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 Author Thread: Why indicate that you own your own place?
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Why indicate that you own your own place?
Posted: 10/15/2014 1:04:52 PM
Why do you feel the need to indicate in your profile that you're "attractive"?

It's almost as if you're trying to prove to women that you're "attractive".
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 5 (view)
 
abusive men and the next man
Posted: 9/26/2014 10:04:41 PM
Decent older men with money?. And no kids. And a house on a flat street. In Laguna Hills. With no dogs. Who won't mind that you don't cook meat. Who loves your cat. Did I mention money? Oh yes, you have none, so he must have lots.

You get real. First, get a job as a housekeeper.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
abusive men and the next man
Posted: 9/26/2014 9:37:14 PM
This is so bizarre. You want a man to love your cat, move you into his home, marry you, and completely financially support you? However, you are not willing to accept his dog, kids, or grandkids? You're a cold piece of work....
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 6 (view)
 
What did i do wrong ?
Posted: 9/24/2014 1:45:48 PM
No.... then you texted him again putting pressure on him to " be honest about if he wants to talk to you." That would be enough to turn me off.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
What did i do wrong ?
Posted: 9/24/2014 1:35:51 PM
I would say he's done with you. He's been very busy and you can't expect someone you've never met to make you a priority. Your pestering most likely turned him off. Remember for the future, until you have actually met someone, they are strangers.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Lurking...
Posted: 9/22/2014 2:58:26 PM
I would think nothing. I would have totally forgotten about anyone who didn't respond to my message. I never checked the " who viewed me".
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Profile help please?
Posted: 9/15/2014 3:25:45 PM
Main photo is terrible. Which one are you? Women don't want to take the extra time to figure it out.

Your written part is really bad. Delete all of it. Read the profile writing tips up top in green and start over.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Premium membership not worth getting?
Posted: 9/15/2014 6:40:11 AM
This doesn't sound like a membership problem. Your membership is getting you first dates. Your personality should be getting you second dates.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 6 (view)
 
I don't know why, but I can't seem to have any luck with POF.. Help?
Posted: 9/12/2014 8:01:10 PM
Aren't you a cutie?

What are your first messages like?
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Is My Profile Too Direct/Short?
Posted: 9/12/2014 7:58:47 PM
You can change your email settings to only accept messages that are at least 50 characters long.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 19 (view)
 
What would you think of this situation?
Posted: 9/12/2014 7:56:21 PM
30 or 40 emails is plenty of writing time. I, too would have moved on to a phone call and then a meet. No way would I be investing that much time in someone that could be ANYONE. Male, female, child...you never know.

I was not desperate, or looking for an insta-relationship. I just knew to avoid the time wasters and pen pals.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Could use some tips !
Posted: 9/11/2014 1:53:21 PM
Delete the first paragraph and the last paragraph. Delete the last 2 sentences from the middle paragraph.

Read the profile writing tips up top in green to get an idea of what you should include.

None of your photos are good. You need all new ones.

Fix your interests section. Think of 12 to 15 activities you enjoy. Some should be couple friendly.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Unattractive, bad luck, poor profile or combination of above? Profile review please.
Posted: 9/7/2014 5:40:52 PM
You're right.... your profile is perfect. Must be something else.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Review my profile please
Posted: 9/7/2014 5:26:53 PM
I really don't like anything you've written, including your first date section.

Capitalize all "I"s.

Your profile shouldn't say ask me a question. Assume the question is " tell me about yourself. "

Delete the muffin top line.

Delete sleeping and much more from your interests section.

There's just nothing interesting in there. Nothing that would make someone say " I want to meet this guy".
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 12 (view)
 
I got this profile here, wuddya think?
Posted: 9/7/2014 5:20:28 PM
If you're in a relationship why does your profile say you're single?
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Unattractive, bad luck, poor profile or combination of above? Profile review please.
Posted: 9/7/2014 5:17:26 PM
Photo 2.... which one are you? Two guys in shades and hats.

Put in your profession.

You have your body type listed as average but then you write about how out of shape you are.

Fill in the first date section.

What's up with your age restrictions? You get a lot of 100 year olds messaging you?
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Profile Review
Posted: 9/5/2014 3:36:37 PM
Delete everything other than the first line.

Please read the profile writing tips up top in green and start over.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Constructive Criticism Wanted
Posted: 9/5/2014 2:04:35 PM
Delete the first paragraph. Why do so many men think it's "cute" to say they wear socks that match? Lame. Come up with something original.

Fill in the first date section.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Profile Review not getting any replys
Posted: 8/29/2014 2:14:37 PM
Delete the last 3 lines of the 1st paragraph. Delete the last line of the first date section.

You mention "games" twice in your About Me section which leads me to believe your past relationships were filled with games. Delete that.

