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 Author Thread: Am I being too picky?
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Am I being too picky?
Posted: 4/11/2013 11:57:06 AM
I try to stick to planet earth, gone out with too many aliens.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 34 (view)
 
over 50 then look at this
Posted: 4/11/2013 11:53:19 AM
Postman-delivers 6 days a week
Landscaper-Snow removal dude- seasonal
Canvasers -who knows when they will show
Cable guy- never know when they will show-Kramer on Seinfeld
Neighbor- probably the best bet
Maybe I should just start ringing door bells? LOL
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 858 (view)
 
Have all the really older guys given up?
Posted: 3/22/2013 10:56:17 AM
I think avaratarian has it about right. I want a nice date,nothing expected from her except some company and conversation for the evening. I don't expect to have sparks flying on the first date but if I did she just might get lucky.LOL
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 74 (view)
 
What Would Compell You To Marry After Age 45?
Posted: 3/22/2013 10:50:42 AM
A 25 year old model.LOL Never say never it could happen but very unlikely.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Ladies I need your input on this.
Posted: 3/16/2013 12:08:50 PM
Hell at my age they better have experience. The more the better. lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Age Equals Experience
Posted: 3/16/2013 10:07:16 AM
It would not bother me at all. If after a few messages and it was done in a respectful way. Who wants to be in a relationship that has no sex.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Can't imagine living with someone again after so long?
Posted: 3/6/2013 4:36:56 PM
Many men I think feel the same way. We would just like a nice monogamous relationship and maybe if the right person came along we would change how we feel. At your age I'm pretty sure you can find some one but if you don't that great companion isn't bad either.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 32 (view)
 
The Catfish
Posted: 2/27/2013 1:52:30 PM
I agree with you dreamcatcher. If I feel I need to take a gun to a meet I'm not going. Good God that is ridiculous.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Ain't Going to Happen.... now what?
Posted: 2/27/2013 11:30:54 AM
i think i'm in love with moonchild and available - sorry blonde angel there will be no jewelry books. lol lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 117 (view)
 
Question for Ladies 50+
Posted: 2/3/2013 8:24:50 PM
Hey there blonde angel,I do agree any man or woman who does happen to find a good partner has a treasure. My comment was made more to those women who think they know in the first 5 minutes if he is the one,hell i don't know if she is the one after 5 dates. lol It just seems to me that maybe we put to much importance on the 1st impression. It takes time to really know someone. Along with that at my age i have nothing to prove. If someone treats me respect that's what they get.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Waiting for Love to have Sex
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:19:56 PM
WOW most women claim to know within 15 seconds if he's the one. Great decision young lady.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 107 (view)
 
Question for Ladies 50+
Posted: 2/3/2013 6:54:09 AM
Ok ladies you got 5 minutes to tell me why I should be attracted to you. For some reason women seem to think that they can tell within 5 minutes of meeting you whether your worthy or not. I guess I have not that person yet. I've known people that I like immediately and was wrong and met some I didn't like immediately and was wrong. I'll hold the door for you but won't remember your birthday,5 minutes just isn't time enough. lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Relationship Goals..
Posted: 1/29/2013 2:10:16 AM
CynthiaSM - Now that a great reply. lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
HOW WILL YOU PRESERVE INTIMACY?
Posted: 1/24/2013 11:38:16 AM
do you realize how many frogs you have to kiss to get that prince. lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 173 (view)
 
Dating in our 50's
Posted: 1/17/2013 8:08:12 PM
Yep still have that 18 year old inside just have a little trouble finding him. Gosh if you have to keep a score card as to who paid for what it's just makes the whole dating thing useless. Most of us just want a mutual respect and kindness from whoever we are seeing not a score card.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Should I Be Suspicious?
Posted: 1/17/2013 7:56:27 PM
What have you got to lose. If you don't like him or enjoy his company just throw him back. POF
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Guys? Can you love again? REAL LOVE?
Posted: 1/17/2013 7:42:40 PM
Sure but you do have to realize that we love each and every person in our lives differently. There is no limit on how much or who we can love and care about. Each one is different.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Younger VS. Older
Posted: 1/17/2013 4:23:05 PM
My goodness just keep them young guys. We more mature men don't need someone who is all about me. After reading this it is no wonder that we don't want to date . One woman wants us to call and confirm the meeting which i really don't think is that unreasonable but the way she goes about is. She could make that call. One woman wants us to have a FBI check before she gives up her phone no. I guess i just haven't met that many crazies. Good god lets just post our credit score,the size of our penis with available pics,our phone nos. ,and how much money is in our checking acc. lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Walking in on a date in the bathroom?
Posted: 1/7/2013 8:30:25 AM
well if you have raised children- then the bathroom seems to be more of a community room - until they reach a certain age and then it becomes their room. lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 161 (view)
 
Men over 55 ??
Posted: 10/26/2012 8:39:03 AM
Jee I was just thinking that the cold weather (north of the border) seems to have more than it's share of attractive women.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 25 (view)
 
How would you react to this one?
Posted: 10/25/2012 5:39:16 PM
After a year and he is still upset. Wow you must have made quite an impression on him. Come to Pa for more pics.lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Difficult decision concerning my mother......
Posted: 10/25/2012 5:32:24 PM
You can't fix her no matter what,she is an addict. Only she can make the choice to change. You have to make the rules as to what your willing to put up with from her.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Do people over sixty still think they can have a new life???
Posted: 10/25/2012 5:26:36 PM
I hope I don't leave any good parts for them to recycle.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 104 (view)
 
