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 Author Thread: On an initial meetup......should the guy..?
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
On an initial meetup......should the guy..?
Posted: 5/9/2012 3:38:51 PM
Well this is what it works for me,I will pick up a place that I enjoy,near my place when I have the "time"and then I will tell her that I will be at this place that I really like and tell her that she is more than welcome to join me for a drink and some stymulating conversation but to remember to be "sharp" on time that happy hour has a limit.That way it does not sound puchy(to join you) and you also sound confident(#1 quality a woman looks in a man) .I belive to many guys put to much in the table and is much better to walk into any situation with a mind set of I'm here to enjoy the moment,no special agendas if something happens and she shows up...Fine,if not you are still at your favorite place.... DRZ
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 93 (view)
 
How do you cope with being single?
Posted: 5/9/2012 3:21:05 PM
Great tip fleuron....Become a more of an interesting man a woman will love to meet and do productive stuff...That's what great about the forum,your friends in real life will NEVER tell you what's wrong with you,great advice...DRZ
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Emotion or time
Posted: 5/9/2012 2:36:27 PM
I think people got it all wrong this days,I belive that if you click with someone,sex should be the smart thing to do at the begining and not six month of dating later(you can BUY alot of real state this days with that kind of spending on dates).I had alot of girls tell me that they thought they met the "one" until they went to bed with them 4 month later.I don't belive in the "one" my friend BUT I do belive in being with someone wonderful,sexually satisfing and a joy to be with to celebrate life together,and internet is a great tool for that.Test eveything and everyone you meet on line,remember time and money is valuable.And if a woman is not ready to acept you like that,NEXT...
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 91 (view)
 
How do you cope with being single?
Posted: 5/9/2012 2:17:55 PM
So that 's your limiting belief,that if you are alone you can't be happy?Are you telling me that everyone who is not in a realationship in this world is unhappy?Maybe some of us are more "selective" and know how hard is to "click"with someone emotionally stable,healthy,interesting,attractive and wonderful kind of person(Remember not everything that looks good is always good for you,like the nachos with cheese).Excuse me for what I'm about to say BUT you sound like a hungry homeless little kitten in the midle of winter in the snow.I'm not trying to be mean,I am better man than that,just trying to show you another way.You must changes those negatives belief,here's a good one...Women find really,really,really sexy single guys,just because they are more of a challenge and play hard to get....
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 113 (view)
 
Do u believe in love at first sight???
Posted: 3/13/2012 9:54:11 AM
Sure everytime a go to a club.Is when two extremly BUT not to selective horny people get together to hook up for a all night marathon of repulsive sex...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
What do women really look for in a man?
Posted: 3/12/2012 4:51:42 PM
#1 thing a woman looks in a man is for him to be strong and CONFIDENT.#2 will be being fun and authentic....Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Handsome and well groomed but
Posted: 3/12/2012 4:40:19 PM
If he don't ask me for another date,I would not say a thing to him.On the flip side of the coin...Lying is not cool,so that being said if he ask me why?I'll be as honest,authentic and direct,and I will let him know exactly why,as simple as that..Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Can good dating and flirting skills get you more compatible partners & better relationships?
Posted: 3/12/2012 2:50:35 PM
The thing is that not to many men are themself when they meet an attractive woman.Men usually act nicer and in artificially good behavior when we meet some one they really,really like and that's the BIG problem.Is much better to walk into any new situation open to the possibilities BUT with a mind set of I'm here to enjoy the moment,no special agendas.About the gurus,well I am a true believer that is a great way to learn from people who has been there and done that.As for advice here's a great tip that always work for me...I treat everyone that I meet on a first date like if I knew them for more than 20 years...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
BIG Holiday Party - Pineapple Groove - Delray Beach - Friday, Dec 16th, 2011
Posted: 12/14/2011 8:59:06 PM
BTW you know me if you see me busy don't be shy and grab me by the ass and say hi friendo,actually that's the only way this days my friends can say hi ,see you kid when I see you,your #1 fan...Doc and Alice
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
BIG Holiday Party - Pineapple Groove - Delray Beach - Friday, Dec 16th, 2011
Posted: 12/14/2011 8:49:08 PM
Hey Dale whaqt's up?I have 2 parties going on that day but me and Alice will still try to make it for the blast you perve,miss you silly and you still are A plus in our book,just don't drink that to fast kid,your friends...Doc and Alice
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Walking Out during First Meet
Posted: 11/25/2011 1:36:13 PM
Don't worry about it,remember that the trademark of a low status person is avoiding conflict.She probably didn't have a "back up plan"for you and there where no girls around the bar to help her out and give them the look(Most women always have a back up plan to get out off the a first date if is not working). Be indifferent to the outcome and enjoy the moment,have fun......Next time you go out on a first date just ask her when you are ready to order for her to the bartender if she want to have "drink" or she rather have the" money"?
