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 Author Thread: Lack physical attention from girlfriend
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Lack physical attention from girlfriend
Posted: 2/8/2010 11:42:37 PM
Some women are very affectionate, and some aren't. I don't think you can change her. She is who she is. Either accept her, or move on and find a woman who is affectionate like you are.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 141 (view)
 
Do girls use guys for sex?
Posted: 2/8/2010 11:41:09 PM
I imagine so. People use people and I don't think it's gender specific. Next time, make sure you're really in love with each other before moving in together.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
is he not interested anymore????
Posted: 2/8/2010 11:37:55 PM
You've only known him three weeks and you are talking about "the next level"? Why don't you just relax and enjoy your time with him and stop worrying about the future?
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
My plenty of fish experience
Posted: 12/8/2009 12:25:32 PM
You slept with him too soon. Take time to get to know a man before jumping into bed with him.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Is being faithful a thing of the past?
Posted: 8/3/2009 3:30:23 PM
Not for me. I've always been a faithful lover....but that's just who I am.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
What makes someone fabulous/irresistable?
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:58:02 PM
A charisma...a love for life - a passionate soul...all these things make a man irresistible to me.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Compliments
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:56:14 PM
Yes...personally...I love compliments. And I'm pretty free about giving them when I have good reason to.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 127 (view)
 
Fake Pics
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:52:47 PM
One man I met on POF has a picture posted that MUST have been 15 years old. He looked like a much older version of the photo. I don't understand why anyone would wish to mislead this way....it's betrayal from the very beginning as far as I am concerned.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Good Places to eat, and good places to take a date
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:45:16 PM
The Galley - at 2442 Main St., in Santa Monica has excellent food, a wonderful staff, a super nice owner, Capt. Ron, and a very nice patio outside in the back. I highly recommend the Alaskan halibut or the Mahi Mahi....both excellent. If you are a carnivorous type, I recommend the ribeye or the New York steak - they will melt in your mouth. The garlic mashed potatoes are to die for and the black-out chocolate cake is positively sinful!!!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
She said / He said - actual non POF date
Posted: 8/1/2009 12:10:13 PM
Yes. One man took me out and I felt no chemistry whatsoever with him. He droned on and on about himself through dinner. I wanted to leave the restaurant so badly but I was nice and remained, although my appetite disappeared. On the way home, he stopped at a car dealership to show me the new car he had just purchased. He sure had me wrong. Fancy cars do not impress me. Neither do fancy dinners. Character is what impresses me. A sense of humor impresses me. Humility impresses me.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Best and worse pick up lines...
Posted: 8/1/2009 12:05:29 PM
I'm told often "You don't look 54." What is wrong with looking 54?
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 188 (view)
 
How important is money?
Posted: 7/30/2009 3:23:39 PM
Unimportant to me. I care for a man's character, not his wallet.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 127 (view)
 
Dating is all about income
Posted: 7/30/2009 2:43:30 PM
No it isn't and if you believe that, you are meeting the WRONG women!!!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Why she never calls
Posted: 7/26/2009 8:55:08 AM
I don't like talking on the phone. I'd rather see a man than chat on the phone with him. I never call men. Also, I lead a very busy life. Do not assume that a woman doesn't like you just because she doesn't call. Some of us are not telephone people and some of us lead very busy lives which leaves very little room for phone calls.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
over 40 and never married...is this a RED FLAG!
Posted: 7/25/2009 9:29:40 PM
Not to me. I figure he just hasn't met a truly wonderful woman yet.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 77 (view)
 
why hapily ever after will never come for some women.
Posted: 7/25/2009 12:05:20 AM
I'm not looking for a perfect man - just a kind-hearted man.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Does facial hair on men over 45 make them look older or younger?
Posted: 7/19/2009 4:19:40 PM
I adore moustaches on men and 5:00 o'clock shadow is a big turn on for me.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Kissing in the Morning
Posted: 7/19/2009 4:14:48 PM
I'm an extremely passionate woman and I want to be kissed all the time.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 191 (view)
 
Justifying Cheating?
Posted: 7/19/2009 4:13:48 PM
I disagree. I've never cheated on a man or been cheated on either. I'm a very faithful person to a man. I don't think anybody should ever cheat. I think you should end a relationship before you begin another one, but that is just how I feel. Everyone is different and I try not to judge others.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Dating
Posted: 7/16/2009 9:05:35 AM
Is this a dating site? I get over 75 emails a day, yet no one asks me out. They mostly all read the same "Gee, you're hot." I'm beginning to think this isn't really a dating website at all.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 163 (view)
 
