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 Author Thread: Polish Cooling....
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Polish Cooling....
Posted: 3/26/2013 4:33:14 PM
My family never made the beef goulash, do you have a recipe?

I recently made a dish in my slow cooker that was wedges of cabbage with tomato sauce, ground beef and rice. It basically was galubki without all the work. Tasted great.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Aspergers and intense sex drive/interest.
Posted: 3/26/2013 4:25:13 PM
Okay, you shoot down any suggestions that people give you.

1. getting out of ruts is hard for you, but you must make yourself do it. Do something to shake up your life. Go skydiving,
enroll in evening classes, join a club like events and adventures.

2. The Big Bang Theory makes the additude that nerdy is cool, isn't that a plus for people with Asperger's??? They use their sense of humor to get through things, maybe you are in deep need of getting one. Don't you dare tell me that Asperger's people can't have a sense of humor. My son is 20 years old and diagnosed with AS at age 6. I made sure he understood humor and sarcasm, and it has been his saving grace.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Mommy issues
Posted: 3/26/2013 4:08:43 PM
^^^^
You contradict yourself here, but here's a clue-
women refuse to date men still living at home with parents because the men have not reached the point of recognizing they are an adult and should be out on their own. Just read your own post.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Polish Cooling....
Posted: 3/26/2013 3:51:49 PM
Polish food 101-
Galubki
Pierogi
Halushki
Kielbasa and sourkraut
All recipes can be gotten from allrecipes.com.


Anyone know where to get good Kishka?
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Aspergers and intense sex drive/interest.
Posted: 3/22/2013 2:54:32 PM
Lots of famous eople have or had Asperger's. Einstein, Jefferson, Marie Curie, Paul Robison, there is a book about it, I believe it's calld "Diagnosing Jefferson" They went onto have relationships of all kinds, so can you. Develop yoiur sense of humor, that is very important. It can save face in uncomfortable circumstances. Watch the show "Big Bang Theory" ad take cues from them. Remember- Sense of umor!
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Pot Roast in a Crock Pot - how can i get the beef tender?
Posted: 3/22/2013 2:35:30 PM

you don't want to cook on high. you can actually dry out a roast on high if you aren't careful with watching your liquids.


Maybe that's what she's doing wrong
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Mommy issues
Posted: 3/18/2013 4:22:05 PM

And overlooking one fact, when she lays her hands on you that could be called assault. One call to the cops for a domestic dispute, more often than not someone gets hauled off. There may or may not be more facts to this entire story but, the mother is completely out of line based on what I know. The son has no balls especially for a man of his age for not interjecting. If you're going to leave because a 70 year old woman might get violent, what does that say about the mental state of a 70 year old woman? Protecting your kids is one thing, forgetting to cut the cord, unforgivable. Even if you were witnessed by her arguing while you were walking home, that argument was between you and your boyfriend and unless you were taking swings at each other or causing a huge scene. It was none of her business to get in the middle of it.



I lived the nightmare of being married to a Mama's boy. My advice is to be thankful that you found out early enough to not have invested too much of your life. Why in the world did Mama and Papa just happen to be driving by? Unfortunately, they didn't "just happen" by, they were in the habit of driving by and checking on sonny boy's welfare, in case he needed them. Sonny had something new in his life, and they were investigating. First of all, they were out of line by stopping by unannounced. Once Sonny boy moved out, they were obligated out of respect for Sonny's privacy to czll ahead. This situation shows that Sonny had an open door policy with his parents, meaning he has yet to sever the apron strings. Then there is the possibility that his parents are partial owners of the place, which means they feel that they have the right to drop in on him. You would never have had privacy or respect from the parents. The important point is that this was Sonny boy's residence, regardless of who owned it, and it was his place to say who was thrown out or stayed. Even if the both of you were falling down drunk, the parents were out of line. You were Sonny's house guest, the Mama had no right to toss you out. Of course, if Mama was any kind of woman, she would have noticed that the two of you were in the midst of a tiff and that you both had been drinking and bowed out herself saying "Maybe we should come back at another time."
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
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Pot Roast in a Crock Pot - how can i get the beef tender?
Posted: 3/15/2013 12:47:23 PM

One really good way to have nice tender meat is to actually add milk to your recipe. the lactic acids will help break down the tough bits of elastin and cartilage. this also works for making a nice smooth meat based pasta sauce.


