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Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 50 (view)
How Important is Sex in a Relationship????
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:53:55 AM
It's an important _Part_ of a _Good Relationship_!!

(IMO)...The biggest part is ~Love~...the sharing, honesty and respect....which makes the ~Icing on the Cake~
just That much more Sweet!!
It's the most erotic way of saying "Thank-you for all the support, help and love you put into "US"...!!!"

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 29 (view)
dirty talk??
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:46:50 AM
I don't mind ~dirty-talk~, if she likes it....but I'd much rather use ~Passionate-talk~!

There Are a few things that I'd like to hear from a Lady in that respect, though...but I don't _ask_ her for them
Spontinaity is everything!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 95 (view)
Do all women over 50 cringe when they hear the word SEX !!
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:42:33 AM

They've heard all the ~cute~ 1-liners....know all the little gimmicks and ploys that guys use, and just plain
Know What They Want...
And it's N o t being 'pressured' into sex in the first 30 minutes of a conversation!!
There are some exceptional Ladies out there...some with more Sex-Drive than Men of their age....
They just know that there's a LOT more to interest them...Before the sex gets brought into the equation!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 38 (view)
Opening the Door for Sexual talk
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:29:41 AM
Being Open and Frank about intimacy is one thing....
But most women realize that 'discussing it' ~generally~ indicates a 'willingness to engage'...
One of THE most important issues...for a
R e s p e c t !!
...unfortunately, it's one of the 1st things to Go Out The Window...with a guy...once the seal has been breached!!
Personally...I like to intentionally avoid the subject...talking about Everything under the sun...
mostly to get a better understanding of the Lady I'm with....but also as a sort of ~Tease~....
waiting for her to say...: "We've been talking all this time , and you haven't Once brought-up Sex.....Why!??"

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 57 (view)
Sex so good it makes you cry ...
Posted: 4/10/2013 10:14:43 AM
I used to make HER cry...from her intense climaxes...but not myself...
Usually...MY most common problem was treating the Nail-marks in my back
getting my Eyeballs back in my head!!
It's been almost 15 years, and the memory is still as fresh as if it were Yesterday!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 235 (view)
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 4/1/2013 9:12:33 AM
'Some' men are Also horrible at relationships , in general!!!
(...see: Bad-Boys)

The ones that are Good at it are the ones who can take Directions...
and Genuinely _Enjoy_ Pleasing The Lady...._First_!!!

Personally...after almost 15 years of Widowhood...SOMEone is In For A Treat!!!

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 56 (view)
How can BOB replace a man?
Posted: 4/1/2013 9:00:05 AM
A ~BOB~ doesn't have a warm, wet Tongue...and a pair of gentle, sensual hands to run all over your body!!!
The only things I use batteries for are my flashlight and alarm clock!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 15 (view)
Guy sends nice message then you don't hear from him
Posted: 4/1/2013 8:56:09 AM
Well , 'love2...'...
There ARE a few of 'US' left...that are looking for a Genuine Relationship...
With all the daily duties and chores involved...
Even if it Is just on a 'Dating' format.
Personally, I send 'Very Nice Letters' to ladies all the time...
Always get the response of...:
"You're Too Far Away!!"
...Withouth them even _Considering_ that I'd be More than Willing to DO the Relocating...~For the right Lady!!! ~
~ I was going to write to you, but I'm currently in the process of quitting I don't honestly 'qualify' to ...

All The Best!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
I never thought I'd date an older woman until I stumbled upon a great one.
Posted: 4/1/2013 8:46:31 AM
I was in my late 30's when I found my true Soul-Mate....In an Elevator!!!
She was almost 4 yrs older than me , but we felt the ~Electricity~, immediately!....
...Eventhough I was too shy to do anything about it at the time....
Luckily, though...she was a Fabulous teacher at more than 'introductions'...

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 493 (view)
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/1/2013 8:41:25 AM

I was 38 when I met my Soul-Mate

All I can say is :


I just hope that almost 15 years of Widowhood hasn't put me at a disadvantage of finding Another one!!

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 23 (view)
Is porn for real
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:32:32 PM
I don't care to have My hair pulled...but some women dig it!
I find Both ends of ~Spanking~ Very arousing, though...!!
ANYthing to get a full handful of cute , round Tush!!!

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 24 (view)
Just a fun question
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:28:58 PM
The ~Landing Strip~ is _Very Sexx-a-e_!!
Although...I prefer to do the detail work , myself!!

Fabulous Foreplay!!!

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 155 (view)
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:26:30 PM
I'm proud to be Well-Tuned!!!

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 19 (view)
Is the human body inherently obscene?
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:23:07 PM
I don't think that 'Obscene' is the right choice of words, here....

