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 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
How him to appreiciate me more?
Posted: 2/18/2010 1:01:12 PM
Lead by example.
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
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What does dating mean to men?
Posted: 2/18/2010 11:30:25 AM
Maybe the guys that aren't getting sex are just looking for sex?

Dating to me is meeting a woman and determining if we are compatible for a relationship, friendship, or just sex, or nothing at all.
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
how long to wait?
Posted: 2/18/2010 11:22:07 AM
I keep hearing from women that if you aren't trying to have sex with her by the third date she's going to think you are not interested.
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Twiddle my thumbs and wait for him or something else?
Posted: 2/18/2010 11:08:08 AM
Kudos for seeking help when you needed it.. many people think that it's weak asking for help! :)

Just be honest with him and hopefully he will return the favor.. take things as slow as you like. You are young and attractive and have plenty of time to mess up and learn!

Good date ideas would be something a little active ( bowling, playing pool, dance class ) Something that doesn't have you sitting there looking at each other which makes many people nervous. Good luck!
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Picking a meeting place - am I being too inflexible?
Posted: 2/18/2010 10:55:01 AM
I'd drive all the way to meet you just so I could whisk you away to a hair salon to get that 'do fixed.
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Advice wanted
Posted: 12/4/2009 12:35:45 PM
Women are attracted to men that women are attracted too.

Same old story.
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Can you fall in love over one cup of coffee?
Posted: 12/4/2009 12:34:18 PM
If the coffee cup is made of diamonds.. more than likely a woman can fall in love that quickly.
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
guy advice
Posted: 12/4/2009 12:26:30 PM
Most likely you are getting plenty of messages but they are from men that you don't find attractive. Saying you were last single at 16 kinda makes you sound as if you can't be happy single.. which is not attractive to most men.
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them?
Posted: 12/4/2009 12:21:35 PM
My bulging bank account says that being single is just fine with me.
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
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what is normal and what is crazy?
Posted: 12/4/2009 12:19:45 PM
"I am a woman in my 30s who is still dating and trying to find my future husband. I am one of those girls who wants to get married desperately. "

You lost like 90% of men right there with that scary statement.
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
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do guys really like thick girls?
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:15:42 PM
A few men are attracted to obese women.

As stated post a few full body shots and men that are attracted to your body type will contact you.

BTW: Average is not obese
 ron_mahogany
Joined: 9/24/2007
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Should I pursue this or forget it?
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:13:57 PM
Your profile says you are looking for "Friends" so what does it matter if he asks you out or not?
 electric_paladin
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Most comfortable date ever
Posted: 5/7/2009 12:06:30 PM
Comfort is great.. but no passion isn't something I'd be happy with.

Need some energy!!!
 electric_paladin
Joined: 9/24/2007
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complimenting guys on first message?
Posted: 5/7/2009 12:04:32 PM
I like them!

I could be having a bad day and one nice compliment makes me shine!
 electric_paladin
Joined: 9/24/2007
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Have you ever recognized someone from POF on the street?
Posted: 5/7/2009 12:03:36 PM
I've had people ask me if I was on PoF before.. we had a good laugh.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
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only after one thing almost every time! Ai yi yi!
Posted: 11/25/2008 12:50:00 PM
If you were aiming a joke trying to hide an accusation at calling me homosexual.. you epic failed.

Don't tell me who I can and can't speak for.. kk pumpkin?
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
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only after one thing almost every time! Ai yi yi!
Posted: 11/25/2008 12:31:48 PM
It's true. Men are mostly out for one thing.

And thank us for that. Without that sexual drive none of you would even exist.

So do yourselves a favor ladies.. learn to offer more than a pretty face and a hard body.

Work on the inside.. because like as all the ugly people say "It's what is on the inside that counts" and after we get what we want from you ( sex ) if you have something more to offer ( intelligence ) we might stick around.

.... maybe.... there's a lot of ovums out there and we have unlimited DNA to match up with it... just sayin...
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Why do guys say looking for friends, but want sex? What am I doing wrong here?
Posted: 11/25/2008 12:14:16 PM
Men lie for sex.. duh.

Now why do women lie?
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Confused... Male perspective please!
Posted: 11/25/2008 10:37:17 AM
I was kinda with you until you slept with him.. twice.. then my slight sympathy turned into me sitting here on my $1500 office chair laughing at you.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Scarlet letter to identify an HIV or AIDS carrier?
Posted: 11/25/2008 10:28:49 AM
Each person should have to carry a card that another person can swipe at a clinic to check their sexual health.

