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 Author Thread: Approching a bisexual or someone that is gay
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Approching a bisexual or someone that is gay
Posted: 11/7/2012 6:22:31 AM
P.S. best chances to meet gays and bis are at PrideFest. Attend your annual gay pride parade/festival. Its a weekend event..a huge party (well, depends on where you live. Some cities have bigger and better ones but still, its a good time)
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Approching a bisexual or someone that is gay
Posted: 11/7/2012 6:19:43 AM
What does it matter? If you have an interest in the same sex, just find someone who also has an interest in the same sex. (That would be gays and bis). Don't overthink this. The LGBT community is all about diversity. I think you need to spend some more time around us because you seem a bit clueless lol. Take it easy and good luck, my friend
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Slept with 36 women....
Posted: 11/5/2012 4:32:12 PM
Why are people so afraid to give their numbers? If my partners number is really low or really high I don't mind - I'd much rather them be honest than hide it from me. I hate off limit topics - its hard to trust someone who won't talk/feels ashamed/insecure...its such a silly matter. No reason to flip out and shut down.
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Slept with 36 women....
Posted: 11/5/2012 4:19:30 PM
He's contradicting himself. At first he gets silent and weird about the topic but then he defends it saying his friends have been with more.

He obviously knows its a lot but doesn't want you to judge him. He may have went through a promiscuous phase but that doesn't have anything to do with his commitment level right now. Talk to him about what he wants.
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Friends with benefits rules
Posted: 11/5/2012 3:12:00 PM

I watched a show recently about men who fall in love with their real sex dolls.. I was in shock the entire show!! Their reasoning, how they treated their pretty little dolls.. setting them up in positions and making videos taking them on picnics to the park.. twilight zone stuff But really, how different is it? Not a massive distinction in my mind. Excep these guys have a fantasy of something more As far as the rules go? I really wouldn't know, nor do I care


You seem to view women who enjoy casual sex as objects and the men as sick. Seems like a personal issue. You don't know what you're taking about so I agree you "wouldn't really know".
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Should I go for dating or GFE escort
Posted: 11/5/2012 11:25:09 AM
A non sex worker could still have a disease, keep that in mind. She could also physically or mentally abuse you as well. However, most women are non violent.

Just be safe and use a condom/get tested with anyone you hook up with.

Sex workers will always be more expensive anyway and you said you didn't have much money.

And not all girls make you pay. Some will go dutch or even pay themselves. Better yet, take her on a free date to the beach or a picnic, etc
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Should I go for dating or GFE escort
Posted: 11/5/2012 11:20:27 AM
If you do go for an escort the only legal & safe way to do it is in Nevada.

However, you must realize that sooner or later you are going to have to face the dating world (or at last fwb). Why don't you just find a similar girl who is inexperienced? You guys can learn together without all the pressure. Some girls don't care if you are staying at home right now and some girls your age also stay at home ya know?

If you feel you must see an escort, then that's how you feel. But remember that even after you do, you will still be single and at home right after its over! If you need to get it out of your system that's one thing. But I do recommend searching for a girl in a similar position as you afterwards.
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 123 (view)
 
Do men secretly hate being used for sex
Posted: 11/5/2012 11:02:36 AM
Either he has feelings or its a power/control issue. Men are used to calling the shots but when they see a strong woman going after what she wants they feel weak. They feel less masculine when women are bold and go after what they want. They expect women to catch feelings and be clingy..and when that doesn't happen they question their masculinity. They are rigid in their gender roles. Being confident in your sexuality and dominant like that, you probably attract the more submissive/emotional men
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 276 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 11/5/2012 10:43:07 AM
No, nothings wrong with you. Some girls can and some can't. Everyone is different. Its not really a talent - some just can't do it at all...some will leak fluids out, some will squirt a tiny bit, and some will squirt across the room lol.

Everyones body is different
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Do girls like to date bi men?
Posted: 11/5/2012 9:58:00 AM
But if men hate to wear condoms wouldn't that same rule apply to straight men? They have stds too you know.

Just make your bi or straight guy wears a condom or gets tested. Problem solved.
 lady_love1
Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Do girls like to date bi men?
Posted: 11/5/2012 9:52:46 AM
Sadly, many girls are put off by it. I'm not sure if its because of homophobia or if they find it too feminine (even though plenty of bi men come off as masculine).

I've known bi guys who have dated women and lied to them about it. The women seemed to have enjoyed it just fine but for some reason if they find out their man is bi they suddenly lose interest. Odd.

I think its just typical straight girl stuff...some of these girls are rigid in their gender roles and uptight.

Of course, some straight girls are more open-minded so don't give up. And even more bi girls are understanding.
 
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