails. You chose to be with her...now forget the idea of 'having children'. Trying to encourage her to do something she is opposed to will only force a greater estrangement and surely this is not what you want.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Finding love when your older, is it possible? Really?
Posted: 6/28/2013 6:52:59 PM
By very definition it is not possible to "fall in love" . Unless, of course, one is in the process of falling off a cliff. Jumping off a cliff to certain destruction is certainly a choice, falling may not be quite such a choice as jumping, but the issue is really one of consequences of choice.
One does not fall in love.
One chooses as an adult, to elect (choose) to be cognitively and physically and emotionally invested in another person. Love as an adult is a cognitive and behavioural choice. Love is not a lost book to be picked up and discovered and reread at a later stage. It is not a thing to be found like an old sock that the dryer finally coughed up all tattered and torn. Love, whether it is the Agape of some or the Eros of others is a choice from the available options. If you do not make a choice for love then you muddle along through life asking questions about whether it is possible to find love as a mature adult. Quite silly sort of muddle really.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Disability and Dating
Posted: 6/21/2013 7:14:32 PM
It seems to me that just about everybody has a disability of one sort or another....yours is in that category...one sort or another. Fibromyalgia...Leprosy...ADD...Body Dysmorphic Disorder...Small nose...Big feet....
(Primarily...maybe..) it seems that the idea in dating is to be seen to be perfect, and then find someone who can accept that perfection...imperfect though they may be. So you are imperfect...shout it from the rooftops...don't hide behind it. No (normal) person wishes to visit disability upon themselves...it is simply a matter of genetics or accidents...whatever the cause of the disability is not particularly important. If a person does not wish to date you because of your disability...big deal...their loss....
One small thing to consider though...If you do not tell the truth up front, you may very well be considered a liar at best and a manipulator at worst.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Why did you pick the name you did?
Posted: 6/9/2013 9:03:44 AM
Dobbie is an old horse name...it is also the name of a free elf. Awesome
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Thinking of getting a hair transplant, thoughts?
Posted: 6/9/2013 7:41:17 AM
I stand in the excluded queue zone . This idea of being whipped within an inch of one's increasingly hairless life, really is not very appealing (but nontheless a brilliant juxtaposition of intellectual dexterity)...however the tongue lashing could be most promising.
To infer that the op is revolting is perhaps a little on the harsh side. You make the poor boy out to be very Machiavellian, whereas he is just confused about his place in the world being hairless, which is not his fault after all, just ask his genes.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
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Dealing with Adult AD/HD....
Posted: 6/9/2013 7:02:11 AM
ADD with or without hyperactivity has become the catch phrase of the American medical industry...interestingly ADD does not have the same number of adherents overseas, but with a little bit of tweaking I am sure that the statistics could be well manipulated.
There are behavioural traits associated with a diagnosis of ADD but that does not mean that one has ADD...it means that there are traits of a statistical disorder, however if there are traits let us do the intelligent money making thing and assume. If one assumes that ADD is the flavour of the day, then ignorant or stupid behaviour can be easily excused as being part of the disease...ergo...no responsibilty... Do what you want and behave in any manner you want then when you have perfected your malfunction go see the doctor or seek some of the professional genius' opinions on pof...get ritalinised or methylphenadated..hello ...and zipadee do dah zippity day all your problems belong to someone else.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Thinking of getting a hair transplant, thoughts?
Posted: 6/9/2013 6:42:12 AM
Hey Dan... here on pof there are so many geniuses on so many subjects in so many disguises that their collective knowledge would probably not fill the end of one folicle....so much knowledge so little use...
Perhaps the best thing would be to do what YOU really want...
These many geniuses want to fill your head with lots of manure, (I know someone with a barn, and very odd chickens, who would happily give you some) actually there are a lot of really intelligent people offering their prejudices for attention, fertilization is possibly the correct construct.
I am not sure whether you actually intended for this little question to be the subject of a psychological analysis, perhaps I could add mine...on second thought maybe not...
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Looking for mature insight
Posted: 6/6/2013 5:02:46 PM
Perhaps the ladies of your age all see you as a drip and you know it. Perhaps you really are a drip. All of the more mature ladies just want to turn off any drip. It is a strange phenomenon, really, how women, in a general sense, actually hate drips.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 59 (view)
 
