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 Author Thread: Men Ejaculation
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Men Ejaculation
Posted: 7/13/2009 1:03:44 PM
depends on how much effort both partys will put into it lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
When eating pu$$y
Posted: 5/26/2009 9:46:17 AM
bah stop after the first one? thats the best time to get them! right after the first O swich it up a little so its not too sensitive and get her another O.
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Cheating mother
Posted: 5/22/2009 11:51:07 AM
WOW the amount of women and men telling you to stay out of it and defending her cheating is just shocking becuse "she is a adult" well fine she should KNOW better then!

I do have to agree talk to mom first, and let her know that you arnt going to sit on this forever either she can tell dad or you will.

and a interesting point I wonder if so many women would defend the DAD if the story was reversed!
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Are there jack of all trade guys out there somewhere?
Posted: 4/30/2009 8:26:56 AM

WORDS ARE WHAT WE WANT!


amen brother!

yes routine sucks, but if there is one there are 2 ppl to blame not just one.
and I will say it right now if you dont like giveing BJ'S then dont do it, we can tell you dont want to do it and trust me the only thing worse then being "expected" to give a bj is getting a bad one!

on a side note something my current GF reminided me of MAKE-OUT with her! just go at it for 15 min just makeing out like you were kids. = instant passtion.
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Handjobs
Posted: 4/29/2009 12:55:18 PM
ok I have never understood the point of a handjob, wait correction unless its at the end and it leads to a faical other then that I dont get the point in em.
I mean really I love bj's but for me atleast if ALL im getting is a hand job I would rather do it my self and she can watch lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Is this fair? Happened to a close friend of mine
Posted: 4/29/2009 12:39:54 PM
just wow and boy do I mean WOW the amount of women and a few guys who are bashing on this guy and calling him disturbed becuse he is soicaly akaward and finds it easyir to pay for sex then get laughed at? just wow and then to boot they treat him like a rapeist and a sexual preditor. Im just shocked becuse you know it would be ok if he were good looking and just had alot of one night stands, but heaven forbid he pays for it.

know as far as the wife? well its plain then she can do waht ever she wants if she can get away with banning someone from the house, and dont hide behind ( well she isnt stopping him form seeing him) becuse thats wrong and you know it.
plain and simple she dosent like the guy and know she has a bullet proof reason to keep him away.


so in closeing YES he needs to get out more and not to the stip club.
and YES he is being unfairly juged and banned becuse know that a kid is around
he is no longer "safe"
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Why Can't he cum
Posted: 11/6/2008 2:52:57 PM
the condom one could be a issue, im the same way I dont cum with a condom on (and yes I always use one!) so I have to get off by other means. and like other have said it's mental and for the love of god he is not gay just becuse he isnt a 2 min man! lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Multiple oragasms _ can Men have them ?
Posted: 9/19/2008 12:36:34 PM
only once and they were a few min apart.

I really need to master that trick
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
is waiting till marriage for sex dead?
Posted: 9/15/2008 1:51:37 PM
not haveing sex isnt a deal breaker for me.

now if she couldnt talk about it? then game over

there is a huge diffrance between saveing your self, and being repressed
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
the worst Rejections you have seen
Posted: 9/5/2008 9:51:23 AM
^^^^^^^^^^






thats just way to funny!!!
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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the worst Rejections you have seen
Posted: 9/4/2008 3:11:31 PM
the french one is great!!!

the worst one I ever had sone to me, I was at a club in san fran, just chilling with the guys and a hot woman we are talking a 10 walked up and asked me to dance, I was so floord I surprised I could speak, but I told her I cant dance, its very bad. but she really wanted to so I did we got on the dance floor, not 10 sec of danceing and she stopped and said "ya you really cant" and walked off

lol the guys still throw that one in my face
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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the worst Rejections you have seen
Posted: 9/4/2008 10:00:54 AM
well the title explains it all.
what is the worst rejection you have seen or been part of?


me and my firends were at a bar, when a guy came up and hit on one of my friends. well she wasnt haveing any of it but still he asked for her number she said that she didnt have a cell phone, just as the guy is about to walk away her cell phone rings and she answers it.

