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 Author Thread: am i being played?
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
am i being played?
Posted: 4/3/2008 10:09:22 PM
I agree whole-heartedly with what seems to be the common consensus. I have also been in a relationship like yours. The answer is yes. Instead of thinking about the checks and balances of your relationship, think larger. If this man really loves and cares about you then he should want to do the things, financially, or otherwise, that make your life together better. Money aside, look at the motivation, if your love and effort is motivating enough for him to get off his you know what and help out, then what is enough? And P.S. if he loves and supports you, that also means thta he accespts and loves your children, no matter how grown they are.
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 136 (view)
 
is sex something a woman offers in a relationship?
Posted: 4/3/2008 10:02:59 PM
The very nature of this question, or maybe the way it is phrased is short-sided. Perhaps someone should poll the number of men who believe that they deserve sex, or certain sexual acts to be done to them. I have met plenty of men that feel that based on the nature of their relationships, deserve special, or even consistent sexual services from the woman they're seeing. Its a double-edged sword. I dont think that most women withhold sex, or grant sex when its deemed warranted, or deserved. If they do, then they most likely comprise the 78% percent of couples who think, or admit that they're sexual relationship is dysfunctional.
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Leveling the playing field... Is anyone game?
Posted: 11/20/2007 7:06:31 PM
Sorry to be so blunt, but attraction counts immensly. Unless Im mistaken, I have never heard, or witnessed someone telepathically connecting with someone else in a club, or bar(whatever the venue might be). First and only first, two people lay eyes on each other!!!!Thats it! People dont usually walk through clubs with their eyes closed, and listen for those of the opposite sex to say something profound and meaningful. Why should the internet be any different. Now, once you have established some kind of relationship with a given person attraction might grow, or become a factor less important. However, upon meeting someone attraction counts!
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 675 (view)
 
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:59:18 PM
Porn is like any other facet of a relationship. Minimally, or moderately it can be fun, and add spice. However, in excess it poses several problems. Like anything else all things in moderation. Balance, balance, balance.
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:48:51 PM
Wow! What is a fake woman. These threads are loaded with alterior motive! What a trivial thread to post! There is no such thing as fake people, people are just people! So you are angry and do not respect women with "unnatural enhancement", well might I suggest then that you do not date any of them!!!!
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Can a man become a better lover??
Posted: 3/11/2007 9:11:11 PM
Missing Marble...right on target! So all the cliche BS aside, sex is important! Sex is as important to a marriage as any other highly valued facet. So he's not so great in the sack, thats one thing. It seems to me that you should be more concerned with why he isnt trying harder to please you sexually than with his bedtime tactic. Maybe you should really stress to him how important this is!! Let him know how threatning his inaction is to your relationship, maybe he'll sing a different tune. Maybe you should explore what truns him on a bit, maybe if you know fully what does it for him you can meet on comon ground. Good Luck!!
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
time to just move on?
Posted: 2/26/2007 11:52:56 PM
Long cool....right on the nose. Definitely some red flags with this woman. The alcohol and pills could definitely be an obstacle, to say the least. I would give it some breathing room, and perhaps discuss it with her when she's sober or close to it. She could be embarassed about the sexual activity, not that it is you particularly, but maybe she realized that she was too out of it, or made a decision she otherwise would not have made. Give her the room to attempt to patch things up, if she dosent try, let it go!!
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Not too sure what to think...
Posted: 2/26/2007 11:43:34 PM
Never make someone your priority, when they only make you an option
.....So very true! When you care about someone, you are/ or try to be aware of how your actions make them feel. If youve already told her that youre bothered by her being inconsiderate, and she hasnt taken that into consideration and acted accordingly, then she dosent deserve you! FYI..it never hurts to ask, you may not get an answer you like, but you get an answer.
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Why do dating women, want to get contacted?
Posted: 2/26/2007 10:01:49 PM
Xodara I could'nt agree with you more! Its just common sense that a certain stimulus will illicit certain responses. I think the information that one posts on their page has everything to do with the types on individuals that respond to them. That being said, I dont have risque pictures on my page and I have recieved some inappropriate messages, I think at that point you just need to remind yourself that this is a dating site. This is not exactly a forum for truth and honesty. There is an ambiguity to these sites, which is an attraction that some take full advantage of! Point: people need to be realistic!
 eddieka77
Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Married but with out sex
Posted: 2/26/2007 9:49:29 PM
I agree completely. And there have been medical and scientific advances focused on the libido og women. In addition there have been several advances in psychology that have much to with intimacy. I think there is an urgency for you and your wife to seek medical attention, and perhaps if everything checks out, follow up with sex-therapy.
 
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