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 Author Thread: Does being single stop you from doing what you want?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Does being single stop you from doing what you want?
Posted: 8/18/2018 1:51:15 PM

$36,100 AUD roughly is min wage.

Damn....that's over $17 an hour...
Minimum wage here is $7.25!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 415 (view)
 
Women making the first move...
Posted: 8/18/2018 11:37:37 AM

Sperm bucket is a word I got from one of the men here, so speak to the men, like coold, when I start using cum dumpster. Thank you, coold


It's OK ....I'm not accountable for what comes out of my mouth if someone else said it first....
said no grown adult ....ever....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Living at home.
Posted: 8/17/2018 7:43:13 PM
I bought the property across the road from my parents when my Mom was first diagnosed with cancer.
It made it so much easier to be able to help out...and just spend time with her. Best decision I ever made.

Now, I am right here for my father...
and he here for me as I went thru a medical issue myself this summer...
when the time comes....it will be easy for me to stay with him if needed and still maintain my own place...

I say you already know what you want to do....now you just need to do it. Good Luck!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Science Says Finding Your Soul Mate Is Basically Impossible
Posted: 8/17/2018 7:34:54 PM
Sigh....my soulmate existed in the form of my best friend...
32 years of true and pure friendship...
Been gone 3 1/2 years now....and I can still her the sound of her giggle...and the beauty of her voice when she sang...

Never met a man that made me feel the depth of love I felt for that woman...
I have met a man that makes my soul happy and content....and I am good with that.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 485 (view)
 
The board was much better with moderators
Posted: 8/16/2018 5:40:12 PM
I got to wear a bright yellow vest...
and I agree....jumping in front of cars and making them stop was just too cool at that age!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Does being single stop you from doing what you want?
Posted: 8/16/2018 5:36:55 PM
Being single (in a realtionship but not living together) allowed me to come home after a very long day of meetings and eat a bowl of Golden Grahams cereal for dinner....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
difference between erections at 20 and 70
Posted: 8/14/2018 4:56:13 PM

and with no erection, the chances of ejaculating with a woman is rather vanishing.

actually.... a man can ejaculate without an erection...
yes...intercourse isn't an option without one...
but oral/hands can still get him there.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Why Finding a Life Partner Isn’t That Simple
Posted: 8/14/2018 4:48:25 PM

When I was a mere "lurker"

oh please....are you really still trying to keep up this BS??

as for the article...yes....a good read...and very relatable for a lot of people
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Do you care what a person does for work?
Posted: 8/13/2018 4:38:59 PM
I would think men's profession would be geographical...
my area....a lot of factory workers....anywhere from pork ( kill 'em and butcher 'em), Delco Electronics to 4 Chrysler plants... and 1/2 hour drive to the next town there is Subaru, Catapiller and Frito Lay....
The jobs run from unskilled line workers up to skilled trades...
We also have our fair share of agricultural workers....Pioneer and Monsanto are the biggest employers.

and yes, the medical field is huge in just about every town now...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Do you care what a person does for work?
Posted: 8/12/2018 6:48:10 PM
Nope....never did....
I was always far more concerned with "who" they were...
as long as they could support themselves...and enjoyed what they did...it doesn't matter to me what they do for a living.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Does being single stop you from doing what you want?
Posted: 8/11/2018 4:52:17 PM
I know many women that won't even go to a restaurant by themselves...let alone go on vacation!!
I used to work "on the road"...so got used to eating out and traveling by myself...
so when I became single....it wasn't unnatural to me.

I do prefer to vacation with a friend.... male or female...just because it's fun to share the experience with someone.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Older gentleman with kids
Posted: 8/11/2018 11:49:16 AM
Doesn't matter what you say about not needing a mother for them....
if a woman was to be in a LTR with you....
she would end up being a mother figure...

and No...most women in their 50's have no desire to do that again...
Not saying "all" wont....but it will definitely reduce the percentages...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Safe Dating
Posted: 8/11/2018 11:46:34 AM

Men put a value on their penises.

so it's ok for a woman to put a value on her vagina....but no ok for a man to put value on their penises??? WTH??

and....I, for one, put a very high value on penises...
and plan on spending the rest of my life worshipping them!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Safe Dating
Posted: 8/11/2018 10:15:43 AM

I've had dates try to pressure me to come into my place.

please describe what you mean by pressure...

