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 Author Thread: Making Conversation
 bluuriver
Joined: 4/10/2012
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Making Conversation
Posted: 12/10/2014 6:33:49 PM
Could it be the questions you are asking?
Too personal?
Too vague?
Ones like:
" What's that you reading? A book?"

Maybe share a bit about you between questions, as she gets to know you, she may open up more.
Just a thought, OP.
It's not easy for any of us!
 bluuriver
Joined: 4/10/2012
Msg: 25 (view)
 
my guy still has his POF account
Posted: 12/10/2014 3:11:15 PM
Sunshine,
You suspected.
You investigated and found the truth.
He is a liar.
Liars are not worth speaking to. If you tell him how you found out, he will:
1) Deny it ever happened. If that does not work he will
2) Be angry you "tricked him".
3) Manipulate till he forgives you for not trusting him.

At this point you know in your gut he is not worth speaking too ever again.
You are young, cut your losses and find a date for New Years Eve!
 bluuriver
Joined: 4/10/2012
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Take a look - Got some questions
Posted: 12/7/2014 10:36:36 PM
I could see nothing wrong with your profile.
You are attractive and seem to be very mature.

I think probably the issue is that the girls you message are flooded with responses.
Maybe try posting to forums to get your name around POF.
 bluuriver
Joined: 4/10/2012
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Dating for 2 months not exclusive yet.......
Posted: 12/6/2014 10:00:26 PM
Cowboy:
Well written!
Your post gave some of the best advice written in forums.
 bluuriver
Joined: 4/10/2012
Msg: 316 (view)
 
Men in their 60s
Posted: 12/4/2014 10:42:58 PM
Mr Fine_Fella,
You say you are in great shape.
But no body pic?
The head shot is even a little blury and out of focus.
Hmmmm.
 bluuriver
Joined: 4/10/2012
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Am I too needy?
Posted: 12/2/2014 4:50:23 PM
I agree with other posters.
This week man has only her own needs at heart.
You are lucky it is over now and not after a seven year marriage!
The shame is, these user types have a way of slithering back in.
Don't let that happen. You do not need more heartache!
 bluuriver
Joined: 4/10/2012
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Accupunture for RA
Posted: 4/16/2012 3:44:08 PM
I was getting so stiff, I felt terrible. Then I started using anti inflamotories and changing my diet. Avoiding dairy, white bread, sugar. Added ins. I feel much better. plus, blood pressure is now perfect and I am more active. I think changing diet can greatly help most problems.
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