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 Author Thread: IQ appeal
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
IQ appeal
Posted: 12/12/2008 7:07:28 PM
my guess would be that she be at least as intelligent as he is, and probably not more. if she's more intelligent he may feel looked-down on, or she may feel she has to talk down to him. same for women looking for intelligent men. having someone smarter than you might be a trip if he likes to talk a lot and can deliver interesting monologues, but if you can't reply with more than "yeah, cool," or "i see that now" things probably won't last too long. you don't have to be able to debate politics, but at least carry on your half of a conversation without resorting to monosyllabic mumbling.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Drunk dialed boyfriend, now he's my ex
Posted: 10/3/2008 9:39:12 AM
can't fault the guy for having standards of behaviour. serves you right for getting drunk. i just can't see the appeal. oh well. i wouldn't worry. you're attractive. you'll land another one soon. behave next time.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
how do you get accepted in a circle of friends?
Posted: 9/29/2008 8:04:42 PM
isn't the los angeles reputation for being so tough and narcissistic largely fake and used only to enhance the allure of show business? people are people. i liked the idea of hosting a party in which each guest brings a new person to the group.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Show interst = leaving, not caring = staying??
Posted: 9/29/2008 7:55:11 PM
could be a few different reasons.
1. lack of mutual interest.
2. defence mechanism since they probably don't want to think they're somehow lacking. so they try to not be unceremoniously dumped, at least until they can dump you themselves.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
 
brian lara
Posted: 9/29/2008 7:44:41 PM
should lara come out of retirement? surely the wicb has realised the errors of its ways and wishes they had him back. surely he still has much to offer. what say you?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
HOLY HAIRY! IT'S BIGFOOT
Posted: 8/14/2008 1:05:30 PM
do you keep your wild country in a freezer?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
HOLY HAIRY! IT'S BIGFOOT
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:32:14 AM
Foxnews.com: Bigfoot trackers say they've got a body

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,402882,00.html
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Is getting along with your ex a turn off to a new guy ?
Posted: 8/7/2008 4:58:41 PM
to add to what mish said, even if there are no children inviolved, you can still be civil and even friends with your ex as long as he's not, like you say, dropping by for chats, etc. of course, all that changes as soon as your new beau invites him to shoot pool or join the fun at the pool or something.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
I think some men are too hard on themselves...
Posted: 5/27/2008 3:49:56 PM

To me, "knight in shining armor" just means, soulmate, one for me? Someone who will actually like who I am, and want to be with me.

sounds less like a knight in shining armour and more like a friend. you know, the dreaded nice man. the knight in shining armour is the one that rescues/provides for the damsel.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
How a lady dresses...
Posted: 5/26/2008 8:30:43 PM

just being women we are contradictory and this is very confusing for men.

not at all. we know exactly what you're doing, and so do you. the only thing that might be confusing is wondering why it's so hard for women to acknowledge the obvious.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Whats up with leaving your profile online when you're involved ?
Posted: 5/26/2008 6:35:00 PM

Cake + Eat it too


squared.

beautifully put!
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
How a lady dresses...
Posted: 5/26/2008 8:41:31 AM

Yes...Yes...Yes.....women wear provacative clothing...yet, in reality.... do not want the attention, said clothing brings...Who knows....maybe it's all the magazines we read...telling us... what to wear...how to act...." how do I get his attention"..

do women dress the same way at home in private? that'd solve the problem of wanting to dress like that and avoid the unwanted attention.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Whats up with leaving your profile online when you'er involved ?
Posted: 5/25/2008 5:15:57 PM
aaaaaaaaaaanyway, cute theories aside, some people use dating sites for dating and others use them for socialising. just adds to the traffic that potential mates have to weed through to find each other.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 64 (view)
 
has anyone tried the other online dating sites?
Posted: 5/25/2008 10:23:25 AM
i just tried to open an acct on primelavalife.com and couldn't get past step 3 (life experience). they said i used unacceptable language:

