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 Author Thread: Why do guys LIKE to torture girls?
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Why do guys LIKE to torture girls?
Posted: 9/1/2006 10:16:10 AM
Some guys are just plain worthless but that one who isnt will make you forget about all the loosers. So I guess we just have to tuff it out to get the good ones. BUt never except being abused its better to be alone for a while than treated badly ...
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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reason for no explanation ?
Posted: 8/18/2006 12:30:25 PM
Why do guys talk to you for a while then all of a sudden stop emailing you back and delete every one of your emails without an explantion. I cant think of anything I did wrong or said wrong. I do understand some of you might say hes just not that into you and thats fine rejection doesnt bother me all that much but I wonder why no explanation I think it is rude I hate to be left hanging.
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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brother in laws half brother ...stay away?
Posted: 7/28/2006 3:57:23 PM
The thing is I dont feel it is a crush I have had crushes before and this is much more and I honestly think we would be happy with one another .Why I thought my brother might be trying to sell me on him because I thought my brother might know something I dont .
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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brother in laws half brother ...stay away?
Posted: 7/28/2006 3:24:49 PM
I dont just thought he would be nice to go to dinner with . I am definetly not saying he is the one but I would like to get a chance to see . I just was asking if there is any hints to tell me if he likes me at all so I dont make an ass out of myself if one day I get the courage to say something . I dont really know i havent found to many men who are into big girls but I heard his wife is a dog who didnt appreaciate him and was really ignorant towards him that is what my brother in law said . I said well I need someone with more meat on their bones and he says he has meat on his bones as if he was trying to sell me on his brother.
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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brother in laws half brother ...stay away?
Posted: 7/28/2006 3:03:45 PM
I have a "thing" for my brother in law's half brother he is about 32 I think . He is going thru a divorce right now . I got him to dance with me at his brothers wedding (last night) once . I asked him again and he said no I have to leave . All of my family thinks hes too old for me or I am not good enough thats how it would seem. I thought he might have been flirting with me but I am really bad at telling the difference wether men are flirting or being friendly how do you tell ? Is an older man's flirting different than a younger man's? Oh yea I should mention he owns a car dealership where I bought my car from and ever since then I have had a major thing for him . I dont know what to do . Is there anyway to tell if I am his type besides just coming right out and saying hey wanna go out sometime. I know he will need time to work thru his divorce but how long should I give it ? Sorry if this is confusing
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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So you want a second chance?
Posted: 7/13/2006 12:02:53 PM
What if your ex is a co worker lol kind makes your advice crap in that situation!
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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He is so confusing .... HELP
Posted: 6/25/2006 12:14:39 PM
Dont do it my ex is my co-worker and I still have to see him 2x a week and I dont like him and we dont talk at all so it is a uncomfortable I still wish to this day nothing had happend.
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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doing your roomates sister
Posted: 6/23/2006 3:44:40 PM
Have you seen a shrink lately ?
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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For those with little or no hope ...A lil chessy advice hope it helps
Posted: 6/20/2006 2:50:54 PM
I read a story the other day and it made me smile and think .

There was a farmer whos donkey fell into a well . He thought it would be much to expensive to get the donkey . So he called on the neighbors to help him shovel dirt on the donkey to keep it from crying until it died . So his neighbors came with their shovels and started shoveling dirt in on top of the donkey. At first the donkey was crying and then to the farmers amazment he quited down . After hearing nothing from the donkey the farmer took a look into the well and with every shovel of dirt that hit his back the donkey shook it off and took a step up until the donkey reached the top of the well and trotted off. So moral of the story my friends is when people throw dirt on you shake it off and take a step up !
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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men how to ?
Posted: 5/6/2006 10:58:56 AM
How do you guarantee a response to your email wether they want anything to do with your or not ???
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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not attractive any more, and a few other probs
Posted: 4/26/2006 11:50:09 AM
You should let her go obviously you dont really love her let her go so she can find someone better than you ...
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Big guy / Bigger heart ?
Posted: 4/14/2006 12:19:57 PM
I like bigger guys so I messaged one I saw he labeld himself as large and he read my email and deleted it! I am just left thinking what the F*** ? Am I wrong for thinking that a big guy might be nicer to a big girl and actually respond even if they were uninterested? Do you think it just depends on the person ? Are there any non jerks on this site I have talked to about 2 nice guys out of the numerous mean ones ...
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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go for it or let it go ?
Posted: 4/10/2006 12:00:58 PM
I guess I will let it go but if I still feel this way in 10 years or so I will go for it then the trouble with letting it go now is I have felt the same for about 6 years now or more ..
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
go for it or let it go ?
Posted: 4/9/2006 5:34:50 PM
I have a "thing" for a man who used to be my teacher in school . He has dated a younger woman before but she wasnt ever a student of his. Should I let it go or go for it ? Letting him know how I feel or felt? P.S I have had "feelings" for him for about 7 years now ..
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Any and all help from canadians !
Posted: 4/5/2006 12:27:25 PM
I have allready tried on my own this is my last resort ...
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Any and all help from canadians !
