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 Author Thread: How Important is Sex in a Relationship????
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 130 (view)
 
How Important is Sex in a Relationship????
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:53:55 AM
It's an important _Part_ of a _Good Relationship_!!

(IMO)...The biggest part is ~Love~...the sharing, honesty and respect....which makes the ~Icing on the Cake~
just That much more Sweet!!
It's the most erotic way of saying "Thank-you for all the support, help and love you put into "US"...!!!"

*!*
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 32 (view)
 
dirty talk??
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:46:50 AM
I don't mind ~dirty-talk~, if she likes it....but I'd much rather use ~Passionate-talk~!

There Are a few things that I'd like to hear from a Lady in that respect, though...but I don't _ask_ her for them
Spontinaity is everything!!
****
F...
M.
W...
Y...
T.....
!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Do all women over 50 cringe when they hear the word SEX !!
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:42:33 AM
NO!

They've heard all the ~cute~ 1-liners....know all the little gimmicks and ploys that guys use, and just plain
Know What They Want...
And it's N o t being 'pressured' into sex in the first 30 minutes of a conversation!!
There are some exceptional Ladies out there...some with more Sex-Drive than Men of their age....
They just know that there's a LOT more to interest them...Before the sex gets brought into the equation!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Opening the Door for Sexual talk
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:29:41 AM
Being Open and Frank about intimacy is one thing....
But most women realize that 'discussing it' ~generally~ indicates a 'willingness to engage'...
One of THE most important issues...for a Lady...is
R e s p e c t !!
...unfortunately, it's one of the 1st things to Go Out The Window...with a guy...once the seal has been breached!!
Personally...I like to intentionally avoid the subject...talking about Everything under the sun...
mostly to get a better understanding of the Lady I'm with....but also as a sort of ~Tease~....
waiting for her to say...: "We've been talking all this time , and you haven't Once brought-up Sex.....Why!??"

~Chortle!~
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Sex so good it makes you cry ...
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:14:43 AM
I used to make HER cry...from her intense climaxes...but not myself...
Usually...MY most common problem was treating the Nail-marks in my back
...and...
getting my Eyeballs back in my head!!
It's been almost 15 years, and the memory is still as fresh as if it were Yesterday!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 295 (view)
 
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 4/1/2013 9:12:33 AM
'Some' men are Also horrible at relationships , in general!!!
(...see: Bad-Boys)

The ones that are Good at it are the ones who can take Directions...
and Genuinely _Enjoy_ Pleasing The Lady...._First_!!!

Personally...after almost 15 years of Widowhood...SOMEone is In For A Treat!!!

##***
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 91 (view)
 
How can BOB replace a man?
Posted: 4/1/2013 9:00:05 AM
A ~BOB~ doesn't have a warm, wet Tongue...and a pair of gentle, sensual hands to run all over your body!!!
The only things I use batteries for are my flashlight and alarm clock!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Guy sends nice message then you don't hear from him
Posted: 4/1/2013 8:56:09 AM
Well , 'love2...'...
There ARE a few of 'US' left...that are looking for a Genuine Relationship...
With all the daily duties and chores involved...
Even if it Is just on a 'Dating' format.
Personally, I send 'Very Nice Letters' to ladies all the time...
But...
Always get the response of...:
"You're Too Far Away!!"
...Withouth them even _Considering_ that I'd be More than Willing to DO the Relocating...~For the right Lady!!! ~
~ I was going to write to you, but I'm currently in the process of quitting smoking...so I don't honestly 'qualify' to ...

All The Best!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
I never thought I'd date an older woman until I stumbled upon a great one.
Posted: 4/1/2013 8:46:31 AM
I was in my late 30's when I found my true Soul-Mate....In an Elevator!!!
She was almost 4 yrs older than me , but we felt the ~Electricity~, immediately!....
...Eventhough I was too shy to do anything about it at the time....
Luckily, though...she was a Fabulous teacher at more than 'introductions'...

~Blush~
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 727 (view)
 
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/1/2013 8:41:25 AM
After....._Definitely_!!

I was 38 when I met my Soul-Mate

All I can say is :

Spectacular!!!

I just hope that almost 15 years of Widowhood hasn't put me at a disadvantage of finding Another one!!

*KISS!*
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Is porn for real
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:32:32 PM
I don't care to have My hair pulled...but some women dig it!
I find Both ends of ~Spanking~ Very arousing, though...!!
ANYthing to get a full handful of cute , round Tush!!!

~VOOF!!~
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Just a fun question
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:28:58 PM
The ~Landing Strip~ is _Very Sexx-a-e_!!
Although...I prefer to do the detail work , myself!!

Fabulous Foreplay!!!

##***
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 195 (view)
 
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:26:30 PM
YUP!!
I'm proud to be Well-Tuned!!!