However...I have issues with a couple of things......
Language-wise , TV networks *BLEEP*-out "Curse words' ... like Damn , $#!+ , Fvck , and others....
It's "*BLEEP*-Damn It!!!"

Not that I'm religious, to any point , but ........*Huuuuuhhhh???*
"GOD" is Censored...???

A Full-Frontal nude female is acceptable....Licking her Top-to-Bottom is OK...but an erect penis , all by itself...
is ~Verboten~...???
Opinions, Ladies???
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 153 (view)
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:10:06 PM
~Some men~ actually ARE looking for just ~One Thing~....
It's _Their_ loss for not endulging in one of the Best parts of Intimacy...:
Pleasing a Lady , orally ...has always been tops on my list!!

I often (just not _Recently_) have to be P r i e d away from her lovely petals of love to engage in more
Direct contact!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 20 (view)
Regrets when choosing a partner...?
Posted: 2/24/2013 2:00:26 PM
I would only regret taking So Bloody Long to find her!!
~ 14 years is a H3LL of a long time...Alone!! ~

I would hope that she'll write my ~ Bon Voyage ~ profile update...!!
...since My return will be delayed...a L O N G Time!!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 63 (view)
Sex with a stranger
Posted: 2/21/2013 12:24:08 PM
Not too long ago, I met a very nice Lady within my ~age-range~ (45) who ,
after a fairly short conversation , took the aggreassive approach with me!!
She was in ~Just That Mood~ , that she > Went For It <...Right in her shop!!!
Lifted up her shirt and invited me to 'Indulge'....then after asking if I _Really_ liked Cunni-...
She dropped her pants and let me Indulge some More!!!
I was absolutely Shocked!!!
I was Shaking like a Leaf ....after the most wonderful face-full I've had in Many years!!!

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 50 (view)
Cutting off or withholding sex
Posted: 2/21/2013 12:04:21 PM
...Sounds like that Food that decreases a womans Sex-drive by 90%....

It's called a
Wedding Cake !!!
However...That wasn't true about my late wife...
We were the Perfect match...both knew that the relationship was based on a LOT more than Sex....and we worked at Every aspect of it....
The sex was just the Icing on the cake ... a way to say ~Thank-You~ for all the things that we liked doing _Together_!!
The Thank-Yous were _Spectacular_ !!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 103 (view)
Too Tall?
Posted: 2/21/2013 12:02:03 PM
I've always had a ~Thing~ for really Tall women....
Unfortunately , they've always looked for the Taller guys....
~$ # ! + !!~
So with all other things being entirely equal...I'd reach for the Volleyball Player, first!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 242 (view)
Dating in our 50's
Posted: 2/21/2013 11:46:17 AM
I'd be more ~aggressive~ about writing yo women (Of _Any age_)
if it weren't for constantly getting *POOF*-ed off with :
"You're Too Far Away!"

The more I get rejected . . . the less Enthusiastic I am about _Trying_!!!

Where is the ~Mid-Point~ between Not trying At All . . . and Trying Too Hard??

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 70 (view)
How old is too old for me? Im not a cub looking for a Cougar..
Posted: 2/21/2013 11:37:29 AM
Chemistry is _Everything_...
Age has Very little to do with it !!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 165 (view)
Anyone else only come here for the forums?
Posted: 2/18/2013 11:21:56 AM
Around my Anniversary , at the end of the monthI'm putting in some Real consideration into
abandoning my ~Quest~, and just coming in for the Forums...

It's gotten S O frustrating ....looking for a new partner / LTR that I'm getting tired of the disappointment , and just
Chukkin' the whole Kit and Kaboodle!!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 83 (view)
Do men really screw anything? Looking for honest answers.
Posted: 2/11/2013 7:01:44 AM
Some Will!!

I have but One basic rule...
She should be Attractive.
~There are Several factors in the qualifications ,therein....~

Other than that .. she'll provide enough info about herself over the course of an evening...
Whether it's dinner , dancing , Karaeoke , fishing , camping , whatever... make or lose enough points to determine if we're compatible enough to take it all the way!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 95 (view)
Do hot guys get sex all of time?
Posted: 2/11/2013 6:43:51 AM
Just like Hot Women....

