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 Author Thread: Another case of He's not that into you?
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Another case of He's not that into you?
Posted: 3/28/2010 8:29:30 AM
Time to continue fishing.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Need advice... dating two women.
Posted: 3/28/2010 8:18:57 AM
sweetest. Thats great to hear.

Lots like you have something for the POF success stories thread.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Need advice... dating two women.
Posted: 3/28/2010 8:14:44 AM
It should also be pointed that he never stated that he was exclusively dating one girl and that they were in a serious relationship.

There is a difference between serious vs. casual.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Pre Date 'Meet & Greet'... Goes Horribly Wrong!
Posted: 3/28/2010 8:06:14 AM
agreed. This is one of the best threads on POF right now.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Should this concern me?
Posted: 3/28/2010 7:59:34 AM
using this 2nd profile, you should ask her if she's is seeing anyone or dating one.
She should be truthful on this one.

Don't say "do you have a bf." It sounds like the relationship is still in its early stages.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 634 (view)
 
Why won't Women Date Nice Romantic Overweight Gentlemen
Posted: 3/28/2010 7:57:08 AM
Isn't it the same reason that men men don't Date Nice Romantic Overweight girls?
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 396 (view)
 
When is flirting cheating?
Posted: 3/4/2010 11:11:27 AM
If you are doing something or saying something that you do NOT want your partner to know about, then that would be flirting. Flirting would become cheating if it gets physical.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 177 (view)
 
Is porn ruining real live sex?
Posted: 3/2/2010 9:52:22 AM
by that token, you can also argue that tv and movies have ruined lives too.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 103 (view)
 
Ladies stop settling for bootycall status...
Posted: 3/2/2010 8:07:51 AM
On a side note, if you are a booty call, then you will always be a booty call. So, hopefully you are not deeply attracted to the guy.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How long without sex before lowering your standards?
Posted: 3/2/2010 8:05:20 AM
Even if you've been without sex for awhile, you should not go and lower your standards. It reeks of desperation and loneliness.

If you have to go this route, try and find a FWB.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 161 (view)
 
Is porn ruining real live sex?
Posted: 2/24/2010 10:08:32 AM
I'm not sue if the thread should be " Is porn ruining real live sex?" but "Is porn ruining perceptions of what men want from women".

Most women are natural, do not have supermodel-like figures, and have sexual insecurities. Many of the women in porn are not that.

Final note. That babeland survey is right on the mark.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Would I be Cheating ?
Posted: 2/24/2010 9:24:00 AM
You are firmly in the friend zone. Its not cheating if you are only friends with her.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 162 (view)
 
men outnumber women on dating sites Fact? or Myth?
Posted: 2/24/2010 9:11:51 AM
To me, these are social networking sites rather than dating sites. I would think that both men and women are into social networking.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Why do I feel so naughty???
Posted: 2/24/2010 8:46:29 AM
I don't know if naughty is the right word. It sounds more like your needs are just not being met.

If you are hungry and you're not getting food, then you are just going to get hungrier by the day.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 89 (view)
 
How Would You React To Someone Spitting In Your Face UN Expectedly While You Are Having Sex?
Posted: 2/24/2010 8:43:02 AM
Spitting is disrespectful...I agree. But was it by accident?
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
When do you bring up sexual needs/wants?
Posted: 2/24/2010 8:40:47 AM
No need if its a short fling. If its something that you envision being a long term relationship, then absolutely. But wait till you've done the deed.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
He wears Victoria's Secret panties??
Posted: 2/24/2010 8:39:27 AM
Have you asked why he does it? And have you asked why he brought it up? Its great that he told you now rather than 6 or 12 months from now. Sounds like a fetish thing. But I think its good to understand what is going on in your relationship.

I think its important to Pick your battles. The two of you will have your differences. If this is a big big big concern/problem for you, then bring it up that you are not comfortable. Otherwise, let it pass and wait for something else to "battle".
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
One night together, then...
Posted: 2/22/2010 12:20:28 PM
At the very least, hopefully you learned something from this and know what to do if this happens again
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Does not mentioning your age constitute a lie?
Posted: 2/22/2010 12:15:30 PM
Does make you question if there are other things that he is hiding from you. Age is something that you should be known at least after several dates.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 113 (view)
 
How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted: 1/29/2010 2:45:53 PM
i guess it depends on how important sex is in the relationship.....and if your partner shares that same view.