Dating after 45...
Posted: 10/25/2012 5:22:05 PM
The last good guy just left to fix the Mars rover. lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Adventures in bed: A man's view
Posted: 10/16/2012 9:23:31 AM
wow a woman who doesn't think men should be a mind reader.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Trading one addiction for another
Posted: 10/8/2012 6:17:08 AM
Most people just change one addiction for another.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 7 (view)
 
How many regret marrying their spouses
Posted: 10/6/2012 11:52:46 AM
Lots of regrets,not my children. The 2 biggest changes in life are when you have children and when they grow up and move out.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 13 (view)
 
should i have bikini pics
Posted: 10/4/2012 6:31:18 AM
Hey if you feel comfortable with them just leave them. You will probably get some strange replies and pics but just delete them.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
He emailed me two days ago
Posted: 10/1/2012 6:21:46 PM
Hey just go for it. We all have been hurt,look forward not back. What the hell we all have been dumped before,you don't even know him yet so nothing lost if things don't work out.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Al Anon, emotional availability & older men & women...
Posted: 10/1/2012 6:16:56 PM
Hey we all have baggage. It's just how you handle it and if alnon helps then good for you. Don't know about real life but just keep chugging and improving yourself and someday maybe that guy will come along in IRL.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Just made plans to meet and user deleted her account ??
Posted: 9/30/2012 5:02:03 AM
Msg 28 -Every pot has a lid.lol Apparently you don't have any Tupperware.lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Uncertainty stage depreciation thread :-(
Posted: 9/27/2012 4:59:33 AM

That's your answer.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Without marriage
Posted: 9/26/2012 6:37:05 AM
I really think that there is a lot of people out there that would be more than happy to be in that type of relationship.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Student at 50+
Posted: 9/25/2012 5:36:56 AM
I don't think it is a red flag. Just shows you are willing to keep learning and has nothing to do with not wanting to work,especially in your case. I think many people may be doing the same thing. Contrary to popular belief must people want a stable job where they don't have to keep looking for a new job. Good luck in your new endeavor.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 80 (view)
 
How do you all define aging gracefully?
Posted: 9/21/2012 8:13:24 AM
I refuse to age gracefully. I'm going enjoy every moment I have left.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 162 (view)
 
A debate about blowjobs
Posted: 8/27/2012 1:02:56 PM
Any woman my age better have experience or I'm not interested. Don't worry about past relations just about how she treats you.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 35 (view)
 
47 and totally insecure?
Posted: 8/27/2012 10:21:49 AM
Well most of us are at least some what insecure at times. Just think of it as meeting a friend and not a date,it might help. Did check your profile and pics and don't think your over weight or unattractive. Just be yourself and I'm sure things will be fine. Hey your a steelers fan so you at least know football.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 31 (view)
 
How would you respond? Am I finally POF paranoid?
Posted: 8/27/2012 9:59:08 AM
Hey he got you to respond. lol Most don't even respond to a polite mail.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Hello...Text
Posted: 8/22/2012 6:29:03 AM
I don't text and rarely use my cell phone. If I'm interested enough in you , I'll give you my home phone number.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Proper ID
Posted: 8/22/2012 6:24:01 AM
This is just plain paranoid. It's a first meet,not a long term commitment. Only time will tell if they are worthy or interesting enough to spend more time with.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Breaking your dry spell ...
Posted: 8/16/2012 7:26:50 AM
Janet Always has it right. It's not a life changing decision it's just enjoying each other.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Men over 55 ??
Posted: 8/16/2012 6:51:08 AM
Gee, I thought everybody in Florida was over 55. lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 390 (view)
 
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/14/2012 6:49:58 AM
Never have known what's in the mind of a woman but do know that women close to my age still enjoy sex and are a lot better at it now then when they were younger. Thank goodness for that. Opps most be the sex.lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 21 (view)
 
has this happend to you?
Posted: 7/20/2012 7:41:10 AM
lust- if you move in it probably won't last-but who knows,relax and enjoy it
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 22 (view)
 
When a woman sends the first message.
Posted: 4/14/2012 6:01:44 AM
Message away ladies. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Dosen't want to move in with anybody
Posted: 4/13/2012 3:24:43 PM
Wow glad to see others feel the same as I do. Now all I have to do is find her.lol Love my freedom,my home,my friends and family and do not want a live in companion. Do want a strictly monogamous relationship with some one special.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Dating strategies
Posted: 4/13/2012 6:51:41 AM
Moonchild,what a smart and attractive woman you are. Exactly dating is getting to know some one not a commitment or a marriage proposal. It's the process of finding out about each other and seeing if it's worth pursuing a monogamous relationship.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 181 (view)
 
sugar mommy?
Posted: 4/7/2012 8:00:24 AM
Lol not looking for a sugar mommy at my age,lol but would consider being adopted.lol
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 211 (view)
 
Women's Financial Status
Posted: 4/7/2012 7:55:43 AM
Women 45 plus should be able to take care of themselves financially. However I don't consider their financial status when asking for a date,it's just not important at this time. I never have and never will let a woman pay for a date and no I don't expect anything in return. It's just common courtesy that a man pay for a date,maybe it's just me.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
Msg: 22 (view)
 
being independent is a problem??
Posted: 2/19/2012 7:52:35 AM
Independent,wow . If you live by yourself,pay your own bills and make your own choices I guess your independent. We are all independent but if your in a serious relationship it can be a problem. If your significant other makes decisions that affect both of you with out any discussion,that's the I don't care attitude. If your in a serious relationship,independence is better described as compromise or communication. I think? lol
 
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