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 Author Thread: Will u talk to a girl who puts out on the first date after that??
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Will u talk to a girl who puts out on the first date after that??
Posted: 5/20/2009 4:43:58 AM
Of course, that doesn't mean that both people necessarily came away from the experience wanting a relationship. Again, everything doesn't always work out in that way, but the spectre of "sex=relationship"causes too many hang ups for too many people.
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Will u talk to a girl who puts out on the first date after that??
Posted: 5/20/2009 4:41:03 AM
Funky smells aside (definite deal breaker!), there is absolutely no reason not to continue contact if BOTH people had an otherwise enjoyable time together.

Let's face it, everyone seems really hung up on this whole notion that you're some sort of bad person (male or female) if you become intimate "too" soon. What's the difference if two people do it now, or six months from now, if both of them want it to happen? You ARE an adult aren't you?

As long as it's consentual and discrete who cares?
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Ladies stop settling for bootycall status...
Posted: 5/12/2009 7:37:50 AM

...some men are just looking at woman like fun meat


HAHAHAHA! What a GREAT line! Fun meat...HAHAHAHAHA!


Can I get that in the deli section?

.........................................................................................................................
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Ladies stop settling for bootycall status...
Posted: 5/12/2009 7:33:31 AM

You don't want men contacing you for a booty call, yet you post photos in your profile of your tits hanging out of your top and laying around in your panties? What else is a man to assume, but a piece of ass?


Umm, which profiles were these?

Gee Beav, that Eddie Haskell ALWAYS gets the good ones!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Gals in commando
Posted: 5/12/2009 7:29:04 AM
Cat fight, CAT FIGHT!!! YOWR!!!!!


I don't really care......I just know for a fact I don't

well damn well you sure got your crusty granny panties in a knot over it.. OH my bad, I forgot you let that *** flap free in the breeze....LMFAOOOO
*yikes*



I was just questioning who the hell wears skirts that short..and especially w/o panties!!

you need to get out more.. not everyone goes commando in bohemian attire.. duh!




I have no smell lingering upwards or outwards even when I wear a skirt w/ no panties! Now if ya' wanna get your nose all up in it....that's a different story!


ugh spare us the details puleeezee....I'm sure you smell like a nubile princess down there, right?... riiiiiight.... and who gives a ***? really ugh all that personal info youre puttin forth on your um regions needs to be filed under TMI...and f*k no I dont wanna think about anyone getting their nose up in it.....*gack* careful now.. you dont wanna come off like a skank do ya? LOL

Once again, you seem to be the only one, jumpin all over it taking it personal like it was directed to YOU.. For someone who claims " I really don't care" you sure do slatherin on and on defending yourself..
*skeeved out ONCE again*
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Killing the Butterfly...
Posted: 4/30/2009 1:39:28 PM

When I was young, and dating, and making friends, we spoke about all sorts of things, but somehow we never gave each other a cross examination. The question wasn't "What are you interested in?" It was, "Did you see that race horse yesterday?" And the conversation would either gradually come to an end, or bring new energy to what was being spoken about. Over a period of time, one would gradually find out which topics excited and which didn't. We also did a lot of things together. Someone would say, "Want to come watch cricket?" and if we said no, the next invitation might be, "Want to come to a party?" Over a period of time, we got to know what others liked without asking any questions. We didn't do it consciously, it just unfolded organically, and we just fell in with each other without even noticing.

Today, I still use this method. No surprises. The people I get on well with, and with who love affairs and friendships develop are the ones who use this method. The ones who start with the 20 questions, "Which position do you like?" "What are your interests?" "Why did your last relationship fail?" are gone with the wind. For a long time, I've thought that they are highly dysfunctional people with no idea how to relate to others. It's just occurred to me that there might be another explanation... and it's the more likely explanation.

So, here's my theory... Did one or some 'experts' teach an entire culture/generation that in order to learn to fly alongside the butterfly in perfect harmony, one had to dissect and examine the butterfly? If so, will someone please pass them back a message.

It kills the butterfly.


