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 Author Thread: Double standard on Oral?
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 942 (view)
 
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 5/31/2016 6:53:43 PM
use are kidding!
I give more than I get anytime is a good time for me ;)
As long as I will not get a fur-ball and its neat and tidy is all I ask.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
HOT BOYS ONLY GIVE ME A CALL xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted: 5/27/2016 4:30:13 PM
sounds like someone is setting a person up using their phone number. shame....
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman?
Posted: 5/18/2016 5:44:53 PM
IF he asks you out for dinner you can bet he would like you for desert!
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 336 (view)
 
Mature Woman
Posted: 3/15/2016 5:19:42 PM
[They convince themselves that SURELY it must be the WOMAN who is frigid and hates sex, RATHER, then accept the truth that they were TERRIBLE in bed...]
On the flip side I have never meet a woman who didn't think she was good in bed.
Maybe because the man was happy to get his end in he is not going to say "well that was only average."
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Would you date a bi guy/girl?
Posted: 3/8/2016 2:30:12 PM
Never dated a Bi woman that I know of but HELL YES I would love tho!
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Is my girlfriend bi-sexual?! Please help...
Posted: 3/8/2016 2:24:40 PM
lucky you! she might go for a 3 way (you and another girl)
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 4 (view)
 
What is the most important piece of advice you would give to a friend
Posted: 3/8/2016 2:18:12 PM
What he said... lol but I find a lot of woman are not honest about their weight either.
bit of a shock to see a "few extra pounds" turn up almost bbw.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 926 (view)
 
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 3/5/2016 10:45:39 PM
I love going down on a smooth **** any time any where, and I don't stop till you say so!
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 188 (view)
 
Less to choose the older we get
Posted: 2/26/2016 4:06:20 PM
"We are not as active" Really! I think our age group is great!!
I know more about what I like and don't like. I am still as active,
and mentally and physically I have know what woman like......
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Peeking in the Fridge
Posted: 2/23/2016 4:12:08 PM
Watch out when your bending over looking in the fridge is all I can say!! lolol
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Fwb help!
Posted: 2/23/2016 4:10:26 PM
"why buy a cow when you can get your milk for free." Seems he likes you enough to screw and go out with now and then but is waiting for something better. Either hang around for the fun or not up to you?\
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 45 (view)
 
So confused, why do men do this?
Posted: 1/22/2016 7:32:32 PM
Tic Taks maybe???
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Younger vs Older
Posted: 1/10/2016 12:53:09 AM
all good advice, but don't feel you are the only one, I contact woman near my age and they are clear they want younger men.
No need to ponder why... So its a two way street happens to both sexes.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Australian Army Removing Motto in case of offending
Posted: 11/25/2015 6:13:00 PM
In short we are Australians!
most of these people came here because their country is F* up.
They know we are basically a Christian country, we do accept other countries values.
BUT they should understand they chose to come to Australia
Accumulate
(as we would have to if we moved to their country or any other.)
If it is not what they like they should move to a country they feel may suit them better.
Keep what we fought for and under what banner and symbol that stood for beliefs.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Does he really like me?
Posted: 11/25/2015 6:04:30 PM
I have found woman over read things men say.
It seems he is just being honest and with, both of you have a busy work schedules. So it may always be a problem one way or another.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Am I destined to be alone?
Posted: 11/23/2015 2:17:55 AM
its a big club your in there are lots of us feeling the same.
oy ujust have to hang in there and next week or next year it might all happen 4U there is no time frame tho....
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 128 (view)
 
3rd date really?
Posted: 11/22/2015 11:08:32 PM
I would be happy with any date number!
you would need to draw arrows to all the good spots you like!
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Moving to Sydney from USA in a month. Hoping to meet some people here, now, for later.
Posted: 11/11/2015 3:30:08 PM
our woman love yanks so you will be ok there.
look on Australian dating sites eg: Zoosk
if you have the free time and money all along the east coast is great to see.
and if you have the time look on Google earth around Australia most over seas people do not realise how big the place is and its no big deal to drive 100 miles for a days drive out.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 59 (view)
 
MARKUS AKA BIG FISH IS BEHIND THE CARNAGE HERE
Posted: 10/6/2015 9:41:59 PM
I have been on here a good while and all of a sudden I cant start a new topic .
I play buy the rules!
AND MARCUS NEVER REPLIES WITH ANY HELP EVER!
I even started a new account and the same thing!
Maybe he does not like Australians?
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 95 (view)
 
If you could fcuk anyone from history who would it be?
Posted: 10/4/2015 2:19:46 AM
I would like to meet my ex again
so I could screw her over b4 she screwed me over!
or Barbra Eden
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 177 (view)
 
honesty regarding sexual capability
Posted: 10/4/2015 2:17:25 AM
I have seen Jesus
and she Is black...........
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 290 (view)
 
