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 Author Thread: Four dates and no kiss in sight?
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Four dates and no kiss in sight?
Posted: 12/19/2012 10:42:49 AM
3 date rule: 3 chances for chemistry and deep kissing...........................................................................................................
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 91 (view)
 
1st meeting
Posted: 12/19/2012 10:41:15 AM
Why get all dressed up and go to expensive dining out place, knowing the woman is getting a free meal and pre meditate by rejecting the guy on second date? Look who is cheap now? That's why coffee or cafe shop makes more sense.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Messaging guys first never develops into a date
Posted: 12/18/2012 8:59:43 AM
That is not true, they message me and it's leads to dates. (sad to say only first dates) ;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
How to set up a date/ meeting?
Posted: 12/18/2012 8:56:50 AM
week#1 - talk to her on instant messaging.
week #2 - talk to her on the phone.
week #3 - go out on 3 dates to see if there is chemistry and deep kissing.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Date: First Contact
Posted: 12/18/2012 8:54:17 AM
3-date rule: 3 chances for couples to show chemistry and deep kissing. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxo
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
In a Relationship and still being on POF
Posted: 11/27/2012 12:50:43 PM
After passing the 3-date rule, both must delete profiles and remove computer from homes - that's where trust comes in to play.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Wasting my Time ?
Posted: 11/27/2012 12:46:47 PM
If both sides pass the 3-date rule, both should agree to delete their profiles by witness it, and not have computers in their homes. But using a computer on cell phone or at a library would be a problem.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 187 (view)
 
Is it still expected that men pay for everything
Posted: 11/27/2012 12:41:01 PM
If a woman is going to reject a guy on second date, she should pay. If you are going out for a while, split the bill or dutch treat. Couples have bills to pay, so it should not be one sided.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Chemistry-Does it come right away or take time??
Posted: 7/1/2012 7:26:00 PM
The key for chemistry is, get past attracttion and have long coversations, there are 3 places to do it.
(1) walk on beach in summer evening (2) walk on main street in center of town (3) walk around aisle in supermarket.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
What to do when you run into your ex for the first time after a break up?
Posted: 7/1/2012 7:20:47 PM
I had 4 ex GF, each dumped me for another guy, if i bumped into either of them , i pour my drink in her face!
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Not ready to date yet. Is he wasting our time?
Posted: 7/1/2012 7:17:57 PM
there two sides of the pancakes, the one side is good meaning he let you know he is not interested in 2nd date therefore time was not wasted, on the flip side of the pancake does not look good, he lied with the reason and you have a right to be pist off, it's not him, it's you. It's his loss, he lucked out on a great opportunity to be with you.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
How Long would you wait to meet?
Posted: 7/1/2012 7:07:02 PM
Why talk so much on phone or chat so much on instant message when you can go on first date and talk for hours thats when you get past attraction and feel chemistry.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Is it still lying when a person reveals the truth about themselves *before* a planned meet & greet?
Posted: 6/19/2012 3:40:12 PM
Ever notice ladies lie about where they live because of security reasons, would you still date them anyway?
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
not a cellphone a deal breaker?
Posted: 6/14/2012 4:57:01 PM
For those ladies who feel men should have a cell phone: STOP ANSWERING THE CELLPHONE AND SHUT IT OFF ON FIRST DATES! to me that is a dealbreaker. Are you here to get to know your date or answer every call on your cell phone?
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
What should I think of this girl, she comes to see me 6 hours, but wont kiss or touch me
Posted: 6/12/2012 9:18:40 PM
Congradulations! - you two finally got to have sex with her! - My question is did you ring the door bell?
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 188 (view)
 