Yeah, I copied the whole thing because it bears reitteration! AWESOME!!!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
lack of experience
Posted: 2/3/2009 5:25:48 PM
OP, I'll offer free tutoring! All in the interest of helping you overcome your concerns of course
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Sex Crazy or Crazy Sex?
Posted: 2/3/2009 5:10:38 PM
So, what category does it fall into if she meows? It was like that scene in Coneheads!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 86 (view)
 
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 2/3/2009 5:07:35 PM
Well, as I always said...you make better time on an open road!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 164 (view)
 
How can anyone feel comfortable enough to have sex?
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:39:29 AM
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

From the OP:
Are my views going to doom me to dying alone?


Ummmm, YES!!! Well, unless you manage to save the princess in Donkey Kong! It's okay, you get another life at 10,000 points.
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Any suggestions for how to handle this awkward situation?
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:35:52 AM

...you and your partner enjoy your intimate relations together don't get to hung up on the outcome


HAHAHAHAHA! I think that was the problem!!!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Why Not Admit You're Just Looking for Sex?
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:31:18 AM
I thought the secret girl code for 'looking for sex' was to say: "Looking to make friends, or more".

Pfft, shows what I know.
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
multiple positions during 1sex session, hows it possible
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:25:12 AM

Here's a newsflash...most of the boobs are fake.


Huh? WHAT!!!???
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What is it exactly about pulling hair??
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:22:28 AM
Knew someone who enjoyed it. Told me it heightened her experience. I miss that girl!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
To see him or not to see him
Posted: 1/27/2009 6:52:05 PM
Message 14... BRAVO!

If you miss one another so much, why does it really matter who pays for what?

There's an old saying I really like that goes: I would walk 10 miles, uphill, barefooted, through a driving snowstorm just to stand in your garbage!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Smooth Operator?
Posted: 1/27/2009 6:42:51 PM
What? a pet name??? Don't stand for it...demand he only use your full given name at ALL times!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
OK so guy asks for my number, how do I not blow it?
Posted: 1/27/2009 6:38:39 PM
1 - don't overthink this...you're whittling it to bits!

2 - get his number and make the first call. The rest will follow on its own.
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Is it weird to compliment the guy on his size while you're having sex?
Posted: 1/26/2009 7:22:34 AM
Hmmpf! Now I KNOW I should have hadd a better lawyer...my ex got half of EVERYTHING!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
how many dates
Posted: 1/20/2009 4:35:50 PM
Well, I for one don't approve of that sort of thing before marriage, and I'm not too sure about AFTERWARD either!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Guys, what do you...
Posted: 1/20/2009 4:32:42 PM
Does she get headaches...yeah, that's about it.
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
How would you feel..
Posted: 1/20/2009 4:24:08 PM
It's called being kept in a jar...the old "In case of emergency, break glass" routine.
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Valentine's Day
Posted: 1/20/2009 4:21:25 PM

And how DARE you bring up that wretched holiday on a single's site.


Here, here!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Do you think he likes me?
Posted: 1/20/2009 4:19:16 PM

But he just got divorced. If he's a quality dude, that hurt him. A lot. So I imagine he's afraid and confused. Doesn't know what's next.


Pay attention here...this is important!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Tantra Sex: Is it worth the effort?
Posted: 1/20/2009 4:07:59 PM
Tantra...aren't those the big furry things that the Jawa's on Star Wars herded around? Oh no, no, no...those were BANTHA'S!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
If Love Is Blind....Why Is Lingerie So Popular?
Posted: 11/11/2008 9:16:21 AM

...a picture of a teddy bear on the front...


"Bare" in front, and the bear's a$$ behind!

YEAH!!!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Freaking out (I'm an idiot)
Posted: 11/11/2008 9:12:51 AM

If she brings it up, ask her honestly how she feels about it.


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
do you think we will ever meet??
Posted: 10/29/2008 6:56:05 PM
Meat? Where? I LOVE meat!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Does he have to hump my leg for me to get the point?
Posted: 10/29/2008 6:51:53 PM

If a man admires my dog, is he telling me he likes me too? Does he have to hump my leg for me to get the point?



