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 Author Thread: Why do so many people lie?
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why do so many people lie?
Posted: 2/17/2008 9:27:29 AM
then their are some that couldnt sleep a wink knowing that they lied
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
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Many Views, Few Posts - Correlation to Apathy towards Dating?
Posted: 1/19/2008 10:07:33 PM
personally speaking, i reply when the mood strikes me, i might be angry from work or had a few to many beers.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Are there some types of careers that you simply don't click with dating wise?
Posted: 1/19/2008 7:25:07 PM
i look at occupations also, maybe cause if they are also in construction i wont feel so self-consience about the size of my hands, lol just found out i wear a 9 and a half ring, omg is that big lol
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Dating 2 years and no committment
Posted: 1/9/2008 4:39:46 PM
you know, i personally would have no problem with a relationship like that, but obviously you do, i agree with lisasfine, it bothers you, you want more, so go for it. i know a mommas boy , except mommas lookin to pawn him off on a woman, mostly cause shes worried about when shes gone [sweet lady]. thats a caring momma.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
The Gift of Goodbye
Posted: 1/6/2008 11:43:34 AM
i think thats pretty honest
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
so disgusted
Posted: 1/6/2008 11:18:48 AM
you need time alone to self evaluate,,,,,,, you worth more than anyone says
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Ahh... forget it!
Posted: 1/6/2008 5:28:56 AM
funny thing trailsman5, i was just thinking of throwing in the towel myself, just this morning. started seeing a fellow fisherman, he asked me to delete my profile so we could fish together unencumbered. see this am his profile is still active while ive hidden mine, wtf. i give up.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
The ex.
Posted: 1/6/2008 4:01:54 AM
im pretty sure that the family court doesnt require a lawyer to set up visitation rights. once those rights are in place, if she refuses your visitation rights she could be jailed.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 149 (view)
 
Relationships without long-term expectations...?
Posted: 1/2/2008 11:56:57 AM
hmmmmmm guess im not normal, lol my ex b/f and i were together eleven years in separate households. we might still be together now if he hadnt insisted on moving in. once he moved in he seemed to think he had the right to control things [must be a guy thing]. by control i mean, tell us when the phone should stop ringing and how long the kids were allowed to talk [keep in mind its my phone and im still paying all the bills] well, that was a short live-in situation. i had to find him an apartment. lol the point is, we are all different, what works for some would never work for others.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Another year has come and gone... NOW are you desperate?
Posted: 1/1/2008 6:58:56 AM
thanks for the laugh tyrone , lmao
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Should we try to change in order to make ourselves more desirable?
Posted: 1/1/2008 6:44:26 AM
this being new years day, ive thought of this already. since im a female construction worker, and very work oriented, i dont exude the feminine qualities that most men are looking for when wanting to date [damn that tom-boy youth, lol] but am i willing to pretend im something im not just to meet someone? guess im not that lonely yet, lol
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 144 (view)
 
What are the courtship rituals
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:25:17 AM
ignoble, back in the fifties? no they didnt, they did what their moms did and thought they should be happy doing it. of course then the men came back from war only to find the once submissive wife hmmm more independant
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 142 (view)
 
What are the courtship rituals
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:11:56 AM
lmao nothin tastier than a ruffed grouse,,,,,,, ohhhhhh guess that response should be in the cooking forum lol
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 140 (view)
 
What are the courtship rituals
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:10:09 AM
in all truth, i think the change happened during the war when women had to go work in the factories because the men were all out fighting, it made women realize that they can do more than be a domestic servant or goddess if you prefer. regaurdless, it made women realize their potential.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 82 (view)
 
is it really about looks or the heart of the person that counts
Posted: 12/28/2007 4:29:35 PM
i truly believe that if you avert your attention from the looks initially, you may find the true soul beneath and in that soul, true love. im not saying this cause im full of it, i know this from experience. ive posted this in the past.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Doesn't call during the week
Posted: 12/28/2007 3:04:20 PM
i just want to throw one more thing in the mix here cause its my excuse, maybe hes not a phone person and maybe he has to talk with people so much during the week that hes happy to have the quiet time when he gets home, hmmmm?
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Mars-vs-Venus,is it real or just BS?
Posted: 12/23/2007 7:45:38 AM
i never read the book , but from what post no.2 said,,,,,,,,,,,,, in the adult world, i find that true. i work with all men and it is as she said. i feel like a babysitter on a day to day basis [guess thats the testosterone in the brain] by the time my day ends , im claiming testosterone overdose, guess it was exuded into the air, all i know is, im hap-py to go home to my animals
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 121 (view)
 