I've had a man push me over onto a couch and put himself on top of me.

without the "rest of the story"....hard to say what he was thinking/assuming

I, also, am in the group of women that can honestly say I've never had a man try to pressure or guilt me into sex..
I've had them ask to come back to their or my place...and if I said no....that was the end of it.
No pressure, no groveling, no tantrums....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Birthday Tiaras
Posted: 8/10/2018 3:52:46 PM
pfffffft!!!

there is not one person here who believes you aren't Blondie.....
NOT ONE!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Erectile Dysfuntion: Can skipping days trying to have sex help?
Posted: 8/10/2018 3:51:16 PM
Now it takes some serious guts to come back into this forum and ask the same group of people that you complained to...
how to get the man you supposedly dumped's dik hard!!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Birthday Tiaras
Posted: 8/10/2018 3:38:24 PM

Sweetheart, I counted at least 27 people who are known, long term posters that could no way be duplicates

amazing how someone that supposedely just joined on July 27th knows who's who in here!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 768 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/9/2018 4:42:14 AM
a married woman posing as a man on a dating site might suggest emotional issues too...**just saying**
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 763 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship?
Posted: 8/8/2018 5:53:30 PM

People who use sex to manipulate or entrap another person into a relationship will defend their POV to the bitter end.

people that are silly enough to think using sex will get you a relationship will have that bitter end....

only thing this woman "expects" out of first date....second date or 30th date sex is a good time!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Chronic Illness? A deal breaker or not?
Posted: 8/7/2018 6:28:56 PM

My very fit and athletic 8 year old grand daughter could fit into size 2 jeans.

A sexy, average, middle aged woman might not, unless she was very tiny, not the norm.


careful now....your Blonde is turning Green w/ envy!!

Mo's (and my) point is that these illnesses can afflict anyone....
from a sexy size 2 to a sexy size 16 ....

and the real point....is that people with high blood pressure or diabetes, can lead a very active life.
Some even more so than a size 20 that doesn't have either disease....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Life ~ All random occurrences, or not ?
Posted: 8/7/2018 4:48:31 PM
backcreek....I have a lovely lily pond you are more than welcome to spend your evening in when that time comes....
but stay out of my pool!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How serious do people believe Reality TV like the Bachelor(ette)?
Posted: 8/7/2018 4:30:03 PM
I find them to be entertaining...just like any other show on TV.
I don't watch a lot of TV....but when I do...it is so I can de-stress from "my" reality....

and I'm right there with Moraima...I'm a Big Brother fan!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Chronic Illness? A deal breaker or not?
Posted: 8/6/2018 4:36:11 AM

Probably deal breakers, because many of them are due to being overweight, so they're curable, but the person doesn't want to put the effort in to get well.

Educate yourself woman....one can be skinny as a rail and have high blood pressure or diabetes...
cancer, copd, hiv & mental illnessess...have nothing to do with weight.
and all these can inflict someone in their 20's as easily as someone in their 50's....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 743 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/5/2018 3:39:26 PM

So when they see first date sex, they're happy, but look down at you at the same time.

any man that is hypocritical enough to think it is ok for him to have first date sex... but look down on the woman he slept with..
isn't a man I care to date anyways....

and honestly....I think this mentality is more of a "boy" and not a "man" ...

damn...I've done it all wrong according to some of ya....
I asked him out...
I paid for dinner...
I had first date sex...
but look at me...3 1/2 years into an awesome relationship!!
neener - neener!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Sex break? Is it a bad idea?
Posted: 8/5/2018 11:16:31 AM

So when the fight happened all I could think of was I want a break for a while sexually.

this reeks of using sex as a weapon...
never a good way to handle an adult relationship...

as for "slowing it down"....
what does that mean other than withholding sex....which was your original "threat".....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 734 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/5/2018 10:00:08 AM

The real questions are: Who really cares?


and who tries so damned hard to come back to a place where everyone has "your number" and doesn't believe a word you say??!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 81 (view)
 
black woman parks in handicap space, demands justice
Posted: 8/5/2018 9:24:58 AM

I, also, find it rather rude and annoying when I have to empty a quadraplegic's catheter bag outside cause some idiot is using the handicap bathroom stall as their own personal bathroom.