Not a good idea. Milk will curdle if cooked for long periods of time. Add milk in the last hour of cooking.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 55 (view)
 
MEN What's up with the dick pics??!!
Posted: 2/26/2013 1:09:02 PM

Hey Artsy!!! Are you seriously knocking me for my profile pic!!! LMFAO! Listen lady you are showing more cleavage than me!!! Check yourself.. I am no D*ck tease and I think my profile pic is nice not over sexy! Why don't YOU put a business suit on with your trying to be a naughty librarian Mrs. Robinson ass. And no... I do not find d*ck pics flattering and what in the world would make you think that from this post Maggie???


I'm not the one whining about receiving unsolicited pics, Dearie. I dont hide that I enjoy my sexuality. I just pointed out that you are talking through both sides of your mouth. Perhaps I struck a nerve.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Size vs. Fidelity Correlation?
Posted: 2/25/2013 4:16:12 PM
A cheater is a cheater no matter what.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 45 (view)
 
MEN What's up with the dick pics??!!
Posted: 2/25/2013 4:13:45 PM
D1cks are like the men that they are attached to, unique. Some lean to the left, some lean to the right, some stand straight, some curve up, some curve down, some are fatter in the shaft, some have bigger helmets.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Does my partner have a gambling problem?
Posted: 2/25/2013 4:06:12 PM

I'm currently dating this man who seems to go to the Casino 2-3 times a week every two weeks or so. But the amount he bets makes me nervous, between $1000-$3000 each time. Does this qualify as a gambling problem??


I'll bet that he does.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 42 (view)
 
MEN What's up with the dick pics??!!
Posted: 2/25/2013 3:48:09 PM
Women are just as proud of their cleavage shots as men are of their D1ck shots.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 41 (view)
 
MEN What's up with the dick pics??!!
Posted: 2/25/2013 3:45:50 PM
[QUOTE]UPDATE!! My roommate and I are both on here and she has this guys number and he texted her asking who this is. So we decided to have a little fun and she called him and I talked to him for a second just joking around. I told him that I was the one that put his dic as my contact pic for him on my phone... Now of course I was joking and I have never actually seen this mans d**k. lol... AND then he uttered these words exactly... "Oh yeah now I remember"!!! So laughing so hard I could not talk anymore my friend takes the phone and asks him do you just send your penis pics to all the girls and he says well to a few. So then JOKING she says lets just get this over and send me one. He hangs up and immediately sends a pic to her phone. THEN calls us back with a plan for us to meet him TONIGHT at a hotel to have a threesome! LMFAO!! He REALLY thinks his thang is so special..., THIS is what I am talking about! Unreal![/QUOTE]

Yeah, right. Not that you weren't really flattered. You use your sexuality in your profile pic, then profess that "this is the real me". LOL Why don't you use a professional photo in a business suit nd no make up and save the sexy photo for when you really get to know the guy? You have a "look but don't touch" mentality that men call a "D1ck teaser", or maybe that you think that your vag is so special that only certain guys are allowed access.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Slow cooker - crock pot recipes, Please?
Posted: 2/25/2013 2:54:38 PM
Chick Pea Curry

2 cans chick peas
2 cans diced tomatoes
1 can sliced potatoes
1/4 cup onion
clove garlic, minced
1 T curry powder or garam masala

throw everything into crock pot and forget for a couple of hours. Serve with rice or naan bread.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Can you cook a turkey in a slow cooker??
Posted: 1/30/2013 4:01:05 PM
You can't throw every thing into a deep fryer and leave it cook all day.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Best behavior (or behaviour)
Posted: 11/19/2012 4:41:31 PM
Aw throw her a bone. Go out with her but make sure you wear your flea collar.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Date lives 1 hr away & wants to come over for sex, but I have kids...
Posted: 11/19/2012 2:32:51 PM
Betcha the jerk is married.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 152 (view)
 
