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 Author Thread: Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 1/17/2009 8:45:33 AM
some sex is overrated u just gotta find a professional.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 116 (view)
 
What Every Man Should Master And What Every Woman Should Teach
Posted: 7/2/2008 1:37:41 PM
what every man should master and what every woman should teach??? wat are we puppies?
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 7/2/2008 1:34:20 PM
i doubt alot of guys actually do that... of course i was with a girl, i couldnt get off with, but thats because she was unbelievably loose, so think about that factor too
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Can I get into a physical relationship with my erectile dysfunction?
Posted: 7/2/2008 1:31:30 PM
if u cant get it up ur in trouble guy..women hate that
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 109 (view)
 
Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 7/2/2008 12:56:57 PM
i think its kinda open and closed case too, most men definetly do most of the work in bed, call the chick boring if u want but, most of the just lay on there back and keep there legs open... only time a chick is working is when shes on top or giving a blow j, and someone stated its hard work giving one, but, and though ive never giving one or would, it doesnt seem like its a difficult task at all, just bob and lick and dont use teeth, shyit ukno how fast a guy has to move that tongue to try and get a girl off sheesh, that ish can leave ur mouth numb.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Do girls like to date bi men?
Posted: 6/30/2008 11:27:15 AM
ahh and c, i didnt even have to speak for any women, u see the majority of the posts here? need i say more... oh and btw im one of the very few guys who wouldnt get involved with a bi chick, and the reasons arnt worth mentioning at the moment, i gotta get ready for work anyway
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why are women more open than men?? about SEX
Posted: 6/30/2008 10:53:50 AM
im not really afraid of talking about things i might like to try to my girl, but i think one reason for some guys being like that is because society has taught girls to be more open about that kinda stuff, and guys kinda got the short end of the stick with being open to expressing themselves with anything that might feel good to us. e.i. we cant express feelings and stuff, because everyone has taught us, it would make u weak, and any secrete fantasy other than the norm(3 somes, etc.) might have people look at u different, like a creep/wierdo/homo.
but most of us would pay to see a chick engage in any of those things..
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 126 (view)
 
Not even spit, so forget about swallow....
Posted: 6/24/2008 11:43:35 AM
that sux for u guy she doesnt like to do that... those girls are amazing.... some chick made a post saying nut does taste like shit... now i wouldnt know but on the flip side... if u dont want to give head then dont bother expecting the guy to do it for u... it doesnt exactly taste like cherries either
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
How would you react if your son /daughter told you they where gay
Posted: 6/20/2008 9:09:33 AM
woa i agree with post 56 for sure nice point
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 57 (view)
 
how would you react if your son /daughter told you they where gay
Posted: 6/20/2008 9:01:43 AM
i wouldnt know how to react, because to me, man being with woman is natural, anything else to me isnt right by my standards ive been brought up to believe. call me closed minded, but that sorta thing isnt right to me, i dont care what sex it is who engages in it.... and to the poster who said they'd be happier if there daughter was gay rather than straight cause of how guys can be, news flash guy; girls do the same things as men do, guys cheat and lie, girls cheat and lie.
i wouldnt like disown my kid or nothing, it would certainly be different tho, but id still love them
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 6/11/2008 10:47:46 AM
only when it comes to oral on a girl, i wouldnt know about aa girls perspective on a guy, but its just logic, unless its compltely trimmed, u still might get hair in ur mouth, i was just stating a man is more likely to get hair in there mouth from going down on a trimmed chick, than a woman going down on a trimmed male, lie i said, if she uses her hands on his pole, and just focuses on his head, she isnt as likely to have that problem
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Penis envy and women's views re: the penis
Posted: 6/11/2008 10:19:05 AM
i doubt women envy men cause we've got a penis, thatsounds rediculous, like if i envied a girl cause she had boobs. and as a guy i think it would be more vital asking one if he was ruled by his penis, and not if chicks thought so, if a guy is honest he'll tell u, and no im not ruled by mine, thats silly.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 6/11/2008 10:09:22 AM
eh if its only trimmed and not shaved completely u could still get the "hair in teeth" problem... if u just stay on the head of it, and massage the shaft with ur hands, u shouldnt get thatproblem, but uve gotta get to the core of a bushy chick to please her tho :(
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
A man's lack of ability to Rise to the Occasion!
Posted: 6/11/2008 9:59:08 AM
i dunno about a guy not being erect at all and ejaculating, but u can be somewhat erect and do it.... it could also be the age the guy is at.. ukno parts tend to malfunction with age, cut the guys some slack and fulfill those sexual needs with a younger guy.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 6/11/2008 9:51:18 AM
eh i trim sometimes, mainly if asked, but its not like ive got a jungle.... its alittle different from a woman trimming herself than a guy doing it, at least u can still see the merchandise when a guy doesnt do it, but if a chick doesnt do it, her cooze gets gobbled up, then u cant even find it....from an a-sexual point of view it would still be easier to please a guy who doesnt shave then a chick, besides, most chicks never make it to the end of the pole anywayz
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Blowjob....what should they call it?
Posted: 6/5/2008 10:06:40 AM
meeting john
vein drain
talking to his buddy
comfort the baby layer
bill clinton-it
gambling with man-dice
play the flute
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:54:52 AM
9 monthes? so very new? naw thas a while in men time babe
ukno its funny, we cant be too quick, chicks complain, we cant be too long, chicks complain... sheesh, thassit, im going lesbian.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Masturbation=cheating
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:39:35 AM
--Masturbation is sex with someone I love (stolen from Woody Allen)