Funny you bring that up!
I was just reading the "laws" about handicap accessible bathrooms my girlfriend sent to me...
she got in a huge altercation in the ladies room at the Mall because she was using the handicap stall (all the other stalls were full)
A woman went off on her because her young daughter is in a wheelchair and they had to wait for my g/f to be done....GF tried to explain all the stalls were full, no one else was waiting to use it....and the daughter would still have had to wait if a true handicapped person was using it instead of her.
Security was called....and informed the mother that a handicap stall is not there "Only" for handicap use....and as long as a handicapped person wasn't waiting for the stall...anyone had the right to use it.
and according to the research....he was correct.
Do I sympathise with the mother...and you.....Hell Yes!
Do I feel the need to stand and wait for a stall if the handicap is available....No.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 79 (view)
 
black woman parks in handicap space, demands justice
Posted: 8/5/2018 6:59:22 AM

Bet you would notice, though, if you needed one of those handicapped parking spaces or knew someone who does.

I just spent the summer recuperating from surgery....I had a placard and did need a handicap spot.
I also pick up anywhere from 5 - 10 Vietnam Veterans once a month in a handicapped equipped van and take them to the store, get their scripts, etc...

I still didn't go around to all the cars and check to see if they were legally parked....

I know way too many people with "hidden" disabilities to confront someone about a parking spot...
I'm a "pick your battles" kind of gal....and this isn't a battle I want to have every time I go to a store...
especially in this day and age when shoot now, ask questions later is the norm...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Safe Dating
Posted: 8/4/2018 5:29:42 PM

There are always signs that a person must be a bit "off

oh if that was only true....
unfortunately....it is not...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 76 (view)
 
black woman parks in handicap space, demands justice
Posted: 8/4/2018 5:04:44 PM

No one looks at license plates? I do, all the time. If someone is in front of me in stopped traffic or traffic is slow. No one notices out-of-town plates or vanity plates? I notice bumper stickers, car models, colors, etc

which has absolutely nothing to do with checking out the 20 cars parked in handicap spots at the grocery store....

I went to the grocery store today.....I noticed every handicap spot was taken....and that is all I noticed about them because I was too busy paying attention to the nutcases flying around the parking lot looking for a place to park...
this is every possibility that someone was parked illegally in one of them...but how would I know unless I wanted to confront one of them???
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 381 (view)
 
SHDP
Posted: 8/4/2018 4:57:34 PM
NY58
since you're attracted to women that let themselves be used like sperm buckets,

Same derogatory meaning....and about women you have no clue about...

and we all know what it means....don't need you to try and make up a meaning...

and wtf does Kathy Lee have to do with this??? you calling her one too?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 721 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/4/2018 4:51:36 PM
LOL...Nice try Blondie!!
Almost but not quite realistic with the writing!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Life ~ All random occurrences, or not ?
Posted: 8/4/2018 3:05:13 PM
I dreamed of Barts death....in my dream I would wake up at 5:30 in the morning and find him dead of a heart attack in the bed. I had this dream quite a few times.
His death was remarkably close to my dream...
the only difference was it was a Saturday night, his band had played a gig, we went out for breakfast, came home and partied a bit more, laughed our asses off that we were still awake at 5 in the morning....and at precisely 5:20 am he went into cardiac arrest. I could not save him.
If this had happened on another night...I would not have been awake to witness it or try to save him...and I would have woke up to him dead just like in my dream.

so yes...I believe in the un-believable.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 377 (view)
 
SHDP
Posted: 8/4/2018 1:05:38 PM

Is that what people are referring to when they are talking about things in their bucket list?

**snort** now that was funny!!

and I agree....I don't have sex for "validation"...or any other emotional insecurity...
I have sex....because I enjoy intimacy, passion, touching, kissing, communicating with our bodies...and the orgasms- those are a nice perk too!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
black woman parks in handicap space, demands justice
Posted: 8/4/2018 6:21:25 AM
so what exactly are you noticing?
are you looking to see if they have a disability plate or placard?
it is one thing to notice a big ole car pulling into a parking spot....quite another to "investigate" if they have the creditionals to park there....

no one is saying they don't notice cars.... they are saying they aren't paying attention to plates/placards....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 370 (view)
 
SHDP
Posted: 8/4/2018 6:11:11 AM

since you're attracted to women that let themselves be used like sperm buckets

there you go again...being a judgemental b!tch about women you have no clue about....
it must really suck to be you... what a sad, lonely existance you must live to have to belittle other women to feel better about yourself....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
MAKE-UP WARS
Posted: 8/3/2018 4:49:46 PM
yep....that is false advertisement!!
one thing to enhance one's looks....quite another to completely change their look!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 707 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/3/2018 12:16:39 PM

Great -a 25 year old young woman is being bullied by a 48 year old man (juvenile behavior IMO) & a gray haired granny?
What s wrong with THIS picture?
Not that Miss Sienna can't hold her own, but Lordy, an older broad comparing herself to someone young enough to be her grand daughter?
Competing with markedly younger women?