'Twas a mission of mercy and a nice jaunt too. I had to pick up my daughter from her mother in Louisiana a week early, so I told my nephew in Houston that I'd see him a week early too. We drove 12hrs to La, stayed the night, then a few more hrs to Texas. We stayed 3 days with my nephew and his family. On the second day he took us swimming in Galveston. That was the first time I've been in the ocean since I left Trinidad in 1981 at the age of 14! I didn't realise until then how much I missed the smell of the sea. We spent 6 days zigzagging through 6 states on the way back home. In all, we saw bits and pieces of 7 states: Iowa, Missouri, Arkansas Louisiana, Mississippi, Tennessee and Kentucky. Lots of hotels, lots of swimming pools, lots of restaurants and one brake job. We took notes about everything, including every single meal we ate. Maybe I'll write a book about my adventures one day. Then I'll be able to use the most effective pickup line ever: "Hello. I'm fabulously wealthy."

Darn it all. I still have 458 characters remaining. Maybe I can use them up with some silly stuff just to fill space. No? OK, I'm done for now.

so, anyway...
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
When you are horny what is the giveaway???
Posted: 5/25/2008 7:18:01 AM

Trust me if I am in a rowdy mood you will know it.

riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. only after the fact. women can fake arousal like nobody's business, so men don't know when it's real and when it's just teasing. of course all changes in private.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
has anyone tried the other online dating sites?
Posted: 5/25/2008 4:59:49 AM
i met my now ex-wife online, but it was not a dating site. it was actually a chatline for ravers, although neither of us was a raver and have nothing to do with that lifestyle.
number of people met from that chatline: 12
number of people met from hotornot: 1, yp: 1, pof: 1.
i finished the eharmony questionnaire but never bothered to pay their exorbitant prices. i still get emails from them advertising their latest discounts but they still won't let you even acknowledge receiving a message, so i automatically delete those messages from my inbox unread.
i did the same with Catholicdupid.com. i even emailed them a suggestion. they said they'd make the change and, if it worked out, they'd give me a free membership. didn't hear from that site again for maybe a year, until 2 days ago when i got a message saying i had mail. turned out to be their advertising, which i deleted unread.

I think a dating site should provide free allowance to women and charge men; this would in effect a functional equilibrium for me.

are you joking? imagine how the dynamics of online dating would change if only the women were charged and not the men:
1. women would simply not sign up, especially if they found out that men didn't have to pay, thus turning the site into a stag party
2. maybe the women would be more inclined to respond or initiate contact if they had to pay for it. yes, i know they do pay for the contact function on many sites.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
When women wear skirts...
Posted: 5/23/2008 6:44:47 PM

Most sane women don't wear clothes JUST to tease men..will you guys stop thinking that everything is about you. Her undies show when she sits because she is too stupid to wear a skirt long enough to cover herself when she sits, call it cluelessless, stupidity or lack of breeding, it is what it is..and its certainly not about you. If that was the case, she would run over to ride you in the food court but she isnt, Im betting.

You sound uptight and very typically American. Maybe if you moved to Europe, you would see that the human body isnt so shocking in its true form, at least not to the rest of society.

i don't think i could improve on this post.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Whats up with leaving your profile online when you'er involved ?
Posted: 5/23/2008 6:31:56 PM

I think there is plenty wrong with having a profile on a DATING WEBSITE when you are involved with someone. You know, there are PLENTY of online chat rooms for aaaaannnyyy interest you could name, that just don't happen to have, oh, SINGLES ADS on them! Blah to that excuse... "I like the forums." I for one would not be delirious with joy if my "new girlfriend" kept a profile on here. It's not a matter of trust, it's a matter of respect. Would you keep going alone to a notorious meet market bar because "you like the beer"? It's a perfect sign of "THE BIGGER AND BETTER DEAL" syndrome that seems to plague so many online serial daters. Gotta keep your finger in the pie in case the new fish screws up a bit...or has a bad day...or leaves a sock on the floor...or drinks water...or ah, looks out the window...or...