I think it means he wants to hump your dog.
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
men that fall fast
Posted: 10/29/2008 3:02:15 PM
Huh, I was supposed to change my clothes?
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 97 (view)
 
People, of our age, alone...what do our pets say about us?
Posted: 10/29/2008 2:56:34 PM
What does my pet say about me???

"Oh damn, he's got that glimmer in his eye again!"

 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
What do you consider social drinking??
Posted: 10/29/2008 2:55:00 PM
I think "Like a fish" ought to be a drinking choice on here. It may not be applicable, but it sure would be funny!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
am I getting cynical or is income an issue where relationships are concerned
Posted: 10/29/2008 2:51:01 PM
Thank God I'm broke!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Sportf-cking: Defined and Applied
Posted: 10/29/2008 2:40:45 PM
Funny thing...no one ever mentions the cost of dry-cleaning!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Do You Ever Really Wonder?
Posted: 10/25/2008 3:26:43 PM
So, it begs the question...Am I a starter husband?
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Has the economy affected your dating?
Posted: 10/25/2008 3:10:38 PM

If she's a good girl and understands how much things cost...then she won't be pushing you for expensive dates, nor will she think you're not a man because you're not shelling out the cash.


 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
mental health & age
Posted: 10/21/2008 2:27:34 PM
I think it depends on circumstances and the potential of the other person involved. Interestingly enough, the original question really didn't address the issue of trying something that one wouldn't have ever done anyway.

Bungee jumping is a deal breaker.

I'm just sayin'!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Do men try to confuse women?
Posted: 10/12/2008 11:40:29 PM
<----------- BEWILDERED!!!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
WHAT IS MY GUY UP TO?
Posted: 10/12/2008 11:38:58 PM
Relax, he's not gambling.

He's CHEATING on you!!!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Quick question for the men
Posted: 10/12/2008 11:32:27 PM

He hasnt bother to answer because he isnt interested. He signed up for the site because he IS interested in meeting someone, just not you. I know it sounds harsh - but it is the cold hard facts, we can not take rejection too personally.


WORD!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
what do guys like in a girl?
Posted: 10/12/2008 11:30:04 PM
What do guys like in a girl???

Do I DARE give the Freudian answer???
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Caught with his pants down
Posted: 10/12/2008 11:26:54 PM
Oh brother...

You can't SERIOUSLY be wondering these questions can you? He wasn't into you, he was "into" someone else!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
i need help
Posted: 10/12/2008 11:18:05 PM
It sounds like she either became bored with the predictability of the relationship or was scared off. Being a gentleman is always the right course of action, however, there is also a point where being a gentleman crosses over into being a doormat. Also, it's entirely possible that you invested way too much emotion, too early, in what is essentially a "getting to know you" stage. That behavior comes off as clingy or needy rather than caring.
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
men who can fix anything(your thoughts)
Posted: 10/11/2008 5:29:57 PM

Seems like a lost art in my parts though.


Umm, lemme have a look at them parts ma'am. Mebbe I can help.
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Why do people say i work long hours so.....
Posted: 10/11/2008 5:24:18 PM
Yep, yep...rotating shift work with variable days off.

It's more than difficult to establish any sort of connection when that is the case. My experience has usually been along the lines of "You're hiding something". Umm, yeah, I'm hiding that I have a wife and eight kids tucked in the storeroom of the warehouse I work at. BAH!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
F Buddy Ettiquette
Posted: 10/11/2008 5:17:55 PM

He wants his cake and eat it to


Cake? Where? I LOVE cake!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Can't Believe My Eyes
Posted: 10/11/2008 5:16:09 PM
I'm bewildered by all of it!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
How to pleasure a man orally
Posted: 10/11/2008 4:58:29 PM
Say "I'll take out the trash."
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Pubic Hair on Guys
Posted: 10/11/2008 4:56:51 PM
Get rid of all of it!

Everyone knows; you make better time on an open road!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Instant dates instead of getting phone numbers.
Posted: 10/11/2008 4:52:44 PM
Oh no, not the ol' "I'm going for coffee" routine again...

Personally, I offer to buy a tank of gas!
 bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 101 (view)
 
Odd dating requests...
Posted: 10/7/2008 1:47:06 PM
Oddest thing to ever happen???

She actually wanted to meet me!
 
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