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/12/2012 3:53:19 PM
Talk to a medical person about giardia.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Dating and Herpes
Posted: 11/12/2012 2:56:31 PM
There are herpes dating sites.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Sexual...vocalizations
Posted: 11/3/2012 12:32:15 PM
I like vocal interaction during sex as it keeps both parties in the moment. I feel that silent men are just working to get the job done and not enjoying themselves.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 111 (view)
 
Does a shaved pussy itch?
Posted: 11/3/2012 12:12:14 PM
It depends on how sensitive the person's skin is. Regrowing hair creates roughness that can irritate skin.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Cohabiting or Marriage
Posted: 10/24/2012 4:35:42 PM

If he needs help with expenses he should get a roommate. Being financially bound to one another is no way to begin a love relationship.
Having your finances in order is very important, he sounds like he needs a good financial advisor not a GF.


well said
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Is a friends with benefits relationship a lure for women as much as it is for a man?
Posted: 10/24/2012 4:31:06 PM
^^^^ Some PEOPLE have no boundaries
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 110 (view)
 
Is it better to be alone Or settle for someone that is not Your type.
Posted: 10/24/2012 4:22:06 PM
Keep your options open instead of narrowing your choices into a certain "type".
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 45 (view)
 
spoiled by anal?
Posted: 10/24/2012 4:17:05 PM
So what you are saying is that you are concerned that you didn't finish, but don't care if she did? Sounds like this is all about you.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Pegging, from the woman's perspective
Posted: 10/24/2012 3:57:38 PM
My sister is a lab tech administrator and she talks about bacteria back there called Giardia. It's nasty and can really make you sick. Just something to think about.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Boyfriend says he wants to stay with me forever, RED FLAG??
Posted: 10/24/2012 3:49:07 PM
I agree with the concern that he hasn't said "I love you" yet. Is this "forever" thing just a business arrangement to him?
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Fashion -What you wear
Posted: 10/24/2012 3:41:33 PM
THAt depends on the facial hair. A nice goatee takes work to maintain and can be nice. What I don't like are big bushy beards.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 38 (view)
 
When are women the horniest before or after there period
Posted: 10/24/2012 3:36:19 PM
I was always horniest right before and the first day of. After that, the cramps would take over.

Of course, now it's a non-issue LOL
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Woman not having any fantasy??? how real is that???
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:55:28 PM
Fantasies are like bedtime stories. They're not what you want as a reality, but are entertaining. I know someone so insecure, he was offended that I had fantasies.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Being Too goodlooking can work against you ???
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:48:37 PM

I have noticed being too good looking can be as advantage as disadvantage. A lot of Woman tend to shy away from good looking man for fear of rejection and inadequacy.

Even for man, the fear of competition for looks can be deadly. Good looking man have to endure a lot of heat from other man or avoidance from the average.It could be silent but evident.


When you have sex, do you scream your own name?
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 7 (view)
 
G-Shot injections
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:42:16 PM

Thankfully the man I am with now,truly cares about me and my orgasm and does his level best to get me there and understands this about me and doesn't judge or make me feel inept or like I am less of a woman because it takes me longer to get there.So worth the risk I took on him!


That's what it's all about isn't it? So why worry about female enhancements?
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 128 (view)
 
Fetishes
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:37:15 PM
Let's stay on topic. THis is not the thread for promoting groups a capella or otherwise.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Is a friends with benefits relationship a lure for women as much as it is for a man?
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:19:17 PM

The big difference is the word 'committment'. In a FWB there isn't any. No expecations either. If both parties go into it openly with casual intentions, and can continue to keep it casual... it can be a satisfying, convenient 'relationship'.