well stated. maybe the site should have another option in the 'male seeking female/female seeking male' section. i don't know what this hidden option is. does that mean that your profile is invisible until you post something or send mail? how about adding an option that says something like 'taken'? then your profile would not show up in people's matches. or is that how it is now? i remember reading a complaint in another thread that people who were already in relationships were, more or less, taking up space and adding to the competition that unattached people had to face. they were being added to favourites lists, receiving mail which they rejected, etc, all the while making it harder for those who were actually searching.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
When you are horny what is the giveaway???
Posted: 5/22/2008 7:28:36 PM
you realise that everything you females are saying is the same as teasing. what's the difference?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
ask a guy
Posted: 5/20/2008 5:02:09 AM
A guy gets home from work one day looking rather down.
His wife asks what's up.
"I got fired today" he says.
"What for?" she asks.
"Well, for the twenty years I have worked there, I have always wanted to stick my penis in the pickle slicer" he says, "Today I finally did, and I got fired".
A look of horror comes across his wife's face and she races over and rips down
his pants to inspect his penis. "It's fine" she says, rather surprised. "What happened
to the pickle slicer?" she asks.
The guy replies "She got fired too".
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
cannot delete posts/smileys
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:54:03 AM
Yesterday I posted a reply on some topic with no problem, but I realised that the smileys alongside the dialogue box included one with some obscene language on it. So, i tried to find out how I could post in the future without those pictures on my screen. After I looked through the site for a while, I was about to reply to another post that seemed related to my problem.
But, before I typed anything I noticed the screen looked different: the smileys were moved further to the right of the screen and some were lined up under the dialogue box. Also, the offending smiley was gone. I was happy about that at least, but I also noticed a notation next to the Cancel/Post buttons that said something like "Anything you post can not be deleted." That note is still there today.

So, why is the 'no delete' message there? (Yep, it's there for this post too)
Can I remove any or all the smileys from my typing screen?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
why do most white guy, there open 2 race,but if your not white or latina then there not interested??
Posted: 5/13/2008 5:41:02 PM

Molesworth is the smartest person in the room right now.

molesworth and amber rain sitting in a tree
f-i-s-h-i-n-g

ok, never mind.,
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
why do most white guy, there open 2 race,but if your not white or latina then there not interested??
Posted: 5/13/2008 4:25:07 AM
despite what they may put in their profiles, people tend to be most attracted to people of the opposite sex that are racially similar to themselves. same with hair colour: blond likes blonde, dark likes dark, etc. most, not all.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
why won't men say what thy do for a living - don't want their$$$$
Posted: 5/11/2008 7:28:49 PM

There are a few reason most men don't want to reveal what their job is.

-It's not a source of pride.
-It's by no means a profession.
-They don't make alot of money by it, and it would be obvious.
-It takes up too much of their time and are afraid the woman would make a judgement call about it if they have half a brain to know what the job entails.

-they don't have one
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Can McCain Rehabilitate America?
Posted: 5/8/2008 4:49:30 AM
ever notice how much mccain sounds like junior on the radio?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Panties -little shorts, or thongs, visable or not?
Posted: 5/6/2008 5:41:05 PM

A former GF of mine never wore panties because she feared the lines showing through her jeans. I don't quite understand the thinking behind that.

i agree with her. when i see panty lines on jeans it says to me the wearer is trying to wear jeans that are too tight for her. kinda of trailer trashy, if you ask me.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Panties -little shorts, or thongs, visable or not?
Posted: 5/6/2008 2:05:27 PM

i much prefer to see women wearing full cotton or silky panties,

hear hear
hair hair
here here
hare hare
all these slutty kinds of underwear don't do a thing for me except say the woman's quite slutty.

i just love to see panties visible above the backs of jeans

i can't stand that. to me it just says she could not find a pair of pants in her size, so she's using her little sister's pants. very unsexy.

