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 Author Thread: Do you think childless old men ever regret never having biological kids?
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Do you think childless old men ever regret never having biological kids?
Posted: 12/29/2011 8:06:55 PM
i would have regretted it. I'm happy with the two I got and also the boy she already had that I helped raise. as much as I love him, it just wasn't the same as when I had my own.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
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You're a good man.
Posted: 12/29/2011 5:23:09 PM
to my GF I say "you're a good woman" a lot and to me it means that she is kind, when others around her are not always, she is better than most poepl and I am lucky to have her thats what I mean
by it
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Anybody serious?
Posted: 12/29/2011 5:03:07 AM
heres a thought, after talking to you a just few times maybe it was all the guys needed to find out you aren't all that interesting
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
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Lying about location just to get an email through - common?
Posted: 12/29/2011 4:57:47 AM
personally i haven't done it but one reason i might would be to just say something nice and platonic to someone with no expectation of there being more to it. it might be to comment on something they say in the forum, or compliment them on a picture or something. nothing sinister about that.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 25 (view)
 
long distance heartbreak
Posted: 12/28/2011 12:46:54 AM
you need $350 to travel 8 hours? i can do it for <100. what are doing taking a cab?
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 1378 (view)
 
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/28/2011 12:26:56 AM
up until now i didn't think so, i was always to practical to believe it. but i've been in exclusive chat with someone for a month now, and i'm positive that i love her, and i'm confident she loves me too. Meeting is the final test and it will happen soon. distance has been our only barrier.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 24 (view)
 
How guys react when they fall too fast
Posted: 12/28/2011 12:12:37 AM
i usually moved slowly, because thats what women want,right? but always lost out to guys that didn't. lesson: never take a woman at her word when she says what she wants LOL
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Meeting for the first time on New Years Eve
Posted: 12/26/2011 6:08:31 PM
actually Isee nothing wrong with it except that NYE is associated with alcohol consumption("amateur night" I call it) and alcohol on a first date with someone you haven't met yet is probably just asking for trouble. Of course if he gets too drunk you can get some good insight to the kind of guy he is, drunks are usually pretty honest and free with their true opinions LOL
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 83 (view)
 
S ex without foreplay...do I stay or do I go?
Posted: 12/26/2011 6:01:48 PM
you're 25 and he's 40? geez its too late, if you haven't gotten him to change by now hes not going to. I think all you are to him is a cum dumping ground. he obviously thinks it your "duty" for him to use at his descretion. He obviusly doesn't care about your desires. I think you know the answer already. I can only think of one reason an attractive modern young woman would tolerate such a situation, and that is he must make good money.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Do you ever see POF members in public?
Posted: 12/24/2011 6:42:21 PM
actually i work with at least 3 others, one who told me about it, and all have been members for years. the one who tole me about it, has met and engaged from it, so it can work.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 293 (view)
 
bald guys
Posted: 12/23/2011 7:46:13 PM
i haven't had the bald problem yet, but the hairline is receded a bit, if t gets too far back rather than try to conceal it I think I'll just shave it completely. If family history is any indication, I don't think its going to get to that point
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
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When you give your phone number do you expect calls or texts?
Posted: 12/23/2011 7:29:12 PM
i use text/email first as kind of a warm up, but eventualy I call. My reason is that i communicate better in written word than speaking, when i call someone, especially the first time. I develop a stuttering problem. I goes away after a few sentences. are you sure the guy you were talking to was legit? could have been a kid messing with you.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
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When your ex appologizes for everything...
Posted: 12/23/2011 5:20:00 PM
my ex use to say something similar during our breakup. she's say: "it wasn't your fault", as if to reassure me, I'm thinking yeah your damn right it wasn't, you're the one who cheated, not me.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 63 (view)
 
is my girlfriend still cheating?
Posted: 12/23/2011 7:07:39 AM
seriously is this the best you can find? the cheating and then lying would have been enough for me. I guess some people are gluttons for punishment
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Piercings...Sexy???
Posted: 12/21/2011 6:09:01 AM
the ears are enough. the naval piercing is acceptable but most of the rest are just self mutilation and are anything but sexy, sickenning is more like it. Can't stand the marilyn monroe pierce, located where marilyns beauty mark was, ironically, marilyns beauty mark was the only unattractive thing about her.