Do not critique my profile. I'm not asking for opinions.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
profile review
Posted: 8/5/2014 2:54:19 PM
It's not good at all.

Headline is awful. "Hey girls"? How many are you looking for? You should be looking for a " woman".

You skipped the Interests Section.

Delete the entire About Me section. Read the profile writing tips up top in green and start over.

Your dating status is code for FWB online.

You claim to be so funny you should be a comedian, yet your profile had ZERO humor in it. I didn't even crack a smile once.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Profile Review?
Posted: 8/5/2014 2:49:18 PM
It's really bad.

Delete the entire about me section. Read the profile writing tips up top in green and start over.

Your photos all look exactly the same. Take some photos of you doing something besides just sitting there. Add a full body shot.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
one fish,two fish,red fish,blue fish profile review
Posted: 7/30/2014 2:31:38 PM
You need new photos. I really don't even know what you look like at all, which one you are in the groups....
Tge main you have now is a good photo but not as your main. We need to see your face.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Profile Review
Posted: 7/30/2014 2:28:00 PM
Make your photos public for the purpose of this review so we can comment on them. You can hide your profile temporarily.

Your list of likes is boring and most of it belongs in your Interests Section.

Dislikes are negative... keep your profile positive.

The rest really tells us nothing about your personality or the man you hope to meet.

Remove the distracting bolded font.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Male looking for brutally honest profile reviews
Posted: 7/29/2014 5:55:43 PM
Delete the first line and the last line.

New photos!

Describe the type of woman you seek using personality traits. Use words that have an opposite meaning that isn't negative.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Male looking for brutally honest profile reviews
Posted: 7/29/2014 4:41:16 PM
Wow. That was really, really bad! What sane woman would continue past paragraph 1? That was horrific.

Delete paragraphs 1, 4, 7, 9, 12, 13, 17, and 18.

You need all new photos taken by someone else, of you alone. Go outdoors. No bars, no bathrooms.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Help - dateless and don't understand why
Posted: 7/27/2014 9:39:12 AM
Remove the quotation marks in the About Me section.

Add a paragraph describing the woman you seek using personality traits. Use words that have an opposite meaning that isn't negative.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Let me know what's up
Posted: 7/26/2014 10:26:26 PM
I love your main photo!
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Requesting Profile Reviews, Please, Especially From Men Since I'm A Woman. Thank You!
Posted: 7/26/2014 10:25:07 PM
Make photo 3 your main.

Delete the warning at the end.

Your description of the man you seek is a bit long, but the man that fits that criteria won't think so.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Profile review needed.
Posted: 7/8/2014 2:17:53 PM
Photo 6 should be your main.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Looking for feedback on my profile
Posted: 7/7/2014 4:32:17 PM
Photos are all indoors and very similar.

Delete the last line.
I, I, I, I, I. Start your sentences with something else.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Can I have a profile review please ?
Posted: 7/7/2014 4:29:46 PM
Pictures are terrible. Photo 4 looks like a mug shot.

The 2nd paragraph is useless, delete it.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Rate my profile....
Posted: 7/1/2014 10:51:03 AM
Your profile starts pretty boring with all of that talk about tv shows. If you must keep it, move it down. Remove those generic interests like "nights in, nights out, relaxing, tv series". You are coming across as quite dull and inactive.

There is no sense of who you are, your personality.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Lots of looks but little interest/few replies
Posted: 6/27/2014 6:42:12 PM
None of your photos are good. Are you seeking dates for yourself or pimping out your dog?

You skipped the interests section.

Delete the list at the beginning. Replace it with a paragraph describing your personality.

Delete the age restrictions.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Profile tips?
Posted: 6/27/2014 6:35:13 AM
Your description of the woman you seek sounds way too preachy. Don't tell women how to behave, show us how you behave.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 3 (view)
 
How to have contact with someone?
Posted: 6/20/2014 4:23:10 PM
Your profile is mostly really bad.

You are looking to have a "fairly long relationship" with someone? What does that even mean?

Delete the negative paragraph and the reference to being pitied.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Profile Review
Posted: 6/20/2014 4:18:23 PM
Hi Bakara,

Your profile is very bad. You state in the 2nd sentence that you're not taking this seriously. Why should anyone take you seriously?

Delete the list of words describing you. It's meaningless.

Delete the negative list of dislikes.

Read the profile writing tips up top in green and start over.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 7 (view)
 
blindsided
Posted: 6/4/2014 1:24:04 PM
Generally, women don't make snap decisions to end relationships. We really think about things before it's done.

It would be best if you forget thoughts of reconciliation so you can really move on.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 3 (view)
 
I'm not getting any msg...what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 6/4/2014 12:42:29 PM
You need new photos that aren't distracting. Just natural photos.

