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 Author Thread: Rudeness
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Rudeness
Posted: 2/22/2010 7:13:39 PM
lol....lady wa wa.....what lesson do you think he's been learning to date....how about maybe I can walk all over this woman and she'll put up with it....

Boit
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
is it ok for him to still be checking his profile?
Posted: 2/22/2010 6:53:35 PM
....I don't see the big deal if he isn't acting out.....he could be here on the message boards and getting dating advice.....like should I dump this girl I've been dating cause she's always checking up on me.....hell, I've met married people on here just wanting to chat some.....it's not just a dating site for some....it's a meeting place.....

B oit
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Would you consider this a deal breaker?
Posted: 2/22/2010 6:45:05 PM
....dealbreaker....

Boit
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Rudeness
Posted: 2/22/2010 6:38:16 PM
....why not walk faster....faster than him....if he speeds up.....you walk faster....that would be a funny way to make your point.....as far as the affection goes.....I'd do the same thing....withhold it....don't even shake hands....basically.....exagerate what he does to make fun of it....and smile.....at this point tho....I don't see how you can avoid a dump....maybe....but unlikely.....

Boit
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Ladies. Dating hint to the wise - lose the cat
Posted: 1/16/2010 9:18:44 PM
hey pshoogboog....how many guys do you see with pictures of their fish? lol....that's funny....
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
What to do?
Posted: 1/4/2010 1:39:58 PM
.....dreamerzzz....funny post and right on.....

BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Ladies. Dating hint to the wise - lose the cat
Posted: 1/4/2010 1:12:10 PM
....hmmmmm.....I was thinking after my last post.....I may get a cat since I just sold my Miata (Man Rule #158: If you have a Miata AND a cat.....you're probably gay or people will think you are)....any kittens for sale?

BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Ladies. Dating hint to the wise - lose the cat
Posted: 1/4/2010 1:06:51 PM
I'm on the border here.....I could tip either way....I love cats....especially kittens but like dogs too.....but when I see one human picture and, like 5 animal pictures.....ikt get's me wondering....lol

BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Would you consider this a deal breaker?
Posted: 1/4/2010 12:59:25 PM
....Dealbreaker.....

BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
i met this guy at a party last night
Posted: 1/4/2010 12:52:33 PM
I assume he was kidding when he said, "you're bad for luring me in like this". Obviously, you're not doing anything wrong. Although he never volunteered the info about his girlfriend, he's not married or engaged. So there's nothing wrong with having "friends" in the wings if things don't work out. Nothing wrong with keeping your options open. Make sure you do as well.

BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
What if they dated married men/women?
Posted: 1/4/2010 12:45:08 PM
At risk of imposing my morals to this subject, this speaks highly about his character. Two people have said their vows before God. Even a moral "atheist" should have a problem with this. Unless, of course, he doesn't know. How do you feel about all the women who were having relationships with Tiger Woods? Doubt any of those women didn't know he was married. The wife should divorce him and take him to the cleaners. He was wrong and all the other women who knowly got involved in sabotaging their marraige. Certainly would be a "warning flag" in my opinion.

BT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Truth In Advertising
Posted: 1/4/2010 12:33:46 PM
"Pad the package".....I thought only rock stars did that....lol....remember the movie, THIS IS SPINAL TAP....hilarious "going thru customs" scene.....

BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Huge....Assets....
Posted: 1/4/2010 12:28:17 PM
....a face only pic should suffice.....that will keep all the "wise guys" from making comments......and if asked for more pics, then that's your choice....

BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Am I wrong by cutting women off completely. If they have dated someone else after me?
Posted: 1/4/2010 12:21:24 PM
....well, we're all different....there is no "right or wrong"....you can't change the way you feel....even if you want.....if that's the way you feel, then that's that.....both of your scenarios have happened to me.....with the one I went out with for a while, I gave it a try (getting back together).....it just didn't work for me and we eventually parted ways. The 2nd scenario has happened to me.....and it didn't matter to me....we ended becoming very close........I guess I never held it against her since we hadn't really lit the spark yet....anyway.....bottom line....you're not wrong because of how you feel...so don't sweat it.....

BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
I am tired of kissing frogs
Posted: 1/4/2010 12:03:27 PM
"There was an old man walkin' down the road and he came upon a frog. The frog looked up and said, "Hey....if you pick me up and kiss me, I'll turn into a princess." The old man stared at the frog in disbelief but did nothing. "Seriously.....pick me up and kiss me and I WILL turn into a princess." The old man bent down and picked up the frog....put it in his jacket pocket and walked back down the road. "What are you doing???? Kiss me and I'll turn into a princess." The old man reached in his pocket, looked at the frog and said, "At my age.....I'd rather have a talking frog"

BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 131 (view)
 
he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/4/2010 11:49:49 AM
...sorry Melanie.....didn't mean to "boit"....
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 128 (view)
 
he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/2/2010 8:03:01 PM
......he is not necessarily a "bad guy" here....kissing is much more intimate than sex....if anything, she is the one that needs guidance here.....she says she cares about him but it's obviously a one way street.....remember in the movie, "Pretty Woman", the rule for prostitutes was to NOT kiss.......so they wouldn't get emotionally involved....she broke that rule and ended up falling in love with Gere's character.....again, kissing is higher up on the emotional scale than sex......at any rate, this lady is foolish if she thinks this relationship will go anywhere......he will meet someone eventually that he WILL kiss and she will end up feeling used and hurt.........BOIT
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Not kissing on the first date.....why is that a problem with some men.
Posted: 7/19/2008 12:45:21 PM
I'm sorry but I think this guy is an idiot. How rude and insecure. If I knew I had to kiss on every first date I had......I don't think I would date. If it's right it happens, if it's not.....it doesn't.
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 143 (view)
 
Would you date a man if he was unemployed and living with his parents?
Posted: 7/19/2008 12:36:32 PM
I agree with the poster....if I was a woman, I wouldn't date someone who had been unemployed FOR A WHILE or living at home FOR A WHILE. Big red flag IMHO.
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Can you date a political opposite?
Posted: 7/19/2008 12:32:09 PM
My best friend (a lady) is the political opposite of me and we have some stimulating conversations. I lean conservative and she leans liberal. Hasn't been a problem. But if a lady was extreme liberal or close minded, then it might be a problem.
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
what does SEX do for you besides...
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:42:00 PM
.....less stress.....better sleep......good exercise......good prostate health....breaks up the monotony of the football offseason.....
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Is there such a thing as a confirmed bachelor???
Posted: 5/11/2008 11:19:46 PM
Never Say Never
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Guys with facial hair.
Posted: 5/11/2008 11:02:58 PM
When I was young, I think I did it because I felt it made me mature. In my thirties, I liked the way I looked clean-shaven. Later, I liked the way I looked if I had a beard (short and trim), goatee or stash. So...........I think we do it because we like the way it looks. That simple.
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
After a first date, should the girl contact the guy to say thank you?
Posted: 5/11/2008 10:46:17 PM
Absolutely not.....tell him you had a good time after the first date....let him be the one to call you......maybe later on after the friendship develops, I don't think it matters much....
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 136 (view)
 
Is height important guys?
Posted: 5/11/2008 10:40:55 PM
To most guys.....I don't think so.....I love 'em tall....I love 'em short.....of course, if she was as tall as Wilt Chamberlain or short as a fire hydrant......that might be a problem....lol....
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Would it be a turn off?
Posted: 5/11/2008 10:28:13 PM
I don't see why you really need to tell him at all. Just relax and be yourself.
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Ladies, do your partner's nocturnal erections bother you?
Posted: 3/19/2008 7:31:07 PM
......was mounted once while still asleep.....talk about surprize....thought I was dreamin'
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Have you ever had sex with a person you didn't find appealing...
Posted: 3/19/2008 7:13:58 PM
....never have.....and probably never will......
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Vibrators versus men - advantages --disadvantages
Posted: 3/19/2008 7:10:10 PM
.........another advantage.......will never fart under the covers.....
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Touching a manĀ“s butt?????
Posted: 3/12/2008 8:31:18 AM
Hmmmmmm......I do not mind it one bit......actually, a butt massage is one of my favorite massages (after a foot massage)
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Why is it when women are on top, it seems like men come almost immediately?
Posted: 3/11/2008 10:52:47 PM
As has been said.....all guys are different......with me, I last longest when she's on top. This is good because she can set the pace and use me to cum......then I get her down so one or two legs are over my shoulders and I'll join here shortly thereafter.
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 178 (view)
 
Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off
Posted: 1/18/2008 8:59:23 AM
I lik'em....just not too big or too many.
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
He Doesn't WANT Sex?
Posted: 1/18/2008 8:56:06 AM
Well, I can't speak for other men but for me....my sex drive goes through peaks and valleys. Sometimes I want it almost every night and other times.....just once every 2 weeks is fine. The worst is doing it when you are really not into it. That can kinda turn you off eventually. I don't know why there are peaks and valleys. Maybe work and everyday stress or maybe even genetics....who knows. I've never talked to anyone about it. I just accept it for what it is. I would say to give him a month or two. If he doesn't change then you may have a problem there.
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Ladies: guy kissing you or asking to kiss you?
Posted: 1/11/2008 8:11:27 PM
Why not send her a strict form letter 3 days in advance by certified mail asking her if you may kiss her on the date......put on your big boy pants and freakin' kiss the girl's lights out for god sakes....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Your Dating Strategy
Posted: 1/10/2008 3:54:45 PM
True.....if she castles first....I'll be impressed.....if she executes an "en passant", I'll be dazzled.....if she gets my king....I'll be in love...lol....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Your Dating Strategy
Posted: 1/10/2008 6:38:21 AM
Strategy? Wow I really must be lost. Nobody ever taught me stategy....except for tennis and chess.
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Does anyone else suck at talking on the phone?
Posted: 1/10/2008 6:23:08 AM
I too hate talking on the phone...was just talking about this the other day. I like to keep calls down to 5 minutes. Much rather be face to face. Even IM is better than phone for me. I'm glad I'm not the only one.
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Are geeks the new chic?
Posted: 12/17/2007 10:31:59 PM
"It's Hip To Be Square" -Huey Lewis and the News-
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
socks or no socks
Posted: 12/17/2007 10:06:33 PM
Well....how would you feel about this picture......buck naked but black socks pulled up over knees while wearing black pointy Italian dress shoes.....also, maybe some sort of dress hat.....like a fedora or something......is that a little over the top??? (hehe)
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Sex after so long a time
Posted: 12/17/2007 9:33:07 PM
If someone on the first date is asking you how long it's been since you've had sex then trust me, you don't want a 2nd or 3rd date with that guy....you're not missing a thing.
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
freinds with benefits relationships
Posted: 12/17/2007 9:20:26 PM
Sorry....but it's friends....not freinds....I believe the rule is "i" before "e" except after "c".......no, I'm not an English teacher but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night......so.....as far as the "freinds (lol) with benefits relationship".....I would ask the question, "Isn't sex one of the many benefits of a healthy relationship?" Other benefits would be companionship, dinner dates, movie dates, exercise partner, massage partner (yay, baby, yah), etc..... I think some people confuse FWB with FB....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Squeaky or Quiet Bed?
Posted: 12/17/2007 9:02:32 PM
.....I am currently looking to trade my quiet bed for one that squeaks.....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Do men like it in the morning?
Posted: 12/11/2007 9:57:27 PM
....personally, I like the mornings best.....sometimes late after work, I'm tired and horny but in the morning I'm more energetic after a night's sleep.......and still horny....lol
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
What name do you call it?
Posted: 12/11/2007 9:47:41 PM
......THE GENERAL.....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Curvy Vs Slim
Posted: 12/11/2007 9:41:32 PM
I agree with Dutchpirate....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Squeaky or Quiet Bed?
Posted: 12/11/2007 9:28:21 PM
...all sex is pretty much good...the relevancy has to do with external stimuli....sight, sounds, smells all add to make the experience better.....the sound can help you establish an ideal rhythm.....I believe that's why many prefer squeaky....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
women are natural sex experts?
Posted: 12/10/2007 6:06:14 PM
I think men are natural sex experts while women are natural relationship experts. This, of course, is a big generalization where there are many exceptions. Hence, the movie, The 40 yr. Old Virgin....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Russians & Sex
Posted: 12/10/2007 6:02:45 PM
...my experience with Russian women seem to verify RNBF's above post....very sensual.....uninhibited.....and they didn't make a big deal about sex....it was like, something else to do.....let's play chess....that's fun.....let's watch TV....that's fun....let's go shopping.....that's fun.....let's roll around in the bed....that's fun......also, the ones I knew liked to be on top and in control.....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
What am I doing wrong
Posted: 12/10/2007 5:48:24 PM
....nice guys finish last....go to www.heartless-****es.com/ and read.....
 boit
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Getting emotional
Posted: 12/10/2007 5:32:46 PM
....experienced this only once.....she was 18, I was 30....our 2nd time....right after she came, she started bawling....I was shell shocked....half an hour later, we were back at it again.....never happened since....
 
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