~HUGZ~
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Is the human body inherently obscene?
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:23:07 PM
I don't think that 'Obscene' is the right choice of words, here....

However...I have issues with a couple of things......
Censorship...:
Language-wise , TV networks *BLEEP*-out "Curse words' ... like Damn , $#!+ , Fvck , and others....
Yet...
It's "*BLEEP*-Damn It!!!"

Not that I'm religious, to any point , but ........*Huuuuuhhhh???*
"GOD" is Censored...???

Nudity...:
A Full-Frontal nude female is acceptable....Licking her Top-to-Bottom is OK...but an erect penis , all by itself...
is ~Verboten~...???
Opinions, Ladies???
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 193 (view)
 
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:10:06 PM
~Some men~ actually ARE looking for just ~One Thing~....
It's _Their_ loss for not endulging in one of the Best parts of Intimacy...:
Pleasing a Lady , orally ...has always been tops on my list!!

I often (just not _Recently_) have to be P r i e d away from her lovely petals of love to engage in more
Direct contact!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Regrets when choosing a partner...?
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:00:26 PM
I would only regret taking So Bloody Long to find her!!
~ 14 years is a H3LL of a long time...Alone!! ~

I would hope that she'll write my ~ Bon Voyage ~ profile update...!!
...since My return will be delayed...a L O N G Time!!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Sex with a stranger
Posted: 2/21/2013 12:24:08 PM
Not too long ago, I met a very nice Lady within my ~age-range~ (45) who ,
after a fairly short conversation , took the aggreassive approach with me!!
She was in ~Just That Mood~ , that she > Went For It <...Right in her shop!!!
Lifted up her shirt and invited me to 'Indulge'....then after asking if I _Really_ liked Cunni-...
She dropped her pants and let me Indulge some More!!!
I was absolutely Shocked!!!
I was Shaking like a Leaf ....after the most wonderful face-full I've had in Many years!!!

*VOOF!!!*
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Cutting off or withholding sex
Posted: 2/21/2013 12:04:21 PM
...Sounds like that Food that decreases a womans Sex-drive by 90%....

It's called a
Wedding Cake !!!
.....
However...That wasn't true about my late wife...
We were the Perfect match...both knew that the relationship was based on a LOT more than Sex....and we worked at Every aspect of it....
The sex was just the Icing on the cake ... a way to say ~Thank-You~ for all the things that we liked doing _Together_!!
...So...
The Thank-Yous were _Spectacular_ !!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 137 (view)
 
Too Tall?
Posted: 2/21/2013 12:02:03 PM
I've always had a ~Thing~ for really Tall women....
Unfortunately , they've always looked for the Taller guys....
~$ # ! + !!~
So with all other things being entirely equal...I'd reach for the Volleyball Player, first!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 280 (view)
 
Dating in our 50's
Posted: 2/21/2013 11:46:17 AM
I'd be more ~aggressive~ about writing yo women (Of _Any age_)
if it weren't for constantly getting *POOF*-ed off with :
"You're Too Far Away!"

The more I get rejected . . . the less Enthusiastic I am about _Trying_!!!

Where is the ~Mid-Point~ between Not trying At All . . . and Trying Too Hard??

~shrug~
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 75 (view)
 
How old is too old for me? Im not a cub looking for a Cougar..
Posted: 2/21/2013 11:37:29 AM
Chemistry is _Everything_...
Age has Very little to do with it !!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 208 (view)
 
Anyone else only come here for the forums?
Posted: 2/18/2013 11:21:56 AM
Around my Anniversary , at the end of the monthI'm putting in some Real consideration into
abandoning my ~Quest~, and just coming in for the Forums...

It's gotten S O frustrating ....looking for a new partner / LTR that I'm getting tired of the disappointment , and just
Chukkin' the whole Kit and Kaboodle!!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Do men really screw anything? Looking for honest answers.
Posted: 2/11/2013 7:01:44 AM
Some Will!!

I have but One basic rule...
She should be Attractive.
~There are Several factors in the qualifications ,therein....~

Other than that .. she'll provide enough info about herself over the course of an evening...
Whether it's dinner , dancing , Karaeoke , fishing , camping , whatever...
...to make or lose enough points to determine if we're compatible enough to take it all the way!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 118 (view)
 
Do hot guys get sex all of time?
Posted: 2/11/2013 6:43:51 AM
Just like Hot Women....

When all they have to do, is...
Walk outside...
and...
SMILE!....
It's not much of an effort!!
Having been in 2 LTRs , I'm only here looking for _The Last One _
either of us will ever need!
I have enough Strong Points that only need to be investigated by a nice Lady...
that I don't necessarily ~Need~ to look like Adonis or Tom Cruise....
(I was going to make one of several ~snide~ comments, here...
but I have better manners than that...plus...that would only serve to take points off
MY score!