And there should also be dating sites for people whom have STD's so they can exchange fluids back and forth with a clear conscience.

oh.. there are such dating sites.. I just looked a few up... wow.. that surprised me.

hmmm.. wonder if there's a hot chick with HPV that has lowered her standards!

:D
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 695 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 11/25/2008 9:58:48 AM

I am actually quite good at them I would like to say for the record. My ex bf used to always praise me on my technique, not all girls are against it guys!! :P



No man is stupid enough to complain to your face about your fellatio skills.

The female sexual ego is weak and can not withstand even subtle criticism in my humble experience.

The second you make a comment it's all huff and puff of feathers and good luck ever getting it again from her.. so .. most men just take it as to them.. any head is good head.

kkthxbye
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
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he said he doesnt know if he wants to be with me?????
Posted: 11/20/2008 12:16:57 PM
Have sex with him immediately.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 642 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 11/20/2008 11:43:52 AM
Long as she doesn't cry every single time after sex.. I'd be able to go without getting fellatio.

It's not like many women are actually good at it anyways.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
I'm just a simple country boy...
Posted: 11/20/2008 11:34:11 AM
I'm well hung urban professional with a waxed chest and perfect teeth.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 205 (view)
 
How should a very fit 40 year old dress?
Posted: 11/20/2008 8:19:35 AM
A person can dress how they want, but they should not be surprised or offended by the kind of attention they obtain from it.

As Dave Chappelle said:

"Lady.. you may not BE a hooker.. but you are definitely wearing a hooker's uniform"
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
How to Look Good Naked
Posted: 11/20/2008 8:12:41 AM
Because in reality.. women are more concerned with physical beauty.

You can't argue against a multi-billion dollar makeup industry.

Women have the most plastic surgeries done for purely cosmetic reasons.

Most diets are targeted towards women.

You could say that the media is a bad influence on women.. but that media would cease to exist if women stop buying it.

Unless a man has held a gun to a woman's head and forced her to be attractive this issue is 100% the womans fault that she has such a low self-esteem about her physical appearance due to lack of confidence.

And why men don't worry much about their looks?

Becauase women still are attracted to men with power... and on this planet.. money equals power so all a man has to be to increase his dating pool size is be successful at his career and the women will come to him.

His actual looks aren't that much of a concern.

Example. If I walk down the street dressed in an old baseball cap, some dirty jeans and a ratty old T-shirt I smile and say hello to every woman I walk by and am greeted with eye rolling and "pffft.. whatever" 's.

Now I go home and change into my suit and put on some expensive shoes and display some gold.. those same women are now much MUCH more responsive.

So.. that's why men don't have to spend 2 hours every morning getting ready for work. :)
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
How Does A Girl Get What She Wants/Needs
Posted: 9/12/2008 7:46:30 AM
Your problem is you don't know what you want and expect the man to know telepathically.

Lemme know how that goes.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
how does this letter sound?
Posted: 8/29/2008 10:31:35 AM
Welcome to what men have had to face for the past.. oh.. .. forever.

It's called fear of rejection and women fear that most of all as you don't have much experience in getting rejected as you don't put yourself in a position to get rejected.

Tell him how you feel or he's gonna move on.

Worse thing that will happen is he will say "No.. thanks"
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
how does this letter sound?
Posted: 8/29/2008 10:23:18 AM

the reason i didn't say so earlier was because i didn't believe a woman should make the first move. It's just un natural. Men who are interested would jump off a plane to be with the person they're crazy about. I wasn't even going to send the letter at first and not let him know but changed my mind at the last minute wanting him to feel good.



It's 2008. Women are now equal to men. Make a move or sit there unhappy and alone.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Opinions please??
Posted: 8/29/2008 10:19:24 AM
Kiss him.

That will let you know for sure.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Why do men flirt if they already have a girlfriend?
Posted: 8/28/2008 12:51:19 PM
Same reason women in relationships get all tramped up and go clubbing with their girlfriends at some posh bar and get free drinks all night.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
why does success not work the same for both genders?
Posted: 8/26/2008 3:19:07 PM
Women are attracted to men who have women attracted to them.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Guys I Need Your Perspective
Posted: 1/25/2008 1:14:06 PM

I have that friend, and I warned her against getting too over the top in love with someone she's never even met (yes, she does that OFTEN). Just trying to reel her in, because I AM the friend she comes running to when it goes bad on her (and so far, every one has been a disaster--she should NOT be online dating)


hey.. what's her email?
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What celeb would you date and why?
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:32:09 AM
Fine. A hot coco and Baileys, yer majesty?

lol
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Age - cock it and pull the trigger
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:31:04 AM

and I just realized that all the guys in Georgia are friggen short.