You skipped the Interests Section. Delete the middle of your About Me section that talks about your interests.

Delete the beginning of your About Me. Don't tell us what your friends think of you. Don't list meaningless adjectives. Show us who you are.

You misspelled " quiet".

Delete the last 3 sentences.

You chose " adventurer" as your personality type. Tell us about an adventure.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 13 (view)
 
about time for some honest suggestions!
Posted: 6/4/2014 12:07:49 PM
I like your profile.
Add a short paragraph describing the type of woman you are seeking using personality traits. Use words that have an opposite meaning that isn't negative.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Need honest profile review
Posted: 5/29/2014 3:53:05 PM
Not sure who you're studying, but my hearing is just fine.

You have a generic 2 line profile that anyone could have written. You have to be interesting to stand out.

Read the profile writing tips up top in green and start over.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Fire when ready...
Posted: 5/28/2014 7:33:12 AM
Delete all of the plagiarized parts that you stole from the internet. Every woman has read those a million times.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 25 (view)
 
So this is going to be difficult and awkward...
Posted: 5/22/2014 5:26:35 PM
While I agree that ultimatums and demands aren't the way to go, this is her health you're talking about. Mental and possibly physical. This is also affecting your mental health. If she had a giant tumor growing from her cheek, would you insist she see a doctor?

Is this affecting the youngest child?

I feel for you. Crappy situation.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Please review my profile?
Posted: 5/22/2014 5:21:30 PM
Delete the smiley faces. Delete the last line.

It started good and then it began to feel... childish.

Maybe I'm not loving that line about being awkward or random, or whatever you said. That sounds like something my friend's teenagers say.

Talk about the type of woman you want to meet using personality traits. Use words that have an opposite meaning that isn't negative.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Please review my profile?
Posted: 5/22/2014 5:09:02 PM
Delete the last sentence of the first paragraph.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 23 (view)
 
So this is going to be difficult and awkward...
Posted: 5/22/2014 5:02:05 PM
This sounds like a really tough situation. I don't think this is about weight gain alone. 15 pounds on a 5'7 tall woman is not *that* much. Not enough to change someone's mood and lifestyle so drastically.

Can you make an appointment with your own general practitioner and see if they have any medical insight? Has she had follow up appointments after this infection and surgery?
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 84 (view)
 
HELP!!! Husband cheats on pregnant wife?? HELP!!!
Posted: 5/22/2014 7:44:29 AM
I can't imagine for one second, how you could possibly believe, that this cheating, child hating, not in love with his wife man, was bullied into IVF and fatherhood. That is the most ridiculous lie that anyone has ever been dumb enough to believe.

Stop trying to " help" and " guide" this man into fixing his marriage. You are not his friend, not his counselor. You are a piece of ass. He doesn't care about anything you have to say, because he doesn't respect you for being so gullible to believe his story.

How you think this affair says nothing negative about you just shows your true ignorance. It won't affect your future children? Your daughter grows up and her husband cheats on her. You think she will respect you? Your son grows up and cheats on his wife. " It's cool, mom did it and it was ok."

YOU did a bad thing, too. Is it cool with you if your husband cuddles with some random chick he meets on a dating website while he's married to you?

Stop worrying about this man and his wife. Start worrying about what is so wrong with you that you are happy being someone's number 2 for so long. Work on your own self esteem.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
No luck at all :/
Posted: 5/22/2014 7:12:54 AM
You need all new photos. None of those are useable.

Your About Me section is on giant run on sentence. Longest sentence...ever.

Read the profile writing tips up top in green and start over. Use proper spelling, punctuation, and capitalization. Do not use any smiley faces.
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Please review
Posted: 5/20/2014 5:42:57 PM
How's this for a lie?

Woman seeking man.

A few dates later, woman reveals she is actually a man.

"She " was just getting her foot in the door, what's the big deal?
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 38 (view)
 
look me over tell if if i'm cute or not. read my about me tell me if its lame
Posted: 5/20/2014 5:40:12 PM
Your profile is horrific. ..every single part of it.

Headline looking for friends? It's a dating website.

Body type undisclosed? Change to BBW because that's how you appear in your photos.

Do you drink? Prefer not to say? Great, an alcoholic.

Did you even fill out the Interests Section?

Delete that mumbo jumbo of an About Me section. Read the profile writing tips up top in green and start over.

First date: you tell me? Uh...no. The question is for YOU. But, since you're seeking friends, there wouldn't be any " first dates", right?
 indira46
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Please review my profile
Posted: 5/13/2014 10:32:36 AM
The first paragraph is some lame thing that you tell people "if you can read this put it in your profile. " Your next paragraph is threatening anyone who dare "copy" your profile.

You sound confused. ..
 
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