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 Author Thread: Need more perspective on this, please
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Need more perspective on this, please
Posted: 8/15/2012 10:57:37 AM
It sounds like your a " Friend with Benifits" or a Booty call " friend . If you enjoy the set-up with him don't say anything!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Do you see these photos the same as women do?
Posted: 7/28/2012 3:02:17 AM
Ad's .. matters not for female/male..making the best angle to "show what is there " or attraction. Look at the TV ad's offer about clothing...vehicles..! Pouting or pursed lips is to make them look like they want to show. Being on line for sometime now..I've seen just about every angle that a phone camera could show..some photo's are a totally mistakes..others showing "exactly what they have to offer" . You may not enjoy what or how they post there ad's ..but this is a "Dating Site " !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
did i say something wrong.
Posted: 7/20/2012 2:41:46 PM
It sound like he got the "wires crossed" in your communications with him. Many others had this same problem. It's what we think we heard..and not what was acyually said! The problem falls to him...Your here trying to understand what went wrong..and he's gone for stupid reasons without even checking. And sometimes it's just a stupid mis-understanding that causes so many problems!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Getting more rigid the older you get?
Posted: 7/20/2012 2:27:44 PM
You can start by..wear a wrist braclet with a tracker on it..it will send a signal to your keys and make a weird noise for you to locate them. One problem over. Without getting to twisted about being rigid..you can find games on the internet or hand held units that help you activate/enhance you mental awareness. Problem two over ! Having a more pain as we all get more mature(not me ) is normal. You need to stretch more..and make sure your doing it right..see your doctor . Working with weights ,staying more flexible ,eating properly and make sure your taking all the vitamins/minerals you need. Many people over look that ..and find cramped muscles in places you didn't know that could cramp ! And stay away from " sunscreen " till you used up your supply at home!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
how do you even start to date...not a clue!!!
Posted: 7/20/2012 2:04:53 PM
Apply the same skills your daughter used to find your new heart throb! The same way you found your ex's ! There is no exact pattern..method to find someone new. Check at the normal places..church..work..food stores..sporting stores. Use the same skills you used to find any boytoy !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
He needs space but has no intention of seeing others..
Posted: 7/8/2012 5:00:12 PM
He thought..He dwelled..HE"S GONE ! And he did it with grace !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Is This True?
Posted: 7/8/2012 4:38:20 PM
Just as true as " if she has tat's ..she is easy " ! Most people rely on chemical reactions..and body movements in responding to a single thought. I found that ladies have this same idea as men. And for the most time it's true. Training has a big part of it ! And we learn by actions !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
dating a women with kids
Posted: 6/22/2012 10:09:15 AM
Many ladies post " My children are first " and fail to mention what they really want in a relationship. Maybe you need to be more clearly in you intent? It's true that " it's a turn -off " for the inmature males out there who read only between the lines on many profiles ! Many ladies are looking for a "new Daddy for their Children " and are coy in wording!
Keep Looking ..You'll find one soon that meets your Needs !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Military guys and tattoos??
Posted: 6/22/2012 9:58:37 AM
It's usally out right to belong to a group of fellow workers that you have formed a male bond with at the time of the "tat's " . Marking them with a certain group of people. Some out of Respect, or a fellowship ! Marines,Rangers,Airborne, Navy.. doesn't matter ! Sayings,pictures,quotes are common. They are each differant for the group. So unless it's located in a differant spot..other than what a shown with a t-shirt on..It's you to wonder where!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
i am interested in him........
Posted: 6/18/2012 8:02:55 AM
You should be aware that some males beleive in ( old saying) Wham..Bam..Thank you ! And some also think of "Fair chase laws " ! Which means if he can collect your heart ..he be airing your panties! Be cautionous to everyone..you might want to meet in a cop patrolled area..out a place that you feel secure. Not everyone out there is "some sort of Predator "..but be aware that many are around ! Being aware of people who try to control others! Good Luck !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
We need to slow it down
Posted: 6/18/2012 7:44:43 AM
It appears that "HE's unsure " about his actions and words. " And slow Down " = maybe he's really thinking about it!

