Notice: Forums will be shutdown by June 2019

To focus on better serving our members, we've decided to shut down the POF forums.

While regular posting is now disabled, you can continue to view all threads until the end of June 2019. Event Hosts can still create and promote events while we work on a new and improved event creation service for you.

Thank you!

          

Show ALL Forums
Posted In Forum:

Home   login   MyForums  
 
 Author Thread: Living expenses and pride..
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Living expenses and pride..
Posted: 11/12/2009 7:16:57 PM
in some states, like mine : you invite someone to live with you ( even for a short time ) you HAVE to go to court to get them evicted......

short version : you throw his crap out, he calls the law, says he lived there ( and probably has proof ) they will turn around and walk away while he busts the front door down. (legally) . its considered HIS residence too.

file an eviction and THEN have him served. it'll take a week if he's a non-paying "guest" and will save you the trouble of him claiming "homestead".

on the other hand....if your state doesnt have those laws on the books, you might be able to just kick him out. talk to the cops first, though...
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
indian women
Posted: 11/8/2009 6:31:47 PM
THIS IS WHY WE DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO W/ BLACK MEN
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 57 (view)
 
indian women
Posted: 11/8/2009 6:28:35 PM
find someone who grew up in america / canada / uk and preferably one that has at least one non-indian / non-south asian parent.

i myself was adopted : and though i'm 100 % indian BIOLOGICALLY, am american emotionally & psychologically..........

try searching online for "india adoptees"....theres thousands of us in the US alone......and you'll have the physical atttribues you desire w/ the emotional / mental outlook that an american would have
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
indian women
Posted: 11/8/2009 6:25:20 PM
YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT NATIVE AMERICANS YOU JACKASS

THE THREAD IS ABOUT WOMEN FROM A COUNTRY CALLED INDIA ON A CONTINENT CALLED ASIA

SHEESH, ARE YOU RETARTED OR PERMANENTLY MENTALLY UNDERQUALIFIED ???? PROLLY BOTH.......
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc
Posted: 10/28/2009 4:12:09 PM
she is inscecure and has ZERO sense of self-confidence .....

wait til you knock her ass up ! she'll feel so fat and undesirable you'll be walkin down the street w/ BLINDFOLDS on.....yep, son

is lotz of ladies out there. find u another honey bet its one standin round the corner..........
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
When should the woman offer to pay?
Posted: 10/25/2009 8:20:46 PM
um....no reason to, less it s you b-day or celebrating like a promotion of yours or somethin to give you props !

if i want to treat a guy ( and i been seein him a while ) i'll invite him over 4 some home cooked food

now : never offerin to do THAT is selfish , esp if the guy treats you well
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT...................
Posted: 10/19/2009 6:53:13 PM
Generally I have found that the woman sets the rules and men wait to see what the possibilies are. Since it is long distance I'm wondering if it works out, would you move there to be with him? Just curious.

yes, i would ! in a heartbeat
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT...................
Posted: 10/19/2009 6:50:57 PM
wazhiz on 10/17/2009 709 AM
Subject: i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT...................
Message: Oh please, you have up the typical hoochie mama pics & you are confused because he wants sex.

Geez go peddle your bs story somewhere else.

i think its hilarious ( and predictable ) that the few ppl that have knocked my photos are the same ones who look like THEY couldnt get a date if they stood on their heads i have trouble believing anyone would pay for a ticket for them, they'd probably pay them to LEAVE. you know who u are !!!

i say : if ive got it : i should flaunt it and NO : dressin sexy does NOT mean i'm askin for sexual activity ! you ignorant hags prolly think every woman who dresses provocative and gets raped "deserves" it or "asked" for it. that thinkin went out in the 60's , yall ! get with the times
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT...................
Posted: 10/17/2009 1:27:23 AM
misc observation: And U expect 2 marry, without sex first

are you drunk or naturally slow - witted ? yes, i'll hve sex b4 marriage, no i wont sleep w/ someone upon 1st meeting them . its NOT rocket science, dude
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT...................
Posted: 10/17/2009 12:47:45 AM
Posted: 10/17/2009 12:35:41 AM


I'm sure he'll be reading all of this, if he hasn't done so all ready.....since you met him on this site to begin with.

