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Date left when she saw what was for dinner :(
Posted: 3/31/2012 10:08:08 AM
She came over for dinner and was pissed you weren't cooking something to HER tastes...oh well, we cant please everybody. Did she even bother to suggest anything? Or did she just assume?
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PoF Forum and dating. What have you learned?
Posted: 3/29/2012 7:04:26 PM
That if you you are a non-religious Black male on this site, especially in Florida, you have your work cut out for you.

Gotta break through the stereotype and religion barriers...
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What would you do?
Posted: 3/29/2012 4:43:55 PM
Just leave them be. They didn't respond for a reason.
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Are you ever tempted to look for FWBs - instead ?
Posted: 3/27/2012 8:41:33 PM
HAHAHA! This!^^^^^
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Speed dating - a confidence booster or a self-esteem destroyer?
Posted: 3/25/2012 11:08:00 AM
Aussie, I just want to say, you are awesome, and I wish could meet a woman with your sense of humor. That humor is very hard to come by here where I live.
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Are we looking for what really counts?
Posted: 3/20/2012 4:46:59 PM
I have no clue anymore. After a series of failed dates, relationships, etc., you start to think if the qualities you are looking for are truly superficial....even the ones that are seemingly non-superficial.
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Plain Janes Better Than The Pretty Ones?
Posted: 3/20/2012 4:20:42 PM
I have learned to 'date' or 'go after' women in my league...per se. So, I shy away from the really attractive ones, and go after the ones that MIGHT be interested in me.
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Mens Dating Expenses/Dating Experiences.
Posted: 3/13/2012 8:23:29 AM
No, people go out on dates with those that they don't find attractive to see what they can get out of them.

I could care less about sex, I am way past that point, but finding a COMPATIBLE MATE is more rewarding than 30 minutes of pleasure, if that. I don't see how spending money, improves the chances of multiple dates(unless that is all she is looking for), it just shows to me how much money I am wasting to entertain someone of the opposite sex, rather than using that money for more important things, or monetary investments. I learned my lesson with the last person I dated off here, I told her I'm not interested, and yet she still asks me to take her out to dinner, so we can talk. SMH

If a relationship relies on what material possessions/gain that either sex can acquire or spend, then it isn't going to be successful relationship, in my eyes.
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Mens Dating Expenses/Dating Experiences.
Posted: 2/29/2012 9:18:11 AM
Why do you spend so much money? Are you a serial dater?


No, I'm not. This girl just had the nerve to ask me if I could borrow some money from a friend so we could hang out...I am livid. Well, that is pretty much the nail in that coffin. I'm like I spent 300 on you in the last week and we haven't even had sex, I could have just bought an escort for that much.

I mean, lets be honest. I wasn't in it for the sex, I was trying to get to know her better, but all she was doing was taking taking taking. I could have cut out all of that for one wild night or used that money for other things.
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Mens Dating Expenses/Dating Experiences.
Posted: 2/29/2012 8:09:25 AM
(From another thread I posted in, didn't see this one)I have a girl that I am dating that always wants to go out, regardless of how much money I have. Problem is, it gets really expensive hanging out with her. Driving to her, buying drinks, but she doesn't seem to take no for an answer, and I try to suggest other venues that are less expensive, but she declines them all. I have spent almost 300 within the last week alone. I told her, we need to change up our going out routine, or we start splitting the bill. Never has she once opened her purse to pay for anything. I'm the one going broke here.
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What is shallow?
Posted: 2/25/2012 10:56:50 AM
I want a woman that has an oral fetish. Am I being shallow?
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Sex first, ask questions later?
Posted: 2/25/2012 8:54:08 AM
I think if a women is truly interested in a man, its gonna take a heck of a lot to make her put him in "friend-zone". Alot of disinterest on his part.

Meaning, if she happens to do this quickly (in your opinion) she wasn't attracted to you in the first place...

If i'm really attracted to a man, friend-zone will be the last zone I put him in...

This is where men get things wrong...they think, "I moved too slow, that's why i'm in friend zone", but NO, actually she just wasn't interested.

Because if she WAS, you wouldn't be in that zone what-so-ever.


Well, this one instance happened when she asked if I had a condom, I said no, we made out, and that was it. We have been friends ever since(10 years now). I was just coming over to hang out with her, not to pump and dump...but she clearly had a different agenda. So was she interested-- obviously, but seeing that I wasn't at the point she was, relationship missed.

This has happened multiple times where I haven't 'been at the point' per se, seemingly missing out on opportunities. But I'm not looking for meaningless sex. I'm pretty sure I can get that as much as I want, but I am weary of STD's and other things. I just turned 31, as of yesterday. Getting too old for all that nonsense. :D
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Sex first, ask questions later?
Posted: 2/25/2012 7:32:28 AM

When ya see the target??? As in, legs spread wide open, or the lady in question bent over. Works for me.


What if the 'target' is heavily guarded and their defenses seem impenetrable? Not to mention over the loudspeaker all you hear is propaganda? What is a fellow soldier to do?
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Sex first, ask questions later?
Posted: 2/25/2012 7:16:22 AM
Apparently my patience when it comes to meeting/doing women is my downfall. I thought girls liked guys that waited to do things, because he was being respectable toward a woman. So all that self-respect crap is apparently a lie? I say this because, One chick lost interest in men altogether, one said she found someone else, many have friend-zoned me...

So you get the picture. When should I 'go in for the kill'? I'm just not trying be overtly aggressive about it.
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wtf????
Posted: 2/25/2012 7:01:49 AM
Hence, being single keeps money in my pocket, whereas I go on a date, I end up flat-broke, and with blue balls. I'm better off just paying a hooker. Cut out all that wooing nonsense. :D
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Too Much? Too Honest? Input?
Posted: 2/23/2012 7:29:40 AM
Ok, duly noted.
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Too Much? Too Honest? Input?
Posted: 2/22/2012 6:21:32 PM
If it needs a-fixin', let me know. Just need some input before I head too far down the rabbit hole. I wrote an essay, but I feel I should cover important points.
 
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