I kinda felt bad for the guy lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
My ex...
Posted: 9/4/2008 9:34:56 AM
well not sure what to tell ya OP. I just went thought this my self, but from the other side. me and the ex spent 2 years just being friends, after some thinking I decided I wanted to try over with her, at first she was soo happy less then a day later she was running for the hills lol

so go with your gut!!
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 159 (view)
 
How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 8/7/2008 2:58:39 PM
there is a very simple explination.

ever heard the term 'walk it off"?

that right there is the reason most of us just bounce back, we do as we have been told
from day one, just walk it off.
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Virgin.... would you want to know?
Posted: 8/2/2008 8:40:03 PM
normaly Im all for the be up front from the start point of view


but I would wait till sex came up in a convo to tell him, dont hide it. I would just be wary of him being so sweet on you during his devorce, he could be just useing you as a rebound.


(ya I know but im in a cynical mood tonight lol)
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Guys, do you want to date or not?
Posted: 8/2/2008 8:34:08 PM
well to be brutaly honest if this keeps happening too you then 1 (or maybe both) of 2 things is happening

1: you are attracting the**** lol

or there is something you say or do that scares them off

I dont know anyone who has just stopped talking 2 someone with out a good reason
( in there mind)
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 101 (view)
 
Is it ok for your GF to hang out with Ex boyfriends?
Posted: 7/31/2008 2:20:16 PM
I am very good friends with a ex of mine and I always make it a point to let the women I talk to know it. I knew my ex years before we started dateing and then we dated for a few years, but didnt make a good couple so it was a mutual break up. so all in all I she has been part of my life for almost 7 years, you dont like it too bad, your going before she will.


on a side note if I was asked nicely and as a adult I would make a effort to not hang with her one on one but thats as much as your getting. any other way and
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Breast Reduction?
Posted: 7/31/2008 1:47:56 PM
speaking to just what will the guys think part of it. I think the majority of guys would be totaly fine with you getting it done, becuse whats the point of haveing great breast if you cant go show them off becuse they hurt your back?


and over all I agree with everyone else who gives a rats ass what they think.

and to be honest im totaly shocked that some crazy hasnt asked for before and after pics yet lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Women who cannot work?
Posted: 7/28/2008 11:58:54 AM
it would depend on why she cant work, if as some ppl stated she wasnt allowed 2 work then I would be fine with it. I do have to agree that the majority of ppl who are "disabled" and claim they cant work, just arnt trying, I work for a day school for adults with disablitys ( autisim and the such) and granted its not alot but the majority of them have jobs( walmart, stuffing invelopes ect.) so its just about the want to work.


as far as the moms go, I have alot of respect for stay at home moms and the only way it would ever be a issue is if she was at macys every day blowing cash on her self lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
How Long to guys HONESTLY last in bed
Posted: 7/21/2008 10:59:40 AM
to answer the op question depends the guy, so i can only talk for my self there are days were if I make it 15 min it means I was counting cards in my head and there are others where it will take my hr's to get off just depends on my mood.


edit "trekker lol that would be funny as hell calling the hospital and trying to convince them that you were not useing viagra LOL"
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Death from making love...can it really happen?
Posted: 7/15/2008 10:23:12 AM

I'd ask my dad but he died 15 years ago while having sex with my mom..... She said "I thought he was done"..... omg Mom!





but really if im going to bit the farm I cant think of a better way of going out!
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
odd mind games
Posted: 6/23/2008 10:35:58 PM
lol I never told her where I lived so im good there ;)
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
odd mind games
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:53:54 PM
hahah true but at the time I was just blown away, I swear it was like out of playboy lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
odd mind games
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:51:22 PM
lol she was just about 2 turn 21 lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
odd mind games
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:11:31 PM
one that dosent want aids!

