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 Author Thread: The best advice you've ever gotten???
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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The best advice you've ever gotten???
Posted: 2/1/2010 5:12:53 PM
Never forge anything,by an old con I was 6.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Friends that want more..
Posted: 1/24/2010 8:14:19 AM
Why turn her down? She knows more than you in this regard
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Why did my ex start a new relationship so soon?
Posted: 1/22/2010 9:57:44 PM
You played a role.It's the"love",not the victim. Many are like she is,worthless in her mind.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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The Creativity Inhibitor Chip
Posted: 1/22/2010 9:54:40 PM
Writer's block is learned.From adults limiting themselves.
It's true I'm a trumpet player-54 years.I ordered a trombone:how hard can it be?
None of my musical peers give it a thought. Expect to blow the room away and ya will,mostly.
Creative is our natural state.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Sanctuary of the Soul.....
Posted: 1/22/2010 9:46:18 PM
Like"A Severe Mercy"...C.S. Lewis?
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Exploration
Posted: 1/22/2010 9:44:27 PM
I've been 65 feet down/mask &snorkle.My SCUBA gear got lost.And I fill my tanks.
It's so fun: danger and oppournity are the same Chineese charachter.
I get ???by jumping 150 ft. into water.
SCUBA's better.I've never been scared(or certified).Or safer. Sure is in the top 10 for me.
Go for it!
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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why do men hurt women for
Posted: 1/21/2010 6:34:47 PM
My pal paid rent on her place,moved in w/him.When he showed the bad side she moved back.
Ya gotta be ready.But most guys are not weasels.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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What to do now after a dump the sexy guy?
Posted: 1/21/2010 6:32:06 PM
Tell guys you'll do that,but to pay it no mind as you are gunshy(or trepidatious).
And don't choose,make'em sexy.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Oppositional disorder: real or just an excuse for bad behaviour
Posted: 1/15/2010 8:28:18 PM
I was made to allocute to my crimes and,almost in tears,got a swat on the bum.
I'd have to see 2 types of brain scans to determine if a physical reason(brain tumour) exists before answering.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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The wrong answer
Posted: 1/15/2010 8:22:52 PM
The questian was inconcomplete....100% right answer,'cause using physics was absent.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Is it ok the send email after going on date?
Posted: 1/13/2010 2:42:18 AM
More traditional to write.And the more ya want a second date,the more ya oughta play to their "tell me "type friends.
A"bread & butter note...invaluable w/the intrusive types.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Intros/Outros?
Posted: 1/13/2010 2:35:07 AM
Well, 48 bar transitions were usual for the Grateful Dead...are for me...
fake a fade,next song please.If you prefer not,ok,but a few unexpected changes do a lot.
I'd talk specifically if ya wanna.You CAN do it!
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Men get screwed too,
Posted: 1/13/2010 2:27:12 AM
If a girlfriend wanted the milkman,ought ya not buy him a new truck...as her happiness is your concern?
Guys can deserve and not get.And not complain-life's not fair.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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All right, have at me!
Posted: 1/13/2010 2:23:00 AM
A profile is designed to elicit one response. Unless dating is entertainment.
Being w/the only sig. other who"gets"ya...is more fun!
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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dating with no sex...
Posted: 1/13/2010 2:16:51 AM
Your dates ought to,as the querry,ask / explain what they expect after dinner.
If ya make 'em think,andthey still treat ya like an"escort"...gotta be morally adrift if 10 drinks oughta get me,in my opinion,sex.
These are "Johns"...what does a guy like that think you are? If my sister got that treatment...sexual assault ... This can't be the norm,can it?
Go to the Gun Club,then the black dress.
Guys can be deserving,sort of,without expecting,eh?
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Multi-instrumentalists... Talk to me!
Posted: 1/12/2010 6:06:45 PM
As long as your main talent is ok.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Sex and drugs and rock n roll.
Posted: 1/12/2010 6:03:08 PM
You like it.Must be great.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Mexico - Where to Go?
Posted: 1/5/2010 5:02:24 PM
Sonora...Herimiso's the town.Safe clean 120 miles from the beach.500=14 days.
Unless,like me,residuals cover a 7 suited compound.Take a few pals/drink mescal.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Any success stories about getting a man to the dentist?
Posted: 1/5/2010 6:55:18 AM
"I can't commit more to you than you commit to enlightened self-intrest. Fix the teeth or find a co-dependant dentist". If he'd give you up to postpone his care he'd allow kids to go untreated.
DDS's commonly pre-sedate patients. And we men always cave.
(I know the best dentist in Washington State.His dad was best 40
years ago :lived next door...)I digress."oh, and after the app't.come back,not before!




