First date- and he ogles the 22 yr old waitress all night
Posted: 12/16/2007 9:05:40 AM
he later told me he didnt really think it was that nice,toooooooo late
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 120 (view)
 
First date- and he ogles the 22 yr old waitress all night
Posted: 12/16/2007 9:00:21 AM
omg same thing happened to me with my ex,,,,,,,, i was 8 months pregnant and he and his buddy were commenting on how nice her ass was,,,,,,,,,,, if only i had had my truck keys,,,,,,,,,, it would have saved alot of years cause idda been gone
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
What do you do when you're all alone?
Posted: 12/14/2007 5:08:58 PM
first above all, you have to like yourself, find your self-worth, realize that you are a worthy person. after that, what other people think means nothing.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
are some people not MEANT to be in relationships?
Posted: 12/9/2007 7:51:58 AM
i wouldnt say we are selfish, post no. 3 maybe self-sufficient, self-reliant, maybe we are just content with ourselves. afterall if you arent comfortable alone, how can you be comfortable with someone, and i might add, why count on them for your happiness?
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Now it's your turn fella...
Posted: 12/9/2007 6:38:23 AM
i gotta agree. its frustrating when someone keeps e-mailing that they want to get to know you, yet never ask pertinent questions to achieve that goal.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 108 (view)
 
Have you ever clicked on a profile, only to find....
Posted: 12/7/2007 6:44:55 PM
funny, i found my childhood friend on here, yes he lied about being married . how do i feel? numb.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Oh what a relief it is...
Posted: 12/7/2007 6:12:25 PM
i always remind myself during a break-up of the failures, not his necessarily, but ours. what wasnt working, what annoyed me, why wasnt he there and could i live with that.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Would you ever have a relationship with someone who resembled a close relative?
Posted: 12/7/2007 6:03:17 PM
i met a guy this year that looked like my brother,,,,,,,, really nice guy, but i couldnt get past the looks.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
gals that don't cook,guys that do
Posted: 12/2/2007 1:28:36 PM
work so hard and long, id love a man to cook
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 206 (view)
 
8 times today?! WHY?!
Posted: 11/25/2007 7:45:56 AM
i realize this is an old post but im constantly asked how i could still be single, why some man hasent sucked me up, i usually respond, i gotta deal with testosterone alllllllllll day, im happy to go home to none. explains why im single huh? guess im in a bad mood today lol
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
dating your best friend...
Posted: 11/25/2007 5:40:18 AM
most people think on the line of instant chemistry or love atfirst sight, but love can evolve. you can be friends or work aquaintances one month and without realizing the whys or reasoning, find your in love.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Scorpios and Virgos
Posted: 11/24/2007 3:11:49 PM
according to astrology, capricorn and virgo are suppose to be soul mates
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
finding it hard to find someone on here
Posted: 11/24/2007 2:58:49 PM
i think your attractive, havent read your profile thou.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 188 (view)
 
i can believe everyone has been ditching me because i don't have a picture ....
Posted: 11/24/2007 2:54:35 PM
i might add, im still friends with some.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 187 (view)
 
i can believe everyone has been ditching me because i don't have a picture ....
Posted: 11/24/2007 2:49:58 PM
ive met several on here, no picture posted. guess cause i challenge them in away. tell them i meet daring souls. you gotta be daring to meet someone sight-un-seen afterall.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 163 (view)
 