When all they have to do, is...
Walk outside...
It's not much of an effort!!
Having been in 2 LTRs , I'm only here looking for _The Last One _
either of us will ever need!
I have enough Strong Points that only need to be investigated by a nice Lady...
that I don't necessarily ~Need~ to look like Adonis or Tom Cruise....
(I was going to make one of several ~snide~ comments, here...
but I have better manners than would only serve to take points off
MY score! won't! )
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 819 (view)
Have all the really older guys given up?
Posted: 2/11/2013 6:23:12 AM
Well...I'm not 'Really' older....I'll be celebrating the ~23rd Anniversary of turning 35~ at the end of the month ,
but I Am getting a little more than disheartened by the 'Available' women, out there!!
Take away the ones that are here . . ~Just for the Forums~ , and that leaves 98% of the ones that I would be interested in... who reply to a polite Note of Admiration with:...
"You're Too Far Away!!"

I guess I may just have to look for a new Free Site to fish on!!
...because 99% of 'Dating Sites out there are just in existence to tease gullible guys into buying into a
'Paid Membership' by site employees and 'recruiters that get a cut of new paid memberships.
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 166 (view)
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:32:52 PM

I feel like I've let her down if I can't give her At Least a half-dozen!!
...then again...I _AM_ a bit I hope 'she'll bare with me ....f
or a few sessions...
to regain my stamina.

~ b l u s h ~
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 33 (view)
One Sided Sex?
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:27:51 PM
Having been taught ( and spoiled) by an ~Expert~ by my 2nd wife ,
I not only want to please my partner _Supremely_, but also want her to crave it more often...every time!
The 'One-sided' part is represented by my last GF....who was a 1-shot-and-done-type....
Thinking that _I_'d be done, too.
She was unprepared for an Hour of activity...and after a while , just laid there like a lump.
...which , obviously , didn't exactly keep me ~Stimulated~ to please her!
Oh , well....The search Continues!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 196 (view)
Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:19:23 PM
It's the #3 thing I miss Most about being without a partner!!!

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 15 (view)
Waiting for Love to have Sex
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:12:42 PM
I _Always_ Love to have sex....No point in Waiting for it!!

I suppose I Do ~Wait for the right _Lady_...~
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 28 (view)
Loss of sex drive
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:08:36 PM
I'm 1 for 2 on the subject....

1st wife (D)...lost all interest after 2nd child....~except~...when _S H E_ wanted it!!!

2nd wife(W) ...we spoiled each other ~Silly~ ..._before and After_ son was born.

A-a-h-h-hhh...the good-'ol'days . . . 8 times a week , and the weekends were Incalculable!!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 870 (view)
Double standard on Oral?
Posted: 2/3/2013 2:01:09 PM
About as close I'll get to being a Basketball Fan.....
When a Lady gives me the 'ol...

~Two-Handed Stuff~...!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 24 (view)
Intimate Encounters ???
Posted: 1/31/2013 11:08:39 AM
I concentrate my 'Intimacy' with someone I _Care About_!!
'Intimacy'...?? YEAH!! I'm all for it...but...'Encounters'...?
I'd much rather be 'Intimate' in a _Relationship_!!!
True....there's a LOT of selfish guys out there....just as there's a Lot of 'Golddigger' women, too...
I'm just looking for a nice Lady....that Enjoys Quality Orgasms...
As part of a Loving, Caring, Sharing Partnership!!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 1454 (view)
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 1/31/2013 10:24:57 AM
While I AM a proponent of the ~ Even-Trade~....
It Should be something that The Lady enjoys, also!
If she's _Absolutely_ against it... as a 'replacement', I might suggest a Vigorous, Enthusiastic 2-Fister!!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 129 (view)
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 1/31/2013 10:18:56 AM
Keep Fishing!!'ll find a Real Man...that is concerned with _You're_ pleasure....
....maybe even Moreso than His Own!!!

Then...Get The Landing Net!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 8 (view)
Is what kind of fan you are, in part a gender issue?
Posted: 1/31/2013 10:12:39 AM
My input on Sports and Gender are generally reserved to...:

Why is it that Men like Fast , Hard-Hitting games...with complicated rules , Pads , Helmets , Cleats , Blades , Sticks ,
Sweat , Blood , Spittin', Diggin'-and-scratchin' , ...Aaahhr-Ahrrr-AAAHHrrrr!!!...

...and still find a Girly-Game like Basketball "Popular" ???

* shrug *
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 39 (view)
Posted: 1/31/2013 10:00:37 AM
By week 2...I had The Falcons and Texans.....
But....My *JINX* struck...yet Again!!

I just hope to see a LOT of scoring....Minimal need of the Officiating crew...ZERO Field goals...and...
The trailing team to have the last posession ....with a chance to win / tie....
If there's another 2:00 Burn-off of the clock ...with the dreaded ~Kneel-Down~...
I'm gonna *PUNT* my TV set across the Street!!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 26 (view)
Woman using the Men's room in crowded public places.
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:39:19 PM
When a Mens room is vacant...I've _Often_ ~Stood Guard~ at the door , while a Lady uses it!!
I've even wiped-down the seat and set it down for her....