No strings with a twist.
Posted: 6/6/2013 4:37:17 PM
Her emotional state....and you come on to Pof to seek advice about her response to reading obscure and somewhat odd literature...she was a porn star...she did that and she did this....look at me, see me, I am screwing a ex porn star...And you are concerned about her emotional state???
She possibly has one that is classified in the latest DSM, with that being said you probably do too. I suppose that she reads her literature to demonstrate her complete and utter disregard for what is actually occurring in the physical moment...So she may well be telling you that you are just a naff, not even a good naff, just a naff and she doesn't give a naff about you. It is really like someone eating a big mac while being naffed. Such an endearing picture.
Naff is a really good, well...interesting word.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 46 (view)
 
(Long) Help Me Understand Her: Why?
Posted: 6/4/2013 6:28:53 AM
What a dramatic little novella. Time for the whoop de do to go whoop de don't.
This really is the stuff of Mills and Boon dribble.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 78 (view)
 
My Boyfriend's Dog
Posted: 6/3/2013 6:07:54 AM
What a load of tripe this thread is. Pitiable... absolutely bloody pathetic. OP, I can only assume that it is still going on simply because you haven't anything better to do than cry boo hoo poor me. So many serious answers...choose one...accept any of them...then do something instead of demonstrating your contemptible inadequacies. At your current rate of action your butt will hang low with barnacles. Shoot the boyfriend, on second thoughts don't bother he probably wouldn't give a damn. The dog does not like you either...
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Do you believe friends are more important than lovers?
Posted: 5/31/2013 10:51:06 AM
If your lover is not your best friend then something is amiss. That friendship may take a long time to form...That love may take a long time to recognise...but together, if they are really willing, there is power in their togetherness.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Sarcastic Humor
Posted: 5/30/2013 7:26:41 AM
In the ear of the beholder...too true.
I do wonder if in fact sarcasm is a form of 'higher' wit...Sarcasm is often the abode of people of an intellectual bent who may use sarcasm as irony or even ambivalence and not always in a negative or demeaning manner as appears to be the generally accepted meaning. Sarcasm often incorporates some considerable sophistication yet tends to avoid the blatancy of lying. Of course there is always the irony of ironic sarcasm.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Acceptable behaviour or not ?
Posted: 5/28/2013 8:52:15 AM
Minor Surgery? Is this a case of Bobbitation? Did she bite off more than she could chew? Even a semi could drive through the gaps in this story. Why did you even bother writing this tripe?
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 64 (view)
 
So he/she USED to be Gay/Lesbian! Would you still date them?
Posted: 5/12/2013 5:48:48 AM
So many people hold back some truths going into a relationship...no matter the relational context..ie..homosexual...hetrosexual....neuter...Some truths are better left far in the past. Every one screams about deal breakers...smoking marijuwippi...drinking...smoking....driving to fast...picking noses...using right hand instead of left when whiping your butt...
Let me see if I understand this correctly....
Boy meets girl...girl meets boy...boy and girl like each other...they like each other so much that they spend a lot of time together...more time together than many on this site....then comes the ceremony of rings.....boy tells girl about an unpleasant aspect of his past....before he even met her.....girl is angry that said truth has not been addressed before...girl finds her perfect identity shattered and runs back to mommy....forget the ring...not worth much.
They...ie..them...they were working on developing a relationship where they each saw the potential of the other...ten months of stress, trial, heartache, joy, affection, intimacy...etc..and so many folks would be happy to have a relationship for a shorter while even if only so that the loneliness would go away, there would be someone to share the planet with, there would be dreams to dream and walks to walk..
I accept that there are 'deal breakers' but past history does not have to be one of them...not all of history anyway...there is a place that we have all come from and when that place is put away, it should remain there. I don't care if you used to wear purple bloomers and had a fetish for wearing them...
I actually find this a sad little yarn and even more so because many of the responses demonstrate incredible bigotry, judgement and an unwillingness to come to terms with ones own reality. Every body tells tales, every one wants to be loved, every one ...
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 36 (view)
 
