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 Author Thread: Is art attractive?
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Is art attractive?
Posted: 1/24/2019 8:43:15 PM
I enjoy being around artists because they are much more easy going than corporate types. :)
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Why do I consistently attract women over 40 and 50?
Posted: 1/24/2019 8:40:13 PM
Because younger men have more energy and a lot more fun than bitter old men!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 212 (view)
 
as long as they are willing to do two jobs--blow and hand :)
Posted: 1/24/2019 8:15:46 PM
I like shopping at Walmart!! Groceries are still much cheaper than Fry's/Krogers. I love saving money!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 217 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 1/20/2019 9:07:20 PM
I attract Santa Claus types. um...no thanks.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Who messages you and you know they're not compatible?
Posted: 1/20/2019 8:41:28 PM
I wonder why thugs and gangsters from South Phoenix think they have a chance on educated/professionally employed woman in Scottsdale. BLOCK/delete!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 56 (view)
 
How much time do you spend texting before meeting?
Posted: 1/20/2019 8:36:25 PM
I can talk faster than texting. Most just want someone to chat with and have no intention of meeting IRL. Just like the ones who will never give their ph# but will call you on yours. OR the ones that will only meet for lunch....because they have someone at home waiting for them at dinner. Why don't you wait until you are truly single before pulling this nonsense!!!~
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 28 (view)
 
You know you aren't wanted on OLD when.
Posted: 1/20/2019 8:29:24 PM
When men MY age won't accept messages from me. I'm too old for someone my age! LOL!!!!! And I look a lot better than they do! Sheesh!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 148 (view)
 
Women Don't Know What They Want
Posted: 1/20/2019 7:55:14 PM
I know EXACTLY who I am and what I want!!! That's why I rarely any messages. Seems like most are looking for someone young and dumb that they can take advantage of. Pfff! Glad I do much better IRL! This is just for entertainment now. ;(
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 62 (view)
 
What are things you see in dating profiles that will make you sadly skip past them?
Posted: 1/17/2019 11:35:58 PM
Any man that is looking for someone young enough to be his CHILD is an immediate pass. The younger women at work as so sick of middle aged pot bellied men contacting them. They want the hot built guy their own age.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 45 (view)
 
is it normal if he wants to meet you once a week?
Posted: 12/27/2018 1:45:20 PM
I work so much during the week that a weekend relationship is all I can handle. I communicate during the week on the phone and now I get dumped for not being "available" enough.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Looking to date thin petite cute sweet women in Kamloops
Posted: 12/26/2018 8:54:09 PM
He's also a 68 yr old smoker that would date an 18 year old....a GIRL out of high school! He'll be here forever!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What's Your DMV?
Posted: 12/26/2018 8:11:22 PM
Hate to inform you guys looking for someone half your age....these younger woman are laughing at how stupid and desperate you look. I work with these younger women and hear so many stories of the old perverts online going after them. The are MORTIFIED that you actually think this will work.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 18 (view)
 
What makes a good first message?
Posted: 10/27/2018 2:44:37 AM
More than just "hi" LAZYYY!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Ok so I'm popular but can't get dates. Why??????????
Posted: 10/4/2018 1:46:41 AM
Agree! Looking back...the only ones that worked out ended up where I did the picking. Everyone else was a "meh" and not all that! Don't settle!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What is an after-date?
Posted: 10/2/2018 1:58:21 AM
Update: He moved to San Diego!!! So we will never know! POOF! DISAPPEAR!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Do you care what a person does for work?
Posted: 9/20/2018 6:25:02 PM
Yes. I dated someone that worked part time at a call center. We went on ONE dinner date (cheap place, but fine.) The rest of the time we stayed in and watched Netflix. Got old really fast! If you can't afford to date, you should be looking for a better job.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What is an after-date?
Posted: 9/19/2018 11:04:23 PM
I recently had someone ask me to plan an after-date....I guess that means something to do after our 3;00 PM meet which would have lasted an hour at most. I have never heard of this. Is this about picking whose house to go back to after the "meet"? Or am I reading to much after this? Curious mind wants to know! :)
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 125 (view)
 
What do women over 50 find desirable and undesirable in a man's profile?
Posted: 9/9/2018 7:26:59 PM
Men in their 50s looking for 25 years olds. Yes, I'm too OLD to date someone a whopping 2 years older than me. Give it up, buddy...you aren't that hot yourself!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Red Flag Lists in People's Profiles
Posted: 7/4/2018 11:58:56 PM
50 year old men looking for 18 year olds. Have seen this way too much. Are you nuts going after someone just out of high school?
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 38 (view)
 
What things turn people off when viewing profiles pics?
Posted: 6/26/2018 11:36:32 PM
Sloppy grey shaggy beards! A cigarette or cigar in mouth! Posing with****ail waitresses! Yuck!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 57 (view)
 
On dating a cheapskate.
Posted: 6/13/2018 1:45:46 PM
Cheapskates only get worse after marriage. Then they want YOU to pay the mortgage when you make far less than them!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What things turn people off when viewing profiles pics?
Posted: 6/13/2018 1:42:36 PM
Men that will NOT date someone a WHOPPING year older than them! Insecure. much?
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 338 (view)
 
Instant turn aways: cheapskates
Posted: 6/13/2018 1:26:34 AM
If a man over 50 is still looking for someone 20+ years younger; NEXT!!! Also if they won't date someone a WHOPPING year older; NEXT!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Dating Online Make self esteem go down ?
Posted: 6/11/2018 2:34:52 AM
Yes. On here it's always about the calendar age and weight. Never mind that I'm a funny and caring person that could enhance your life. There's always something better on the next page.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Dating Musicians??????
Posted: 6/11/2018 1:33:12 AM
Dated one. Highly narciccistic. Spelled it wrong, I know. Everything had to be HIS way! PASS!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Who Is Too Young or Too Old for You to Date?
Posted: 3/11/2018 10:20:56 PM
I have been the "younger" woman and also the "older" woman. Just remember that the younger person has the most power in the relationship. It is what it is!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 39 (view)
 