Chivalry Is NOT Dead...!!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 22 (view)
Do hot guys get sex all of time?
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:35:07 PM
Much like Hot Women....
Hot guys can get it when they want it....
Very little genuine 'effort' involved...
As long as they don't act overly Macho....and uses a certain amount of real 'Charm'...
They've got it ~Made-in-the-Shade~...!!!

I wish I had that 'Problem'!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 308 (view)
Penis Pride
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:31:15 PM
Okay...Yeah...I'm 'Proud'...but...
Already knowing that she'll enjoy she likes it...
I'm more interested in Pleasing the Lady than Myself!!!

If she wants 4X the Oral that I get...It's okay with me!!!
Cunni- is my Favorite Hobby , Anyway!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 40 (view)
What do women think of a man who tries to get it on first date?
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:25:48 PM
Most women think that he's...
#1...NOT a Gentleman...
#2...It's the ONLY thing he's after, anyway...
Which is fine...if it's Mutual...go for it!

But...I don't take that approach....
A "Lady" is worth the effort and respect to take my time getting to know...developing a Chemistry to take it
~One Base At A Time!!!~

...not many of us left...are there, girls...??....
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 13 (view)
Relationship Goals..
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:09:32 PM
Having already raised all the children that I care to...:
I'm looking to create a new Partnership....
Including all the daily chores and duties...
But concentrating on Sharing, Caring, Fun and Games and Most of All....
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 797 (view)
Have all the really older guys given up?
Posted: 1/27/2013 1:02:43 PM
I've been on the verge of quitting looking for a Terrific lady for a few years....
But every time I visit, here...I invariably see ~someone~ that reminds me that I Still have a passion burning inside...
for someone that may have ~at least~ some return attraction.
I've been accused -many times- of Trying Too Hard...
So...I've toned-down my 'exuberance' considerably!
Now...I'm just being patient:...

"Just let her Fall In Your Lap!!"
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 49 (view)
How old is too old for me? Im not a cub looking for a Cougar..
Posted: 1/27/2013 12:54:30 PM
I don't put ANY restrictions on 'AGE'....
(Well, Okay....Half my age is pushing it a bit, but if The Chemistry is there...I'm game!)
There ARE some Ladies, my own age-bracket / older...)
that have my mouth hanging open and my eyes Bugging-out,
but a majority of them have already Filtered-me Out...One way or another!
A Pity, too!!! . . But then again...I consider it...
_Their_ Loss!!
* * * * *
Not ALL The Good Ones Are Taken!!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 54 (view)
Hard to believe this behavior in men over 50..
Posted: 1/27/2013 12:43:29 PM
If the Chemistry was present...and we were having a Terrific time...
Being a Gentleman...I might suggest Her visiting My home.
But it would have to be _Her_ suggestion to visit Her home!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 577 (view)
No pic:.... Worth the risk?
Posted: 1/27/2013 12:38:29 PM
It would be well-researched....Messaging, here...then a Phone conversation...and still...
That is the Only time I Insist on either :...
1.) Meeting me _Here_...or...
2.) Being generally 'local'...(Within ~50 miles~)

I'd be just ~Asking~ to be put on YouTube if I drove 150 miles for a find Noone there..!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 7 (view)
Is the imagination your favorite sex toy?
Posted: 1/25/2013 3:01:33 PM
The Skin!!
It contains all the wonderful stuff that makes Intimacy F U N ! ! !
But...cover it up with light, sheer, sexxy material.....and it's That Much More Fun!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 298 (view)
Oral Sex Disgusts Me
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:56:57 PM
Sorry about That , Bud....About all I can say is...:

"Your Loss!!!"
You find disgusting....what a majority of red-blooded men
(And Hot Women , Too...)
find to be one of The BEST parts of sensuality!!!
A few have even noticed that 'My Interests' Do _Not_ include "~Dining~ Out".....
A kind of sneaky way to make a 'suggestion'!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 479 (view)
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:31:38 PM
Because a Mature Lady Knows what the Hell she's Doing!!

Young chicks are pretty, and all...but a Lady of about 40 or more...
will send you to MARS!!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 16 (view)
Relationship Support for Men
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:26:00 PM
Unfortunately...most men don't Look to women for support....and...
Consolation isn't big on the list of
That's _Another_ thing that women have over Us.

Men get _Their_ support when they are Shoe Shopping...!!!

Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 36 (view)
Feeling raw and sore after sex.
Posted: 1/24/2013 3:19:58 PM
It always happens....and I just can't understand why....
with #30-grit Sandpaper!!!

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