moving in after 3 days...can it really succeed?
Posted: 5/11/2013 6:45:27 AM
You go to a bar...meet a woman...or man...you kiss...you cuddle...you end up totally enjoying each others' bodies. You have shared more than just the body. You have touched spirits. Whether or not you agree with this is completely immaterial to me. The simple reality is that touching of the spirits/souls is a sacredness that cannot be undone.
OP I wonder if your friend is not acting out of a slightly different motivation. Perhaps you are misunderstanding both context and concept.
It is not so long ago that mail order brides were the status quo...well almost...for lonely men in far away places and there were no psych. profiles or photographs to base any naive perceptions on. Folks met...they learned to love one another, and yes, many fell by the wayside...but many did not.
You state that he was a troll...where did this knowledge come from? What is the truth here? Is your friend so faithful and trusting in you that she would confide all of these details with you and for you to hold that knowledge in trust? Then you broadcast your concerns to all and sundry, possibly where she can see your postings; how misplaced her trust was.Your friendship and support is far more important than your having little guilt trips and anxieties. Tell you friend about your concerns. then get out of the way.. If it falls by the wayside....be there to make the coffee and hand over the tissues.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Any advice would be appreciated...
Posted: 5/9/2013 5:52:21 AM
It would appear that you are a first class twit , and know it. The lady in question is a second class twit, and you know it, and the father of these children is a third class twit and you know it. And the stability and welfare of the children is sacrificed on the altar of your collective knowledge. All three of you should bloody well lobotomised.
You asked for advice....consider collective lototomisation, carefully.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Had my first POF date last week. What happens now?
Posted: 5/8/2013 5:52:34 AM
Don't give up. Sometimes, guys being guys, we just don't get it.
If you are really interested in this guy chase him down with a passion...if he stays to far away...shoot him in the butt.. that slows men down considerably, and beat him soundly for being such a bonzo. If he disappears over the horizon...well...it was good exercise.
Of course you could always go and visit the witch...cast the spell...
Just keep the dream alive.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Where are all of the travelers!?
Posted: 5/6/2013 8:48:36 AM
Where are all the travellers?
They are somewhere else...gone picking apples in England, grapes in France, Kiwifruit in New Zealand. Where are all the tourists? Plenty of them sitting in coffee shops. Just looking rather than experiencing a new modality.
Travelling is an adventure, a walk into and through different lives, that have to be experienced. Tourists don't experience a new culture they just take their balls and chains from point to point. Oh hell.
If you are going to go somewhere, then give it everything that you have... don't just sit passively, picking your nose.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 26 (view)
 
..He's 59...but doesn't act like it
Posted: 5/6/2013 6:38:48 AM
This thread is a load of tripe...no offence to any tripe eaters.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Arm candy
Posted: 5/5/2013 6:33:45 AM
Arm Candy and she might just shoot your thingies off.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 56 (view)
 
My History on sex (getting laid)
Posted: 5/5/2013 6:30:15 AM
Casual sex ...a contradiction in terms.
What strange bedfellows loneliness and orgasms make.
You came a long way in recognising that this was a situation that led only to a loss of self value, for both of you. Well done.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Help from Ex wife
Posted: 5/5/2013 6:18:50 AM
Wretched creature. You have not bothered to read anything that has been offered.
Under the mountains and far away there is a rock and on that rock are magical words that are especially written for you....crawl under me slug...crawl under me.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 31 (view)
 
going on 10 months, should I love her or leave her?
Posted: 5/5/2013 6:07:21 AM
At first I was confused...What the heck is the 'L bomb'? Then I found out...in your case anyway. You really are chicken shite...afraid to love and afraid to be loved...so afraid that you couldn't even write the word...the 'L word'.
So to appease your miserable little self you choose cowardice as your primary tool of manipulative conviction. Oh ...I mentioned tool, keep it where it belongs. Tell the girl the truth and stop being a plick...sorry about the spelling mistake,not.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 39 (view)
 
why do guys keep u hanging on instead of ending it?
Posted: 5/2/2013 7:08:37 AM
You wanted him...
he wanted you...
You bedded him...
he bedded you...
He did like you...
you did like him...
For a brief moment the universe stood still...
he didn't look up...
you didn't look up...the universe continued...
stop..look...listen
Learn
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Friendship question which may shed light on my love life
Posted: 5/2/2013 6:46:35 AM
Rude and sarcastic...Really?
Your post is is neither likeable nor unlikeable. You display your angst to all and sundry and their underwear and then you want your "I" stroked. Well...stroke ...stroke...
Oh shiiiiii
here I go again..poof.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Friendship question which may shed light on my love life
Posted: 5/2/2013 6:32:11 AM
Beaches are wonderful places.....places to build sandcastles...and for watching the tides wash them away. Nothing wrong with building sand castles but the tides need to be respected and the "I" (the builder) needs to open her eyes to something other than 'happily ever after'.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Friendship question which may shed light on my love life
Posted: 5/2/2013 6:17:35 AM
Well, it is not very often that I feel compelled to totally agree with a posted response, to a neurotic ode to angst such as the OP is positing, but Mowtown_cowgirl you are on the ball.
OP, when you sit on your intellectual ar@#, (did you spot the deliberate spelling there)and place people on an altar they have a tendency to fall off in the breeze, or maybe that could be said differently, they go "poof".
Maybe you are not a very nice person, maybe you should be like them and go 'poof', but then there would be no one to blame.
Silly idea anyway.
Perhaps the world really is against you.
Oh, here I go ....poof.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 34 (view)
 