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 10/3/2015 8:00:00 PM
Is your shoe draw over full?
Are you more than a few to many pounds over weight?
Do you have outstanding bills and still buy stuff?
I could be wrong but it seems the person "standing back" can see you might be on the wrong road to a happier life and rightly or not is pointing out a few facts?
Are you happy with lots of "stuff" and eating chocolate's, watch a movie ?
there are lots of ways people part this life just don't try and make it a long painful exit through poor life habits.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 175 (view)
 
honesty regarding sexual capability
Posted: 10/3/2015 7:44:05 PM
"Seriously I am starting to see why women of a certain age start banging young guys "
and on the flip side ladies need also remember that your not that hot sexual partner you were at years ago.
muffin tops (?) over weight are not the best of turn on's either!
so whey do you think older men like to bang younger woman?
Its a very one way street ladies, at times anyway.
I love lots of for play, teasing , oral then wait to she make she right moves to have sex.
I am not a stud or past it! but very very few woman seem to think that they are not good in bed.
just saying is all.....
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Haven't dated in 2 years until recently.....
Posted: 9/13/2015 5:55:12 PM
I am old fashion, if your dating someone to that extent you SHOULD both dating exclusively!
strange your on his bed kissing and the a nap??
No one can say where it is heading only time knows
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 25 (view)
 
LONG DISTANCE CONTACTS FOR OVER AGE 50
Posted: 1/7/2015 8:47:55 PM
I am very keen on a woman I meet on holidays she lives 11 hour drive away.( we are both in our mid 50's)
I see her a few times a year and we both love being around each other.
who knows what's going to happen in the future?
I might end up there one day?
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Over 60, what do you men think about marriage?
Posted: 6/23/2014 6:20:03 AM
No I would not marry again ever!
"if" I was to set up house with a woman she would be the major part of my life and very much
a part of my extended family.
I have been married once and lived with a woman (17 years) and with or with out a bit of paper
it was 100% commitment from me.
(and in Australia after about 3 months the woman has the same legal rights as if they were married.)
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Im 40, he's 27
Posted: 6/17/2014 6:42:07 PM
27 goes into 40 with a bit left over!
GO FOR IT
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Is he just being friendly
Posted: 6/10/2014 5:20:00 PM
slimholly is right.
I think this is a clear signal: Say "Hi! Would you like to go get coffee after work today?"
men are not good at picking up hits like playing with your neck/hair etc.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 6 (view)
 
HE WONT GET ON TOP... WHY???
Posted: 5/12/2014 4:55:19 PM
if find the same problem at times.
"One of his problems may simply be premature ejaculation. What that means is that when you're on top, he feels less down there and can go for a little longer, but the moment that he gets on top and thrust all the way in inside of you, pushes him over the edge and comes. "
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Invited to spend the weekend..do I?
Posted: 4/1/2014 5:12:37 AM
why not go?
your over 21 your both interested in each other, does it really have to be a first step to something to last much longer?
Use chat all the time the sex must of been at least ok to good, so why not just go and have a nice weekend.?
If it turns out it was more to do sexually then emotionally motivated so what!
As long as you both had a good weekend that's the main thing...yes?
PS. (Would a guy go to this much trouble if all he wanted was to secure a weekend fling for sex?)
yes!
a weekend making love/laughter and conversation is far better that a Friday night special.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Introvert getting overwhelmed
Posted: 3/30/2014 4:02:21 PM
its not the dark ages!
Just Hi "john" I was thinking about dinner this Friday night would you be interested?
woman read way to much into everything, every angle, every possibility.
make it casual question, too easy!
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 135 (view)
 
Do all women over 50 cringe when they hear the word SEX !!
Posted: 3/30/2014 3:54:30 PM
[There's more to a relationship...than sex." or " Is that all you think of "?
I'm tired of the woman who thinks they deserve the finest wines, the best dinners, and expensive travel.....all for " exchange" for their sexual favors.]

I think OP meant,
when he does his best to impress and be a gentleman the lady presumes his intention are a means to an end, sex.
or rather the lady wants to be show the very best of times before she lets him to have sex. Really its a "favour"?
so many woman hear say they really want sex so why is it classed as a favour?
If both want to have sex/making love, isn't it more "sharing the experience?"
ps.
( I have found woman over 50 far more interested in making the first move or dropping hints a blind man could follow)
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Sexually, I feel like a burden.
Posted: 3/26/2014 4:12:10 PM
There is a 99.999% chance that he totally LOVES doing that to you!
When he tells you that he likes it and is eager to go south with the mouth...believe him!
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Would a guy answer a call if he wasnt interested.
Posted: 3/3/2014 3:12:19 PM
[As long as he thinks you will put out when he puts forth no effort, then it will continue status quo.]
what happened to making love together?
So many woman say "put out" makes it sound like well I "washed his cloths" isn't that enough to keep him interested?
unless he jumps on then off I would of thought you both liked making love?
So its then not a condition that the one is totally devoted to the other.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Sleeping with your hand on partner's privates (or vice versa)
Posted: 3/2/2014 4:59:21 AM
I didn't know this was something new'ish?
I have been doing that since my first lover.
just my hand gently covering her bits with one finger just between her lips.
when is done very softly and gentle ladies seem to like it.
so far I have had no complaints as we sleep
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Men acting weird on dates?
Posted: 2/5/2014 3:38:32 PM
RUN
not normal at all............... !
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 45 (view)
 
