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Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
Favorites list
Posted: 4/24/2009 3:16:34 PM
I think it's obviously a filter type system firstly.
It gives you a chance to rethink things.
On perusing a profile we are either: go Msg now!
or at least then a choice to consider Msg later.
It's the same as if you were in a room of people,
you talk to some there and get numbers for another time?

Either way, I say we have a Favorites party!
To honor them I guess..
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
Slim Pickins?
Posted: 4/24/2009 2:53:38 PM
Louis Burton Lindley, Jr was his real name and he was a rodeo performer!
"Almost no choice of chicks/dudes to date in a certain group of people"
is the Urban dictionary definition.
Truly it's slim if this place is all you are counting on.
It's spring time to get out and meet people.
I agree with previous poster, where's the events
to draw all the seekers together.
I have personally attended just one event here in Montreal.
Hate to say it but a somewhat pathetic attempt to meet.
You can scan profiles and even chat on the phone,
but nothing beats the intimacy of physically being together.
Want to meet your potential mate?
Got to go out and make efforts.
I know of a place (friends) who might be willing to
arrange for weekly/monthly gatherings.
Any takers? MSG me
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Online ads
Posted: 11/16/2008 4:08:09 PM
Have you been surfing the Web lately
and been "Blacked out" by an advertisement?
Distracted and frustrated you "X" it.
How sneaky these marketers are!
Apparently we will have to pay extra to
avoid these, whether we buy the product or not.
Not only that but we will have to pay extra to
visit certain sites (even if they are "free").
I think it's called "Selective Marketing?
Neat Eh?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 59 (view)
Is dressing for comfort instead of style and fashion really a crime?
Posted: 11/16/2008 12:43:34 PM
Clothing is like a second skin,
so it should feel that way!
It also expresses who you are
meaning that one should be
always be comfortable.
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
whats the best PICK-UP bar in montreal
Posted: 9/10/2008 7:32:46 PM
where's the profile of posters?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
Posted: 9/2/2008 6:58:12 PM
Transvestites, bah
It's the transgendered
you gotta worry about!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
Summer OUTDOOR PARTY JULY 26th AT IRISH EMBASSY from 4pm onwards
Posted: 8/6/2008 9:37:29 AM
Why no comments on party?
No pictures either?
Humm Fishy!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 65 (view)
Posted: 8/6/2008 9:33:30 AM
So? What happened? Any hookups?How was the party?No Pics?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
Are there alternatives to Pof?
Posted: 6/28/2008 1:22:17 PM
Are there alternatives to Pof?
Yes, @ celibacy.not
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
Latin Heat Night from 7-10pm at Club Locoloco
Posted: 6/25/2008 12:35:44 PM
July 4th, my birthday!
You guys have fun for me!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
No Profile Photo? Why Bother?
Posted: 6/25/2008 11:58:24 AM
Did COQ leave with his picture(s)?
Gonna miss his eloquent
banter with Mystique.
Again gotta wonder,
why is someone on this site
who supposedly has a BF.
This is a "singles only" site.
Maybe you want to try
Ashley Madison!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Relationships, were they easier in the "old" days?
Posted: 5/20/2008 9:50:44 PM
How has the internet changed your dating approach/ritual?
Did you just go out and meet people before and now do
you search for potential mates and screen them on the net?
How much Faith do you put in meeting someone online?
Are internet relationships different than other types?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
Club Locoloco Spring Fling May 23 7-10pm
Posted: 5/5/2008 10:30:44 PM
Should I go?
Any interested women?
Sign up!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
Why No Picture?
Posted: 4/22/2008 11:50:33 AM
Thanks, sweetnsasy986!
Funny I don't think I'm
very photogenic!
Might put up some new ones?
Want more?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
Why No Picture?
Posted: 4/11/2008 8:43:29 PM
Thanks for the compliment, slady52,
and for having nice pics yourself.
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
Who makes the first move?
Posted: 3/20/2008 9:52:19 PM
we want to know about personal relationships, not Countries!
who cares about who runs the Gvmt, who rules you?
We want to know if one gender is more prone to make moves!
I say the women are the ones.
You can make a first move as a man,
and that can be read differently,
depending, on how you make that move,
and what type of move it is.
I say women, because they make the real first move.
In the sense that they ultimately move to our interest.
I don't think any woman would be making any moves
unless they got interest, or are interested themselves.
Because we live in a chauvinistic society,
we assume that it's men chasing women,
maybe we got it all wrong!
Maybe it's the women who are on the chase!
Good luck to all!
May spring be full of LOVE!
Peace out
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
Why No Picture?
Posted: 3/19/2008 6:26:09 PM
I could only think of four reasons:
1. You are "too" beautiful and don't want to be inundated with messages.
2. You are "too" ugly and a picture would be a detriment to getting dates.
3. You are "too" famous and don't want it known you use a dating site.
4. You are a criminal and wanted for various offenses!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
Who makes the first move?
Posted: 3/19/2008 5:57:21 PM
"Who makes the first move?"

to SoCal!