...so...I won't! )
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 1051 (view)
 
Have all the really older guys given up?
Posted: 2/11/2013 6:23:12 AM
Well...I'm not 'Really' older....I'll be celebrating the ~23rd Anniversary of turning 35~ at the end of the month ,
but I Am getting a little more than disheartened by the 'Available' women, out there!!
Take away the ones that are here . . ~Just for the Forums~ , and that leaves 98% of the ones that I would be interested in... who reply to a polite Note of Admiration with:...
"You're Too Far Away!!"

I guess I may just have to look for a new Free Site to fish on!!
...because 99% of 'Dating Sites out there are just in existence to tease gullible guys into buying into a
'Paid Membership' by site employees and 'recruiters that get a cut of new paid memberships.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 238 (view)
 
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:32:52 PM
*IF???*

I feel like I've let her down if I can't give her At Least a half-dozen!!
...then again...I _AM_ a bit Out-of-Practice...so I hope 'she'll bare with me ....f
or a few sessions...
to regain my stamina.

~ b l u s h ~
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 38 (view)
 
One Sided Sex?
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:27:51 PM
Having been taught ( and spoiled) by an ~Expert~ by my 2nd wife ,
I not only want to please my partner _Supremely_, but also want her to crave it more often...every time!
The 'One-sided' part is represented by my last GF....who was a 1-shot-and-done-type....
Thinking that _I_'d be done, too.
She was unprepared for an Hour of activity...and after a while , just laid there like a lump.
...which , obviously , didn't exactly keep me ~Stimulated~ to please her!
Oh , well....The search Continues!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 251 (view)
 
Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:19:23 PM
It's the #3 thing I miss Most about being without a partner!!!

MM-mm-MM-mmmmm...*WHACK!*~squeeze~*WHACK!*~squeeze~....!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Waiting for Love to have Sex
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:12:42 PM
I _Always_ Love to have sex....No point in Waiting for it!!

I suppose I Do ~Wait for the right _Lady_...~
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Loss of sex drive
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:08:36 PM
I'm 1 for 2 on the subject....

1st wife (D)...lost all interest after 2nd child....~except~...when _S H E_ wanted it!!!

2nd wife(W) ...we spoiled each other ~Silly~ ..._before and After_ son was born.

A-a-h-h-hhh...the good-'ol'days . . . 8 times a week , and the weekends were Incalculable!!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 1119 (view)
 
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:01:09 PM
About as close I'll get to being a Basketball Fan.....
When a Lady gives me the 'ol...

~Two-Handed Stuff~...!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Intimate Encounters ???
Posted: 1/31/2013 11:08:39 AM
I concentrate my 'Intimacy' with someone I _Care About_!!
'Intimacy'...?? YEAH!! I'm all for it...but...'Encounters'...?
I'd much rather be 'Intimate' in a _Relationship_!!!
True....there's a LOT of selfish guys out there....just as there's a Lot of 'Golddigger' women, too...
I'm just looking for a nice Lady....that Enjoys Quality Orgasms...
As part of a Loving, Caring, Sharing Partnership!!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 1465 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 1/31/2013 10:24:57 AM
While I AM a proponent of the ~ Even-Trade~....
It Should be something that The Lady enjoys, also!
If she's _Absolutely_ against it... as a 'replacement', I might suggest a Vigorous, Enthusiastic 2-Fister!!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 297 (view)
 
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/31/2013 10:18:56 AM
Keep Fishing!!

Eventually....you'll find a Real Man...that is concerned with _You're_ pleasure....
....maybe even Moreso than His Own!!!

Then...Get The Landing Net!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Is what kind of fan you are, in part a gender issue?
Posted: 1/31/2013 10:12:39 AM
My input on Sports and Gender are generally reserved to...:

Why is it that Men like Fast , Hard-Hitting games...with complicated rules , Pads , Helmets , Cleats , Blades , Sticks ,
Sweat , Blood , Spittin', Diggin'-and-scratchin' , ...Aaahhr-Ahrrr-AAAHHrrrr!!!...


...and still find a Girly-Game like Basketball "Popular" ???

* shrug *
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Superbowl?
Posted: 1/31/2013 10:00:37 AM
By week 2...I had The Falcons and Texans.....
But....My *JINX* struck...yet Again!!

I just hope to see a LOT of scoring....Minimal need of the Officiating crew...ZERO Field goals...and...
The trailing team to have the last posession ....with a chance to win / tie....
If there's another 2:00 Burn-off of the clock ...with the dreaded ~Kneel-Down~...
I'm gonna *PUNT* my TV set across the Street!!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Woman using the Men's room in crowded public places.
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:39:19 PM
When a Mens room is vacant...I've _Often_ ~Stood Guard~ at the door , while a Lady uses it!!
I've even wiped-down the seat and set it down for her....