The aftermath .......
Posted: 2/5/2014 3:31:50 PM
maybe try getting him use to see naked a lot more, or maybe a bj then have another go a bit latter its just he is so worked up about being inside you.
even ay my age when I with a new woman I don't last long the first few times at least.
that is of course if she is good in bed, and despite popular belief by a lot of woman not all are good in bed.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Cutting Off Sex
Posted: 11/23/2013 2:18:20 PM
give him a bit of a break ladies, its does happen a bit more than you ladies think.
I think his point is when you start of bj's all the time!
but well before the relationship ends its not that easy to get them.
But then again a woman only has to give a smile and a wink and most men will be "down there" in a flash 24/7.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 138 (view)
 
Nymphomania.
Posted: 11/9/2013 4:02:53 PM
i cant see how these people have sex so many times a day?
buy the time i undress her kiss her from the head to the toes and back again, all the time touching and teasing. ( lots of teasing) there is 1/2 hour just there or sometimes longer.
then the sex can be had and fast or slow what ever the mood is, then say another 15 mins touching and teasing again as you lay together.
If these people are right i just cant see how they hold down a job.... you would never get to work!
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Making Love (Phucking) like Porn Stars
Posted: 11/4/2013 1:36:48 PM
so many woman seem to say "men just dont get it."
maybe woman should understand that a woman needs to have romance and tenderness to make love.
where as men can feel the same with just a chat/ laugh and sex.
or: Woman need to feel loved to have sex. Men need sex to feel loved.
Or so i read some where.................
Do these woman saying young men are not up to the older men when it comes to the bedroom?
How many woman spend sometime saying "look can we do it this way? and can you do this and that?"
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Need a little advice.. emotional/verbal abuse?
Posted: 10/18/2013 5:13:05 AM
didnt read the hole lot he has a major drinking problem!
move on no one needs any more dramas in their life
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 25 (view)
 
YOUR BIGGEST TURN ON - WET AND WILD
Posted: 10/16/2013 4:18:08 PM
sorry mine is rather dull,
give her a day at a salon. facial,nails, full wax job, massage the works.
Dinner out buy her some new g strings back home and watch her undress and try on the g string.
Lots and lots of teasing ;p ;p ;p
You get the rest.......
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Does one fare better with a paid membership here?
Posted: 10/16/2013 3:54:31 PM
Why would you?
MODs NEVER reply if you have a problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have emailed 4 or 5 times and NEVER get a reply!
so you pay good money and have a problem , good luck with that! lol
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Previous relationship with a girl a red flag?
Posted: 10/9/2013 5:41:47 PM
i would think it would be more of a turn on than a turn off.
i cant seeing it matter much to most males.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Sexual ambiguity
Posted: 10/9/2013 5:37:40 PM
nope! i am old fashion, there are too many "fun" bits to explore on a woman to ever want or think about 'changing" but if thats what you do that up to you.
do i think its cool ? men have always thought bi woman are cool. ;0
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Laid back and open to new things
Posted: 10/5/2013 4:17:29 AM
for me it means i am not an up tight person, just living a stress free life.
open to new things: to me means you are open to try stuff like going, 4x4, fishing, horse riding , what ever.....
woman seem to try and read to much into what a man has said. where i find woman think you should read between the lines....
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
How do men fall in love?
Posted: 10/1/2013 7:01:07 AM
men know when there in love when she pats you on the ass and says "your in love!"
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 115 (view)
 
What do you think about dating a stripper?
Posted: 10/1/2013 6:48:45 AM

Since I'm old enough to be your daddy, I would have nothing in common with you. Different points in our respective lives. You may be nice to look at, but what else do you bring to the table?
The smoking and the partying will age you quickly. Lay off that for the sake of your child.


I dont care if your a stripper, why would sex be better or not? are you good at sex? wouldnt making love be better?
take it from me there will always be trends and what looks cool but i can tell you morals NEVER out date.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 103 (view)
 
In all honesty, how important is oral sex?
Posted: 9/29/2013 1:01:43 AM
ok it looks like there are some men good at it and other that need to improve!
just in case i am not up to the grade i am free most weekends for you to train to perfection !
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Is it lust?
Posted: 9/28/2013 6:10:23 PM
if it is "lust" just go for it! whats wrong with that???
If it works out to be more than thats just great too!
 
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