Ah, good old USofA
and SoCal good pick, especially!
Run by a former weightlifter,
Ravaged by wildfires and soon floods.
Silicone Valley has become
Silicone State! Good old USA,
Home of the real terrorists!
Their economy is going
down the tubes, a magical
place where the $250,000
house you bought is turned
into a nightmare.

Back to the original question:
Whoever is the horniest!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
Who makes the first move?
Posted: 3/17/2008 5:19:45 PM
Best bet:
Wholesome virgin!
Good luck!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
Who makes the first move?
Posted: 3/15/2008 9:20:38 PM
"May I ask how you would know that?"
Been there, done that.
but these days, watch out!
New study says 1 in 4 has STD.
Protect yourself!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
Who makes the first move?
Posted: 3/14/2008 3:00:21 PM
"And he put it on Craigslist?
What would people think of this man?"
Are you so sure that a man wrote that
article? what if it is a woman?
Women have as much desire as we do,
and depending on their state of arousal,
they can be very kinky.
I personally love it when their
inhibitions come off with the clothes.
There's a time for slow sweet sex,
but be ready for hard fast sweaty sex.
If you can't handle the heat,
stay out of the bedroom.
COQ, those SoCal girls like to f**k hard!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
Who makes the first move?
Posted: 2/26/2008 7:09:06 PM
The Dominant one!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
ARE WE TO OLD.......
Posted: 2/13/2008 2:43:46 PM
Go for the young ones while you have the chance!
You can always hook up with the others at the "home"
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Valentine's day suggestions for singles
Posted: 2/12/2008 10:18:39 PM
Seduce yourself,
Take yourself out to that
nice restaurant you had your eye on.
Buy yourself a treat(Clothes,Ipod,6-pack)
Then get all dressed up, primped fancy
and go out and make some noise!
If you can't find someone to fall in love with,
don't despair, you're always there.
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 2/7/2008 11:53:10 PM
I thought BJ's was sex?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
How far/low will you go for sex?
Posted: 2/7/2008 4:51:08 PM
Will you pay for it?
Lower your standards?
What are your limits?
Would you have sex with
someone you don't really like
but who is eager and willing?
Is it all a game of cat and mouse,
the thrill of the hunt?
Women, have you ever paid?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
Kinda With Someone ...
Posted: 2/6/2008 11:39:20 AM
to be
kinda not to be.
This is the question,
my friends
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 123 (view)
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 2/5/2008 11:30:22 PM
Are we all in agreement then?
Thread over and out!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 117 (view)
Is it okay for a woman to hit a man?
Posted: 2/5/2008 1:45:26 PM
Legally this is called assault, and it is against the law.
No one (male/female) has the right to abuse another.
If a woman feels the need to hit a man,
she is no better than a male wife-beater.
She has to learn to control her emotions.
If the man lets her hit him and then
dismisses it, then things get worse.
Violence is negative and destructive.
I, unfortunately was the victim of
physical and psychological abuse.
At first you think, oh she's pissed off
and maybe you might have deserved it.

Should a call to your cellular from your ex
who just wants to still be friends,
warrant a Champagne bottle to your head?
If a woman is in denial of being menopausal
and has severe mood shifts, she can get nasty.
Irritable and on their period, with a full moon
Is this a justifiable excuse? Never!
Men, don't take this crap.
Call the cops, move out, get help!

Women, unless you're being attacked
and self-defense is warranted,
never strike your man.Period!
That is unless you're into some S&M,

then knock yourselves out!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
No Profile Photo? Why Bother?
Posted: 2/5/2008 12:08:47 PM
Why be on a dating site if you have boyfriend?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 2/1/2008 3:00:44 PM
Depending on her subconscious desires,
previous experiences and her particular
feelings for you, it could be quite arousing.
If one was to turn the tables, I doubt any
man would have a problem being awoken
in a similar manner, I know I haven't!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
How's your Libido?
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:43:50 PM
According to Wikipedia:
"Libido in its common usage means sexual desire; however, more technical definitions, such as those found in the work of Carl Jung, are more general, referring to libido as the free creative—or psychic—energy an individual has to put toward personal development or individuation."
Either way, how is yours? Are you bothered by "Chemtrails"? Electro-magnetic leakage?
Food for thought.
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Singles together united
Posted: 1/12/2008 11:42:39 PM
We all admit to being single
We all want some companionship
We all seek the same goal
We want the Higher Power
to lead us and guide us
to the right person for us.
May Destiny provide for
your desires and aspirations.
Let the "Secret" work for you!
Circle of Light surrounds you!
Light of Love surrounds you
How do you feel?
Are you confident?
Ready, Steady, Go!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Doc in da house
Posted: 1/12/2008 8:30:18 PM
Share your Life experience with Da Doc!
What's troubling you?
Got too many concerns?
Are you lonely?
Where is your true Love?
Why resort to this site?
Question of Desperation?
Do you feel vunerable,
like putting your heart
out on your sleeve?
Talk to Da Doc!
We are all in the same Ocean!
Don't be shy or tell a lie,
You have to be free to see!
Tell the Truth!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
men's picture
Posted: 12/18/2007 11:21:53 AM
"hey, give me a reason not to be!"
Santa won't bring you presents!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
NO Xmas Party?
Posted: 12/15/2007 8:34:52 PM
What is it with people?
Isn't this the time of year when
it sucks to be alone and single?
You'd think it would be a perfect
time for a party, to meet others.
Is everyone cocooning?
And what about New Year's Eve?
I already got a few New Year resolutions:
Get a girlfriend, start a Website and
learn to Astral travel at will.
Merry Xmas & Happy New Year!
Let the Love flow!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
whats the best PICK-UP bar in montreal
Posted: 12/7/2007 7:39:59 AM
I guess it depends on what you want to "Pick-up"!
There's lot's of nasty things in those bars.
STD's are spread by promiscuous people,
who usually frequent such places.
Best bet is on your way, through friends
at a private party or event/concert.
I find no matter how classy or fun
these places claim to be, there's
an underlying prevalence of sleaze
associated with them.
Desperate times call for desperate measures?
How far/low will you go?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Loft party cancelled?
Posted: 12/6/2007 2:22:25 PM
Any explanation?
So much ado about nothing, pity.
People seem to be geared up for
this event and yet it is canceled.
I feel sorry for those who were counting
on having a good time meeting others.
Perhaps an alternative could be arranged.
Any suggestions?