Chivalry Is NOT Dead...!!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Do hot guys get sex all of time?
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:35:07 PM
Much like Hot Women....
Hot guys can get it when they want it....
Very little genuine 'effort' involved...
As long as they don't act overly Macho....and uses a certain amount of real 'Charm'...
They've got it ~Made-in-the-Shade~...!!!

I wish I had that 'Problem'!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 349 (view)
 
Penis Pride
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:31:15 PM
Okay...Yeah...I'm 'Proud'...but...
Already knowing that she'll enjoy it...as she likes it...
I'm more interested in Pleasing the Lady than Myself!!!

If she wants 4X the Oral that I get...It's okay with me!!!
Cunni- is my Favorite Hobby , Anyway!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 44 (view)
 
What do women think of a man who tries to get it on first date?
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:25:48 PM
Most women think that he's...
#1...NOT a Gentleman...
#2...It's the ONLY thing he's after, anyway...
Which is fine...if it's Mutual...go for it!

But...I don't take that approach....
A "Lady" is worth the effort and respect to take my time getting to know...developing a Chemistry to take it
~One Base At A Time!!!~

...not many of us left...are there, girls...??....
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Relationship Goals..
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:09:32 PM
Having already raised all the children that I care to...:
I'm looking to create a new Partnership....
Including all the daily chores and duties...
But concentrating on Sharing, Caring, Fun and Games and Most of All....
~LOVE~
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 1023 (view)
 
Have all the really older guys given up?
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:02:43 PM
I've been on the verge of quitting looking for a Terrific lady for a few years....
But every time I visit, here...I invariably see ~someone~ that reminds me that I Still have a passion burning inside...
for someone that may have ~at least~ some return attraction.
I've been accused -many times- of Trying Too Hard...
So...I've toned-down my 'exuberance' considerably!
Now...I'm just being patient:...

"Just let her Fall In Your Lap!!"
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 54 (view)
 
How old is too old for me? Im not a cub looking for a Cougar..
Posted: 1/27/2013 12:54:30 PM
I don't put ANY restrictions on 'AGE'....
(Well, Okay....Half my age is pushing it a bit, but if The Chemistry is there...I'm game!)
There ARE some Ladies, here...in my own age-bracket / older...)
that have my mouth hanging open and my eyes Bugging-out,
but a majority of them have already Filtered-me Out...One way or another!
A Pity, too!!! . . But then again...I consider it...
_Their_ Loss!!
* * * * *
Not ALL The Good Ones Are Taken!!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Hard to believe this behavior in men over 50..
Posted: 1/27/2013 12:43:29 PM
If the Chemistry was present...and we were having a Terrific time...
Being a Gentleman...I might suggest Her visiting My home.
But it would have to be _Her_ suggestion to visit Her home!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 656 (view)
 
No pic:.... Worth the risk?
Posted: 1/27/2013 12:38:29 PM
It would be well-researched....Messaging, here...then a Phone conversation...and still...
That is the Only time I Insist on either :...
1.) Meeting me _Here_...or...
2.) Being generally 'local'...(Within ~50 miles~)

I'd be just ~Asking~ to be put on YouTube if I drove 150 miles for a Date....to find Noone there..!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Is the imagination your favorite sex toy?
Posted: 1/25/2013 3:01:33 PM
The Skin!!
It contains all the wonderful stuff that makes Intimacy F U N ! ! !
But...cover it up with light, sheer, sexxy material.....and it's That Much More Fun!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 357 (view)
 
Oral Sex Disgusts Me
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:56:57 PM
Sorry about That , Bud....About all I can say is...:

"Your Loss!!!"
You find disgusting....what a majority of red-blooded men
(And Hot Women , Too...)
find to be one of The BEST parts of sensuality!!!
A few have even noticed that 'My Interests' Do _Not_ include "~Dining~ Out".....
A kind of sneaky way to make a 'suggestion'!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 839 (view)
 
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:31:38 PM
Because a Mature Lady Knows what the Hell she's Doing!!

Young chicks are pretty, and all...but a Lady of about 40 or more...
will send you to MARS!!
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Relationship Support for Men
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:26:00 PM
Unfortunately...most men don't Look to women for support....and...
Consolation isn't big on the list of
~Macho-things-men-Do~...
That's _Another_ thing that women have over Us.

Men get _Their_ support when they are Shoe Shopping...!!!

~chortle~
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Feeling raw and sore after sex.
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:19:58 PM
It always happens....and I just can't understand why....
with #30-grit Sandpaper!!!

~Chortle!~
 
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