kissing on the first date?
Posted: 7/9/2009 10:43:20 PM
If we feel the chemistry, of course, why not? I know within 30 seconds of looking at a man if I want him to kiss me.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
good kiss / bad kiss
Posted: 6/15/2009 9:32:48 PM
A great kiss leaves me weak...makes my knees wobble, my whole body quiver...a great kiss leaves me wanting more.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Something ALL women on pof should put in their profiles
Posted: 6/15/2009 9:30:21 PM
Pay for your own dinner? You call this a date?? Hmmmm I call that going out with a friend. I do that all the time. I often do more than pay for my own meal...more often than note, I treat my friends to dinner. Dating is different. If a man can't pay for one simple dinner, I don't think he should be on a dating website.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
I don't kiss on the first date
Posted: 6/15/2009 9:27:32 PM
Rules are made to be broken - if you feel the passion, then KISS HIM!!!!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Favorite physical quality of the opposite sex.
Posted: 6/15/2009 9:23:08 PM
The first thing I notice is a man's eyes. Second - his shoulders.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Just plain UGLY
Posted: 6/11/2009 4:05:52 AM
She was cruel. You are NOT ugly. People that feel a need to insult have deep rooted problems that they need to address in therapy or maybe with he help of a family member or friend. I've seen this - often - I've been called horrible names - unjustly. Don't take this personally. It's her problem, not yours. She's lashing out at you - a stranger because she is angry at someone - in her past no doubt - who has hurt her so much that she cannot come to terms with this anger. Move on. Be positive. Don't let this experience stop you from seeking love and romance.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 227 (view)
 
If you're single and not dating, what's your reason?
Posted: 5/26/2009 8:36:28 PM
I don't get asked out that often...by men I wish to date.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
 
your forum posts...
Posted: 5/26/2009 3:10:11 PM
No I say exactly what's on my mind. No games from this girl.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Ladies-Deal breaker?
Posted: 5/26/2009 3:08:38 PM
if you make each other happy, size shouldn't matter
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Email her Number?
Posted: 5/26/2009 3:07:01 PM
She would've written her number on your hand or your stomach if she had no paper if she really wanted you to have it.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Women- does the Mirror Affect work for you in dating?
Posted: 5/10/2009 12:11:36 PM
I don't play games with men. I either like a man or I don't. Pretty simple.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 389 (view)
 
for the ladies....can you TRULY say money ain't a factor?
Posted: 5/10/2009 12:10:21 PM
Money doesn't impress me at all. CHARACTER impresses me.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 65 (view)
 
The bimbo-ization of women and its effects on relationships
Posted: 5/10/2009 12:09:16 PM
Some men are afraid of smart women, which is really ashame
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 94 (view)
 
A MAns HArd-On (question for the women)
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:53:17 PM
Yes - more than once. When a man feels a woman's body pressed up against his, a normal physical reaction is to become aroused.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 118 (view)
 
orgasm count, is he lying??
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:45:26 PM
21 orgasms in one hour is absolutely doable with the right partner
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 59 (view)
 
So when do you tell someone that you're no good in bed?
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:44:19 PM
No idea. I've never had to tell anyone that!!!!!!!!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Would you date a man who wore makeup?
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:35:20 PM
No. I don't like men who wear make-up or lots of jewelry. Be a man. I'm the lady.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 133 (view)
 
Spending the night
Posted: 5/5/2009 9:08:15 PM
If the feeling is right, and you don't want to leave each other, spend the night together!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
LYING ABOUT AGE ON DATING PROFILE!
Posted: 4/29/2009 2:48:08 PM
I want nothing to do with liars so if someone lies to me about their age initially, they're history.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
How do you deal with guys who come onto you strongly?
Posted: 4/21/2009 3:35:12 PM
If I'm interested...it's fine. Otherwise, I just kind of ignore it.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
What To Do If You Are Ever Stood Up...........
Posted: 4/20/2009 5:45:00 PM
I'd never do that. I don't play games...but if a man stood me up, I'd not reschedule.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How many first dates don't lead anywhere?
Posted: 4/18/2009 9:42:57 AM
Quite a few...if you don't feel any spark or chemistry, why continue to date? I don't believe in wasting a man's time nor his money.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Changing Pictures Daily
Posted: 4/16/2009 12:25:34 PM
I'm wondering if the OP is talking about me lol. I change pictures constantly. I am a ham in front of the camera so I have a ton of pictures and I get bored sometimes at work so I do change my pictures a lot. I had no idea anyone would ever be bothered or annoyed by this...I mean geez it's just a dating website. Why would anybody care if I change pictures every week or everyday or several times a day?
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ?
Posted: 4/16/2009 12:20:31 PM
Long hair, short hair...I just love hair.....any length!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
I Caught You Looking: Is looking at a profile a green light to make contact?
Posted: 4/16/2009 12:19:03 PM
Often men email me just because I looked at their profile. Doesn't bother me.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
dirty place- nice guy
Posted: 4/16/2009 12:17:59 PM
I'm not a neat freak but I wonder why he doesn't hire a maid if he hates to clean
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Should I call??
Posted: 4/14/2009 3:50:27 PM
Don't play games. Call her if you want to see her.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Are there any people left that date one at a time?
Posted: 4/6/2009 3:10:34 PM
I don't see the point of only dating one person unless I really FALL for that guy. At that point, not only will I stop dating other men, I'll leave POF!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 137 (view)
 
How long would you wait to have sex?
Posted: 4/4/2009 2:06:37 AM
I am never in a hurry. I like to go slow, get to know someone. Why rush it?
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Life is Too Short BS
Posted: 4/1/2009 3:23:01 PM
I sometimes squeeze 5 days worth of life into one day. Life really IS short.
 
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