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 65 (view)
 
seems like the older crowd of guys here are only looking for sex
Posted: 11/25/2011 12:47:01 PM
Read well dolly what I meant was that just because you had sex on a first date the guy should introduce you to his mom,friends,pets and family members the same week.I believe she should be more selective on picking a first date. and take full responsibility for her acts.I had many night stands in my life,I don't have no sexual hang-ups about sex. But in order for me to be in a relationship she most be attractive,interesting,intelligent and emotionally stable to be girlfriend material...I believe we all humans deserve that wonderful one.IF SHE IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDSHIP FIRST...That's not me...Friends don't put friends in little boxes like that,the only thing I will agree with a woman that I really,really,really like on a first date is that I won't do anything unless we both agree to and that's the way I work(I don't let women sexual power to take advantage/no sexual privileges).Some guys can hide there desire...I can't...I don't have that talent...Dr.Z
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
seems like the older crowd of guys here are only looking for sex
Posted: 11/25/2011 10:22:57 AM
Honey here's the news... ALL men I don't care if they are older,younger or even that nice 95 year old gran gran papa want to have sex at the beginning (unless the are "virgin-ridiculous")
. Marriage or a relationship is something you must EARN with a man.I will admit that most of the men out there will act nicer,more accommodating,and generally on artificially good behavior when around a woman that the want to get physical with( a form of manipulation and scarcity of a mind),BUT even most"players for life" would actually prefer a wonderful woman. I don't agree on lying to women but you and most of the women out there should strongly reconsider the way they think and start taking responsibility for there actions and thought on dating.To many times,girls bring an expectation of relationship ,marriage,etc.to the table.This cause all kinds of problems-from idealizing positives and exaggerating or not noticing the negatives(same goes for men).I rather walk into any new situation open to any possibility,BUT with the mind set of I'm here to enjoy the moment,I don't have an agenda...If something physical happen happens,fine.I don't have any hangs-ups about sex-BUT,I'm not going to think about "relationship and marriage"until at least date 10 if it ever gets that far and no relationship talk or behavior for at least three month!Like a said...You must earn that....
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Blowjob vs. sex
Posted: 11/25/2011 1:58:42 AM
Let's face it:Find the person whose mouth makes all the right moves and join the line of those eager to lap up the attention.The opposite also applies:refuse to get up close and personal and don't be surprised if your dance card stays permanently empty.Why?Not only is oral sex one of life great pleasures,but our attitude toward it speaks volumes about our attitude toward to sex in general.Open uninhibited,sensuous lovers adore both giving and receiving oral.Prissy,uptight and why would you possibly want to go there are adjectives which apply to the rest of the population......Dr.Z
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Questions about oral sex on guys
Posted: 11/25/2011 1:29:41 AM
Doubly delicious kaliecat and is my deepest desire that each and every one of you girls from this site find that truly-erect,so-hard-it's-going-to-burst,vein-throbbing,blood-pumping, glorious and gladiatorial penis ...Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
please help!
Posted: 11/24/2011 12:22:19 PM
Here's a little secret:We guys look at the photos and not the profile at first or a least I do.So I will advice you to have at least a photo of you from head to toe.A smile will be nice(you look in your photos like your cat just die).Well try it and let me know if it works for you...Doc(BTW that comment was pretty,pretty funny...What happen...Aren't you aloud to speak)
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Questions about oral sex on guys
Posted: 11/24/2011 11:12:55 AM
Yes I remember you, you where mean to me at school and we voted you the most likely to have the finest derriere.And is amazing after all this years you still do.Take care kid,your friend from this side of the world...Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/24/2011 11:05:23 AM
Even so most guys wont admit it,we all had that fantacy.Is cool as long as you both agree to it....
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Questions about oral sex on guys
Posted: 11/24/2011 10:55:35 AM
Hey thanks dude even if is not my cup tea.Have a happy ending and a happy holiday....Chester Molester
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Questions about oral sex on guys
Posted: 11/24/2011 10:43:16 AM
Gods gift to a man is a woman and woman gift to a man is oral sex.Now to the point...Leave the lights on so he can see what you're doing.Give him a real front-row by tying your hair back as well.If you are BRAVE hold eye contact while you're felating him.If he stands you sit facing him on the side of the bed or a piece of furniture.If he stands you kneel in front of him in the classic submisive pose and lick your way until his penis is in straning attention,then bypass it completely by licking down the outside of his thigh and stop right there that will drive him nuts.Remember to add hands before you add mouth.Go lower for the lollipop lick-one fabulously long lick from the base right to the top-them make an O and in one movement,slide your mouth over his erction taking him as far as is confortable for you. and you can later move from there to the bread and butter strike.Remember that is NOT practice makes it perfect is more like PERFECT practice make it perfect......Try it and let me know how it works for you....