You should regroup yourself as well..think clearly ! He'll be back..if he figured it out himself !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
17 yrs of hell miss trust
Posted: 6/18/2012 7:28:47 AM
You have lost your sights on dreams and false hopes ! Your time spent on your children is the most important part you need to do! What was in the Past..is yesterday..and everyone knows that dreaming of yesterdays is a foolish quest. There are many other males out in your area waiting for you to enlighten their hearts. The longing of what was ..will hurt you tomorrow. Get over this " EX " and get help ! He has moved -on..you need to do the same !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Things went great, but...
Posted: 6/17/2012 4:40:44 AM
Some people go slow and careful when dating or driving!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Truth in drunk texts
Posted: 6/17/2012 4:35:45 AM
Many differant enjoyed liquids/dry substance..have a variety results in a person's thinking..behavior patterns. It also depends on the emotional state of the person . Combined ..it can make a person ..who normally has a set -type of lover in mind..offer undying love to a rock ! The amount of chemical ..how quickly it was taken and how strong the substance ..Should all be factor in the questioned you asked. Yes..It can happen!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Online dating working for you?
Posted: 6/15/2012 7:50:43 PM
Many Ladies Have mentioned " Kissing a few Hundred Frogs " , to meet their up-date love/boytoy ! And you can understand all those others who described toads,pigs,warthogs, ect.. ! Everything changes..and many things stay the same! I've met quite a few ladies that are good friends now ! And I have respect for the same amount. But there are a few that I almost left this site ..because of they being very Dishonest about themsleves ,and the real reason to find a older man.

Keep trying ! Not All males out there are Evil !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
He doesn't message me much anymore?
Posted: 6/13/2012 8:37:39 AM
With all " Military " actions..deployment is very restrictive in what ,where , how you are allowed to respond to famiily/friends. He's short responces maybe all he can give at the time he sends it. Deployment is a nightmare . And that the average person has know real thoughts on what our troops go thru..unless they have members in the service. The people waiting for responces from the troops in action may wait..well over a year..before their love one can get a message home ! Picture yourself carring well over a 120 lbs of equiptment, in 115 degree heat, and having to give 110% of mind and be focus on their job on hand..while it seems that everyone outside your group is tryng to hurt you very badly..and then you might understand why "your not receiving " much of a message from him !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Too Forward...??
Posted: 6/13/2012 8:22:50 AM
You are not coming across as " needy or any other worded describtion " ! Most look at profiles to see "what's out there" in their area..and what maybe close to them. Second guessing yourself doesn't help you or your cause in finding answers! I have known ladies that have " Bulldog " men right on the spot . Grab what you want in life..!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Older man, is he shy or not interested?
Posted: 6/13/2012 7:56:44 AM
A chemical reactions happen ! If you see something you want to enjoy..go for it ! You maybe finding out that "he's second guessing himself as well " ? Until one of you..actually start something...you'll find nothing about each !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
How to woo a guy without seeming desperate
Posted: 6/10/2012 10:37:39 PM
Just be yourself ! Being or acting differant around him.. could slip into something you really weren't ready for. Maybe just " Pace " yourself ...Or just "slow " down ???
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
I have luck only for players ?
Posted: 6/10/2012 10:30:59 PM
It would appear ..that you were a " stepping stone " till he was ready for another ! If he was still on line..after being with you..Then it seems that you have been stepped over. If he comes back..You should do" what your gut feeling tells you" to do ! If a lady did that to me..I would drop her name off of my " To do Lists "!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Mixed Signals
Posted: 5/27/2012 9:06:41 PM
You know the answers to your own questions! Why ask anyone ? Are you still unsure about your own feelings. And If he still surfing for dates/meetings ..you would already know what he is doing ! Trust in your inner/gut feelings about this peson ! Have doubts about them ..try talking to a close friend that you trust !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Does anyone remember thread from young man about Asperger's?
Posted: 5/27/2012 8:56:11 PM
You should try this site : www.aspergerssocietys.org