God made women so perfect and beautiful, and yet far too many think they can improve on that by poking holes in their faces and(different topic, same principal) having "artists" marking up their bodies with nasty tattoos. I don't get it. But go ahead ladies express your individuality, by doing as everyone else is doing.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 65 (view)
 
To rat or not to rat...
Posted: 12/20/2011 10:41:43 AM
i would almost bet that the people who say that she should rat, ironically have "no drama" somewhere on their profiles.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 64 (view)
 
To rat or not to rat...
Posted: 12/20/2011 9:50:57 AM
I once told a wife of her cheating husband, but my situation was a bit different since it was my wife he was cheating with. I only confirmed her suspicion anyway.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 12/20/2011 7:32:08 AM
I think it was BIG of her to be "willing to end the affair," what a trooper.

hey, if the guy has money look at the bright side, you can sue for child support.

of course you can't trust her, so if you're going to stay with her, get use to it.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Ever seen a profile.....all pics but...
Posted: 12/20/2011 7:23:24 AM
their picture may be their only asset LOL
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 385 (view)
 
Dating Someone With A High IQ
Posted: 12/20/2011 7:20:03 AM
positives: you might learnsomething


negatives: they might get bored with you
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 52 (view)
 
My date actually asked me What is Chivalry?
Posted: 12/20/2011 7:11:49 AM
true chivalry is a mans willingness to make the ultimate sacrifice for a woman(not necessarily just his own woman), a chivalrous man would die for her protection without hesitation. All this other stuff (openning doors, holding her chair, standing when a lady enters a room,etc)are merely symbols of chivalry. so is chivalry dead? I don't know, I guess guys need to ask themselves, "would I?" ladies, do you know if your man would die for you?
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 312 (view)
 
When is taking a drunk girl home from a bar and having sex considered rape?
Posted: 12/20/2011 7:00:35 AM
playing with fire here. I don't take the word of drunk too seriously, if/when she has you charged all there is is your word vs. hers. as tempting as it may be to take advantage of her, I'd like to think I would be a gentleman about it and just make sure she got home, or if you don't know where she lives take her back to your place and let her sleep it off. If she still feels the same in the morning then have at it.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 45 (view)
 
dating people with pets
Posted: 12/20/2011 6:34:26 AM
if any woman were to tell me that "either the dog goes, or i go" i'd start helping her pack.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 466 (view)
 
I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 12/19/2011 3:21:41 PM
don't most condoms contain a spermacide? so inserting a used condom inside herself would be useless unless she just likes the gooey stuff cuz the swimmers are dead

from msg 629
<div class='quote'>http://mensnewsdaily.com/2011/02/27/man-receives-oral-sex-ordered-to-pay-child-support/

this would be a good response for the forum thread about why a guy likes a girl to swallow LOL
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 16 (view)
 
How should I take this?
Posted: 12/19/2011 3:08:54 PM
i think hes interested in you, contrary to popular opinion in these forums, just because a guy isn't moving quickly doesn't mean he's not interested. He sounds like he wants to make sure it's the right thing before he moves. How much do you know about his past relationships? sounds like he has some guilt feelings about a past lover , perhaps hurt someone else, or was hurt himself, from moving too fast. there could be a lot of reasons for his behavior. The fact that he was helping you with the tree soundslike he likes just being with you. If you're willing to be patient with him, it sounds like you might have a good guy interested in more than just one thing. You've only been seeing each other a week, give it/him time. Then one night when hes sitting on the couch you can move over there with him.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 169 (view)
 
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 12/19/2011 1:00:51 PM

hey all you guys out there tell me why its hard to date a deaf girl???


harder to lie to them, especially if we don't know sign language LOL
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 51 (view)
 
My date actually asked me What is Chivalry?
Posted: 12/18/2011 11:28:37 PM

Back before the 50's the chivalry ended once one got married since men were encouraged if not expected to slap their woman into submission


ash where did you learn this horsesh**?
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 48 (view)
 
How do you define Drama?
Posted: 12/18/2011 10:59:39 PM
its one of those things that is hard to define, but I know it when I see it.

mostly its people who put way too much effort and concern into things for which they have no control or is none of their business. and ignore things that do matter
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Ex girlfriend sends me this text today...how do I play this?
Posted: 12/18/2011 8:25:32 PM
it's easy for us to tell you to ignore the ex GF(we don't love her like you say you do), I think you should follow your heart, you'll be doing it with eyes open and know there is a risk that she'll dump you again(some of us are gluttons for punishment). Just don't expect the girl your with now to be so forgiving for leaving her.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 146 (view)
 
Younger men wanting sex chat
Posted: 12/18/2011 7:08:50 AM
the interest in MILF's I think is a recent phenomenon( i work with a lot of younger guys and they talk about it a lot), I suspect that the young guys that are contacting the mature women are the same guys that "get all the girls" their own age and they're looking for something a bit more challenging to them. Also its a status thing with their buddies to score with a MILF. It could be just the thing for any "cougar" wanna-be's out there.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 89 (view)
 
males who like to act like slaves for women
Posted: 12/18/2011 6:33:13 AM
aren't some married men already? what do you think the "honey-do" list is all about?
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 32 (view)
 
What every man wants once in awhile..
Posted: 12/18/2011 6:12:44 AM
false(for me) not even close. of course I like sex with my woman but i love her and she is more than a sex object to me. some of the acts porn stars perform are degrading.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 6 (view)
 
INCREASED sex drive for women in their 40's
Posted: 12/18/2011 6:04:26 AM
yes i have noticed, bless their 40-ish year old hearts.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Is a blunt, outspoken woman a turn off?
Posted: 12/18/2011 1:37:53 AM
not a turn off at all unless it turns to nagging.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
when do u delete pof, or expect ur significant other too?
Posted: 12/17/2011 8:18:34 AM
after declaring our desire to be exclusive, we both have rewritten our profiles to convey that to others. we like the forums, also use the chat tool. so we don't plan to delete as of yet. if the other person doesn't change theirs you might have some cause for concern.