I'm having a hard time.
Posted: 4/15/2013 9:45:29 AM
Zakkyrie
There is nothing wrong with you, or there is, and your photographs and profile are either good or not so good. And you're having a hard time finding a woman who can see through all of the egocentric bumph and hey presto there you are. Well...I have news for you...Women may be as dense as men... but when the one sees the 'you' they will wonder why they did not snap you up like a new mascara. New mascara though tends to run as well as old mascara. There is a lady looking desperately for you and she will play with you, and talk with you and learn to love you...she may even steal your chocolate and not share it with you...she just does not know yet that you're there...stay strong.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 45 (view)
 
My guy is showing as being logged on, but he says he hasn't
Posted: 4/15/2013 8:56:08 AM
OP
This is just so exciting, Oh whoop-de-bloody do...
Has it not yet occurred to you that your hypocrisy is just as evident as his. Your double standard, and your seeking affirmation for your insecurities is frankly, my dear, nauseating.
No committment...no engagement ring...no wedding ring...no suffering.
Commit yourself or get off the potty.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 51 (view)
 
PTSD
Posted: 4/15/2013 8:04:24 AM
OP
I notice that you have not decided to respond to many of the posts which have been offered. Nor for that matter have you indicated your willingness to get to the truth of the matter. You have said that he was in the army, but offer no information regarding the Army therapy programs, which is taking serious account of the PTSD construct. I have come to the conclusion that some one gave you a 'maybe' diagnosis of his condition, without any concrete evidence and you have set out to garner attention.
Not everyone has PTSD, although, to read some of the trash on the forums, it is endemic.
Now where can I get an innoculation.
 Dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 50 (view)
 
PTSD
Posted: 4/14/2013 10:25:32 AM
PTSD has become something of a catch all diagnosis for almost anything...getting your knickers in a twist ...being looked at sideways by the cat...getting a zit on prom night...watching to many horror movies...many cases can be simply defined as self indulgence...So and so has PTSD so I guess that I can have PTSD too...share it around.
Before there was a diagnostic of PTSD there was the construct of war neurosis, cowardice, shell shock...I am not in any manner denigrating the people who have suffered terrible psychic or physical harm at the hands of another and thus have to go through the horrors of reliving the event , the avoidance... the therapy...etc. However, the diagnosis so freely given by self help books and well meaning but misinformed friends is in many instances decidedly unhealthy.
Diagnosis and therapy are generally not predicated upon misinformation and there is a very real difference between PTSD and the "normal" neurotic behaviour of 21st century. Perhaps, Op, you should revist how PTSD is defined in DSM IV TR and then actually study the interpretations of that. To simply scan a diagnostic and then fit that to a situation is base ignorance.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Do genetics matter in a mate?
Posted: 4/11/2013 10:58:46 AM
Read, Brave New World. Learn.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 34 (view)
 
aaaarrrrgggghhhh!
Posted: 4/11/2013 10:56:52 AM
Perhaps you are just a really mercenary and superficial pratt. You are separated...you don't want a divorce because "its complicated"...kids ...business...insurance....any pathetic excuse will do. And you want to form relationships based on lies. The very notion of using people for such shallow and self seeking gratification would tend to suggest that you deserve yourself and yourself only...
Go find the rock you climbed out from under and stay there...do not pass GO, do not collect $200.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 7 (view)
 
please help :(
Posted: 4/8/2013 6:23:32 AM
Sadly your young man has decided to return to the world of make believe. You could start looking for a pet rock...and hit him with it. I promise you that the rock will feel nothing...you, on the other hand may feel pretty good.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Not attracted physically
Posted: 4/7/2013 6:50:20 AM
It really is time to find that rock you climbed out from under. Leave the girl alone, she deserves better than some controlling twit who wants to remould her into a Barbie doll. Hey now there is an idea...go to Walmart..Barbies are sold there. Or...maybe petsmart....whoops...pets deserve better...
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 39 (view)
 
