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 Author Thread: Astrology Signs/ Age
 Bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
Astrology Signs/ Age
Posted: 11/5/2009 12:52:28 PM
If the signs aren't correct how can a search on them be valid? Why can't their be a question "show your sign or not?".... But POF calculates it so it is correct?
I've met too many guys with their sign incorrect on their profile!
Same thing with age. We should enter our age and POF calclates it so people can't lie, unless they do it upfront for DOB, and it adjusts when our birthday passes?
Bonita fish
 Bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
What Are the Fundamental Tools of Building Emotional and Mental Intimacy?
Posted: 10/9/2009 11:19:55 PM
There is a great book called "If Buddha Dated" and it has a list of events that assure that you are on the right path before sex. One item on the list is: have you had at least one big disagreement and came to a resolution.. I think that one item in itself is thought provoking. It shows that you have a certain level of respect for one another, that you can openly communicate, that there is a certain level of committment etc, etc.
 Bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
Why is it such a stigma to be an older bachelor?
Posted: 10/7/2009 11:24:57 PM
Just my own thinking. But anyone who reaches 40..57 and has never been in a LTR
does not have much expereince in life sharing.
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
Strangest compliment you've received lately?
Posted: 2/6/2009 4:48:55 AM
Do you know "People under estimate you"? What do you say to that? Is that good or bad? I decided to take it as a compliment.
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
Favorite Dog Breed?
Posted: 2/6/2009 4:00:25 AM
Portuguese Water Dogs: A true companion dog, always happy to come when called,
funny, loving, smart! A Large Dog in a Medium Package. They are strong, tireless workers. I like em best wet!
I have 7 puppies right now! Just opened their eyes!

Standard poodles: Smart, but don't mess with me if she doesn't know you!

I hate when people say that purebred does are stupid or messed up. It shows such a lack of understanding. Yet these are the same people that say I got a sheltie X corgi mix. If purebreds are messed up, why reference them at all?
Thanks for listening.......................
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
Which is the hottest zodiac sign in bed?
Posted: 5/11/2008 10:41:29 PM
Oh My, Oh My... depends on what you are looking for from a man..........But I'm a LEO! in case you were wondering.

I think there isn't a best, I think somes signs are more sensuous, some are more adventurous, some have more stamina, etc.

I had a male Leo friend say he felt like his Scorpio GF just "used" him for sex.
Funny, I had the same feeling with a Scorpio ex.
But neither of us ever complained about the Scorpio Stamina
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
Does accepting an expensive dinner from a man obligates a woman to have sex with him?
Posted: 4/12/2008 12:34:09 PM
NO she is not obligated. And yes there are men out there that think this!
If you see glimmers of this at all, get out of there as fast as possible. That includes calling a cab!
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 184 (view)
Movie quotes NOT to use on a first date.
Posted: 4/12/2008 2:09:20 AM
Well this might suprise you, but!!!! I think you shouldn't quote movies on a first date.
Reason? Because if the other party didn't see the movie they are going to think you left the planet for a second, and left them behind. Can you tell I'm not a movie buff?
It is pretty strange when someone blurts out this "fklfh something"
and you are wondering what in the H.... are they talking about! It makes for an akward moment and then usually a story, which has no relevance to you getting to know one another. I actually think it's kinda rude.
So that's That! and furthermore I love these dancing Pickles
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 444 (view)
Expain the phrase My children are my top priority?
Posted: 4/5/2008 9:09:51 AM
It doesn't bother me at all. I like kids, and they should be their top priority.
I have a friend who was asked to give-up her kids. I'm sure there are some women that would ask the same of a man. Go Guys!
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
$4 a gallon gas? WTF? What do you think?
Posted: 3/4/2008 2:33:54 PM
This one really gets me.
It will continue this way if people don't slow their consumption in protest and conservation. The passivity surrounding this issue amazes me.
The Iraqs can't help us. Their refineries were bombed by them and us so the infrastructure to delivery is seriously prohibited.

How many of you are still guzzling it up?
Wanna do something? Carpool, combine your trips. write your senator, ride a bike, use public transportation, walk, buy a hybrid.
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
Is it the end of the dating world if you are not good looking?
Posted: 3/4/2008 2:17:47 PM
Hell No!
I'm no beauty and overweight! But I enjoy life, am intelligent, interesting, and appreciate a good lover.!
So people enjoy being with me.
In regards to Men I look for, yes it's nice to look at beautiful people,
but if they are not intelligent, trustworthy, unassuming, likes animals and children, and fun I don't want them anyways. Truly intelligent men are not jerks with women.
It defeats their ultimate goal of finding a good woman in the end. Same for intelligent women.
Haven't you ever met someone that made you want to melt that wasn't "Beautiful"
you just loved who they were and wished you were with them?
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 246 (view)
what's so bad about spanking your kid? or anybody?
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:30:20 AM
Why would anyone want to hit a little kid to make them understand?
Unless you are out of control and have no other resources or facilties.
There are many many more intelligent ways to teach a kid.
Good Animal trainers don't hit their charges and many animals have less intelligence than a 2 year old.
Try teaching a parrot or your dog by hitting it and see what happens.
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
Tomato substitute
Posted: 3/2/2008 2:06:23 PM
I am soooooooooooo sorry.. I love tomatoes.. Good Luck!
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
Pet names too soon, why?
Posted: 3/2/2008 2:02:00 PM
What really gets me are people who abreviate your name or change it.
It's a real turn off for me to get an e-mail that says Hi Bonnie!
It's not my name.. Obviously they think they are getting familiar..
Quite the opposite............
 bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
Expanded orgasm - anyone experienced?
Posted: 2/25/2008 11:51:07 PM
Multiples could be called expanded because once you are there, there are only little dips between the next and the next. 30 minutes though? hmmmm...
 Bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
Michael Vick defended by the NAACP
Posted: 8/26/2007 4:43:12 PM
After some thought I am not amazed the the NAACP is defending Vick.
What Vick did was dead wrong. But I wouldn't be suprized if a white athelete did this we wouldn't even know about it.
Imus was dead wrong also, but you know he is not without a job. check it out.
I still see this kind of discrimination regularly.
 Bonita fish
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
Could someone please explain why she left me?
Posted: 8/26/2007 4:28:15 PM
If you are really committed to this relationship ask he to go to counseling with you.
Obviously there is more she needs to tell. If it doesn't help her, it may help you get some closure. Good luck
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