 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
odd mind games
Posted: 6/23/2008 6:56:34 PM
owwww hell ya I was out of there before she even came back (today) and told me it was a test lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
odd mind games
Posted: 6/23/2008 6:49:29 PM
ok so I have to ask becuse this was odd as hell


so a few weeks ago a girl sent me a txt saying I had given her my number at a new years party, I didnt really ring any bells. anyway long story short the girl from the txt starts comeing on hard to give you a idea she said this
" look im horney and want sex are you going to man up or what"

and the entire thing was staged by a girl I was talking to so she could test me
(and I stress talking we hadnt even gone on a date)

so after all that the question is have any of you ever "tested" a guy like that?
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 557 (view)
 
Why do men ruin relationships with video games?
Posted: 5/6/2008 11:46:32 PM
here is a great Idea if he is playing a game too much, go hang with YOUR friends let him have his alone time and when you come back he wont ignore you, and you will both be happy
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
I found some disturbing pictures on my boyfriend's computer!!!
Posted: 4/16/2008 3:56:47 PM
wow you mean there is a chance your boyfriend had sex with another women before he met you????? like omg you should totaly dump him!!! /valley girl sarcasm off

but really he LETS you use his computer and you get all fussy because you found some old porn? so if he was at your place and needed a towel and found your toy box would he be in his right to throw them away and see if you noticed?

the only way this MIGHT be ok is if they were dated when you guys were dating and it was him taking them, but then still immature to just delete them and not talk about it.
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Vibrators
Posted: 4/15/2008 8:27:25 AM
ok so I dont get this, what is the attraction for the glass toys?? me and a past partner saw them and were just dumb struck lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 74 (view)
 
The Kinky Test
Posted: 4/10/2008 8:52:06 AM
hahahah

630 not to bad for my age not too bad at all
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Clothes Ho's
Posted: 4/10/2008 8:37:00 AM
hahahaha the reason you get that kinda of response is she dresses like that to get attention but in her mind she should only have to deal with the attention she wants, and nothing else. so thats why you(we lol) get that crap.
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Should the guy give up and move on if the girl can't trust?
Posted: 3/4/2008 11:08:59 AM
ya its over, sounds like he is no better then you as far as being able to trust ppl, and if he is doing the same things to you as you do to him but he cant accept your "rules" then thats 2 strikes






and just as a side not I should hope you have at least one guy friend, you have been dateing him for 2+ years
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Circumcision....
Posted: 3/4/2008 11:00:13 AM
had my done at birth-ish, and wouldn't have it any other way, some of my friends have there's natural and man do I hear some horror stories about it, any boys I have are getting it done.
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Should the guy give up and move on if the girl can't trust?
Posted: 3/4/2008 10:16:29 AM
funny girl nailed it game over she wins


 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Should the guy give up and move on if the girl can't trust?
Posted: 3/4/2008 9:08:27 AM
well to tell you the truth I have to agree with him, if he has walked on egg shells for 2 1/2 years to PROVE he loves you I cant blame him for getting tired, be happy you got a good guy and he didn't just bail.

as far as the number thing, because he got it from work and there is a reason why he got it (not like hey if you ever need help call) I dont see the issue.
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
phys vs emotional attraction
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:59:33 PM
I think spiritual is kinda like politics goes with the emo part
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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phys vs emotional attraction
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:26:56 PM
uglybetty

its not that I was saying you could only have one. more along the lines of you find a guy that you love if personality fits you perfectly but he only kinda gets you going physically not ugly but just kinda bland. could you handle it?
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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phys vs emotional attraction
Posted: 3/3/2008 12:03:41 PM
me and some co workers were BSing about this so I thought I would throw it out there

Is it more important to have physical attraction or emotion attraction?