Does True love Exist?
Posted: 11/22/2007 9:19:54 AM
some people have morals and a concience, that might be restricted to the bulk of the female population, i dont want to start another argument here, yes i know women cheat too.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
People who are unsuccessful at getting dates
Posted: 11/22/2007 8:56:57 AM
you know, when i least expected it, i fell for a guy with a big nose, over weight , not the typical man that most women look at, but his humor, honesty, intelligence, just swept me away. most people look at another and are instantly looking at chemistry, but, chemistry can evolve.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 206 (view)
 
The Shocking Deterioration
Posted: 11/22/2007 8:45:35 AM
men sag and become imperfect too
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 205 (view)
 
The Shocking Deterioration
Posted: 11/22/2007 8:38:14 AM
ive seen many old couples still holding hands, and looking at each other with love in their eyes, guess thats what i want, maybe a frutile idea.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 82 (view)
 
What to say to a guy if you want to wait?
Posted: 11/20/2007 2:36:55 PM
seriously thou, if he truly cares for you and your relationship, he'll wait for you, just tell him how you feel.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
What to say to a guy if you want to wait?
Posted: 11/20/2007 2:34:29 PM
lmao msg 3, at least i know my cat likes me lol
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Men and Women and Anticipating Needs
Posted: 11/18/2007 1:56:30 PM
i work with men alllllllllllll the time, those i work seem to think they should get paid for showing up. in a relationship, maybe that means, i came home.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
What is the good of a relationship?
Posted: 11/17/2007 4:45:00 PM
guessin the benefits to a guy are more beneficial, cleaning, cooking, share expenses, etc. yesssssssssssss i know im jaded. lol
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Why do some men and women get off on using people?
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:24:13 PM
seems like someone was only interested in an intimate encounter.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 88 (view)
 
What are men really looking for on these sites
Posted: 11/11/2007 9:26:50 AM
lol post number 9, ty for the laugh, i needed it.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Blame it on the parents? When does it stop?
Posted: 11/9/2007 5:34:24 PM
in away i gotta agree with post 23, just because my dad was great is not to say others were, i guess we all see our childhoods differently. guess the true question is, what did you learn from it? how can it help you in the future? it might be a plus or minus, but you can always learn.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Blame it on the parents? When does it stop?
Posted: 11/9/2007 4:57:14 PM
ive never blamed my parents, in fact i owe my long past dad all the respect that i get on a day to day basis, and ill tell those that ask. i am who i am because of him. he was my soul, he was my mentor.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Desparately seeking closure
Posted: 11/9/2007 4:44:39 PM
i keep thinking i want to find love again, [so i know i still have a heart], but this is heartbreaking, im not sure i want to experience love if this is what its about. maybe ill just take a walk in the woods with my coonhound instead.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
love yourself more
Posted: 11/7/2007 5:12:45 PM
im certainly not an authority on this but, ive been alone most of my life, off and on, and i came to the conclusion years ago that one who is not happy alone will never be happy with another, you can never count on another person providing you happiness. its only when you have been alone , truly alone , that you can learn about yourself, and learn to love yourself. [and those that are thinking it,,,,,,,,,,, put your dirty minds away] lmao i thought it as i typed it. lmao
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
The Checklist
Posted: 11/7/2007 4:28:14 PM
i guess i really do live in a stagnant , work revolving world, as my list is so much less then those i have read so far,,,,,,,,
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Have you ever felt more like a counselor or sounding board than date on the 1st date?
Posted: 11/4/2007 8:33:49 AM
dispite the delivery, we are people behind this devise , yes i know its intrusive to spend your time delivering sound advice to people, but there will always be listeners in the world and there will always be talkers, its up to you who you are.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What are the chances for my age group to find a gentlemen?
Posted: 11/4/2007 8:10:05 AM
i hope you educated yourself to the point where you are self-sufficient, in my mind that is the most important thing a woman can do for herself, at least what ever you choose after that......... if it fails , you always have yourself to rely on.
 coldasconcrete
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Have you ever felt more like a counselor or sounding board than date on the 1st date?
Posted: 11/4/2007 7:39:29 AM
you know, im wondering why this post was up for deletion. maybe cause it really has merit? orrrrrrrr those the choose to delete have never had anyone need their counsel.
 
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