and VPL is very very very sexy indeed.

what's a vpl?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Panties -little shorts, or thongs, visable or not?
Posted: 5/5/2008 7:34:28 PM

I was surprised to find out how many men actually don't like thongs? I always thought most men find them sexy.

not me. i just find them slutty and not appealing at all. those panties that look like severely cut off short pants are pretty trampy too. they look like they should be on children, not supposedly mature adults.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Would you at least want to talk on the phone before meeting
Posted: 5/5/2008 7:19:16 AM

Yes, phone should come first. Some fishies come across great in type, but give horrible phone. One person comes to mind that sounded like one of Marge Simpson's sisters (scotch & Marlboro voice) and was needlessly vulgar on the phone but wasn't online.
Not a good fit for me.
i know exactly what you mean. you can tell a lot about people by their voices and the way they talk. you can pick up on level of education, general intelligence, even attitudes towards some subjects. also, voices can be just as appealing or unappealing as pictures.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Men in tight shirts
Posted: 5/4/2008 9:37:59 AM

Most men won't wear tight fitting clothes because there is a homosexual association For example, the stereotype that sleeveless t-shirts are standard issue gay wear.
amazing what one learns from reading forums. used to be that tight clothes were to show off your body to the opposite sex. i don't wear baggy, but i wear loose simply because it's easier to move in.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
How mature are YOU?
Posted: 5/3/2008 4:44:13 AM

The biggest baby I ever met was a 41 year old man.

I'M NOT A BABY!! NOT NOT NOT NOT!!!!!!!! I'M NOT A BABY, YOU POOHEAD!!
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
 
How much does your vehicle say about you?
Posted: 5/3/2008 4:25:50 AM

they spend all this money on this hot looking car....
and then sit inside it


good point but the guys (in particular) who sit at the lights with their elbow out the window of their flash car want everyone else to be looking at it (and them) admiringly

[quoteAny car - as long as it emphaSIZES the size of my penis.
if you really want to advertise your virility and the appendage that makes you irresistible to women, you'll have to drive a van. a load of children in the back is physical proof that you get female action, that they want your body. just picked up a chrysler town and country. i'd have preferred something japanese, but i love the stow-and-go feature.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 123 (view)
 
Ginger?? or Mary Ann??
Posted: 5/2/2008 8:39:25 AM

I dream of Jeannie

barbara eden still makes me feel all funny.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
 
does internet dating make it a level playing field for geeks or ugly women/men?
Posted: 5/2/2008 5:06:58 AM

Internet dating makes it harder for geeks and ugly people. It is much easier to make a snap judgement about them based on their face, their stated body type, etc rather than risking getting to know them.

that's exactly correct, people. when was the last time someone said hello to you in a hall and you pulled out your tape measure to see if that person was within your ideal height requirements? i hope you say "this has never happened." in real life you'll meet a lot of people who fall outside of your physical requirements, yet impress you with their kindness and personality. you'll start to look forward to spending time with them or you'll begin to feel yourself releasing tension when you realise you get to work with this person again on this next project. it won't be love, but it'll be wonderful comfort. then you'll tell this person about all the troubles you're having with the person you dated last evening and your friend will listen sympathetically while realising that you will never understand why you're so comfortable in that presence, that you, the attractive person, will never see your friend as the perfect match.
when was the last time you looked at a man across the room and knew instantly that he likes to camp, fish, prefers reading over playing sports, has children but does not want anymore, likes redheads best? can you also tell that he stuttered as a child and is conscious of a possible relapse every time he opens his mouth?
maybe we should carry manila folders containing every possible detail about our lives, so if someone says hello or even looks at us, we simply hand her the folder and wait for her response. she might just leave the folder on another table for you and leave the room without telling you. saves both of us the terrible task of getting to know each other gradually. saves us from possibly finding out appealing details that were left out of the folder due to some clerical oversight.