You should also remember only after had work from the person who has it..that he /she can claim they are dealing with it ! Because of our Doctor's lack of "really know how to handle " the problems..they mostly ( not all) prescribe medications that have little or poor results for the person. You should read about it more..there are several sites that have information about handling problems. Since it would be ill advised to tell you anything I know/heard about it..you need to read and understand ! Each person is slightly differant than another..but ..to try the help your friends need is a noble act on you ! Good Luck ! And Happy Reading!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
How big of a deal is it?
Posted: 5/27/2012 8:31:14 PM
Like anything ..it's all up to your partner and you ! Some enjoy it..others prefer not to ! And each person is differant to the other ! If you don't enjoy ..don't do it ! If your partner is open minded ..they will listen to you !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Less to choose the older we get
Posted: 5/27/2012 8:23:30 PM
Normally I would agree with your " Statement " ! Age is not a factor here ! Unless your ego's so important ! I have many friends that are near the 70's mark..and as active being with the ladies as they were in the fifties. Many are widowers..and found out traveling a little far ..is a good thing. The haunt the casinos around here. Many don't play the slots/tables...but they are nice to others who dine out there. Since this is " Plenty Of Fish Site " you need to think were to go if you were young than you are. I " m a retired mechanic..and have many other home-repairs certs, so I get called upon to repair simple ..to OMG ! I have seen and conversed with one lady that is over 70 and she is active in church socials,food drives, going out to the casino, seniors gathers..ect. She told me with the right bait and tackle you can land anything you want. But she's having to much fun to be locked down to one. Many places have weekly socials for seniors in their area, you might want to expand your search? Good Luck..not that you really need it !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
what does exclusive mean?
Posted: 5/27/2012 7:45:42 PM
With my simple basic Knowledge...And decades of listening to "other's trying to rewrite words of the meaning"...I'm saying this:
EXCLUSIVE...means no other person. Means no one else ! However many fail to understand that also means " no casual sex " !
And I have heard many described " As The Only one who will be sharing my interests"..and then in a few words more farther on in the letter..having casual sex with no meaning.

I maybe a slightly "old Fashion " ..But exclusive means commitment toward the person your telling it to! Many explain that " that's not correct in All relationships "..trying to leave a escape clause in their verbal contract . You may look up the word on line..and see what others beleive the " WORD " means ? I said my thoughts and I'll wait for the storm as always to happen !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
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gung ho and backed off?
Posted: 5/23/2012 4:44:49 PM
You need to stop giving commands to him. And ask yourself was this the right one??? or was it a nice romp in "the hay " for you? He maybe thinking about all the pressures you mention to him in your Talks. The way I understand it..if you blasted by a known force in your face..most people back away..to see what made that blast ! Maybe you are pushing too fast..and he's just being cautious on his actions???
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
How do I figure out my ex?
Posted: 5/23/2012 4:35:49 PM
Like many other said " He maybe between other girlfriends.. He maybe now understanding why he feels alone and your not with him...He maybe thinking that if he plays you enough..he'll get back with you..? Do you remember " why you Broke -up with him "??? Instead of this cat and mouse game..you should ask him out right on his intentions..be ready for the first major crying session. Or that he's insulted that his intentions were only pure! You were with him before..you know when he's lying thru his teeth! Otherwise get ready for the long -term mousy game that he seems to be playing!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Whats the best way
Posted: 5/23/2012 4:25:00 PM
You were right in how you handle him ! But that type of critter maybe needs a little more understanding than just being " Polite " and having much more manners than him! You may have given him a " swift kick below the belt" and stand back..some critters like that (S/M) Or you could have just got up and walked away before you meeting was over. Everyone knows " how to do things for others " to read..but normally fail to give words of wisdom...to the problem when it's happening to them. You are being correct by leaving the e-mails unanswered.
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Interested... ? Sexual Chemistry... ?
Posted: 5/19/2012 5:56:16 PM
you should just ask him...or just make time for him????
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
GF gives me STD. Confirms her cheating?
Posted: 5/16/2012 6:04:04 PM
Have her tested! STD can stay domaint for sometime. At least that's what I was told. Whatever happens between you and her ..is thoughts for you alone. You need to make sure your actions are out of logic/reason..not from anger/pain.
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Is it really worth risking your life?
Posted: 3/15/2012 10:39:54 PM
Everyone who dates takes " Chances " ! I had a cousin that died from AIDS ..he contracted it thru a Blood donation. At that time the " real world " was thinking it happened in another country but not ours ! You may want to remember that ..the time period of your life growing up...little News was out there..a lot more whispers of poor information, And some of the people ..just waited "to see what happens " . The whole world knows now on the problems..and there is tons of information you can do load from the internet. Remember that old saying " If you play..You will pay " ! Sometimes dearly!
Remember you Brother "how he was in life " and not the bad times that happed !

Always a Friend First
originalNw
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
my hubby went of with my friend
Posted: 2/25/2012 12:20:11 PM
Find yourself a Lawyer ! And then someone who will help you understand how to deal with this major problem . Maybe your minister/priest can help you over this? It's sounds like your " HUBBY " isn't sure of what he wants in life ! Let the system work this out! You'll gain nothing but more heart and mind troubles trying to handle it by yourself.

Trying to be nice for him to deal with HIS PROBLEMS..leaves you holding the shitty end of the stick ! Being nice to him ..is more of a wedge to hurt you more. And if you have any close friends left..make sure that they stay away from this problems of him!