Date sites and self esteem
Posted: 6/12/2012 7:47:42 PM
one out ten messages i emailed, responded back to me - how do you think i feel? New worm on the bait again!
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Is a picture worth a 1000 words?
Posted: 6/12/2012 7:43:38 PM
Picture don't me squat! - It's what's inside the persons heart that counts, put attraction asside, have long conversations on 1st date because it would lead you to chemistry.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 57 (view)
 
whats with walks on the beach
Posted: 6/12/2012 7:38:54 PM
OP - don't you think walking on the beach in the summer evening holding hands then cuddling on the ground to watch a full moon is very romantic?
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
How people get to a first meet. Deal breaker?
Posted: 6/12/2012 7:36:02 PM
Taking a train to a female is like you don't drive a car, they don't want to be taxi cab drivers.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
not a cellphone a deal breaker?
Posted: 6/12/2012 7:33:07 PM
What ever happen to the days of talking on the home telephone? Are those days over? I see now from my experience on this site, females prefer IM or texting - why?
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 50 (view)
 
I found my Mr. Right!!!
Posted: 6/10/2012 8:11:57 PM
dunno, you should learn from OP, why are you still on POF and forums? OP can give you advice on how she did it.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 63 (view)
 
First date... Dinner.. and.. naptime?
Posted: 6/10/2012 8:03:50 PM
He must have obstructive sleep apnea, don't go in his car if he's driving. i would of threw a glass of water in his face.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Giving a guy flowers....
Posted: 6/10/2012 7:51:55 PM
I rather get a deep kiss goodnight then get flowers, that would be my greatest gift from a woman on a 1st date.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
whats the go..
Posted: 6/10/2012 7:48:26 PM
I should ask the same question to men about women deleting profiles! @@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
when is the right time to stop POF after meeting a guy
Posted: 6/10/2012 7:43:34 PM
You and your date should come to an agreement, both of you should go on the computer and witness each other get off the site by deleting your profiles and photos.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
What should I think of this girl, she comes to see me 6 hours, but wont kiss or touch me
Posted: 6/6/2012 3:20:25 PM
Next time you go out with a diffrent woman, you do it the old fashion way: YOU ASK FIRST BEFORE YOU MAKE THE MOVE. What you just did, she thinks you are moody, needy, horny, desperate. TAKE IT SLOW! No feelings.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
rejections after 1st date
Posted: 5/30/2012 3:45:17 PM
My first dates have been either she has no eye contact on me or she has Iphone on her lap and is texing. ''Lets just be friends'' means she does not want to be friends, instead she is not interested in me.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Many ways to say Thanks,but I am not interested in you
Posted: 5/30/2012 3:41:16 PM
OP - (9) She tells you her plans the next two weeks in details (like she really filled up her calender) UM-YEAH!
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
So I did not kiss her on the the first date. Good or bad sign?
Posted: 5/30/2012 3:36:47 PM
If your 1st date says ''i have to go'', do not kiss her, if she wants to go the distance with you, then kiss her.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Dating someone who looks like an Ex
Posted: 5/30/2012 3:30:16 PM
Just make sure you don't call the wrong persons name and don't have flashbacks of your failed relationship.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Why is this so offensive
Posted: 5/30/2012 3:26:51 PM
Why set a time frame on how long the 1st date should be? What if the conversation is really going well? what if there is chemistry? You want the alarm clock to go off and say ''time is up nice to meet you'' no wonder men get pissed.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Where am I going wrong..?
Posted: 5/2/2012 8:02:36 AM
I don't believe in dating more than 1 woman in the same period, i like to date one lady, if it does not work out, i go to the next person. I am a firm believer in second dates - a second chance to make a first impression.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 43 (view)
 
What are realistic expectations when it comes to dating?
Posted: 5/2/2012 7:48:48 AM
If you are not looking forward to the second date, then why have first date? Wasting my time and your time! :-(
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Should these be red flags?
Posted: 5/2/2012 7:43:50 AM
Ask yourself this question - Do you want to be part of her problem OR do you want to be part of your solution?
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 339 (view)
 