(love you meg-rick)
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Do you think the popularity of marriage will continue to decline in the United States?
Posted: 12/14/2011 8:47:26 PM
what has become popular is free milk without the cow.

I'm not aware of marriage statistics. i thought marriage was still popular, the problem is that so is divorce.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 49 (view)
 
how to get her to head to the bedroom
Posted: 12/14/2011 5:15:05 PM
pick her up and carry her there
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Why cant I have casual sex?
Posted: 12/14/2011 12:16:27 AM

...I just don't know how to detach the emotions from the physical


don't try to separate the two they're pretty empty feelings when they're apart
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Just a question about what woman like
Posted: 12/14/2011 12:09:36 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

if I ever hit you in the BR(or out) you have my permission to chop my hands off.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Does physical attraction have to happen on the first date?
Posted: 12/13/2011 11:31:31 PM

I know I like someone when its time to end the night and I sad its ending. Thats enough for me to know that there may be something there. Of course i hope the feeling is mutual :)



it is sweetheart, it is
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 87 (view)
 
feminine man
Posted: 12/13/2011 6:16:24 PM
Plenty of guys go shopping...I see them at the mall when I'm there.


they're just there to scan out the women, if they're just there to buy something they're usually only there for a few minutes. OR they're therre with their wife or GF holding her purse so she can try something on(wondering who's winning the ballgame they gave up to be there)LOL


p.s. thanks meg
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
to soon or not to soon
Posted: 12/12/2011 5:09:00 PM
you're trying to hard

It happenned to me a few times and it happened more often with women I most wanted to be "good" with (I was putting too much pressure on myself). with the "any port in the storm women" I lasted much longer. But the thing is, that the women that I wanted to impress were the most understanding and patient(i guess that was what I liked about them)
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Insight Requested
Posted: 12/12/2011 4:54:30 PM
isn't it strange how all women have an out of town sister? and they always seem to visit just as you're getting interested?

by the way you say she smiled a lot, she sounds moderately interested, but still may be on the fence about you.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 31 (view)
 
That psyco Ex! have you every had one?
Posted: 12/12/2011 12:12:13 PM
two things; are your folks rich? sounds like she may have not have been wanting a child, just the child support. also you may have been a bit harsh with the words "no way in hell." maybe try something a bit more subtle like "I'm not ready yet, maybe someday".
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Am I annoying him, what should I do?
Posted: 12/12/2011 8:45:36 AM
you said he told you you were hot. It is possible that a guy can give a compliment without expectations(of course the term "hot" does imply expectations). Maybe he just wanted to give you a friendly compliment. that's all I was doing when I found the lady I love. Fortunately she messaged back, and it's been bliss ever since( meg) , it's working out well for us, maybe not so for you with this guy
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 28 (view)
 
dealing with holiday loneliness.
Posted: 12/12/2011 8:22:29 AM
good advice darknight, especially about helping someome out who isn't so fortunately. it'll make you feel better about your own life.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 50 (view)
 
How long to wait?
Posted: 12/12/2011 6:12:38 AM
sign of the times I guess, it use to be considered improper to have sex before marriage, but today it is just a part of the dating process. NoI don't think making someone wait 6 months is too long, but most guys aren't going to wait that long. but I agree with some of the others telling you not to do it until you are ready.

But I do want to ask some of the women who gave that advice, would you wait 6 months if the guy wasn't ready? or would you bail thinking he's some kind of freak? go ahead ladies lie to me.
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Travelling with an ex...
Posted: 12/12/2011 6:02:04 AM
well once yoou get her to africa see if she wants to take a safari tour, and when you get her there, abandon her out on the plains in tanzania. and leave her to the lions, it'll be worth the money
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 67 (view)
 
A Thank you after sex? Women chime in/ men: experience?
Posted: 12/11/2011 3:20:29 PM
people in love (and some who think they are)say "I love you" during and after sex, maybe she didn't feel love quite yet and needed somethng to say so "thank you" is what came out
 free4all131220
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 24 (view)
 
dealing with holiday loneliness.
Posted: 12/11/2011 12:05:40 AM
tigirl; you're a pretty girl I can't imagine you not getting party invites from guys or friends.

I always worked more through the season, my industry demands it. But I know how you feel, it's depressing to be alone at this time. Family gatherings may seem dull, but cherish them, one day they may not be there. It's good to reconnect with the family. I wish I could but they're miles away.
 
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