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 Author Thread: What Are The Reasons For Getting Legally Married?
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
What Are The Reasons For Getting Legally Married?
Posted: 9/7/2010 7:48:35 AM
it doesn`t really benefit the man or he`d want it as much as the woman. It seems to only benefit woman which is why they crave it so much and we run from it. How often have you seen couples sooo joyous at the wedding then years later when they split the woman becomes cuthroat and has all the legal power behind her? How did marriage benefit the man then? he is living in a dump while she keeps the wonderful home and spends his money. No this has not happened to me and it never will because i`ll not fall prey to the old nonsense about doing the romantic thing. once again it`s just female manipulation to get ownership of your life and assets. She`ll not be thinking of romance when she has you in court ruining your life but of course i know, She`s different. go ahead sucker but remember the rule of divorce, if it`s her fault she gets half and if it`s your fault she get`s it all. oh forgot, she`s different!!! never mind
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
If he is already getting it, why marry it?
Posted: 9/7/2010 7:36:00 AM
because they`re dumb enough to be lead around by a piece of a**s. they were obviously given an ultimatum
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 121 (view)
 
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 8/16/2010 10:49:42 AM
I`ve heard this question from several women who now insist on it everytime. relax and take it sloooow, you`ll love it!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Who should make the first call after sex?
Posted: 8/16/2010 9:21:04 AM
we`re not in high school anymore, just do it!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Boyfriend won't initiate sex
Posted: 8/16/2010 8:46:35 AM
About 6 yrs ago my brother`s GF told him "Ray, i`m simply not getting enough C**k" they got married in June so i guess you need to work on communication or perhaps s;lip into some thigh highs and heels and take what you want!!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 118 (view)
 
Over 40 crowd. Women calling. Do men like it???
Posted: 8/16/2010 8:22:29 AM
oh just call damn it! Women like being in a position of rejector not rejectee just like being asked to dance or out for a date. if you want to be treated as an equal, act like one. if not, get back in the kitchen and be quite!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 538 (view)
 
ED over 45
Posted: 8/16/2010 8:04:56 AM
Please cut men with this problem some slack, you know they have to hate it more than you do. I`m pleased to say that i have no need for antidepressants or viagra, i`m a very happy dude and only require a tight skirt to inspire me but some are not so lucky.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 104 (view)
 
over 45 men and marriage???
Posted: 8/16/2010 7:49:59 AM
marriage is not needed to be happy in a relationship, in the end it`s all about money and or fear from a female point of view. how does it reallly benefit us?
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 153 (view)
 
Is porn ruining real live sex?
Posted: 2/3/2010 8:35:25 AM
It is used to create an erotic state of mind and may not be necessary if your partner shares your erotic attitudes. I have used porn for that when my partner insists on always "making love" and nothing more. Porn fills a gap that reality leaves when you have the wrong partner.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Laughter during/after orgasm: what's your reaction?
Posted: 2/3/2010 8:30:36 AM
Sounds like somebody is havin a good time!! If i laugh it`s just a big extended smile.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 160 (view)
 
How many men would paint a lady's toenails for her?
Posted: 12/16/2009 12:17:14 PM
Shall we begin???
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 203 (view)
 
Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 12/16/2009 12:16:29 PM
Sweet Legs and open toe heels!! bring em on baby!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Is collecting Naked pictures of Women considered disease
Posted: 11/20/2009 8:15:47 AM
Oh no!! not ANOTHER infection???
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Her Orgasm
Posted: 11/20/2009 8:10:24 AM
It all goes hand in hand and it`s just not that difficult. It`s called mutual pleasure, if you catch yourself fantasizing about your hand consider a change in partners.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
How to tell a woman to start paying for part of the date
Posted: 11/20/2009 6:56:30 AM
Ditch her! If she was a considerate person you wouldn`t need to ask this question.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Leg Men? Boob Men? Hip men? Butt men? Huh??!!
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:11:49 AM
Every part of a woman can be appealing in it`s own way but for me a great pair of legs can make up for other shortcomings. slip some nice heels on those babies and i am your punk to command!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 636 (view)
 
Tattoos on the breasts
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:08:09 AM
I`ll never get it, tatoos are certainly a person`s right to have but they are not attractive anywhere.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
feeling slutty, good?
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:04:37 AM
uninhibited behavior can add so much to a relationship. More women need to let go and stop being concerned with what will be thought of her. there is a time to be a slut and nothing less just as long as it doesn`t define who you are.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 68 (view)
 
do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 11/8/2009 12:59:58 AM
the pleasure of getting is always subject to the female`s skill level and giving is subject to her enthusiasum but all things being equal i`d say getting is the most fun but giving can be almost as much fun. The overall "sexual experience" dictates much of it too. Maybe she needs to slip on the heels and nothing else then squat down in front of him and administer some big time nob gobblin, that may inspire him to lick her like he means it!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 363 (view)
 
Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:36:42 AM
Attitude is everything!! Sexy comes in all ages just like ugly. I don`t care if a woman is 108, if she is smart and still looks great mission accomplished. By look great i don`t mean perfect but i do mean not letting herself go. I don`t have the patience for young girls so bring on the sexy older babes!!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
So.... remind me... What's the downside of 50 and single...???
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:25:06 AM
it`s not being 49 and single, can`t think of anything else!! You don`t need a husband, it`s too easy to find male friends for whatever purpose they might need to serve and yet get that precious time to yourself. Go get it baby!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Leg Men? Boob Men? Hip men? Butt men? Huh??!!
Posted: 10/6/2009 10:59:05 AM
Hot legs and sweet booty conquer all!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 154 (view)
 
How many men would paint a lady's toenails for her?
Posted: 10/6/2009 7:31:27 AM
I certainly have and would again if the toes were nice!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 200 (view)
 
Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 10/6/2009 6:39:22 AM
Got hot legs??? Make me your punk!!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 113 (view)
 
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:24:22 PM
Be whatever is called for by the situation, it`s not that hard.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:18:42 PM
If done gently and as part of a bigger picture you bet. Like all sex it really is about your and your partner`s attitude. Oh nooooo, now i can`t stop thinking about glory holes!!!!!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 91 (view)
 
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:13:57 PM
I just imagine i`m in a long term relationship!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 224 (view)
 
How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 9/30/2009 12:35:07 PM
Like many other things it has no appeal for me but if it gets you off go for it baby. I have met some woman who share that fantasy but couldn`t help them out. My only problem with any of this is how unfair it is to those men who are bi or bi curious. If a woman is bi she is considered ultra hot and sexy but if a man is bi he is considered a disgusting fagot. Again let me say that i am as straight as a human being can be but i am disgusted with yet another double standard.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
How many women would admit to this????
Posted: 9/30/2009 12:01:13 PM
Your only downfall is stopping to worry about it. Anyone who judges you harshly for doing what makes you happy without hurting anyone else is a numbnut so climb aboard and forget about it!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 141 (view)
 
Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 9/30/2009 11:25:38 AM
it`s not personal it`s about variety my dear. it`s just the way we are. it`s not about you or love or boring, just variety. Complaining about it will only hurt the situation. join in and that will go a long way.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 129 (view)
 
Women who have more education than the man whom they are dating
Posted: 9/30/2009 10:48:07 AM
Obviously it`s insecurity. Education in itself say`s nothing about the intelligence level of a person and many with a poor education make great money. I have known women who feel the man is a failure if he makes less than she does which only displays their childishness. My guess is those who are better educated want to put more time into turning the education into dollars and not chasing skirts so it`s easier to just have one always available.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Death and the age of 50....
Posted: 9/30/2009 10:06:14 AM
i recommend you get busy havin some fun! Ya never know!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
What size gets the guys?
Posted: 9/30/2009 7:15:34 AM
It`s tough to judge since we ca`t see your entire body but i can say that i have had past experience with BBWs and though most really are more fun and make better friends the real down side is that if they are too big they are too hard to handle in bed. Keep in mind that when men fantasize about these "perfect" women it is just a fantasy that involves a particular senario which is probably very unrealistic so don`t be bothered by that. Ask yourself too if your fantasies involve a man with a perfect bod or someone you saw on biggest loser. i`m all for making fantasies reality but most will probably remain fantasies for all of us. one more thing, there is a difference between a BBW and a fat slob. If you remain the former you`ll be ok.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Rules of first date?
Posted: 9/30/2009 6:37:39 AM
I would say it`s the same as all other dates, if you`re concerned with following a set of rules then you`re probably not being yourself and that`s the first step toward failure. Whatever you choose to do should be honest and true to yourself, if there is a real connection then it`ll all work out on it`s own and if no connection you`re better off knowing now. If you`re a slut then by all means be one and if you`re a nun by all means be one or anywhere in between, if you`re having to be anything but yourself then you`re already unhappy.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Cheating...do men really do it more than women?
Posted: 9/21/2009 1:13:45 PM
of course women cheat just as much. in the late 80`s i was seeing so many married women i didn`t date at all for several years. needless to say it was always the husband`s fault. good or bad the fact is it`s tough having sex with one person and one person only for 50 years so we`re all kind of set up to fail.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 326 (view)
 
Is it a compliment to be contacted by a younger man?
Posted: 9/21/2009 10:52:44 AM
Over the years i have dated women older than myself and started doing so in my late twenties. Some were as much as 15 years older but i don`t recall this question ever coming up. They never told me how flattered they were and i never thought about it myself, i just enjoyed their company more than the younger girls. They tend to be more open and better communicators as well as being more honest sexually too.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 88 (view)
 
are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 9/21/2009 10:39:45 AM
You bet your booty!!!! I`ve done many thigs that i hope to do over and over but i never stop searching for some way to get a little deeper or hit the right spot or throw gas on the fire. What fun would that be?
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 507 (view)
 
Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 9/21/2009 10:36:13 AM
It is but tough to find. People tend to get in the "oh no i`m going to die alone" panic mode and that leads them to settle. I think we all know there is very little passion when you settle. Say what you want from a woman and if you get it happiness is yours but if you don`t you`ll still be happier alone than if you settle.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
For those looking for FRIENDS on POF ~ What is It?
Posted: 9/21/2009 9:41:39 AM
It can be whatever you want it to be, you have the power to be their lover or just someone to hang out with. Just keep an open mind and have no expectations. We all want sex in some form or fashion and friendship can sure lead to that but you have to stay honest at all times if you want to keep things in order. I`ve had many female friends over the years that i just loved and we talked about sex and EVERYTHING else but we never crossed the sexual line. Other times we did but kept it in perspective and were able to stay friends along the way. Just be honest with yourself and your friend so no one can ever say "i thought we were....." I find it hard to meet people who want to be friends without hoping for marriage or something so i guess many see it as a foot in the door for whatever they truly seek. people on here are no different than anywhere else, they tend to say and do what is acceptable until no one is looking.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Why is it ok to do him if you think you`ll never see him again?
Posted: 9/17/2009 6:00:13 AM
Well first off, the phrase "at least buy me dinner first" probably didn`t come from a man and second that`s not really the point of this question anyway. The real point is, what is the logic behind banging some guy you know you really don`t want long term yet when you meet someone you see a future with you and you`re attracted to you delay the sex? You`re all thinking this is a personal thing for me but it`s not. I just want to understand the psycology of it. Is it that sometimes women just want to get off and doing it with the guy you have no real interest in is easy to do and to forget while doing it with someone you see a future with might ruin your chances because he`ll think you`re "a slut". Stop bringing me into this and answer the question itself.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Why is it ok to do him if you think you`ll never see him again?
Posted: 9/16/2009 7:37:03 PM
Exactly Leeanne, How long a woman waits to "put out" has no real bearing on how much we like her unless she just sucks in bed and yes that will end things fast just as she would loose interest if i were bad in bed i`m sure and as you said if she is great in bed i`m more likely to hang around. It just seems that woman like to use the sex crutch when a man doesn`t call her. They don`t like to imagine that he didn`t feel enough of a connection to pursue it or maybe she was just not much fun in general, it has to be that he got what he wanted and didn`t call so he`s an a$$hole. I see responses that say women don`t really bring money into this but i assure you i`ve had dates that were supposed to be dutch but they get pissed when i hold them to it and start the whole "gentleman" thing into it. Oh yes, no i didn`t know how many times this topic has been discussed in the forum and honestly don`t care, i simply don`t read each and every thread here. Do you????
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Are LTRs doomed to degenerate into lukewarm coexistence, if not worse ?
Posted: 9/16/2009 1:40:50 PM
like it or not, probably so
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Why is it ok to do him if you think you`ll never see him again?
Posted: 9/16/2009 1:23:09 PM
I`ve been told by some women over the years that they have met a guy and had sex with him on the first date even though they knew they`d never see him again yet they make someone they like wait and spend more money on her. Anyone here admit to ever doing that? Does anyone here over the age of 16 really think making us wait for sex causes us think "wow, she`s a keeper"?
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 9/15/2009 3:31:54 PM
Don`t ever bite but suck it like you mean it!
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
How many guys actually want a relationship on POF?
Posted: 9/15/2009 9:27:03 AM
I have no interest in a full time relationship but if i did this would be as good a place as any. All my life i`ve looked for a woman that suits me and i keep getting told that i`m looking in the wrong place but i`ve yet to hear where the right place is located. It doesn`t matter if it`s church, eharmony, match, here, the bar, kmart, people are really the same basic scum everywhere you go. Game playing is only wrong when someone else does it and all the other women are sluts........blah blah. stop thinking pof should be different than any place else, we`re all out to get what we need no matter where we are. I will add that men must play the odds when contacting women, they get far more hits than we do so we have to contact 10 in hopes that 2 will reply while the women can really pick and choose. it`s just the way things are as i`m sure you know.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 156 (view)
 
Women who use toys
Posted: 8/3/2009 11:36:29 AM
Who doesn`t like slinky sex???
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
when the sex is over is it wrong to want to leave
Posted: 8/3/2009 6:03:04 AM
Of course it is you bafoon!! You should stay right there in bed with her until the day you die. She probably wants you to go but you just have to make the gesture of acting like you don`t want to go so she`ll not feel like a harlot and if things go bad it sets you up to be the liar not her. it`s the evil game we must all play, now go hammer dat azzzzzzzz.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 70 (view)
 
What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/27/2009 6:28:35 PM
Yes, jerk him off once then give it a few minutes. Make him feel in charge too.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Swingers..
Posted: 7/27/2009 6:14:09 PM
I have had some experience with it. it`s great fun sometimes and painful others just like dinner and a movie on saturday night followed by church on sunday with a wife. Go for it baby, if people judge you based on that alone they don`t really want to know you anyway and would probably be boring. I`m sure they wouldn`t have a problem with you having an occasional cigarette or drink yet both do far more damage than swinging. Life is too short to be held down by someone else`s insecurities.
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Kissing during sex
Posted: 7/27/2009 10:01:59 AM
Just what did you want him to kiss?
 
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