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 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 57 (view)
 
How do I move on?
Posted: 10/7/2017 3:42:51 PM
i don,t know. i would also like to know this. i have been with this guy on and off for a while, and he has treated me just awful but i can,t stop loving him. hes like a drug to me or something. i just can,t seem to move on from him. i have had my family and friends to tell me how bad he is and how much better off i am with out him but getting my heart to belive that is the hard thing. all of these people who are telling this woman to do this or that how many of you could follow your own advise?
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
How do I move on?
Posted: 10/7/2017 3:42:06 PM
i don,t know. i would also like to know this. i have been with this guy on and off for a while, and he has treated me just awful but i can,t stop loving him. hes like a drug to me or something. i just can,t seem to move on from him. i have had my family and friends to tell me how bad he is and how much better off i am with out him but getting my heart to belive that is the hard thing. all of these people who are telling this woman to do this or that how many of you could follow your own advise?
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
The loss of a Father and friend
Posted: 11/30/2010 3:30:06 PM
i,m sorry for your loss miss chill.i know how you fill.my childerns daddy passed away from cancer it will be 3 years dec 2.and it still hurts me and his childern.he was my best friend.i think its great what you did with your grandkids.we had small grandkids 2.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a Hoarder?
Posted: 5/10/2010 10:52:50 PM
no i hadn't dated one.but some people might say i am.i don,t keep garbage and i do keep my house pertty clean.but i like whatnots siting around everywhere.and i kept some of my grandkids cloths from when thay was babies.and i keep alot of toys for my grand kids.and i like to get stuff other people thorow away if i like it.so i may be a hoarder.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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this site really works.
Posted: 4/19/2010 8:55:19 PM
jim what are you trying to say?neither one of us was homles.i don,t really get what you mean.and besides thare is nothing weong with homles people.you need to start worring about your self befor you start puting other peole down.and thank you wander.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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this site really works.
Posted: 4/19/2010 12:37:56 AM
hey i just wanted to tell everyone on here this site really douse work.i met the greatesst man on here 18 mouths ago,it was 18 mouths the 17th i decided to stay on here for the forms.but he is the greatest man i have ever known.we are engaged but hadnt set a date yet.we are both very happy.so thay are hope out thare for those who are looking.just don,t give up.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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just wondering
Posted: 4/1/2010 9:03:20 AM
thank you to.i am kinda thare family i guess.thare son is one of my grandbabies daddy,s.yes i guess i could ask thare son about it.but i really didn,t want to bring it up to him.maybe thay do just want to leave the profile up.thay still have the persons myspace profile up to.so i guess maybe thats what thay want.i was just wondering about it for some crazy reson.but didnt want to bring it up to someone i knew in person.but thank you anyways.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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just wondering
Posted: 3/31/2010 1:40:04 AM
hi everyone.i,m not sure how to word this.but anyways if you know someone persnely or in real life ever wich one you want to say and thay have a profile on pof how do you let the one in charge know so he can take it off if he wants to.he passed away sunday.i dont know alot about computers and how to do stuff on tham.so i was just wondering.thank everyone of you.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Today Was Our 6 Month Anniversary
Posted: 2/16/2010 1:38:07 PM
graglagions not that in to you.i met my guy on here 16 mos ago tomorow.we are both so happy.and are talking of marrige.already got my engagement ring just not set a date.we first started talking to each other 17 mouths ago today.yes we talked a mouth before meting face to face.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Grandmother with custody of grandchildren
Posted: 2/12/2010 1:17:20 PM
sassy i just wanted to tell you i think you are doing the right thing.i have 4 girls and 8 grandbabies.i would do what ever i could for either one of tham.and if i thought either one of my grandbabies wouldn't being taken cear of than yes i would take tham and raise tham.good luck.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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My children keep getting older but I'm not old enough for that to happen! lol
Posted: 2/3/2010 12:56:20 PM
i know how you fill.my youngest turned 18 this past sept.and i have 8 grandbabies.i'm 45 but i don't fill that old.lol.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Letting My Sweet Girl Go
Posted: 9/8/2009 9:36:49 PM
im sorry. i know how you fill my collie died in her sleep about a year ago and it stiil hurts me so bad.she was my baby.i had her for 14 years.she had bene sufering with secers .but the day she died she just went to sleep and didnt wake back up i'm sorry she didnt suffer.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Divorced women
Posted: 9/8/2009 9:19:32 PM
nice guy that was very nice of you.divorce is very hard.my daughtur is going thoroh it right now and it is very hard on her.what is wrong with you people puting him down for trying to be nice.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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10 things I hate about you.