I hope bad sex would not cause any breakups...but hey, some people might feels this way
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Women accuse man of rape because they didn't like the sex
Posted: 1/29/2010 2:43:40 PM
is this a true story? I don't always trust stuff on the thesmokinggun.com
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 84 (view)
 
men in pantyhose
Posted: 1/29/2010 2:42:05 PM
can't you just wear sweats under your pants to stay warm?
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 242 (view)
 
Gold-digger is just a term men invented to
Posted: 1/29/2010 2:40:39 PM
congrats Ron429
.....sounds like you really dodged a bullet. I never heard of a girl demanding that her engagement ring have a min number of carats.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 136 (view)
 
Proper Blocking etiquette
Posted: 1/29/2010 2:38:53 PM
Agreed. If you don't get any reply, why would you want to keep sending messages?
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
My POF experience: One guy's take
Posted: 1/18/2010 9:58:36 AM
would your two female friends include their experiences here too? I'm interested in hearing any successes or non-sucesses of POF users.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 78 (view)
 
I dressed nice, he wore a baseball hat and sneakers...
Posted: 12/9/2009 8:43:04 AM
It depends on the date location and activity. Are you overdressed or is he underdressed?
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Kissing and making out in the rain
Posted: 12/9/2009 8:41:16 AM
too scared off the lightning and thunder. Also, I hate getting my clothes all wet like that.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
How to give a good blow job?
Posted: 12/3/2009 6:34:11 PM
I have to agree that practice is the best bet. But it has to be with a guy that you have some serious chemistry with. If you don't have that, then you won't be able to give a decent bj
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 133 (view)
 
Is she too young for me?
Posted: 12/1/2009 1:03:07 PM
age gap. Its only a problem if you consider it a problem. Who knows. She might act much older than she looks.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Would you care if you saw your boyfriend's porn?
Posted: 12/1/2009 12:28:39 PM
the alternative would be for him to go out and find a hooker. I don't think that is the better option.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Female Tool of the Trade
Posted: 11/20/2009 1:14:57 PM
Yeah, a machine can be more efficient and reliable than a guy. But you can never replace a guy in the bedroom.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Blowjob buddy
Posted: 11/20/2009 1:13:18 PM
I would say its FWB but I'm not sure how well you know her
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Conflict in the bedroom.
Posted: 11/20/2009 1:12:15 PM
Relationships are about working with each other. Find out her limits but don't push her if she is not comfortable going outside her limits. It might be awhile before she has any desire to go outside her limits so you have to be patient.

Hopefully, things work out. But don't break up if the sex is the only 'problem' aspect of your relationship. If everything else in the relationship is going great, then you have a keeper.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Sex in parents house while parents are home
Posted: 11/2/2009 8:16:43 AM
too many problems with this. Always easier just to wait till the parents were not around.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
How to end a FWB relationship that is soooo good
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:56:56 AM
good luck with this. Hopefully, your relationship will still continue
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
fighting because of facebook.....
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:55:51 AM
She is acting quite childish. Soon, she'll be questioning everything that you on your facebook. And really, do you want that?

Bottom line....
just dont close your facebook.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 280 (view)
 
Hair pulling during doggystyle
Posted: 11/1/2009 7:59:21 AM
can be great! Just hope the guy knows the difference between pulling her hair and trying to rip her hair from her scalp
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Whatcha Gonna Do....when the jilted starts wanting you?!?
Posted: 10/29/2009 7:25:09 PM
I think you already know the answer. Its one of those times to trust your gut.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
People won't share or exchange pictures
Posted: 10/29/2009 2:04:26 PM
same here. Not to mention, I think POF does require pics on all profiles.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
attracted to blondes last ten years...all of a sudden brunettes...anyone else?
Posted: 10/29/2009 1:47:38 PM
swine flu maybe?
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 10/25/2009 1:36:17 PM
"Whatever makes her happy!"

Yeah, but if you are not comfortable with it...then you shouldn't have to do it.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 116 (view)
 
women as pure sexual objects
Posted: 10/5/2009 10:01:55 AM
I have to add:

"Rhode Island is neither a Rhode nor an island. Discuss."

Not sure if she meant Rhode or road though
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 98 (view)
 
What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 10/5/2009 8:29:21 AM
Congrats to ForRumOnly for accumulating that vacation time. You taken step#1 to fulfilling your fantasy
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Big men, tiny women
Posted: 10/5/2009 8:21:18 AM
big guys and small chicks seem to be the norm. You almost never see the opposite.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Personality matters - only if they're hot?
Posted: 10/5/2009 8:19:48 AM
Have to agree. Acting desperate is worst than acting rude or stuck-up
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 124 (view)
 
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 10/5/2009 8:17:34 AM
If Ludacris says it, then you know it must be true!
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 156 (view)
 
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:27:37 PM
it sounds like you've just had some horrible dating experiences.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:25:56 PM
I always thought guys like girls who knew when to be sweet and when to be naughty?
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:25:09 PM
Turn on only if you both can get into character....that only happens if you both are interested in role playing and in the characters
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Should I go out with a girl 16 years younger?
Posted: 8/16/2009 7:49:31 AM
I think the bigger question is a 39 yr older hanging out with college students at a club??
 
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