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 Author Thread: Leading the Relationship
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Leading the Relationship
Posted: 6/20/2014 8:12:09 PM
it means you pay for everything but she leads
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Am I asking too much from our kids, especially her son?
Posted: 6/16/2014 4:20:37 PM
don't you just hate this stepkid / multiple marriage situation...sucks ..really sucks.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Poor Guy Dating Rich Woman
Posted: 2/27/2014 5:40:19 PM
don't sign the prenup lol.
hope the OP survived the dinner
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 25 (view)
 
My dilemma, paternity etc
Posted: 2/27/2014 5:14:14 PM
by all means love the kid no matter what. Folks saying you should basically forget about the deceitful mother's evil actions is another thing. She is your daughter by way of lies. Totally different from you knowing about the father of your daughter from the get go and choosing to be the father. I am heartbroken for you. What a terrible thing.
This is where women hold all the cards and historically there have been many cultures that have had maternal family lines....simply because they could never guarantee who the father of the child was. DNA is all men have to be sure..when needed
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Simultaneous O's
Posted: 11/30/2013 6:44:33 AM
idealisms..setting up for failures.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 114 (view)
 
any ideas for masturbation ?
Posted: 11/29/2013 7:12:01 PM
problem..well not really a problem lol..but masturbation for me makes ejaculation during regular sex not as good. The sex is good as part of the whole enticement is satisfying your partner too but the intensity is not the same... it's good, not as good
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Bittersweet excitement.....buying a house w/o someone to share the fun
Posted: 11/29/2013 3:37:17 PM
tough one fella.. i ain't a spring chicken either. I fell in love with a 39 year old beauty. To keep this going I have to agree to change my goals; have another kid and get married..again.. lol, so basically I won't do that so i know heartaches are here to stay because i will lose her sooner rather than later. Yes, i can easily meet someone else, even find someone who will not have those requirements....i love her...so don't feel too bad that you are 50 and partnerless...you should desire a compatible partner in all sense of the word or being alone is soooo much better
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Kilt on a first date?
Posted: 11/29/2013 3:28:26 PM
This should work for you fella :

Kilt
lion skin strewn across your chest
Swedish wooden shoes
wolf skin hat.

If none are appealing, save the kilt for after she is yours... showing up in kilt may end up with you not being taken seriously.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Hmmm… an odd one
Posted: 11/13/2013 6:27:39 PM
in the state of Maryland, Separated is not really a status, however the state requires a minimum of one year of no overnight stay for divorce to be an option. During the Separation period, one is not allowed to date etc by law.
Frankly i think the law is very archaic in Maryland, however it is what it is. Other states differ though
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 114 (view)
 
The fish smell down there?
Posted: 11/13/2013 6:21:06 PM
"I let it air out while I sleep. "

belletresor..the above had me in stitches for a while lol..great post. to think plain water keeps you clean. By the way, you should probably get confirmation from an honest guy lol. I think you are referring to uncircumcised men on your last paragraph :) but the sweaty balls thingy...is applicable to all.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 110 (view)
 
The fish smell down there?
Posted: 11/12/2013 4:24:02 PM
I agree April1963, Supersaiyangoku 's post is incredibly ignorant and irresponsible. Sadly many uninformed men will read this and probably beat up on their female partners...Got to be careful what you write on the web. Too many ignorant and emotional folks out there.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 105 (view)
 
The fish smell down there?
Posted: 11/11/2013 6:22:19 PM
no, a fishy smell down there doesn't mean a woman is cheating..she could be of course.
Some women will wash down there daily, but within a few hours could get fishy down there whiles others can go for a few days with nothing more than an acceptable whiff . lol. Some women are also non-smelly, until in the middle of lovemaking then all kinds of whiffing begin to knock you out. By then you are sooo into it, you put that aside and continue the journey home.
It is definitely one area that can make or break a relationship for me. Cleanliness is important and it is nice to read some of the opinions on the help women can get. I have heard women complain of smelly men, especially uncircumsized men..so both ways.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Bad Date!!!! How to go about Dating
Posted: 11/10/2013 11:40:57 AM
unless the OP is planning a follow up date, looks like she dodged a homeless man from Camden.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Husband wants to watch
Posted: 11/7/2013 5:54:47 PM
or he simply wants to test the OPs stamina lol...then dump her afterwards
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Difficulty with a 16 year old
Posted: 10/27/2013 6:04:14 PM
he should bear in mind that whiles you two are in love, you can always leave the relationship...as he can... his daughter comes first...I believe he should meet his daughter's wishes for a while and coach her into accepting you as part of the deal and you should encourage that. Back off.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Supporting children when an Ex dies
Posted: 10/24/2013 6:47:29 PM
all the best to you and your family. I don't know what else to say. We are all so vulnerable really.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Is this guy dateable?
Posted: 10/22/2013 7:11:25 PM
leave the poor guy alone...he's given you all the red flags and you are still pursuing the road to unhappiness.
never met a woman who wants to be an accountant who wasn't somewhat of a perfectionist.
You will be unhappy sooner rather than later... I dated a Physician...not saying all are the same, but she was a perfectionist..as fun as she was to be with she wanted to change my clothing, underwear type (only white underwear lol) to my laptop carry bag to high fashionable wears..not me..
I knew the future looked dim with her...did not pursue. We are still friends.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
How do I get better at sex?
Posted: 9/8/2013 6:59:30 PM
ask him to do his own handjobs, then kick his butt out....whiles he is at it...what a plonker
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 26 (view)
 