could you be with a person that you were crazy about emotionally but only just kinda in the phys area?
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
what the best way to......
Posted: 2/29/2008 3:30:13 PM
her on top, if hes that big of a sissy to go " omg is nasty" dump his ass
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Tall Men VS Chunky Women
Posted: 2/29/2008 10:36:29 AM
well I can say as a "short" guy only 5'7 that it totally blows when you see a person you want to talk to and there profile says they want a guy 6ft+ but hey at least it saves me some time lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 434 (view)
 
Why do men ruin relationships with video games?
Posted: 2/18/2008 9:06:26 AM

let me tell u why because there dorks and they oh so love the football game thing witch i see that games makes no sence and because there born as geeks eww


hahahahahahahahahah ok seductive **** welcome to 2008 do you know what a geek means in this day and age? geek= a smart guy that makes lots of money. I was born a geek, and I will die a geek and im fairly sure im more mature and a better guy then so called "cool" guys you only date.

now on to the OP its easy if he was like that before you started dating him and you knew it, shame on you for trying to change him. but if it was a new thing all of a sudden he probably needed some along time to vent.
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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cumin with out the orgasm
Posted: 2/12/2008 10:36:49 AM
that for the site leeanne but what I had was the exact opposite had ejaculation part but no orgasm, not that im complaing was great lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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cumin with out the orgasm
Posted: 2/12/2008 9:02:02 AM
ok so first off this is not a attention seeking thread, I just want to see if anyone else has had this happen

sooo any way my GF was giving me a BJ and she got me to cum, but I didn't "feel" it like normal it was obvious that I did but still.
but i was still rock hard and ready to go went at it for about 30min and had a "normal" one. has anyone else had this happen???
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 102 (view)
 
What’s the most important thing that men don’t understand about women that they should
Posted: 1/29/2008 11:03:21 AM
that if she ever ask's you to explain how you feel about her, use large uncommon words the (hopefully) she wont get, so when she gets mad at you and starts yelling about what is really bothering her you can address the issue with in the context of your first explanation
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Faking Orgasm - not just the girls?
Posted: 1/29/2008 9:09:05 AM
well if you have a condom on it would be hella easy to fake it.

But no I haven't faked it but I have had to tell her it just wasn't going to happen, its the worst when im in the mood for a long romp and she's not lol
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Do guys have body image woes?
Posted: 1/25/2008 12:32:09 PM
only ever once. was on spring break and I had spent the entire week partying so lots and lots of booze well by the end of the week, had meet a girl and we were making out and I took my shirt off, I noticed that were my flat abs had been was a noticeable beer belly. TOTALY threw my game off at first, but she didn't seem to notice so i got over it fast LOL.

so yes guys can worry 2 but we dont obsess about it.

unless is hight or penis size
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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What celeb would you date and why?
Posted: 1/25/2008 12:14:43 PM
I would say holly marie combs if she is anything like piper off of charmed im in love
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Relationship = Temporary Friend
Posted: 1/25/2008 9:55:28 AM
the problem is that most ppl dont know the difference between dating and being in a relationship, I had a girl in AZ Show me this you should just date the person until you get to know them, for me I tend to "date" them for at-least a month or more before I even consider it a relationship. because as soon as words like boyfriend and girlfriend start getting thrown around on of the ppl involved are going to start getting really attached.
 swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Video gamers: losers or big kids?
Posted: 1/22/2008 9:05:37 AM
wow for the most part there were not as many women bashing gamers as I expected.

for the few hat said they were life wasters and just escaping first with the exception of mushortgurl03 above (and it sounds like he had a addictive personality, not that WOW ruined his life) its a way to relax and pass the time, is watching american idol wasting your life?

and as far as escaping...um DUH, any pastime ppl do is a way to escape, reading, running, football all of it is the break the daily grind.
yes im a gamer, from DND to video games, and I even played WoW and no it didn't destroy my life lol
 
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