Posted: 9/7/2009 6:11:12 PM
ok i put 10 things i hated about my dececed husban.now i'm going to put 10 things i love about the man i'm with now.1the way you show you love me.2 the way you make me smile.3 the way you pamper me.the way are so understanding.4 the way you are always so patint.5the way you treat my childern and grandchildern and my parents.6 the way you look at me.7 i love you for just being you.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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10 things I hate about you.
Posted: 9/6/2009 1:27:15 PM
1 i hate the way you beat me.2 i hate the way you use to hit our daugtur when she tryed to make you stop hiting me and than say it was an acadent.3i hate the way you cussed me and called me bad names.4 i hate the way you always drinked.5i hate the way when you finlly started strateing up and becoming a good guy god took you from us.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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How pets came into our lives
Posted: 3/5/2009 10:44:13 AM
i lost one of my pets in septeber.i had her for 15 years.she had cancer.i miss her so bad.my brother had rescued her and gave her to me.she had bene abussed bad before i got her.thay was going to kill her so my brother took her.i was so happy to have her.she was very spoiled.she was my baby.the way i got the pets i have now are with my dog my best friend gave her to me.she is a pomaranin.she had alway's loved me and i did her.and after loosing my old dog my friend asked me if i wanted her my friend thought it would help me with my griff,and she sure has.i love that little thing.and with my cat someone had throwed her out at my house she was about starved to death and thay had hurt her back when thay trowed her out.but i took her in and took cear of her.and with my love shes as good as new now.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 132 (view)
 
Would you become 'GOOD, CLOSE FRIENDS' with a MARRIED man or woman?
Posted: 2/5/2009 9:23:33 AM
no i would't unless i was close to his wife to.i have two best friend's i am close with one of thare husbands the other ones husband i can't stand.so no i would't unless i was close friends with the wife to.the time he is spending with you he should be spending it with his wife.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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why do people stay on POF after meeting someone?
Posted: 2/5/2009 9:03:17 AM
i stay on here for the forums.thay are very adactive.i love the forums.my b.f.stayes on for friends he has made.we both have on our profiles not single not looking.i am sure not on here looking for anyone else.i am very happy with who i have.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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p.o.f.is a great site
Posted: 12/21/2008 10:49:17 AM
thank you p.o.f. with your help i have met the love of my life.we have bene together a little over 2 mouth's.we sent each other messges on here and talked on yahoo messger for about 2 weeks.and than met face to face oct 17th.and have bene inspirebile ever since.he is a great guy.he makes me so happy.and he makes me fill so loved.i am staying on this site because i love the fourms.and i love the site.but i have found the man for me.thank you agian p.o.f.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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RIP...to an ex boyfriend who I met on here
Posted: 12/21/2008 10:36:01 AM
i am so sorry to hear about your loss.that is so sad.kristy you are so cold hearted.merry christmas to everyone.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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If you hit an animal do you stop?
Posted: 9/25/2008 1:44:49 PM
yes if i hit an animal i would stop.it is cold hearted not to.i would stop and do everything i could to help it.i had a dog to get run over and the one's who ran over her just kept going.i wouldn't even have known it if my other dog's hadn't started barking.i got to her in time to keep her a live.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Cops and Firefighters
Posted: 9/25/2008 1:38:04 PM
i like fireman.and i like good policeman.we do have some policeman that are bad.but we have alot of good policeman to.my best friend's house got broke in to and alot of her stuff was stolden.the police kept on working on it untill thay got her stuff back. so yes we do have alot of good policeman.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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I want to hear your stories!