My boyfriend aims to break everything. what should I do?
Posted: 9/8/2013 6:51:37 PM
if this is not a trolling post, then listen to wisdom and leave . Do not have a relationship for 2 years whiles you build up your own self confidence...which is obviously very lacking.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Girlfriend of 2 years went out with another guy dont know if she cheated
Posted: 9/2/2013 1:26:00 PM
OP sounds like he really needs help believing what he wants to believe. She's telling you your days are numbered.
The new guy is worth investigating. She will keep your insecure interest around...till she decides. She lied, then lied, then played the classic trick.....she lied because of you lol.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 12 (view)
 
K-Y Intense arousal jelly for her?
Posted: 9/1/2013 6:28:41 PM
if you want bigger more intense orgasms, work your way to almost climaxing then stop...letting the intensity drop....do this for about 5 times before you let it all flow lol. I had an ex try this many years ago and she had dreams her normal sleep state would not reach. :)
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Mixed signals? Or just a dillusion of grandeur
Posted: 9/1/2013 5:53:44 PM
well, you did say she works in an "institution". Looks like you are keen to join her there..
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Best 1st Date Ever, Then She Seemed to Lose Interest
Posted: 8/23/2013 6:42:05 PM
happens..she went off the boil. Not ready for a relationship. or it suddenly occurred to her that you aren't her type? she has a personality disorder? an axe-murderer who is sparing your life? Be Thankful
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Is he playing me or is that a normal behaviour?
Posted: 7/10/2013 7:11:07 PM
I agree..that's a dull guy lol..but women are attracted to the mysterious kinds..i think women have a need to conquer more so than men do.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Met such a lovely woman on saturday night - gutted :(
Posted: 7/10/2013 6:57:19 PM

I met an attorney last year on match who looked nothing like his pics. He was nerdy and very skinny in person. I still enjoyed our chat but knew I wouldn't be seeing him again most likely. And he did something strange. As he paid bill I went to the restroom and told him I would walk out with him. Well he left. I found that rude.


Could be he was pissed with paying the bill by himself when he as an attorney is skilled enough to know that you aren't interested and did not offer to pay your share. He stormed out..
Or, like you, he thought you didn't look like you had advertised...or didn't find you attractive and worth his time? who knows... but he was rude
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 100 (view)
 
did he ever love me at all?
Posted: 7/9/2013 6:51:57 PM
why do I find it hard to believe the OPs story at all lol..anyway, it's an old story...she's over him and moved on.
Glad you see him as a loser now. You certainly were a loser when you were with him... i somehow find the whole thing hard to believe....trolling? u betcha
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Update-Can people Change?
Posted: 7/9/2013 6:36:06 PM
i think he might be a little confused as I am. You are "Big and Tall & BBW" but measure 5 feet tall? :)

I think you dig him and you will put up with it. He knows
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Follow up
Posted: 7/8/2013 7:08:01 PM
he needs to focus on his kids...and you need to find a guy without kids..
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Wife-to-be ended engagement. what now?
Posted: 7/7/2013 5:56:30 PM
and...you have two kids together? sometimes, I wonder if the republicans are right lol
talk about creating dysfunction
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
is it a conflict of interest to date your bank teller
Posted: 7/7/2013 5:15:19 PM
does he like you? takes two..as you know
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Meeting off-line
Posted: 7/6/2013 8:26:57 PM
you are actually doing rather well. Those guys are weeding themselves out of your pool of possibilities.
Safe to say, none of them are worth your time for coffee anyway. If you are lonely, and need some social stimulation, look to your friends for that...of course.