ago
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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ulterior motives on the forums
Posted: 1/5/2010 6:42:35 AM
Did ya cave?
I can't be myself: not happenin'.
Ulterior motives,faults of others:I see'em in myself and yell at someone else.Used to...
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Classical - want to learn
Posted: 1/5/2010 6:38:35 AM
Try Baroque first.
But that's me. A"pops"show is not me.Scarlatti on melodian.
The classical in general was written for church or patron.
If ya like it-it's good.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Your Music Collection and use of it
Posted: 1/5/2010 6:31:51 AM
Songlists set the mood,bring the party to a close.When"Happy Trails"plays people are gone.
And music reinforces: church,Nazi drinking songs.
The Grateful Dead and LSD,1975.
Beware of what your child sings.More than speech.

My uncle owns a radio station,so access is easy,but streaming media,'cause it's not good to listen only to what I wanna hear.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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I think I need some dating advice.
Posted: 1/3/2010 8:43:25 AM
Tell her what to expect.
I'll take you out a few times and if there's no spark I'm outa here. Or we can be pals.
Simple.
At 60 I've got"pals" who wanna be sig.others,but...40 is too young for me.Mabye?
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Waking up with a song in your head
Posted: 1/3/2010 4:36:03 AM
It's a God thing. Sing it!
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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What Happen To Rockin' Horn Bands?
Posted: 1/3/2010 4:34:28 AM
"Asleep at the Wheel"...comperable to Don Scott&the L.A. Express!
I'm a horn player-55 trumpeting years. So I think I know.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Gotta have the funk!
Posted: 1/3/2010 4:31:26 AM
"Smile"...7 white dudes in 70 something outa Spanaway. Best I've heard.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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child philosophy?
Posted: 1/3/2010 4:26:59 AM
When your child refers to something way beyond years and is not repeating he is the philosopher. And he can benefit from"discovering" yours.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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common sense is it really common
Posted: 1/3/2010 4:23:49 AM
Common sense is rare. Takes time.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Moved without calling
Posted: 1/3/2010 4:21:52 AM
Imagine the granite floored rotunda,strong,with cracks that hurt at one time.
As your heart. You're not comprmised by a few breaks.For the best,I think.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Fairness Versus Rights
Posted: 1/3/2010 12:48:08 AM
"Seek justice,love mercy" is how I've heard the distinction.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Wicca
Posted: 12/3/2009 1:36:59 PM
The only Wicca lady I know is not nice at all. But I cannot prove causation.
If I advocate I emulate.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Drugs Visions and the Bible question
Posted: 12/3/2009 1:33:59 PM
We have so many silly rules now. Ya don't need drugs to free your mind,head,soul...
C.S.Lewis,noted Christian writer was glad of LSD.Not it itself,but it's showing us there's reality beyond the known and visions come true.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Are healthy living issues a deal breaker?
Posted: 12/3/2009 1:21:31 PM
Darlin':if he cares at all he'll be runnin' 'round exersizing...to spend more lively years w/you!
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Finding your creative outlet?
Posted: 12/3/2009 1:17:26 PM
Very important to be creative,serendipitious in all ya do.
Try'em all. Mine is playing a trumpet,performance. But on the golf course I get creative too(5bucks a hole).
Find whatever it is and get paid to do what you'd be doing if ya had a billion.
If you study enforced absense of it...prison. So don't let go.
What makes you happy ya just were there? A decorator ought to stop at a watering-hole catering to 4,000.00 suits. Work w/a realtor...
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Does Biblical matrimony need a women's liberation revision?
Posted: 12/3/2009 10:36:49 AM
Look at Psalm 31...the perfect lady.And her husband is described.
And no one sees itOne thing I'll say-he's a Judge(sits at the gate-sitting is the position of judgement)
So you don't know this sort of thing.Study a little why don't ya.
















