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 Author Thread: Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
 RedSector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Why do Babes dig ugly guys?
Posted: 7/15/2008 7:10:35 AM
Hmmm did anyone think that maybe the reason some attractive woman date less then attractive guys is because they may feel safer and secure. I mean in the cheating department, maybe she feels like she could trust a less then hot guy, the guy may think "wow shes sooo pretty I would never mess this up". Im not sure how many "ugly" guys with a hot babe would want to be playing the field or looking elsewhere.
 RedSector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Possible spam infiltrators?
Posted: 5/30/2008 5:26:53 PM
Ummm dont know whats going on here but im getting messages from people that want me to go to certain dot com sites to view their pictures?

I have been here for a while and have never been spammed like this. Anyone else getting these random spams?
 RedSector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
when you've lost a lot of weight...
Posted: 5/27/2008 10:16:40 AM
WOOOHOO on you weight loss, 200lbs huh, man o man good for you!

I too, after leaving someone, have lost weight, 50 lbs, not a whole lot like 200 but i know whatever the numbers are it is not always easy. I feel better, eat healthier, and look a little better. It was kind of funny because it seemed the more I lost and the more poeple noticed and complimented me, the more inspired i became to keep with it.

Anyway congrats!

David...
 redsector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Profile review..... Im Bombing..
Posted: 4/23/2008 4:27:51 PM
Ok i'm tweaking a bit, err the profile that is, lol.

I am not a shallow person, but its funny when i need to describe myself, and or what i am looking for, my mind goes a bit blank. Even in school i had this problem of putting thought's to paper. I do soooo much better explaining/describing things in person. Maybe i should take a day or so to really think of something special.

Thanks for all the feedback so far, it has really helped.
 redsector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Profile review..... Im Bombing..
Posted: 4/23/2008 9:44:42 AM
Ok i removed the faulty music player, and edited the head line.

As for the description, i thought it said somewhere on here that the more you describe yourself and what your looking for, that you would have more success?
 redsector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Profile review..... Im Bombing..
Posted: 4/23/2008 9:38:56 AM
I think the blank area has something to do with the music player. I tried that new feature where you can add music to your profile and never got it to work. But i did notice that it made that huge gap in there, anyone ever find out how to get it working? I'll remove it for now.

I just got the camera a few days ago, i plan on changing the photos around every now and then. I thought i needed to add some more everyday pic's as well. And there is no way in hell im taking my shirt off and posing, never. LOL, i felt self-conscious just showing my shoulders, but my friends were saying "Oh yea just do it, go for it" blah blah, heh.
 redsector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 1161 (view)
 
Let an accomplished screenwriter rate your profile. C'mon. Try me!
Posted: 4/23/2008 7:34:17 AM
Hey, i was wondering if i could get somebody's opinion on something?

Well i just updated my profile on here, it had almost been a year since i had changed anything on here from my description to my pictures. So i just got this little camera and snapped a few. What do you think? Do i look like a meat head trying to show off, or are they acceptable? The thing is over the last year i somehow managed to lose like 50 lbs. and thought i would lift some weights to try and get back in shape. I really dont want to portray myself as a muscle bound idiot, lol. I did put a semi-dressed up picture of myself in there, do you think i need more of those? You can be as brutally honest as you want!

David...
 redsector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Profile review..... Im Bombing..
Posted: 4/23/2008 7:30:32 AM
Ok I finally got my hands on a digital camera and decided to update my pics. I was wondering if i could get an opinion on something? It has almost been a year since i had changed anything on here from my description to my pictures. So i just got this little camera and snapped a few. What do you think? Do i look like a meat head trying to show off, or are they acceptable? The thing is over the last year i somehow managed to lose like 50 lbs. and thought i would lift some weights to try and get back in shape. I really dont want to portray myself as a muscle bound idiot, lol. I did put a semi-dressed up picture of myself in there, do you think i need more of those? You guys can be as brutally honest as you want! If changes need to be made then i will make them! Thanks.

David...
 RedSector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Profile review..... Im Bombing..
Posted: 1/21/2008 2:42:01 PM
Ahhhh haaa, i see what you mean. I'll make some changes.

As for the pictures, bleh, yea i know, i need to grab someones digital and take some newer pics.

Thnx.
 RedSector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
new to this internet dating....I need help...lol
Posted: 1/21/2008 2:30:43 PM
ROFL @ compactdisc..... that was MY impression the whole time ive been on here man.

As for the profile review person, i can tell you to just be yourself, describe who you are, and what you like to do in your life. Good luck!
 RedSector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 1124 (view)
 
Let an accomplished screenwriter rate your profile. C'mon. Try me!
Posted: 1/21/2008 2:16:42 PM
When you have a moment, plz peek....
 RedSector8
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Profile review..... Im Bombing..
Posted: 1/21/2008 2:07:50 PM
Ok, so i have adjusted my profile a few times now and nothing seems to matter. I have sent countless emails to girls and have (maybe) received less then a 1% response rate. Im not sure what if anything i am doing wrong? Some of their profiles even say "write me if your interested, and i will get back to you", but they never do! They just "read" and or "read/delete" my emails, im like wtf. Does it make me a psycho to try to communicate with the ones that just left me at "read"? Im not talking about over and over and over. I mean "read" dosent tell me much other then it was read.

I reply to everybody that has tried to contact me (the ones i didnt initiate contact with) out of respect. So, anyway, is this normal or what, do i need to do something different with my profile? Is there some secret or something?

Can anybody recommend a better (free) site for me where i may have better results? What about speed dating? Has anybody givin it a try? I feel if i can meet them in person, although briefly, lol, i may have more success.

I hope it didnt sound like i was climbing on a soap box here, im just a little miffed at my lack of better results.

Ok, take a peek and fire away!
 
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