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 Author Thread: Am I Being Selfish?
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Am I Being Selfish?
Posted: 10/22/2006 8:32:58 AM
tink,

You need to forget about him! You don't have time to deal with that kind of stuff! None of us needs to get involved in something like that!
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Favorite destination in Georgia?
Posted: 10/20/2006 2:34:01 PM
All of you lightweights didn't mention the best place of all in Georgia: Berry College. If you haven't been, you need to go! Dream Mountain, Swan Lake, deer all over the place, log cabins, stone buildings, gothic style churches, The Possum Trot Church (built in the 1800's), and other nice things to see! Look on my profile, and you will see a picture of the mountains I took at Berry.

Also, I was born in Waycross, and lived there a short while, so the Okefenokee Swamp Park is very nice to see, but don't let the gators getcha!
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
What does my children come first mean to you?
Posted: 10/15/2006 9:10:06 PM
Kiash,

Some of the people here make some good points. Right now it sounds like you don't really have time for a relationship, and you should put it off until later in your life. That would be fair to everybody.
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
To be honest, I don't know what I'm looking for!
Posted: 10/15/2006 2:24:57 PM
I don't know if I should only date single girls w/o kids, single girls with kids, or both! I'm a single guy who has never been married. If I marry a girl who has kids, I will assume some of the responsibility of the kids I didn't bring into the world, but if I don't marry a girl with kids, I might miss out on some blessings I could have otherwise had! Any feedback would be welcome!
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
why cant we all just pick ourselves up???
Posted: 10/14/2006 5:01:17 PM
Because society teaches us to be negative and to have low self-esteem. You see it on tv, in your school classrooms, from govt. officials, etc. We are always being told what we can't do instead of what we can. Most of us complain when we get turned down by 3 or 4 people in a row on this site. Even if you went thru 50 duds to get to the person of your dreams, would it be worth it? Most of us will never persist that long! We give up easily and start thinking there is something wrong with us. When we get dumped, we think we are the problem. I guess as long as the negative thinking exists, that problem will exist!
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Why don't people post a picture on their profile?
Posted: 10/13/2006 8:47:45 PM
Never mind! I just found out how to do it..............lol
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Why don't people post a picture on their profile?
Posted: 10/13/2006 8:46:37 PM
Not to get off subject, but can someone tell me how to start a new thread on this darn website? I have searched high and low to no avail!
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Liberalist Tree Hugger!!!!
Posted: 10/13/2006 6:18:54 PM
mrgone likes to believe in fantasy theories
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Liberalist Tree Hugger!!!!
Posted: 10/13/2006 3:40:13 PM
j 100,

Good point! As nasty as the dirty dems are now, imagine how they will be if they get back in tha majority!
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Liberalist Tree Hugger!!!!
Posted: 10/13/2006 10:26:50 AM
Speiffer,

You make a lot of sense, and I enjoy your posts. People like Ted Kennedy have done a lot to damage this country! So many Americans are too lazy to learn the facts about what's going on, so they get their info from left-leaning CNN, ABC, CBS, etc.

Here's an interesting thought: The liberals have the powerful media on their side, and they still can't win elections!!! That shows you what side has the truth.
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Liberalist Tree Hugger!!!!
Posted: 10/13/2006 10:12:06 AM
Justrob,

Are you saying Sadaam had no WMD's? If so, why did he use them on Iran? Also, the tax cuts have worked, they are still working, and they will continue to work in the future! Why do you think the economy is doing so well? Tax cuts encourage business owners to start more businesses.
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 261 (view)
 
Does god exist?
Posted: 10/13/2006 10:02:43 AM
I think so................
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 92 (view)
 
A reason why people dont have a pic posted
Posted: 10/13/2006 9:57:37 AM
Pssst,

No matter what you say about me, I will not respond with insults. That is not my style. I come in peace!

I am simply saying that if I like to work out and stay in shape, I'm hoping to find someone who has that common interest. If the truth be known, I don't think many of the guys here would want to get involved with a woman that big, and the ladies would not want to get involved with a man that big. Naturally, I was joking just a bit because there are not many 300 pound ladies on this site.
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 89 (view)
 
A reason why people dont have a pic posted
Posted: 10/13/2006 7:32:42 AM
Sometimes they have something to hide. I have seen some great profiles, but I won't contact someone who has no picture. Certainly the "pictureless" people can understand that. What if the girl turns out to be a 300 pounder!!!
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Interracial Dating
Posted: 10/12/2006 3:21:49 PM
I dated a Chinese girl for 4 years. The relationship finally didn't work out anymore, but race was not the reason. We just simply had too many differences and arguments to be able to tolerate each other anymore. For a while, we were serious about getting married, but that would not have been good for either of us.
 spursman1
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Age Barometer
Posted: 10/11/2006 6:06:43 PM
I remember the green stamps..........lol
 
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