NHL Hockey 2011-2012 Season coming up...
Posted: 4/22/2012 4:30:03 PM
UM? pitvixen, would you like to sing a song for me? -----------------------------------------------------------------------------
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
How do I accept and be happy being single?
Posted: 4/17/2012 8:45:01 AM
Go out and be your own companion, if you stay home, you will think about loneliness and the refridgerator will be your companion. Why not try a free website meetup dot com, type your zip code and join groups to meet people you can participate in social events or you can be assistant organizer and run social events yourself. ITS FREE!
If i'm not dating anyone, i go to plan B which is meetup groups.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
So who should talk to who?
Posted: 4/17/2012 8:35:32 AM
I have the same problem with women too, 11pm she types going to bed i'm tired i'll talk to you soon, then after midnight she is ''online now'', lunch hour ''online now'', rush hour ''online now'', primetime ''online now'' COWARDS!
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 136 (view)
 
Pushing and for a meet right away.
Posted: 4/17/2012 8:29:24 AM
What is wrong with asking a women out after chating on instant message for about a few weeks? What's funny is women say ''i want to get to know you more'' that is a sign of rejection.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
I'm getting frustrated.....
Posted: 4/17/2012 8:17:00 AM
What's more frustrated is if two people have alot in common, you would think it would be a match? NADA! It comes down to woman judging men by attraction and profession instead of what's inside his heart.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
How do you know when it's time to walk away from POF
Posted: 4/17/2012 8:10:21 AM
Excellent question! I want to get off this site so bad, but i can't because i feel there is hope on the way for me.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
if someone views your profile
Posted: 4/17/2012 8:07:01 AM
If a female views me, i look at her profile to see if she lives a half hour away, if she does, i will e-mail her.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 331 (view)
 
NHL Hockey 2011-2012 Season coming up...
Posted: 4/15/2012 7:09:23 PM
Game 3: Philadelphia Flyers 8 Pittsburgh Penguins 4 (GET OUT THOSE KLENNEX TISSUES!) ###########
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 329 (view)
 
NHL Hockey 2011-2012 Season coming up...
Posted: 4/13/2012 8:15:03 PM
Game #2: Philadelphia Flyers 8 Pittsburgh Penguins 5 (down 3 goals gm 1 /down 2 goals twice gm 2)

(LOOK WHOS MAKING FUN OF MY TEAM NOW?)
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 328 (view)
 
NHL Hockey 2011-2012 Season coming up...
Posted: 4/11/2012 8:04:11 PM
Game #1 : Philadelphia Flyers 4 Pittsburgh Penguins 3 OVERTIME (woo-hoo learn to love it baby)
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
What's going on here?
Posted: 4/10/2012 8:36:53 PM
I'm not looking for sex right off the bat, and i still don't get a response back, go figure! ............................................
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Dating someone younger.
Posted: 4/10/2012 8:34:08 PM
If two people enjoy each others company and accept each other regardless of age, that's all it counts 1+1=2
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
How hard do you work on POF?
Posted: 4/10/2012 8:31:20 PM
I respond to women who write in last sentence in profile ''any questions feel free to get back to me'' and yet i get no responses, is that working hard?
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Do women exist that do not want kids?
Posted: 4/10/2012 8:25:52 PM
Do you know the cost of raising a child from birth to high school graduation? Take a couples salary, this covers the cost of mortgage, heat, water, cable, phone, computer, car insurance, life insurance, car metenance, gas in tank, trips to the doctor, prescriptions. Now where's the extra money to cover the cost of raising a kid? one of you would spent more time working 1,2, or 3 jobs more than spent time with the family, is that how you want to live life? What happens when the baby pops out and men run away, divorce rates are high, you will be on welfare, and we innocent people have to pay our tax dollars to poor women we should feel sorry for because they don't think responsibly. Women who want kids don't get it, we are in a recession, people losing jobs left and right, unemployment still high. Get yourself cats and dogs, they are considered kids.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Anybody else feel like no one cares anymore about the person
Posted: 4/10/2012 8:08:26 PM
My experiences is it's all about her and not me, women want the attention, compliments, and to be taken care of, when she is satisfied what do men get? Women should date for his priority not her preference.
 trh1268
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Is it still lying when a person reveals the truth about themselves *before* a planned meet & greet?
Posted: 4/10/2012 8:00:01 PM
The reason ''some men'' lie in their profiles is because they don't want to get rejected before meeting on 1st date.
Men want a chance to show how they can treat a women like a queen so women do not stick to their guns.
 
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