Please show me where I compared myself to Sienna?
That is laughable....because there is so no comparison...
even if I compared my 25 year old self to her....she would still lose out because at 25 I didn't live with my parents, supported myself, and new enough to not think I knew more than all the real adults in the room!!

C'mon Blondie....this is just your issues with me spilling over into your new fake profile...
but hey....at least you get to go on pretending with this one too!!

For someone that just spouted all her "non-sexual experience"....she sure thinks she knows it all!!

BTW....our numbers are none of your business....so we'll just let you assume a number and go with that...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
What would you tell your younger dating self?
Posted: 8/3/2018 11:56:53 AM
....go on more dates....have more sex....drink more booze....smoke more pot....
plenty of time to be a responsible adult later in life...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 686 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/3/2018 7:23:53 AM
LMFAO....

the ole' I 've only screwed one guy but have blown 25 so I am morally better than you theory....

keep on telling yourself that...if it's what you need to make yourself feel better....

but the hypocrisy of calling men slutty is hilarious!!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 682 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/3/2018 5:44:46 AM
but I take it you now understand that oral is sex???

as for fingering....(which by the way is very high schoolish)...it is still "sexual in nature"....is it not?

You can try and "unsexualize" the act all you want to make yourself feel better...
even the sucking of nipples is sexual...
so you are engaging in sexual activity no matter what you want to call it... or how ridiculous you think it is.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 679 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/3/2018 5:25:11 AM

No I'd think of that as sexual assault not as rape

but how can it be a "Sexual" assault if oral is not sex???

@MsMicki No that is break and enter with sexual assault actually, if the person was minor you could add interference with a minor and sexual exploitation to the list.
I was making a point....see above!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
I can't seem to leave him
Posted: 8/3/2018 5:18:10 AM
put on your big girl panties and call him and say it's over.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 676 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/3/2018 5:12:37 AM

Obviously men are sluts


I only blew one and it was a waste of my time and efforts, got to say. I only did it because he gave me oral so I felt obliged


uhm....you're downing on men for being slutty and blowing guys on first dates.....


Oral and fingering is not sex

You, child, are delusional...

let me ask you a question....
If a stranger broke into your house in the middle of the night, held you down and did oral on you....would it be considered rape?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 355 (view)
 
Boo-rthday Boo
Posted: 8/3/2018 4:55:32 AM

Ok Boo, WHY did the chicken cross the road?

because she was a whore!!
It's all about that c*ck!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 345 (view)
 
Boo-rthday Boo
Posted: 8/2/2018 4:07:35 PM
^^^ do you need some help getting your panties out of a twist ...or what?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Do you save stuff like pictures/cards from past relationships?
Posted: 8/2/2018 2:25:45 PM
I have the dog I bought my ex for Valentines Day 14 years ago...got rid of him...kept the dog!!

I have some pictures from my marriage...
and I did keep a few things of Bart's after he passed...his favorite drum sticks...a guitar pick...and his cowboy hat that I wear occassionally....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 661 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/2/2018 11:12:19 AM

I'm loving the bully mentality that you enforce by saying "our"

yes "Our"....meaning everyone but you.
You're calling us whores and I am the bully??
You need help....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 340 (view)
 
Boo-rthday Boo
Posted: 8/2/2018 11:06:14 AM
Showing interest is not chasing...
Repeatedly asking someone out ... constant texting/calling...that is chasing.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 654 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill the value of a woman?
Posted: 8/2/2018 9:44:13 AM

If any women thinks being a whore sounds like them, that's their issue

No....that would be YOUR issue....
OUR issue is YOU and your constant downgrading of women that live differently than you...

Good Gawd....look around....do you see any men calling women whores in here?
Do you see any other women calling other women whores?
No....It's You....& Only You....that feels the need to throw this BS around...
 
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