But liars are liars and faking info on your profile is just stupid. Geeky or less than pleasant people often are fantastic people but liars won't ever be trusted.

oh, i don't know about that. people embellish their resumes all the time just to show what they can really do if only someone would give them just one chance. of course, there's some difference between embellishment and lying.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
does internet dating make it a level playing field for geeks or ugly women/men?
Posted: 5/2/2008 4:56:34 AM

Internet dating makes it harder for geeks and ugly people. It is much easier to make a snap judgement about them based on their face, their stated body type, etc rather than risking getting to know them.

that's exactly correct, people. when was the last time someone said hello to you in a hall and you pulled out your tape measure to see if that person was within your ideal height requirements? i hope you say "this has never happened." in real life you'll meet a lot of people who fall outside of your physical requirements, yet impress you with their kindness and personality. you'll start to look forward to spending time with them or you'll begin to feel yourself releasing tension when you realise you get to work with this person again on this next project. it won't be love, but it'll be wonderful comfort. then you'll tell this person about all the troubles you're having with the person you dated last evening and your friend will listen sympathetically while realising that you will never understand why you're so comfortable in that presence, that you, the attractive person, will never see your friend as the perfect match.
when was the last time you looked at a man across the room and knew instantly that he likes to camp, fish, prefers reading over playing sports, has children but does not want anymore, likes redheads best? can you also tell that he stuttered as a child and is conscious of a possible relapse every time he opens his mouth?
maybe we should carry manila folders containing every possible detail about our lives, so if someone says hello or even looks at us, we simply hand her the folder and wait for her response. she might just leave the folder on another table for you and leave without telling you. saves both of us the terrible task of getting to know each other gradually. saves us from possibly finding out appealing details that were left out of the folder due to some clerical oversight.

But liars are liars and faking info on your profile is just stupid. Geeky or less than pleasant people often are fantastic people but liars won't ever be trusted.
oh, i don't know about that. people embellish their resumes all the time just to show what they can really do if only someone would give them just one chance. of course, there's some difference between embellishment and lying.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
I need men's opinion on this one.....
Posted: 4/30/2008 9:50:42 PM
it sounds like he has a lot to think about, and so do you. long distance relationships are pretty well nigh impossible unless you have deep pockets and time to kill.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
marry for the money, kind of
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:02:04 PM

Wait a minit-I could marry a woman and get health benefits from her job???

that's about the size of it.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
is it cruel?
Posted: 4/30/2008 10:18:42 AM

I've been told by someone that it's just plain cruel to bring children into this world nowadays.

saying stuff like this is a fantastic way to lose all my interest in the speaker.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
marry for the money, kind of
Posted: 4/30/2008 10:16:49 AM

I hope your friend puts more into the relationship other than making him to be the breadwinner otherwise, it's just crappy for the guy to stay just to take care of her.

i agree with you that she needs to put more into the relationship. however, i don't think that will happen since she's told me she's not happy with him. still, 7%, although a small number, shows that some people are consciously thinking about this, in the usa anyway. in canada and much of the developed world it's not an issue at all. it might be a criterion to meet someone, but it might be a dealbreaker for staying with someone. that's what i'm asking about. it doesn't have to be POF people necessarily either.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
marry for the money, kind of
Posted: 4/30/2008 9:29:13 AM

Getting married for health insurance
By Ricardo Alonso-Zaldivar, Los Angeles Times Staff Writer
April 29, 2008

http://tinyurl.com/67zfu4

WASHINGTON -- Some people marry for love, some for companionship, and others
for status or money. Now comes another reason to get hitched: health insurance.

In a poll released today, 7% of Americans said they or someone in their
household decided to marry in the last year so they could get healthcare
benefits via their spouse.