Posted: 9/25/2008 12:52:09 PM
one thing i did as a kid that still makes me laugh,is me and my brother went and found asome silver ware in the garbage and went and sold i to naboreswe told tham thay where antece.lol.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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what do people dislike, misunderstand, etc about u?
Posted: 9/25/2008 11:53:15 AM
a lot of people don,t like me because i,m so shy.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Why do we come to Plenty Of Fish ?
Posted: 9/24/2008 10:46:32 AM
i come here to fined my spicail someone and for friend's and for the fourm's.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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reasons you have ended a relationship with someone
Posted: 9/21/2008 1:43:39 PM
i broke up with my last boy friend becausehe was alway's lying to me about somthing al the time. he was still hung up on his ex g.f.he never had time to spend with me.he was alway's puting me down.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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why?
Posted: 9/16/2008 4:59:51 PM
i'm sorry abmy spelling.i relize i don't spell very well.that,s somthing i can,t help.but to awnser about me not knowing reather he delited his profile because of me.yes it was.he told me it was because he wanted a exclusive relasionship.it just looks like he would have waited untill we meti think he might have bene a scamer becaue he asked me alot about what my husband left me when he passed.i'm a window.so mayme is a scamer.thanks to the guy who took up 4 me.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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why?
Posted: 9/16/2008 4:52:33 PM
i'm sorry abmy spelling.i relize i don't spell very well.that,s somthing i can,t help.but to awnser about me not knowing reather he delited his profile because of me.yes it was.he told me it was because he wanted a exclusive relasionship.it just looks like he would have waited untill we meti think he might have bene a scamer becaue he asked me alot about what my husband left me when he passed.i'm a window.so mayme is a scamer.thanks to the guy who took up 4 me.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
why?
Posted: 9/13/2008 11:02:30 AM
hey guys why would a guy tell you he is going to delite his profile before he even mets you?is that not rushing thing's a littl?i met a guy on here and he wrote me 2 emailes on here.and than he antedmy yahoo name so i gave it to him.and than he comes on yahoo and tells me he has delited his plenty of fish acont.why would a guy do that?
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Single Grandparents
Posted: 9/13/2008 10:46:03 AM
i don't think my daughtur is in to drug's.she just don't have her priotores strait or somthing.but i will alway's do what ever i can for my grandbabies.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Single Grandparents
Posted: 9/13/2008 8:01:27 AM
well i wish she would do better.but i don't fill like it's my falt that she don't.i don't think it's because i failed as a parent.i have 2 other childern who are younger than this one and thay do just fine with thare childern.thay are dame good mother's.so if i had failed with one don't you think i would have failed with the other ones.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Single Grandparents
Posted: 9/12/2008 6:53:03 PM
well moomy 2 you seem bitter.are you sure you didn't want your mom's help and she refused.because you sure do seem bitter.i'm not going turn my grandbabies away just because the parents don't want to grow up.it,s not the kid's falt.so i will just keep loving tham and do what i can for tham.and no i didn't fail rasing my daughtur.i was a very good mother and still am.you don't know me so don't judge me.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Single Grandparents
Posted: 9/12/2008 6:37:57 PM
thank you carolann.yes i am trying to make the mom more responcible.the dad took off to another state.i think the dad might be in to drug's ,but i don't think the mom is.no thare not teens.but thay where when the kid,s was born.i don,t know what the mom.s prom is.i think maybe she thinks it is to hard or somthing.she's in to boy's alot.she lives with me and he kid,s.but she just don,t have alot to do with tham.if thay need somthing and i don,t jump right up and do it she start's telling me to get what ever it is thay need.instead oher geting up and geting it.thare is 2 kid's a 5 year old and a 2 ear old.the other grandma will take the 2 year old sometime and baby sit.but not the 5 year old.sometime it seemes like me and the 5 year old is agenst the world.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Single Grandparents
Posted: 9/12/2008 2:02:57 AM
i am a single grandparent,who is rasing 2 of my grandbabies.thare granddad pased away with cancer.so i am a single grandmother.thare mom and dad don,have thare life together so i am rasing tham.and ys it is hard to date when you are rasing grandkid's.you can,t just spoil tham and send tham home and date or what ever you want to do.thares not alot of man who are going to want kid,s around 247.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 60 (view)
 
How many of you are grandparents are raising their grandchildren?