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 283 (view)
 
girls with high sex drive
Posted: 11/24/2011 10:00:10 AM
I haven't met a woman yet that dosen't have a killer sex drive kid,that's the naked truth.Let's face it:If he's not into experimenting or trying exotic fare,he's hardly going to dish up the Kama Sutra behind closed doors.There's a dark side to male sexuality that operates on an instrinsically primitive level.Unleash it and you can't help but see evidence of RAW,UNCONTROLABLE,EMOTION...
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Tues. Oct.11, Dance, Mingle & Meet New Friends In Deerfield
Posted: 10/11/2011 8:41:34 AM
Do you know that all your friends even your very best friend started as a stranger at some point of your life,can you IMAGINE!There's no reason for us to be strangers kido.Remember we are all in this together and we don't leave anybody out.My deepest desire is that each of us party to the fullest of our true potential,see-ya all...Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
DANCE @ ELEGANT NEW VENUE - FRIDAY, JUNE 19th, 2009 @ PASSION NIGHTCLUB @ HARDROCK - HOLLYWOOD
Posted: 6/16/2009 8:58:40 PM
Ok dale,I won't break no arms,I'm letting you in on the synchronized time that you will need the staff to serve my glass of wine You will need to log at a very presise time.Here take notes.It all goes down on frieday this week.Now who do I got to break a leg for some food ?Hey seriously thanks for the invitation to the party,you are a better than exellent host and friend...Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
DANCE @ ELEGANT NEW VENUE - FRIDAY, JUNE 19th, 2009 @ PASSION NIGHTCLUB @ HARDROCK - HOLLYWOOD
Posted: 6/16/2009 6:22:06 PM
It wasen't until last night that the round table and I confirmed the actual date and time with me and you at the party.SO FIX ME A DRINK OR DO I GOT TO BREAK YOUR ARM?...Hottie hottie mchottie bananana sexy Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
DANCE PARTY - FRIDAY - MAY 1st, 2009 AT GiGi's - BOCA RATON
Posted: 4/30/2009 2:58:55 PM
Thanks for the compliment D,I can tell you recognize a good thing when you see it.Well take care kid and see-ya when I see-ya...Mr.High quality parts Docbanger:
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
DANCE PARTY - FRIDAY - MAY 1st, 2009 AT GiGi's - BOCA RATON
Posted: 4/30/2009 1:41:43 AM
I see that the party is getting pack with nerds,is this a starwars convention?.......
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Fun Friday Dance Party at Club 10 on March 27, 2009!
Posted: 3/27/2009 5:38:44 AM
Hey thanks for the invitation "sentbangles"(I guess you recognizes high quality parts when you see them).However this is my courtyard and the ball is always on my side(I'm in control) so I'll tell you where we will meet if we meet.So this is what we are going to do,if you tell me your name and I like it,I'll tell you mine,how that sounds...Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Fun Friday Dance Party at Club 10 on March 27, 2009!
Posted: 3/26/2009 8:55:42 PM
Oh before I forget "leona" thanks for the compliment on me being a "hoot",BUT remenber kid,we are talking about YOU not me,later gator...Mr.High Status Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Fun Friday Dance Party at Club 10 on March 27, 2009!
Posted: 3/26/2009 8:26:48 PM
No gift certificate,buy you a drink leona!!!You're sooooo demanding.....Ok you talk me into it,you better don't last me 2 minutes if we ever get together...Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Fun Friday Dance Party at Club 10 on March 27, 2009!
Posted: 3/26/2009 8:17:30 PM
You know what smilingsarah I might make time for you also and let's see how long you can cathch my attention,don't be rude and say hi,later..Doc "Huuuuuuuuuuhh?
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Fun Friday Dance Party at Club 10 on March 27, 2009!
Posted: 3/26/2009 11:57:32 AM
Was in it for me if I cure you from your social torture and congested head ?Now seriously...I know that secreatly you like me,so don't be shy and say hi,you always been kind of cool ansd special in a strange kind of way(that didn't come out right ),later silly...Doc
 dr.z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Fun Friday Dance Party at Club 10 on March 27, 2009!