oh thas funny.
that girl is crazy, and her bf, sounds like some lame guy, who should never disgrace the rest of the male population, if he calls himself a man... id probly break it off with anyone sooo quick if they ever told me not to do it, lol thas hilarious.... if that is cheating, then that explains why ever girl keeps smashing my car and burning my clothes
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 71 (view)
 
What's this for??? [do men understand a woman's body]
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:22:26 AM
eh i try to find out what works from her through experimenting, every womens body is different so its not like a guy will automatically know how to please each woman he encounters. one of the problems is women dont speak up and let the guy now how she likes it, most just leave it up to him to figure it out, and when he doesnt they go and complain about it to there friends
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Do girls like to date bi men?
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:15:07 AM
im not speaking for all women, but its kinda a known fact most women dont and wouldnt date one, i dunno if there is a site with statistics, but im sure u came across people in ur life, and or people on these posts and in other forums who wouldnt
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:08:30 AM
yea id have to say its mostly a trend... i for one dont like followers. i do consider bisexual ppl confused, with loose morals, i dont consider the addressing of sexual orientation a label, its a life, the whole thing sounds unstable, how can someone not care what gender they have sex with, sounds irresponsible, and reckless, when u know what u want, its not gonna be two different things. i for one wouldnt date one, sorry to offend, but i get enough trouble fighting off men who try get with my chick.... and if u are the type who can be faithful to there mate and ur bi, good for u, but call me insecure or whatever u want but if a women isnt completely content in my gender as a man, and my abilities to please her she can move on
and then u have the chicks who are bi but wouldnt date a bi guy(im not bi btw), sounds like selfishness and hipocracy
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 674 (view)
 
Curvy Vs Slim
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:30:26 AM
slim but she gotta be pretty curvy
otherwise ill take the hourglass thanks
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Do girls like to date bi men?
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:15:41 AM
yea right.. so ur one of the few that does find gay sex erotic, but again most women dont think two guys goin at it is sexy
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:02:24 AM
ive gotta disagree with u on all counts guy, well kinda: yea alot of women actually dont give good blow jobs, and porn might actually be a big part of the reason, porn stars are required to cum on cue, and when the actors moan its usually faking it, simply for the viewers, to let us know yea there into it. the key, at least to me for all parties on oral is slow then fast, some girls stroke it like their rolling dice, it doesnt feel good to me.