 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Say one thing and do another
Posted: 2/25/2012 11:57:00 AM
Many of people hang with ladies for company and fun..then move quickly on to the next. Maybe It's ...???? Or it could be ....??? Chances Are it's Not you...and those males are unsure of themselves ..and don't know yet what they want out of a relationship with a honest lady ! You may want to be more selective in your choises. Or that you need to realise that there are some just looking for a " romp "n " roll or a passing bump in the night ! I'm not saying that you do anything of those "old Phrases " ...but some males are that way. Keep on trying !!!!


 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
what is more important- guys???
Posted: 2/25/2012 11:44:54 AM
You know the answer of the Question your asking ! What works for one person..does not always work for everyone ! What works for you..may not work for another.

Being properly dressed for a man ,and his way of thinking...jeans,loose shirt, 5 o'clock stubble, and work boots..may not be ideal for a formal dinner with your family! Or suit ,tie and jacket works for a fishing trip ?

You have recieved many responces here..pick one or stay with your own!!!!!!

 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Normal to not have passion at this age?
Posted: 2/25/2012 8:41:01 AM
Where is it written "At this age you are not allowed " !!!! Every couple finds their own way ! You may listen to others here as well. The passion of physical contact is not always the way to find happiness to everyone. It all depends on you and your other! If you think it maybe a medical problem...contact your doctor ! Maybe a "shink " is in order as well. Everyone has their own way of thinking of the perfect way in life. Growing with someone is not just a sharing of a bank account..or having the same veiws on religion. Understanding one another,helping when a hand is needed, giving praise at a time that pain has enter , and showing love when it's not needed but there always.


 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
First Meet... What Went Wrong?
Posted: 2/25/2012 7:54:24 AM
It sounds like you found a date from the "original Candid Camera "era ! Anyone who talks about their " Ex's anything " during a first meeting/date ..doesn't need to be with you at all ! It really sounds that he was trying to see his poor life ..and it wasn't his fault at all.

I would take a chance ..." the blames is not on you " ...and everyone finds a dud now and then in dating. The chances are he was more attractive using a computer replies than he was in person. It happens to everyone..and it will happen again. But don't lose heart ..there is special one for you out there...Keep trying !





















 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Being nice and straighforward is this a turn off?
Posted: 2/25/2012 7:32:07 AM
Many males want some "motherly type "..and are afraid /put -off by honest straight forward ladies . Flirting... is a basic form of foreplay to many men. You reading " A How To React to Men " ...doesn't show body mouments ,emotional state, or the chemisty that you receive by your eyes,and other senses. Being honest is the best way to act all around men. The men (or was it boys ) maybe isn't use to ladies that are up-front ??? Others might not not agree with your actions, nor my responces...but then many don't know ladies that are truthful ! Stick with your feelings..throw the book away..you'll be better off!



Always a Friend First
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
My daughter
Posted: 1/6/2012 8:05:09 AM
Try to leave booklets around for her to read..about trouble later on in life being overweight! If she is "dating " ..see if her boyfriend isn't adbusing her mental or physicaly? Dealing with weight issuses ..you must have a positive attitude around others who have troubles in that area as well! You can not force anyone of age to do something that have no will to do. Keep at it with positive thought in mind. Is her "dad " as well overweight? If not you might have a good chance to help your daughter..maybe seek help in the medical world !
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
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Is it worth pursuing?
Posted: 12/20/2011 11:54:14 AM
Many buisness have a strict policy about making " friends with clients "..beyond the mechanical needs. He seems to be careful ..even that he has "checked you out " ! And his co-workers may have given warnings. Like other responces here..a x-mas card with yournumber would give him a better idea than just a flirt ! You have nothing to lose..except postage and a card !


 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
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Friends
Posted: 12/20/2011 11:44:11 AM
The "Kiss of Death " isn't what it was in the pass ! Now-a-days it's a stepping stone to opening ..or a way to " Just make Friends "! Many males think it's a chance to know more beautiful ladies like yourself. How it comes presented to you ..is the wording of the e-mail.

 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Hurting someone you love
Posted: 12/18/2011 5:56:33 AM
A few things that you failed to mention when you went on "beating yourself up " !