"It's a small number but a powerful result, because it shows how paying for
healthcare is reflected not only in family budgets but in life decisions," said
Drew E. Altman, president of the Kaiser Family Foundation, which commissioned
the survey as part of its regular polling on healthcare.

is this kind of thing affecting your social life? more than that, is it affecting your choices of relationships? i have a friend who stays with her man because she says he pays the bills. her medical condition makes it very difficult to hold a steady job that will support her and her son.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
WHats wrong with we're not a match
Posted: 4/24/2008 10:17:26 AM
i suppose it's good to be clear that you're not interested in furthering a relationship. on the other hand, i don't like the wording "we're not a match." it may be purely grammatic, but using the pronoun "we" might be telling the other person that you've taken it upon yourself to speak for both of you. in other words, you might not feel you're a match, but that doesn't mean he agrees with you. maybe wording it differently might help.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
What does I want someone to who makes me laugh mean to you?
Posted: 4/7/2008 8:42:52 PM
this comes directly from my profile:


Speaking of funny, I've noticed something that I think deserves mention. I often see profiles that say "I want a man with a sense of humour." But what I've found is what many of those people mean is "I want someone who can make me laugh all the time without me having to make him laugh too." It is no fun always being the one who makes the other laugh with no reciprocation. I like a sense of humour too AND I like to laugh too. I like to have someone make me laugh too.

it's not a lot of fun when you have to be all the entertainment in the relationship.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
if your boy friend got into a street fight!!!
Posted: 4/7/2008 8:34:33 PM

I wasn't there for it... but if I had been those men wouldn't have penises now I'll tell you.

didn't it occur to you that they took a swing at a man because they found themselves...er.....lacking to begin with?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
SAGGING PANTS, crotch at the knees ... Do genitals really go down that far?
Posted: 4/7/2008 8:00:15 PM

The origin of wearing pants down that low comes from prisons. That's right, prisons.

don't they wear jumpsuits?

the wearing of poor fitting cloths is just a sign that they lack education and have no money

that's more accurate. the style really came from the slums where young children often had to wear hand-me-downs from older sibling and even parents, clothes that, naturally, did not fit. some 'image consultant,' also known as 'cool hunters,' saw it, called it 'urban' and sold it far and wide. it's the same as all those other "urban" trends, like wearing caps of famous usa sports teams (yes, i know people have been wearing them for decades, but they didn't become a fashion accessory until rap videos made it cool to wear merchandise from certain teams), or, well, even blues and rock and roll.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
dating men in the adult industry
Posted: 4/7/2008 7:39:27 PM

So what were the male responses to this question in reference to dating women in the porn industry?

although there are several men saying no, there are some saying yes in varying degrees. some say that other men might like to have the bragging rights of scoring with a porno star while others say they'd be concerned about competition from her co-workers.

it's nothing like this forum where the responses have been a collective and resounding NO.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
A girl in an adult career
Posted: 4/6/2008 9:44:03 PM
a similar question about this topic in the women's forum yielded simple NO answers. no ifs, ands or buts about it. it seems women are more discriminating about associating with people in the adult industry than men are.
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
dating men in the adult industry
Posted: 4/6/2008 7:00:17 PM

Is there a fluffer in the house?

a what?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
dating men in the adult industry
Posted: 4/6/2008 6:49:03 PM

Yes. He is having sex for a paycheck with other women. That is a prostitute. And besides, I don't share.

it's surprising and quite sad how many responses in the men's forum don't state a response as concise as this.

what about dating someone who used to be in the industry?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
dating men in the adult industry
Posted: 4/6/2008 6:22:51 PM
I know the pornography industry is geared mostly towards men, building fantasies of scoring with porno stars, still, women are involved. There's a thread on the ask a guy forum about men dating porno women, so I figured this could be the female counterpart. Would you date a man who's in the adult industry? Would his livelihood be an issue?
 vladtepes97
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Would you date a woman who doesn't want kids?
Posted: 4/6/2008 6:02:17 PM
dating a woman who wants nothing to do with children is not an option for me or for probably most fathers.

dating someone who has children and wants no more might be an issue, but not necessarily.
 
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