What's this about?
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
What celeb would you date and why?
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:25:10 AM
You've been spying on me again! lol

Why not come in and have a beer and we can blow up dolls together?

C'mon.. it will be fun!!! Then we can coat them in peanut butter and throw them into a dog pen and laugh at the women whom have "MUST LOVE DOGS" in their profiles.

:)
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
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What celeb would you date and why?
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:14:18 AM
Tera Patrick.

For personality and her amazing body.


I am most like Adam Savage from Mythbusters. In both physical appearance, personality and intelligence... and I love blowing sh1t up.

http://images.43things.com/profile/00/01/9b/105416pw400.jpg
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Short notice.
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:04:23 AM
I always ask at least a week in advanced as my week is normally booked with things to do.

Unless we just happen to be down the hall from each other and I finally paid the janitor to give me a copy of the broom closet key for some private one on one sexy actione with the woman!
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Age - cock it and pull the trigger
Posted: 1/25/2008 9:57:38 AM
Not a girl.. but not yet a woman.....
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Do guys have body image woes?
Posted: 1/24/2008 1:07:26 PM

Issues...no, I don't think so. I have confidence in my looks, and I've had that reinforced by enough people who are not my mother to not worry about them even though I'm equally sure that I'm not every woman's idea of happy fun land to drool over.


Ya. I have had sex with more than one woman. Obviously I'm not a completely ugly little troll.

Besides I make good money and could buy love... or at least rent lust for a weekend.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Do guys have body image woes?
Posted: 1/24/2008 12:44:52 PM
No. I just worry she has body image woes.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Guys I Need Your Perspective
Posted: 1/24/2008 8:10:25 AM

"for evil to prevail, it requires that good men do nothing".


shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.. you just shush.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Friends, dating, hangout
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:57:00 AM
There are also women whom list "friends" and put "not looking" yet drop their panties when Dr.McDreamy winks at them.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
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What do women mean when they say I feel safe with him?
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:49:55 AM
Means she put you on the friend ladder and you get to hear about all her sexual conquests.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Why do men brag about money?
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:45:49 AM

You fail to state with that comment that cavemen use to drag their women around by the hair of their head as a sign of affection!!!

You are also being judgmental as well in classifying all women as looking for men to take care of their kids, since that is YOUR view on women, might I suggest you gain some self esteem and work on Y OUR choices of women in which YOU choose? Not all women are like that, nor are all men self serving **stards trying to buy women, no wonder this mentality exists on both sides, too many people judging a whole gender on the actions of some.


I only judge what I have seen with my own caveman eyes.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Friends, dating, hangout
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:34:54 AM

women are emotional and to be intimate means a little more to some of us.........


That's why men invented romance.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Friends, dating, hangout
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:26:51 AM

Man: Hi, how's it going?
Woman: Do you want sex?
Man: Sure, sex is good.
Woman: Then why didn't you ask for sex directly?
Man: What? All I did was say hi and ask how you were.
Woman: You're like most men.
Man: I should hope so.


EXACTLY.

Christ on the cross... why are women so afraid of penis?

If it wasn't for men doing all the work in dating there would be no people on earth.

Sex is part of dating... if men didn't go for sex with women.. we'd have all died off eons ago.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Is chick or broad offensive?
Posted: 1/23/2008 8:32:18 PM
Chick = small little cute fuzzy animal

Broad = BIG FAT HUGE ASS BEEP BEEP WIDE LOAD
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Guys I Need Your Perspective
Posted: 1/23/2008 11:28:09 AM
Well... a friend of a girl that was doing the same to me actually called me and told me.

Difference is the girl I was seeing LIED that she wasn't seeing anybody else.. so I appreciated the call.

I was getting feelings for this girl and she was treating me like a boyfriend.... but was also doing the same to 2 other dudes.

No thanks.. I'm not gonna be just another love sick puppy following her around.

The call was a cold slap to my face and woke me up and I was able to move on.

Lying is a deal breaker.
 evileddy
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Guys I Need Your Perspective
Posted: 1/23/2008 11:18:09 AM
Oh yes I know one of those types of women.... bad news.

They treat you like a boyfriend.... but forget to mention they have 4 other boyfriends.
 
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