When to hide or delete a profile
Posted: 4/6/2013 8:05:34 AM
So many people so many ideas so many opinions, so here is one more.
Exclusivity does not indicate commitment. Commitment indicates commitment. Exclusivity implies keeping the back door open in case it does not work out. Commitment jealously guards itself, in a good way. Then begins the hard work and the joy of learning about someone else.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
You Only Love Once ???
Posted: 4/6/2013 7:28:26 AM
If one chooses to sit in misery then perhaps misery is where one enjoys sitting.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
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You Only Love Once ???
Posted: 4/6/2013 6:54:21 AM
"Love" is a really immense concept not easily folded into a box. So many variables..so I shall offer my few cents worth. I really believe that 'love' is a choice.
One chooses to like some attributes of another person and dislike others, and I am unconvinced that love is a genetic encoding, but learning that it is opens up a plethora of possibilities.
Spiritual affinity however is another matter.
A friend once explained to me that as he believed in 'reincarnation' his explanation was simple. In another dimension of time and space he was powerfully ( careful word) attached to a mate. Then change came, and he passed on. So he spent many years examining the idea that this life, in this time ,was an opportunity to seek out his former mate and continue the circle with all of its grimness and its beauties. It was his choice to believe in a love that transcended time and space. A very admirable choice. I do not entirely subscribe but it is as plausible as any other. It grants great romance and reason to aspire further.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 180 (view)
 
I busted my boyfriend in a lie.
Posted: 4/6/2013 6:22:54 AM
You deserve each other. No I want to change the word "deserve" to merit. Yes you merit one another. Games players. Destructive.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Criticism
Posted: 4/6/2013 6:18:47 AM
Sometimes I just stand amazed at people's ability and willfulness to solicit affirmations based on utter balderdash. I think that DSM IV TR probably has a diagnostic for this.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Not attracted physically
Posted: 4/6/2013 6:10:22 AM
This is all a load of whatever goes in crocks. I know. You are a brick...perhaps she is a brick ...go forth...multiply...have lots of little bricks...together. Umm no, on second thought. More bricks are really not needed.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Not attracted physically
Posted: 4/5/2013 9:22:27 AM
So.
You think that the doo doo is deep now. This is your doo doo, you created it, and now? It appears to me that now you want to share it around...In love with a lady who is imperfect...whoops. If you actually like this lady then stand up and wash the stink of yourself away.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 16 (view)
 
When a woman says she needs space
Posted: 4/5/2013 7:30:57 AM
Seems to me that you are looking for affirmation for being a dipstick. (In my less than humble opinion).
Ok then......Be affirmed in being a dipstick.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Well here I am
Posted: 4/5/2013 6:47:48 AM
So.
You say that you know exactly what you are looking for.
Whoop-de-doo.
I want the sun and the moon and the stars and the body and the money and the this and the that and so does every one else on pof.
...I want...I want...I want....Now you have gone and done it....now the whole wolrd knows for a certainty that you are a needy and self serving woman. Gimme...gimme...gimme.
Step away from your egocentricity and learn to live instead of playing this foolish game of self gratification and aggrandisment...
On the subject of self gratification...Uh ...maybe that is best left alone...at this point.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 30 (view)
 
One more thing
Posted: 4/5/2013 6:34:42 AM
Finding a man or a woman here whilst sorting through a myriad of responses is rather like looking for a rose growing on a thistle. The genius is that such a thing does happen...to geneticists...and dreamers...and romantics and other such wonderful people. Knowing the difference between a T rose and a Damask can be quite daunting to someone who doesn't know the difference and can't be bothered learning. Set yourself to learn the difference and the right rose...or maybe a knight in shining armor...may be found.
 dobbie101
Joined: 1/24/2011
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Long Distance
Posted: 4/2/2013 9:57:56 AM
It appears that distance is really of secondary importance here. 40 miles, one hour, .....
Why is it that you consider that a one hour drive such an impediment to a healthy relationship?
Yes he wants to make time for his children, good for him, strength to his bones and soul. You seem to want a lot more spontaniety and less of his organised regime. Dinner, with a one hour drive and sunset gazing is a dream.
Work at it harder and strive for the dream to become real for both of you.
 
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