nope, he doesnt know about the forums.......and as far as the *double bed* - i meant i want to be re-married, not sleep in ANYon'e sbed
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
he cant just come over here -
Posted: 10/17/2009 12:39:43 AM
this much i do know : from my background : when your in the military you can't just come / go at will. depending on your duties / responsibilities you may not even be able to venture a certain distance from your duty station, esp if you are directly responsible for many others. thats NOT something he's making up, when i was married there was times my (ex)husband couldnt break away and come home to visit even though he wanted to.....
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT...................
Posted: 10/17/2009 12:30:05 AM
i should mention that quite sum time ago, he gave me his full name and enough info 4 me to call upon a friend of mine to verify him ( its ridiculously easy to check out an active duty service member - especially one of higher rank ) . even a google search of his name validated everything he'd told me about himself. so even though he s a stranger......i know more about him ( from him being forthcoming about his identity ) than if he was just a random person. it mostly speaks to his professionalism and integrity on the job, but as far as character.....it could be the complete opposite. i 'm trying to make up my mind soon and its causing a lot of discomfort 4 me
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT...................
Posted: 10/17/2009 12:23:27 AM
this is going 2 sound dumb as hell, and maybe im 'a idiot - so crucify me !!!

i met a guy online ( this site, no less ) who fits ALL my criteria. hard 2 believe, but true

we like each others photos, enjoy each others emails and indulge in long-distance txts several x per week....

next month he is finally coming home from a 10 + month deployment. he wants me to come visit him in his new place of abode at the other end of the country upon his return. he has offered to pay for my flight, but NOT my hotel. ( no prob, i got sum cheese to pay my own room, plus enough hilton points 2 cover at least a few nights 4 free ) this is apparently offensive 2 him , as he wants me to stay w/ him.... SWEARIN up and down that he wants to "just kiss"

i'm like HUH ? i'm not sure if i'm being lured out there for sex >????? which he's probably had precious little ( if any ) of in the past year or so.....but i already told him sex was NOT happening.....and he say s "thats ok" am i being set up here ? possibly something sinister ? i think i should know better, but i have developed serious feelings for him and have trouble focusing on reality. if anyone could validate / invalidate my concerns it would be GREATLY appreciated ! thx....
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Why do big cities have the best looking girls?
Posted: 10/12/2009 9:18:20 PM
well : having lived in ATL i will tell you that you dress up more for other chix than for your boyfriend /husband or yourself ( sad but true ) the pressure to conform is INTENSE and women of all races have perfect platinum highlights, flawless makeup and leather boots for all seasons. Ppl are more fashion conscious and wearing flip flops even to the super walmart makes you look like a hick from the sticks - and ppl will treat you accordingly !!!

its true what another poster said though : women in big cities have access to better fashion / even dumpy stores like Ross and Marshalls carry brand name designer clothes for pennies on the dollar . Thats b/c big city dept store buyers get 1st dibs on the glam stuff, the rest gets shipped out to other towns.

take off the clothes and the makeup and take the highlights out and they arent any more pretty than anyone else, LOL
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Impatient in meeting
Posted: 9/14/2009 7:06:01 PM
it WAS wrong of him to dump a ton of pressure on you and expect 2 meet THAT very day....

that b-in said : it is normal 2 wnt 2 meet someone in person as soon as practical ( ie convenient 4 both parties ) for the simple fact that you can NEVER, EVER gauge chemistry on the phone, & even less so online -
mebbe he jst wanted 2 c how yall jive in person ....... i also ask ppl who are fairly local 2 meet w/in a few emails -or 4 get it...........

if they are quite a distance away, ( AND show a lot of promise ) i will take my chances, but i for one / would rather do the chatting in person

just my two cents, hope it helped ya
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Why do women ask if they have to pay for the date?
Posted: 9/13/2009 6:31:12 PM
chad,

i may not be the right one to answer this as i'm a lil old-fashioned when i comes 2 dating. i always expect the guy to pay WITHOUT EXCEPTION. ive NEVER offered to contribute.
lucky 4 me : the guys in my dating pool tend to be masculine and conservative 2 BEGIN with so its rarely a issue....

after i know him well enough to invite him to my place i'll buy enough groceries for the two of us AND do all the cooking. sometimes guys have offered to reimburse me for the groceries but i wouldnt ever allow that -

trust me : a homecooked meal goes a looooong way w/ most men ~

bottom line = women WANT the guy 2 pay on dates. the offer is just them being polite. they are just looking for reassurance that you are happy to pick up the tab -

thats my opinion anyways.....
 myluv4you
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
open relationship, women do not seem to like a happy and permiscuous married man. any help?
Posted: 9/13/2009 5:39:21 PM
why ? ummm, cuz u r are a mistake, THATS WHY !!!!

my question is : why did two sick ppl like your parents even CONCEIVE ? yo momma shouldve aborted u !!!

i feel sorry for your kids, man

 
Show ALL Forums