Posted: 9/12/2008 1:55:50 AM
well i'm not over 45.i just turned 44.but i am rasing 2 of my grandbabies.my 5 year old granddaughtur and her 2 year old brother.well the other grandmother takes the 2 year old sometime.i have my granddaughtur since she was 8 mos old.the dad took off to another state.the mom is living with us now.but i am still the one who takes cear of my granddaughtur.when i thought i could have a life i have her to take cear of.but i wouldn,t take anything for her.i don't have cousdy of her.but she,s still mine.sometimes it fills like me and her are agest the wourld.i wouldn,t take anything for either one of my grandbabies.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Would you take in your grandchildren???
Posted: 9/12/2008 12:10:26 AM
yes i would.and i am doing it now.my 5 year old and 2 year old.i have rasied my grandchildren mostley by my self.the mom is living with us now to.but i am still taking cear of tham most of the time.long story most people proble wouldn,t understand.my home is little ve much money but thare is no way i would turn my grandbabies down.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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need some help please.
Posted: 9/7/2008 11:30:16 PM
thank you.but i didn,t see anything lke that on my profile.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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need some help please.
Posted: 9/7/2008 10:34:52 PM
could someone tell me how to delite pitchures please?and how to put the one to show up?my kid's put the pitchur's that are on thae on for me.and i would ust like to know how to do it my self thank you.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Widowed Mom, and teenage kids
Posted: 9/7/2008 2:17:00 PM
i know how you fill.my teenage daughtur didn,t want me to date either after her dad passed.but it was ok for her to alway,s be gone with her friend,s.so i did start dating for a little while.and now she want,s me to.and yes people on here do look at looks more than thay do the inter person.it is not fair.good luck.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 9/5/2008 9:34:18 PM
i dated a very nice guy.he would buy me stuff.and take me out to eat.but he was still in love with his ex.if it wouldn,t for his ex i would have never broke up with him.he was a very nice guy.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Breakup aftermath, next steps
Posted: 9/5/2008 9:13:40 PM
ok sorry somthing happen so i couldn,t finesh the first one.anyways,he stayed friend,s with his ex.she would call him al the time and come to his house.and everything.but after weeks he stoped being my friend.he want even talk to me.it hurt,s.and it makes me wonder y we can,t stay friend,s but he could with his ex.so yes i know how you fill.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Breakup aftermath, next steps
Posted: 9/5/2008 5:33:40 PM
i know how you fill.i met this guy off of this site.i ceared alot about him.when we broke up he told me he would lway,s be my friend.well i wanted more than to be his friend.but i was willing to take his friendship.he stayed friends with his ex.so i thought me and him could stay frinds
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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what should i do?
Posted: 9/5/2008 3:10:14 PM
thank everyone of you.no i don,t think he was a player.i think he was hust still to much in love with his ex.i guess he wouldn,t really ready to move on or somthing.but i do think he is a great guy.i just couldn,t understand his actions when we was together.and i can,t understand him saying we might could get back together sometime,and that he would stay my friend.and now he want even awser my emailes back.i know i don,t spell good.but i needed some advise because my heart is broken.i want him back but i know i might as well give up on him.but he is a great guy.and i will alway,s think he is a great guy.hewas just still in love wth her.i wanted more than he did i guess.and i don,t understand him making another profile.after him telling me he delited the first 1.but he said he did it to see what i was doing on here.agian thank everyone of you.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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what should i do?