Posted: 3/26/2009 8:41:03 AM
And maybe leona I'll give you some adult supervision that night just for a little while(happy hour has a limit you know) to protect you against all the "casanovas" at the party ,but only is if you temp me with a good enough offer(perhaps that gift certificate),how that souds,sincerly...Don Juan Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 2/27/2009 12:12:48 PM
I know exactly how you feel yankeedon,I also could use a girl like moodance 247 tonight,and she dosen't have any idea of the things that I have been thinking on doing to her in my mind,mmm...can,t wait 1000 times...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Broward County Party at the new Croccos
Posted: 2/21/2009 2:27:48 PM
Watch out girls!!!5'11"full of pleasure passing by the party tonight,later...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Broward County Party at the new Croccos
Posted: 2/20/2009 6:56:13 AM
I like your parties Deb,always had a "killer" time,so count me in....."Kissy" face..."Huggy" bear...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Valentines Day Party- Friday, February 6th, 2009- KIS in Delray Beach
Posted: 1/26/2009 7:27:22 PM
I'm "in" D,sounds fun,especially the martini menu,later...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/22/2009 4:07:18 PM
Yes I KNOW ,I remenber now,you girls are such a players.By the way,do you think I'm sexy...common baby let me know...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/22/2009 2:02:47 PM
Hey what's up guys,yehh I'm feeling old today,like 69 years old,well I'm not really 69,just like that the number....Doc(PS:By the way moondance247,who is Maggie?)
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/10/2009 7:40:54 AM
Mmmm...Much better sun-e-d,keep talking about me,you left out tall,athletic,intelligent,fun,interesting,authentic and ocourse "modest"(blink).Well take care D,you're very special too,and like I once wrotte to you,anyone who get's to know you will be bless to find out more about you.See you when I see you them...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/10/2009 5:15:18 AM
I'm SHOKED and hurt sun-e-d.This is unacceptable,what about my kiss?Just because Bob is a SEX "symbol",dosen't mean I can't not be one also.You know,I can't belive it...I did all that flirting with you,we had this fun little vibe,and you are not going to come over to me at the party to visit and hint that you like me...I feel unloved...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/9/2009 10:11:03 AM
No marj124,I'm not a farmer,BUT yes I remenber you and your town,I visit your town many,many years ago,it had dirt roads and farmers where singing,and them I saw YOU,and you where in a wheel barrel with your great grandpa-pa heading to the farmers market for some ice-cream,when I pull your pigtails and you start crying and hit me in the arm,and call me "meen boy".Yes I remenber your town,because your town is as beatiful as "you"...Koala Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/9/2009 7:42:50 AM
I can see another midget is tryigng to seduce me,WELL mari124 I won't be another "victim" of your seduction,I'm not that type of guy ,I got feelings you know and a brain...Doc(PS:And yes you look familiar,are you a farmer?)
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/9/2009 5:48:32 AM
Mmmm...never heard that one before sun-e-d..."Dynamite is small but when ignited is dangerous"(That's pretty good shorty).Just for that you get 50 points,25 points more will get you a kiss(in the right cheek),so keep it up...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/8/2009 2:30:01 PM
Hey no worries"Wanna Dance",if it wasen't for me,you'll be the sexiest guy at the party...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/8/2009 2:20:01 PM
I wish I had $1 for every time I heard"good things come in small packages".The good NEWS is that I sort of like tiny shiny short girls,it's just that is kind of "nice"to see a normal size woman(5'6"to 6')amongst the midgets,that's all...and NOW watch out coming through...Fiii,Faaa,Fooo...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/5/2009 8:03:49 PM
Due to multiples e-mails I have received today(42 e-mails to be exact),"midgets"are back in my list of friends,specially the dorky ones,so your in gladiola ...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/5/2009 12:33:20 PM
I just notice a lot of "short"girls are attending the party,mmm...Dammit I hate when I'm right!!!Are all the "tall"girls taken?...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
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Dance & Rock Tribute- Friday-Feb. 27th,2009- American Rock Restaurant, Bar & Grill-Deerfield Beach
Posted: 1/3/2009 6:15:36 AM
Mmmm...Kind of like the odds,2 girls and a handsome guy,well I can live with that,you girls must be the luckiest girls on this site,see you when I see you them...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Pics From Pavilion Grille Saturday Dec 27th 2008!!
Posted: 12/29/2008 4:02:02 AM
Hey Michael ,Ron and crew,thanks for such an "outstanding" party and photos,I'm giving you guys A+.Later,your new friend...Doc
 Dr.Z2008
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Boca Raton Pavilion Pics pre-New Year's Eve Party 12.27.08
Posted: 12/28/2008 6:34:07 PM
You're sooooooo silly with the photo thing,that it's kind of cute,actually adorable,I'm adopting you,cause I suspect you need some adult supervision kid...Doc
 
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