Posted: 4/5/2006 12:16:30 PM
I need help finding my best friend she moved to quebec canada after 9-11 would anybody be willing to look for her for me in a search engine or phone book there ? Or anyone who has any advice to help me find her is greatly appreciated..thanx
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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opinions on this
Posted: 4/4/2006 3:21:24 PM
I was looking at this man's profile and it says he is looking for true love but you cant contact him unless you are within 75 miles of where he lives it seems to me if you are looking for true love you should be willing to go anywhere to get it . I have found this more than once on peoples profile and it is getting aggravating!
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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How long
Posted: 3/31/2006 1:17:29 PM
How long should you corispond with someone if you are waiting for them to ask you to meet but they never really get aorund to it how much time should you spend before bailing ? As I am sure some of you know you talk to someone maybe you discuss meeting and they just disapear !
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Questions for the oposite
Posted: 3/15/2006 3:50:33 PM
What are some questions you found are good ones to ask to get to know a person better ?
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
curious?
Posted: 3/8/2006 12:11:45 PM
I was wondering does anyone know of any guys profile they think I should look at because they feel from the look of my profile that we might be a good fit ?
 Lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Need male or female advice !!!!!!!
Posted: 3/3/2006 1:03:33 PM
I am talking in person the whole talking to people online has been pretty good. cept most people dont seem to be serious about meeting in person.. I like my username dont plan on changing it because I am looking for "it" whatever it might be I will know when it happens and if i dont find it by 2008 I am going to take a sabatical from the search for a little while ...
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Need male or female advice !!!!!!!
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:05:54 AM
I was wondering if anyone could help me figure out how to let a guy know I am interested without embarrasing myself ???? And if there is anything anyone thinks I should change about my profile ??? I guess that is all for now may need some more advice later .
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Dating people from work
Posted: 3/1/2006 4:00:57 PM
Dont ever do it unless you have a way to never see them again because my ex and I have to see eachother 2x a week even though he dumped me and its uncomfortable but I am not about to quit over it .. All I can do now is learn from my mistake ....!
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Hope for all ????
Posted: 2/28/2006 3:23:15 PM
Does anyone believe there is someone for everyone out there and that everything happens for a reason ????
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Good Vs Bad
Posted: 2/15/2006 4:07:17 PM
Any man who might read this thread contact me if you wear a uniform lol sadly im not joking ...
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Good Vs Bad
Posted: 2/15/2006 2:01:33 PM
Thats funny all good responses I prefer some sort of law enforcement too around where I live seems I might have to settle for a prison guard they dont have a gun but they have badges and stuff I havent seen one good looking officer around here yet but wellsboro has some hotties ...
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Good Vs Bad
Posted: 2/14/2006 1:55:29 PM
Which kind of man do we prefer ladies a law breaker or law enforcer ?
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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V-Day
Posted: 2/10/2006 12:19:58 PM
That wasnt very nice kce , Im obviously not one but I mean since I started to realize what valentines is I havent been alone ...
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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V-Day
Posted: 2/9/2006 6:27:54 AM
Anyone have any suggestions on what to do if you are alone/single on valentines day this is my first year so I have no clue what to do ....
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Real physic ?
Posted: 2/8/2006 11:32:19 AM
Does anyone think they really have physic abilites and think they can back it up ????
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
For all of the broken hearts out there....(snif-snif!)
Posted: 1/29/2006 9:00:11 AM
I thought I was completely over it. Then someone who knows the both of us told me he has a new girlfriend allready and she is the girl we broke up over arguing about . I asked the person who told me and they couldnt explain why they did I think they wanted to hurt me honestly. I have to see him 2 times a week for work and there is no way to get around seeing him and he may be with his new gf I dont want to show him that it upsets me so what should I do or how should I act ? This will teach me dont shit where you eat !!
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
For all of the broken hearts out there....(snif-snif!)
Posted: 1/2/2006 10:26:42 AM
My Ex just broke up with me around 5 am new years day just 5 hours after the ball dropped ! It hurts so bad any advice on how to move on and meet new people ? I live in a small town and since I am under 21 i cant go to the bar to meet anyone , I would also like to know will this pain ever go away and how long will it take he said that he hasnt been happy with me for 3 months and isnt sure he ever loved me .
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Internet misunderstandings
Posted: 5/28/2005 12:58:52 PM
They most people that is hhmmm well I guess on here the thing is that they are just looking to play head games But in the real world I think to many of us have this I am better than you complex and we are convinced of our own supiority which actually doesnt exsist at least I dont think so anyways ...
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Internet misunderstandings
Posted: 5/28/2005 12:10:01 PM
I dont know I think what he did is skrewed up.Well I added his sn to my yahoo list and if it is him hopefully I will get an explanaition . Have you ever met anyone on here ? One person I was talking to for a while and we discussed meeting never gets back on yahoo to chat with me but I see he is still checking his mail on here whats a girl to do ?
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Internet misunderstandings
Posted: 5/28/2005 11:17:34 AM
Yea I myself am really confused there was this user -- we will just call him e and he sent me 2 very nice email's then I went and I tried to reply and he closed his account what is wrong with men ?????
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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What's more important Ladies, physical attraction or kind heart?
Posted: 5/23/2005 7:40:23 PM
A kind heart is all that matters !
 lookingforit2008
Joined: 2/12/2005
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Sinking Ship
Posted: 4/22/2005 12:10:35 PM
Thats really sad :"""(
 
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