Sometimes that's all you can emotionally handle at that time.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 119 (view)
 
Men don't like letting women watch them masturbate?
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:14:19 PM
Stranger, no, S/O would be fun and I'd join him.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 20 (view)
 
relationship dilemma
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:12:02 PM

On a lighter note, two of my longest relationships and BEST SEX were with short men with smaller penises.On a lighter note, two of my longest relationships and BEST SEX were with short men with smaller penises.


The size of the man has nothing to do with the size of his parts.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Fashion -What you wear
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:08:19 PM
Well, a lot of women like men to wear clothes that are fashionable within the last 15 years.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 18 (view)
 
relationship dilemma
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:02:43 PM
Stray Cat makes a good point. Make up for lack of size by becoming talented with the tongue.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Ladies would you masturbate and let someone watch?
Posted: 10/24/2012 1:56:13 PM

Toys are for lonely woman who don't have BF or Husband. real woman with real man don't need toys


No stereotyping here, is there? Apparently someone here feels threatened by toys. Your statement shows a lack open-mindedness in the bedroom.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 118 (view)
 
Men don't like letting women watch them masturbate?
Posted: 10/24/2012 1:36:04 PM

I see it as a normal body function and if someone walks in on me, I don't act unnatural.



Taking a dump is a normal body function, but I wouldn't want to walk in on someone doing that.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 127 (view)
 
Fetishes
Posted: 10/24/2012 1:31:40 PM
Getting back on topic, I know a guy who likes to use women as toilets and wants them to drink his urine. UGH! Not for me.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Actually successfully finding someone on this site
Posted: 10/24/2012 1:24:38 PM

its a question that plagues alot of new comers to this site. I have come and gone from time to time and i have yet to meet anyone worth while. I dont know if it is something im doing wrong or what. Honestly i would rather meet someone offline but with my busy life i have channeled my attempts at a relationship to POF. any ideas to help with this?


Sounds like you spend way too much time on the computer. Get a life. There's an election coming up, get out and volunteer for the candidate of your choice. I see several involved young women at the office that I volunteer at.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
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voting
Posted: 10/24/2012 12:55:11 PM
Your argument makes alot of sense, yet I hear people complain about the "Big Brother" aspect of it. Personally, I have a drivers license anyway, so I can't see the problem, yet I've heard so many complaints. I was curious as to whether this was as big an issue as those people I spoke with made it out to be.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 120 (view)
 
Fetishes
Posted: 10/15/2012 3:20:14 PM
One person's fetish is another person's normal sex.

Like the Thomas Jefferson aspect, has anyone tried a Barney costume? LOL
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 30 (view)
 
If you could give yourself oral would you?
Posted: 10/15/2012 3:13:12 PM
This thread is too funny. Thanks for reviving it.

I bet the same people who wouldn't do it are the ones who don't masterbate.

It might be fun for a kick now and then, but not as a regular thing.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Am I being unreasonable ?
Posted: 10/15/2012 2:52:36 PM

@Psycho, I have an awesome job. But, I still expect a man to pay for the date. That's the gentleman thing to do.


even if he were out of a job? Nowadays it's not just loosers who are unemployed.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Am I being unreasonable ?
Posted: 10/15/2012 2:33:49 PM

I always offer to pay my share on a first date and I'm more than happy to take turns paying for dates especially if I'm the one who invited the guy out.


I like this approach, but nowadays, with the job situations as they are, who can afford to pay for anything?
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Bi-Polar/Cheating Ex keeps calling
Posted: 10/15/2012 2:17:23 PM

I don't think you need to call the cops unless if she threatens you.


or herself, even if you think she's looking for attention. let the police decide if she's bluffing. They'll take her to a hospital and she'll meet with the experts who can tell the difference.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 46 (view)
 
acting in adult films
Posted: 10/15/2012 1:33:15 PM

hmmmmm, so you would be watching it and fantasising that she was performing those acrobatic twirls and manouvres with you, but you wouldn't want to be with her?


sure they'd want to be with her, like a human blow up doll.

Moot point for me as any porn movie I'd be considered for is "middle age fun" LOL. Who wants to see that!
 
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