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 3 (view) a scam
Posted: 12/2/2007 1:01:12 PM
It is clearly written on the site:
" is not responsible for the contents of these messages.
If a "User" requests money on this site it's a scam, and you should report it here
along with any other type of scam/spam."?
Are "Users" suspected but advertisers aren't?
"reported in the paper awhile back."
Which Paper would that be?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 2 (view) a scam
Posted: 11/29/2007 5:28:20 PM
What THEY pay for this?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view) a scam
Posted: 11/29/2007 4:26:43 PM
When I came to this site (POF),
there is a banner for FreeLotto,
saying you just won for being the Xth visitor
which is a scam, some sort of fraud!
DO NOTclick or reply to this!
Apparently they will try to lure you
into their bogus monthly draws.
How does a scam operation
as this appear on this site?
Especially since POF warns
of such activity?
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
Montreal clubs
Posted: 9/16/2007 11:15:00 PM
Check out the "" calendar!
Plenty places,events,people(young&older)!
Caution: Not for the faint-hearted!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Posted: 9/10/2007 3:49:11 PM
What is this fascination with celebrities (stars)?
Are they Idolized too much, Should we not concern ourselves
more with our own lives. I know there are some talented people
that deserve some respect and admiration for their work.
But then we have these others who are no talent wannabes.
I have heard interviews with certain celebrities
and they sound like arrogant ignorant idiots really.
Would you want to be a celebrity?
Have people snooping on your every move.
Watch me! I need your attention.
Dress like me, have plastic surgery to look like me.
Listen to me, I have important things to say!
Pay thousands of dollars for my half eaten piece
of pizza. Give me lot's of money, I never have enough..
Dumb and Dumber.
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
The true meaning of God
Posted: 9/10/2007 3:09:41 PM
We are told that we are created in His image.
Meaning we are ourselves also Creators.
Our creative process (Being God) starts with thought,
which in turn becomes word. When word is expressed
it has power and becomes part of collective
consciousness .Acted upon, it becomes our reality.
I have understood that God is experiencing itself through
our existence.To know yourself is to know God.
Above all God is "Perfect Love".
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Honesty and dating
Posted: 9/10/2007 2:48:50 PM
We talk about honesty being important as a criteria,
yet is there such a thing as being too truthful, too soon?
Or are things about us on a "need to know" basis.
Would you, for instance, date someone who is poor
but honest about it.
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
Single people with children
Posted: 8/16/2007 2:42:55 PM
just found this link:
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Single people with children
Posted: 8/16/2007 2:09:27 PM
Just curious if anyone went out with one,
and how it worked out? how do the children react?
Would it be a case of "instant Dad/Mom"?
If the children are under 18, what are your responsibilities?
Do the children have veto power on who their parent goes out with?
feedback appreciated!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
How can you tell fake boobs from real boobs?
Posted: 8/5/2007 11:38:19 AM
Sometimes you can't, if there well done.
Apparently some women are proud of them,
and won't hesitate to let you see or feel them.
I know of at least two women who love to show them off.
Of course they have to be a bit of an exhibitionist.
Fake boobs usually equals fake vain people.
Also fake boobs tend to harden over the years.
One older woman I was with, had them rock solid.
Ouch! couldn't tell at first glance, until I felt them.
It was like she had baseballs in her chest!
Batter out!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Internet dating versus old-school method
Posted: 7/1/2007 1:16:56 PM
Old-school method being meeting in person.
Is the internet too impersonal? too virtual?
how do you browse? by photo or profile description?
either way have you felt: she/he's the one for you?
Have they reciprocated? What has been your
experience when approaching others?
Will you give up in your search on this site?
Have you tried other sites? comments welcome!
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
Party at Funkytown June 22, 2007
Posted: 6/22/2007 3:00:49 PM
Should I go? real people!
no internet scammers?
had a couple recently!

If not have fun for me!
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