One thing...ultra religious and bible reading as hobby is not personally attractive to me....wondering if that is also a little offputting to some potential mates? doesn't mean I am a devil lol
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 66 (view)
 
What are your fun little dirty little secrets?
Posted: 7/6/2013 7:56:00 PM
holyshhhhhhhh Belletresor!!!!!. What did your mummy not teach you lol.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Did I just jump the gun?
Posted: 7/6/2013 5:09:21 AM
i think you confused him lol
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 20 (view)
 
She's 10 years older than she says
Posted: 7/6/2013 4:57:56 AM

I'm not very good with lying, so I tend to be pretty up front about my excessive drinking, huge drug use, and somewhat phucked up mental state. Honesty doesn't work all that well for me but, at the very least, I get a good sleep after passing out.


nooooooooo...women won't like this...then again they are queuing up to date gangsters, prisoners, serial killers..
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Why is she on a dating website if she does not want to date ??
Posted: 7/6/2013 4:53:03 AM
maybe, they just don't want...you?
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Describe what your perfect mate would be like.
Posted: 7/6/2013 4:50:28 AM
a 6ft plus fit femme...with lots of issues so i can spend the rest of my life fixing her issues...
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 7 (view)
 
the downside of penile injections
Posted: 7/6/2013 4:43:55 AM
"Cripes, this guy has enough issues. Let him be. Enjoy the time together. The last thing he needs is more talk and discussion. Congrats to him for getting on in life."

a little like the girl who wants to be with a rich guy...finds a poor guy and makes him miserable for not being rich enough
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Is it asking too much?
Posted: 7/5/2013 5:27:54 AM
#58 #59

and I am sure you welcome them back?
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Is it asking too much?
Posted: 7/1/2013 6:46:45 PM
this seems to be normal behaviour... No cure for it. Move on
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Caught in the act
Posted: 7/1/2013 6:39:13 PM
agree with those praising you for checking out on him and confirming your beliefs. More people should do this. Check on their partners if they can do it. You are likely to spend your life and trust completely. Both have to be earned..not given.
He is a deviant..however beyond protecting yourself from him, his life is his own and he is responsible for his child. You should stay out of it. I agree that you should let him know...that you know and you think he is a a poor example of a parent.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
1st date and she tells you she hates your job and apartment..would you see her again?
Posted: 6/29/2013 7:20:55 PM
nothing wrong with it..she thinks you can do better. she sees a lot of potential in you and thinks you are underachieving. She wants her partner to be successful and making money and living large...makes her cum feel better. Yours on the other hand.....
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
difficulty ejaculating with condoms
Posted: 6/24/2013 7:24:08 PM
what kind of condoms are you using? the long delay kind or regular?
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Wow...just...wow
Posted: 6/23/2013 8:05:52 PM
Just tell her you can't be with a black person either. Just don't say it doesn't feel right.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
International No Panty Day
Posted: 6/23/2013 7:40:23 PM
keep those musky smells to yourselves.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 18 (view)
 
What do German girls think about Indian guys....
Posted: 6/20/2013 8:23:56 PM
not all Indians are dark skinned Caucasians. A section of them have Persian traits..Those are the ones with some Caucasian leaning. Some are of African descent. Mixtures.
There was a case in the US where an Indian was asserting his rights as a Caucasian in The US during segregation.
I believe the White judge said..paraphrasing..what do people see you as?

I am surprised the OP raised this issue at all.. He has to be really awkward not to get an interracial date in Germany
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Because I didn't say Thank You?!?!?!
Posted: 6/18/2013 7:22:02 PM
if you could swear you said "thanks" then you likely did not.
How tall is he? maybe he didn't hear you
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 33 (view)
 
adult breast feeding relationships
Posted: 6/18/2013 7:16:04 PM
we are supposed to forget we ever had breast milk.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Not sure if this girl is playing games or just needs space
Posted: 6/17/2013 7:09:00 PM
i say it was a sexsession quest on her part. You failed her...she moved on, but keeping you around in case the other guy/s can't meet her needs..like you didn't..but want to introduce her to the parents within 2 weeks. She's scared alright.
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Help
Posted: 6/17/2013 6:58:40 PM
life's too short to mope around..get up, stand up and don't waste your life. It is yours
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Should I send her flowers?? Care about her a LOT!
Posted: 6/17/2013 6:52:46 PM
well girlfriend lol..hey, nothing wrong with that. 'Just not sure why she is soo piked off when you took a girl with you but you had to put up with that disrespectful behaviour from her? I agree...move on
 
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