POF = Plenty of Fakes
Posted: 2/21/2018 12:47:25 AM
I'm real!!! I haven't seen any fake profiles that I know about. Most are just being unrealistic about what they want and/or have to offer!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Best places to meet people after 45
Posted: 2/21/2018 12:30:55 AM
I have met quite a few new friends and men to date in the singles groups at Meetup.com. Far better than meting those with 10 year old pictures!!!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Getting blocked by someone for no apparent reason
Posted: 6/16/2017 7:41:56 PM
I block when they obviously haven read my profile. I don't want them bugging me as to why I didn't reply.....!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Men Over 70
Posted: 5/24/2017 11:11:21 PM
Men in their 70's need to stop being delusional and contacting women 20 years younger. We are still in the workforce and have a life. No need for a daddy figure!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 13 (view)
 
If someone restricts the hours you can text them, are they legit?
Posted: 5/24/2017 10:46:57 PM
Wish there were height restrictions too! I still have shorter men contacting me. Guess they think they are the exception!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Why not an Over 60 forum ?
Posted: 2/12/2017 10:44:55 PM
You should have complimented her on her necklace, earrings. She would say thanks, then if she was interested she would have continued to talk. I get this a lot at gas stations..LOL.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 258 (view)
 
Is 61 the cut-off age for having any luck on POF?
Posted: 11/27/2016 2:32:32 PM
If men would date women their own age, we wouldn't need to have cut off ages. I didn't want someone 20 years older when I was in my 20's and still don't want someone 20 years older. Why would I want to fast forward myself by 20 years??? Delusional men online!!!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
is asking if interested considered needy?
Posted: 11/5/2016 9:09:22 PM
You could always e-mail her and ask. Nothing will keep me away from a man that I'm interested in. I can't stand flakes that just stop calling after going out for a few months.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
meet me function query?
Posted: 11/5/2016 8:56:42 PM
This function is about looks only. I can click on a profile of a handsome man, but if the tone of the profile is arrogant or snobby I move on. Best thing about getting older is knowing who you are and what you want.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Attitude restrictions.
Posted: 11/5/2016 8:31:38 PM
Older women might date you, but will never support you.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Approach anxiety.
Posted: 11/5/2016 8:01:35 PM
Just don't go after women out of your league. Women can be very snooty wen they are extremely good looking. So I will pass on the exceptionally good looking ones. Dated them in the past and it was always about THEM.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Do you ever look at your viewed me folder?
Posted: 11/5/2016 7:52:48 PM
I used to type the username in and look. Can't do that anymore and don't care. They were all too freaky for me anyway!
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 157 (view)
 
A NEW queston about an OLD topic......
Posted: 11/5/2016 7:15:03 PM
People are always surprised when I ask for the senior citizen discount. :)
I have met men in the REAL world that liked my looks/personality. Then they found out I was only a few years older than them and they left to mingle elsewhere. Happens to the best of us :)
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Is my (lack of) education holding me back in the online dating world?
Posted: 6/25/2016 3:33:43 PM
If a man can't hold an intelligent conversation on the first date, there will not be a second date. Having common interests, goals and intellect are crucial for anything long term. I HATE having to all of the talking on a first date!
 akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 115 (view)
 
smoker who lied on profile
Posted: 6/20/2016 12:19:31 AM
Please explain "occaisional smoker." (Too tired to spell!) Smoking is smoking. Goodbye to you if you smoke!
 akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 949 (view)
 
Importance of heigh?
Posted: 6/20/2016 12:03:56 AM
I have "tried" dating shorter men, but I feel very awkward. They really have to be my height (5'11") or taller. Fortunately we have a singles tall club here, but most them are too old for my taste. I do ok at meetups. :)
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 9 (view)
 
How to Generate interest with a woman on POF
Posted: 5/30/2016 4:29:48 PM
That's really a stupid picture. Being 5'7" is going really going to hinder your chances of meeting someone. Just telling it like it is! Even short women want tall guys.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 19 (view)
 
You lived in Phoenix in the 60s, 70s and 80s if...
Posted: 5/7/2016 8:23:25 PM
You went cruising down Central every Friday and Saturday night :)
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Just curious...how is your dating experience here at POF
Posted: 5/7/2016 8:19:50 PM
Nothing but fat bald older men contacting me :(
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 3 (view)
 
BARGAIN HUNTERS -whats your game?
Posted: 5/7/2016 8:14:10 PM
Savers is one of or hidden gems :)
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Disabled dating ?
Posted: 5/7/2016 8:00:53 PM
Why would a healthy 40 year old woman want to date you? They don't want to be your caregiver. Find someone your own age that is also disabled.... problem solved. Most of you men are NUTS thinking that someone 20 years younger would date you. It would be like kissing your dad....not a good thought.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 459 (view)
 
Do fat women REALLY get offended when men respond back telling them they aren't interested?
Posted: 5/7/2016 7:52:33 PM
I have had a lot more dates after losing 70 lbs!! FAT is not attractive in either sex.
 Akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why Meet Me?
Posted: 4/23/2016 7:11:39 PM
If you really want to know, it's in your spam folder. Write the username and search for it. Prepare to die laughing :poop:
 akitahun
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 101 (view)
 
Home ownership a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/25/2015 12:29:19 AM
I don't "require" a homeowner, just someone that can afford to take out once in awhile. The last one had an hourly job...we watched a lot of NETFLIX!!! And no younger guys wanting me to support them..haha.
 
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