Posted: 9/4/2008 10:39:32 PM
ok i know this is long so bare with me.ok my prom is i met this guy off of this site. he is a great guy.but any way we dated a little over a mouth.but really only saw each other 3 timesbecause he said he worked alot.but we did talk alot on yahoo.we talked every night on yahoo.but every time we was together he talked about his ex girlfriend.he even did it on yahoo.was always telling me what he had did 4 her.but he was good 2 me when we was 2gether.he would buy me and my grandbaby stuff.and take me out 2 eat.and open car doors 4 me and stuff like that.but he would always talk about her.well i asked 4 advise on the fourms.and ppl told me that yes he was still in love with his ex.and he shouldn,t be talking 2 me about her.and he had asked me 2 be exclusive but if we was out somewhere 4 a while he would start ackting like he was worried about my grown kids winch lives with me.and talk like he thought i should be home with tham or somthing.i really didn,t think he was ever going to really settle down with me 4 us 2 live 2 gether or any thing.by the way he acted.he told me he had took his profile off.he said he took it off even be4 we met i told him i was keeping mine on because i like the fourms.i could tell he didn,t want me to.but i did anyway.well after i got to thinking about stuff.and was geting jelouse and hurt i put my profile that i was looking.well as soon as i put it on here he came on under a diff name.and saw it.and got mad.i tryed talking 2 him and telling him i was sorry.i was just filling scarred.but no he couldn,t understand how i was filling and wanted to break up.we still talked on yahoo 4 about 2 weeks after that.and he kept telling me he did cear 4 me.and 2 give it time 2 c if i did want anybody else or not.and i kept telling him no that i didn,t and that i was sorry.but he just couldn,t acept that.i really did cear 4 him.any ways about a mouth ago he told me he was fixing to go out on a date with a girl he workedwith.but that maybe we could still get back together latter.and that he did cear 4 me.and he would always be my friend.but i have not heard from him since.i keep writing him on yahoo.but he want write me back.i have not heard from him him in amouth.he,s just inoring my emails.so my quision is should i just give up.or shoud i keep trying and leting him know how sorry i am and how much i cear for him.thak u any advise apricatied.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Letting Go.......of Junk.
Posted: 9/4/2008 9:45:25 PM
i keep all kineds of junk.i hate trowing any thing away.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Dating a widower...HELP I'm so confused??
Posted: 9/3/2008 12:11:35 AM
i still have pics of my husband up on the wall.but i have childern and grand childrn with him.i have dated one man since my husbnd passed.and i didn,t take my pics down.but i didn,t talk about my husband all the time either.i only talked about him when i was asked somthing.but the man i dated was always talking about his ex.sunny i wrote u a messege.ur last post made me cry.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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why?
Posted: 8/29/2008 1:00:48 AM
no she,s not 18.she,s older than 18.thank everyone of u
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
why?
Posted: 8/26/2008 8:01:59 PM
yes but it kinda inables me from dating anyway,s because i have to take cear of my grandkids.but i don,t guess everybody,s in the sameboat as me.lol.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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why?
Posted: 8/26/2008 7:41:58 PM
why is it on here people put on thare profile childern over 18,when childern that are 18 still live with thare parents?my daughtur is over 18 has bene married and divorced.and has two kids.and moved back in with me with her kids.and i think she is more depedable on me now than she was befor she got grown.so what is it with saying over 18?thhank you inadvance.
 bamaangel642002
Joined: 7/16/2007
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Death of a pet-AGAIN ?
Posted: 8/26/2008 12:59:21 AM
my 14 year old collie passed away to weeks ago.it hurts bad to lose a pet.i loved her and she loved me.she had cancer and seciores.and i think she had altimers.because her mined was not like it use t be.i loved her so much.but i know one day we will be together agian.i miss her very bad.i still have nightmares about her dying.oc u r a very cold ass.i,m not even going to call u a man.u must have never loved an aniamial.ur loss because thay can love u so uncondecionly.u didn,t have 2 read this post if u didn,t like it.but 2 make remarcks like u did was very cold and uncalled 4.
 
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