You failed to notice..that you were "really not ready for this relationship " ! And that he's a real jerk! You talked to him about getting the job or he just told you " I'm taking it " ! And you beleiving that you were in love ...didn't hear what he was saying . The other part you mentioned about " two bottles of wine " and found yourself in your birthday suit "...Your friend already knew that you were upset...and Alcohol is a way to break down your defences...and your friend was already thinking of that when he invited you out for a drink . That blame goes to your friend..does he still even talk to you?
Your ex-..seems to be ready to move -on...and blaming you ..is the simplest way to break -up the relationship. You have been HAD!

 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Riddle me this..
Posted: 12/17/2011 2:46:04 PM
Maybe your looking too hard? With your " Friends " ,that you have now..there might be a diamond in the rough ..you failed to see? Also you may given out ..way too much information to early in your trying to be a couple? Maybe you need to "stop being a mommy" figure in their lives? If you think that is not happening...stop for a few weeks...and restart with direct questions to them!


 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
need help with dialog
Posted: 11/27/2011 8:11:26 PM
Try in look at their profile...most times it will show that they are conservative, humorous ,aged or what the see life is. Saying hello to someone younger to you might be more to them than you intended,on the other hand a person of your age group is ready to say hello back to you. Everyone differant but much the same!

Always a Friend First
originalNw:
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Why do guys do this?
Posted: 10/9/2011 8:48:33 PM
Some males don't really know what they want. Like a kid in a candy store ...seeing everything that looks good . It would be very upsetting to some males to hear that same statement coming from their date. This male is " How Old "? Maybe you should try a older male and leave that child searching for his thoughts on proper?
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
LDR: Is he genuine or making excuses? and what to do?
Posted: 9/14/2011 1:27:16 PM
Listen to your heart..then your tummy area..Then ask yourself.." is this worth the time and pain" you have put in?? Not sending you anything..is one question you have to answer! Unless he's in the military...he'll be able to e-mail you ! Your are being so hard on yourself..think clearly at all that was said by others on this subject. I would if it was a female..Be gone by Know. It sounds like he played you for a " Botty Call "number only...And keeping his options open!
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Advice anyone?
Posted: 8/29/2011 5:46:20 AM
It appears that you enjoy older men..because of their mature actions. People of not your age group(not All) seemed to want a more reliable relationship. Their clothing..way they handle themselves,and how everyone else see them. The bad boys ..out there are being themselves and you do not find them interesting enough . So you are searching for a mature sense in a relationship. Many people look backward to see where I went wrong. You most likly didn't do anything wrong..but this person didn;t want much more than a "booty call " or equal action . Forget him! This is POF and you'll find someone else .
 originalNw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
For those of you that have been married and wanted to be
Posted: 8/29/2011 5:31:43 AM
I was there at one time long ago...I found my lady that was All I could dream of ! She was funny,cute,very smart, damn sexy, good knowledge on many things, wasn't scared of the future...and I wanted so to be with her so deeply that I could feel my insides turn to jello when she approached me. I was kind-of -scared of her in a way..Afraid she would say "NO " ! And a Auto accident took her away from me after a few short years. Looking back ..she was way too good for me,and I was out -of -her class range. And that was last century!
Everyone has differant feelings /thoughts on why a person should marry this or that person. Not everyone reads or understands the Bible in the same way..it's a slightly differant feeling you get from it. And That book been aroung for centuries. Would it be wrong to tell someone that you are reading it wrongly?? Or as I don't beleive you read or understand it the way I do. Where's the point ..they are reading it..and your questioning why are they?
 originalnw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Dating again after 35 years
Posted: 3/22/2010 5:16:34 PM
"Stop worrying " about " what might Happen ". And go and ask you friends about how to handle yourself. Even listen to others that responded to your question. Nothing has really changed since you dated last. Only time will heal you loss of your special friend. Stay away from everyone will take more time to adjust back to the present. The guilt you may think of ...isn't real...to anyone but you. Having friends and family close will help only so far,you need to be active,aware,and looking toward the future.

 originalnw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
If he like me whyd he dump me?
Posted: 3/18/2010 12:24:49 AM
It sounds like he's trying to get "back in control of your life". Just dump the bum, change your house phone/cell numbers, caution your close friends of his actions. Having no contact with him. You are hurting yourself and letting him control your emotions , and it is upsetting your life. It sounds like he's a control freak and that is bad news all around. He dropped you. Why are you even talking to the creep?

 originalnw
Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Has he changed or is he looking for a 'sure thing'?
Posted: 3/18/2010 12:14:01 AM
You "called him on his intention, and he ran"! What does that tell you? After 6 yrs of maybe...he was comfortable with " booty call ", but with no intention of committment.
You could have spent better time searching for a "real person " to be with. We all learn by our mistakes!

 
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