-and of course men can tell which ones is good and which ones bad, im a nuetral g when it comes to me getting oral, id like to get it once in a while, but i wont die if i dont,
so i know when one is good if i cum quick, the wack ones are usually longer.
i know chicks dont like it when a guy comes too quick, but hey, be happy u got him to the point where he couldnt hold it any longer, and theres a different from a guy who jus naturally cums too quick and one who cums quick from a good bj, and if chicks dont like that he might cum too quick maybe u should suck at it more
lol and naw guy 99% of the bj's arnt amazing.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 93 (view)
 
Just eat me already!
Posted: 6/5/2008 7:38:09 AM
find someone else, some guys dont like doing it... too messy.... just look for a guy who does like it, and let him be with someone who doesnt.
i do give but alot of the time i dont like to, too much juices . if the girl doesnt get gag wet and smells fresh ill probly do it, otherwise nah.
id have to disagree with the guys who said it was an honor and privalege to do it though it can be a joy yes, but honor?
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Do girls like to date bi men?
Posted: 6/5/2008 7:23:58 AM
of course girls dont like to date bi men. now im not bi or anything, but just an observation of sorts, most girls think that sorta thing is nasty and couldnt deal with a guy they dont find completely masculine( and they dont think guys doing anal is exactly a manly man). also, theres the double standard, girls like to be with girls, and they like to please their man, or even a crowd, but a girl knows she isnt equiped with the neccessary pros a man might see in another man she cant except that, cant deal with the fact she cant be his everything. so inna way, alot are kinda selfish that way.
and i dont have any experience on the matter, but i'm sure most girls could probly perform lesbian oral better than most guys, maybe alot of guys are better in the vice versa sense
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 390 (view)
 
Curvy Vs Slim
Posted: 4/21/2008 11:25:32 AM
i like a thin girl with curves, and not too toned though
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Women That Wear Thongs...
Posted: 4/21/2008 11:19:49 AM
boyshorts are sexi, panties are def. prefered, i find it a major turn on, unless its too big for them, then its nasty...
ive never really liked thongs much.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Is having cybersex cheating?
Posted: 4/21/2008 11:16:47 AM
of course its cheating, unless ur partner excepts u doing that
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
If a penis could speak...
Posted: 4/19/2008 8:25:36 PM
well if my pen!s could talk he'd tell me to "make sure the girl takes a shower first, why do u keep doing this to me"
no im not sure about most guys but im not ruled by mine.
i doubt any guy is actually ruled by his penis as ppl like to put it... the penis doesnt have a brain, its ur thought process that allows u to be turned on, and its ur thoughts that will motivate u to say whatever it is u say to a chick because their thoughts give off such overwhelming lust that they dont think of something nice to say and instead ask something dirty
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
That guy smells like pussy!
Posted: 4/19/2008 8:22:19 PM
sounds disgusting. why would someone wanna walk around smelling like that
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
do girls find it sexy ??
Posted: 4/8/2008 4:29:30 PM
some girl said "Im sorry but as soon as i read this i wanted to puke! No offence but it makes me sick.. not sure why.. However i've tasted myself... so i guess i just think that a man doing it just seems sickening.. not sure why.. maybe its cause i've never had a man wnat to or do do this..."
sounds like a hipporcrit.. ive never done it but if that sounds sickening, how could u not see it as sick for a girl to do it??
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Are certain sexual encounters considered gay?
Posted: 4/1/2008 12:32:24 PM
pleasuring urself sounds "gay"? thats a silly opinion.
and yea if u like to be with girls or kiss them ur probly gay/and vise versa
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 98 (view)
 
FASTEST YOU HAVE EVER GOTTEN SOMEONE IN BED
Posted: 3/28/2008 10:48:48 AM
its never taking me longer tan 3 days to bed a girl, not bragging or anything, its just girls like it when ur not a jerk :)
fastest was within two hours of meeting this girl for the first time after less than 1 hour of conversation total on the phone.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
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What do women think when a guy comes too quickly?
Posted: 3/28/2008 10:42:22 AM
if the sex isnt that good i can usually last a while.
im no minute man by any means, but i understand women wanna get off too, but sheesh if ur ish is good, at least enjoy that part.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 111 (view)
 