the equiv:modhammer:
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 66 (view)
 
one month to live
Posted: 12/3/2009 10:26:52 AM
The way I live ought not change at all.
We have no control time.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Treating toddlers for autism boosts IQ
Posted: 12/3/2009 10:17:13 AM
My company cleaned Seattle Children's Home,a group of homes for autistic 'teens.
They who gain some control are not head-banging but using a piano or? to express what they must.
Someone knows the name of a mild autism,fixation to the point of tears if ...
For physicians,musicians-cool...
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 126 (view)
 
Men over 45 who dye their hair
Posted: 12/3/2009 12:28:53 AM
Since I'd never ask a lady,Should I be asked?
At 60,brown.65 is time for Arlo Guthrie-white in my case.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Finances and expenses - responsibility and commitment
Posted: 12/3/2009 12:24:37 AM
Never co-mingle funds.Tennancy in severality. Spend one's own money.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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teeth issue
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:52:31 PM
Ya ought,regardless of your relationship, to help her out here.
Mindless act of kindness...nothing held back or expected.
She didn't have propper dental care somehow and you can fix it.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Ramblings of a Female Perv...
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:32:55 PM
You remember"Zorba the Greek"...old movie...Zorba maintained that God could not forgive any man who denied you if ya asked'em.
I'll be 60 this year...Zorba's got a point!
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Security Blanket
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:27:35 PM
Keep your broken heart in play.
It was always yours.
The guy you'll meet someday will totally want to make you happier.
He won't be perfect.
But he'll get it right.
Someone's gotta be the heartache tonight

Dosen't need to be you Charles
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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What is art?
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:34:00 PM
Like the Supreme Court Justice remarked on pornogrophy"...know it when I see it".
Or experiance it.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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What turns you on?
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:31:07 PM
Well,a trio...sax,coronet and either trombone or mellowphone.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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big bands, chicago, illinois, usa
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:21:55 PM
I learned trumpet by listening to Louis Armstrong 78's and still have the 40's in my songlist.
I can find rare 78's but they're pricey.
My help is free-just give me a band/artist list.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Musicians, What is your favorite cover tune to play?
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:16:18 PM
Ghost Riders in the Sky/Friend of the Devil
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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lonley
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:11:45 PM
Being alone means you're not stuck w/"second best".
Lonley...I'm not ever.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Philosophies of math...Includes essay...seriously
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:04:59 PM
Math is a language.
My dad was a(no other words for it) a rocket scientist who supervised some folks who only were fluent in math-couldn't match socks...He'd say not a language-THE language.
The other side of that coin is music,as one is usually harder to grasp.

I perform music without thinking about it

The math person has to think about music,but math comes without thought.
I think one is as abnormal as the other,only absent from the DSM 4 'cause both types are functional.
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Believe!
Posted: 10/3/2009 12:55:41 AM
When we "belive" we get comething wrong.So how complete is belief is revelant
 chaswhatif
Joined: 4/30/2005
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Why don't people stay together anymore
Posted: 10/2/2009 4:33:14 AM
Sometimes that happens... My grandparents could afford single beds,choosing not.
But if your destines seperate you?
Our g.parents -lucky. Many couples stayed in a mutual hell as divorce was trash.
 
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