Bitch take this dick.................
Posted: 3/23/2008 11:49:15 AM
i wouldnt say these arnt ladies, nor call them hookers..
ive been with girls who like to be disrespected in the bedroom, name callin ass slappin, hair pullin, all that ish
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Gentlemen prefer ...?
Posted: 3/21/2008 9:16:10 PM
thas a stereotype.. all guys dont prefer blonds... i personally dont find all blonds attractive/most. i prefer, dirty blond, or a red head , or blond streaks, in a brown head
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Leaking
Posted: 3/20/2008 11:01:11 AM
wow i didnt know guys do this... i dont though, thats wierd
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Have you ever had sex with a person you didn't find appealing...
Posted: 3/19/2008 7:18:23 PM
ive done it/ do it sometimes, not the best thing, but, at least i let the person im not into know that i dont want to be with them(hmm the still wanna do it though, hmm whatever)befor we do.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 383 (view)
 
I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 3/18/2008 8:23:26 AM
well theres a couple of things u can do:
-kill her
-wait 6 monthes then hire a guy to punch her in the stomache
naw j/k
or-move away and dont give her the address(if shes devious enough to try that, desert her, and let her take care of the kid herself.

i dunno what id do in this situation, whatta snake. ive heard of guys breaking condoms on purpose but most of those times its just to feel more sensitive sex, i doubt there is a great poppulation on men tryna get some chick pregnant on purpose. i did hear somewhere though that if ur sperm get exposed to air, its no longer usable, so if thats true, then maybe she had to turn it inside out before she put it in...
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
 
money inside her bra
Posted: 3/18/2008 8:04:14 AM
i think its kinda tacky, especially if shes sweating.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Way to a womans heart..
Posted: 3/18/2008 7:48:16 AM
the way to her heart? um
u have to go through ur wallet first.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
hummmm... really?
Posted: 3/16/2008 1:01:46 PM
um some girl posted this at the top:Any man who complains that a woman is too wet deserves to be kicked out the bedroom. What a silly post.


i wouldnt go as far as too say that, being nice and lubed is great, but i thnik a girl can be too wet. ive had one or two of those, and i actually thought it was nasty, i couldnt even eat her out anymore cause she made me gag the first time i tried it.
dont get mad about the guy who doesnt prefer it, just find someone else who likes to go swimming.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Could you let your girlfriend/boyfriend be bi-sexual
Posted: 3/16/2008 12:47:29 PM
well there isnt really a question of "let" in this post.
i would never date a bisexual chick, and if i was with a chick and she expressed shed like to be with another chick id probly dump her.
thats nasty, and the double standard these chicks here is stating is funny
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Compromises during sex, what is and isn't acceptable?
Posted: 3/16/2008 8:06:53 AM
i can be with a girl who doesnt ever wanna perform oral on me
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 161 (view)
 
Ever have a crush on a cartoon?
Posted: 3/16/2008 8:04:36 AM
hmm lets see, well this is moreso a video game, -street fighter alpha's "rose"
and "ayane" from the game "dead or alive"
nakoruru from the game "samurai showdown"
as for cartoons: um, the blond hot girl from the old movie"cool world" before and after she was a cartoon
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 59 (view)
 
What are some good tricks when going down on a woman??
Posted: 3/16/2008 7:47:33 AM
i think im actually starting to get sick
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 86 (view)
 
bi-sexuality - r woman doing this to be more attractive to men?
Posted: 3/15/2008 10:10:58 AM
of course women do this to excite men.
however, im the guy who will avoid u for the rest of the night if i saw u kissing another girl. thats wack
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
why does it take guys longer to heal?
Posted: 3/15/2008 9:55:16 AM
because women get emotions quicker than a man, in time a mans emotions become stronger... ukno alot of women dont get that men love harder than women.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 117 (view)
 
are some girls too caught up in looking for the perfect man?
Posted: 3/13/2008 1:19:49 PM
i think people who settle for what can work and what is still good for them rather than what is perferct, are more realistic: the perfect mate, physically, emotionally, and finanicially actually doesnt exist, its always something wrong about someone, and i think people who get married to people who arent there dream angel, just realize that that person really isnt out there.alot of girls contradict themselves in what there looking for.... a mainly man, but also soft and cuddly? <--- but then they like to complain men act differently around there friends around u? confident but modest? dependant, but independant?<--- either im calling too much, or not enough, sheesh.
thatd be nice if my dream was out there, but probly not, glad i can draw though. :)
 
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