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 Author Thread: Deepthroating help!!!
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 108 (view)
 
Deepthroating help!!!
Posted: 5/13/2012 5:22:35 PM
Hold your breath.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 125 (view)
 
S/he has no health insurance. Dealbreaker?
Posted: 5/13/2012 5:13:03 PM
Not everybody who passes 45 is at risk for those things. It lifestyle that determines those illnesses in some cases. I'm 52 and always have normal blood pressure and always have normal cholesterol.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Becoming extremely discouraged!
Posted: 5/11/2012 5:00:13 PM
More players on here, not wanting a relationship, just a roll in the hay.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Do You Ever Size Up the Competition?
Posted: 4/23/2012 7:18:44 PM
I need to do that. And start tonight.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
 
What is dating like now?
Posted: 12/7/2011 5:25:45 PM
So, if you are a good dancer, you are a good lover. I am a fantastic dancer, no really.

Sex is not only expected, but most of the time, that's all they want (Which is one reason I "go dutch" and the second reason is, I've heard so many men women are looking for money, someone to pay their bills, etc. I don't want your money, nor need your money.

Males havent changed much. I think we are all pickier, because we don't want to make the same mistake(s) twice or three or four times, so we step carefully and slowly into the pool of fishies, and because we don't have as much time to recover from the mistakes at our age, and finally, we'd rather live alone than live in misery again.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Going well then hit the wall
Posted: 12/7/2011 5:16:13 PM
I think you scared her off. Three dates and you are inviting yourself to family holiday gatherings. You went too fast.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
How to Rebuild Trust In Men
Posted: 12/7/2011 5:13:12 PM
We can trust men?
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 132 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/15/2009 3:23:32 PM
At 49, I have loved being single to this point. I've been divorced for three years. There are too many advantages to name.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 120 (view)
 
Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 6/6/2009 11:26:41 AM
I've had sex with a married man, but I didn't know he was married until later in the relastionship. I would not have sex with a married man knowing he was married.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Women post pics in sexy sleepwear?
Posted: 6/6/2009 11:25:35 AM
I don't normally look at women's pictures on POF. But I was looking at a guy's profile and he had a post to another female that he wanted to go out with her. So, I said hmm, what makes a guy want to meet a woman. I was surprised to see in one of her pics she was in bed wearing a sexy teddy with her boobs and her butt almost hanging out.

And before any woman says, if you've got it flaunt it, I have it, but I am not posing for a Playboy centerfield on POF, and I am not looking for sex only.

Women who post pics like that, are you looking for sex only, because in my opinion, that's what men perceive when they see that type of pic posted.

Men, would you actually seriously be interested in a woman with those pics for marriage, or are you just looking for a roll in the hay?
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
I know I will get blasted for this but...
Posted: 3/22/2009 7:41:50 PM
I much prefer a skirt to slacks. And I hate stockings. I go bare legged.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 148 (view)
 
Do women over 45 feel nervous about the first sexual encounter?
Posted: 3/19/2009 9:02:49 PM
Doesn't bother me at all. I think I still look good naked, well for an over the hill lady.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Am I single or divorced
Posted: 10/6/2008 8:39:55 PM
NEWS FLASH, just em, people don't have to have been married to mention children. They have them now without being married. Times have changed since our day, huh?
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Am I single or divorced
Posted: 10/6/2008 8:35:46 PM
I see myself as single and/or divorced. There is no difference. Some people are just idiots.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 262 (view)
 
Who likes coffee for a frist date??
Posted: 9/3/2008 8:21:27 PM
I agree with you Seeker424luv. I think some women are merely looking for a free meal. I would prefer to have coffee. I would not want to spend an entire evening with someone I am uncomfortable with, so make the first date short and sweet, but not too sweet. And I prefer to go dutch if we go to dinner because I think if they buy dinner, they expect a reward from me for dinner. I don't like being made feel obligated.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What are you looking for?
Posted: 8/24/2008 7:48:36 PM
Yes. Let's have a POF party. What would be a good place to have it?
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 171 (view)
 
Why do men ask me what do I do for a living?
Posted: 8/18/2008 6:20:52 PM
They are looking for sugar mamas. It's the same reason they are looking for someone with a house, a car, a big paycheck, no bills. They want somebody to take care of them. Just my thoughts.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 8/9/2008 9:46:15 PM
It's not cheating.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
How would sudden wealth change your dating style.
Posted: 8/9/2008 9:44:00 PM
I'll get back with you on the answer to that one when I collect my inheritance.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Looking at younger women / girls.
Posted: 8/9/2008 9:35:09 PM
When men stare, not just look, at girls, their mind is very active. Men are thinking something sexual. Why? Because men are almost always thinkig of something sexual. If you must look, look when your wife/girlfriend is at a place where she does not have to watch her man have sex with a girl/woman in his mind. It IS disrespectful. It is wrong because it may give the wife/girlfriend feelings of not meeting his needs for what he wants in a girl/woman.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
attracting older women vs younger women
Posted: 6/16/2008 7:08:30 PM
I've looked at younger guy's profiles, just curious at who a poster is, and I am not the least bit interested in young guys. Sorry to Disappoint you!
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Why do I look good in mirror but not pictures?
Posted: 6/10/2008 7:36:59 PM
It has to do with the lighting.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Friends with...Food
Posted: 5/21/2008 7:51:49 PM
So, your place tomorrow for dinner, and mine Friday?
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 91 (view)
 
have i just got a man under stress or is he a psycho?
Posted: 4/20/2008 7:52:21 PM
He sounds like he could be dangerous. Get out while you can.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
I am So fed up with men these days
Posted: 4/20/2008 7:47:45 PM
I find myself not wanting to go out with a guy repeatedly because of fear of being hurt. When I start feeling a bond, I get scared and run, don't want to see him anymore.

The reason they use you for sex is BECAUSE YOU LET THEM. I've said this on other threads, don't give them sex on the first or even second date. Feel them out to see if that is all they want. If it is they will drop you like a hot potato. If it is not all they want, they will wait. GIRLS, we are allowing ourselves to be used, by sharing one of the most precious gifts we have to give.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Talking about sex before even meeting
Posted: 4/16/2008 4:32:48 PM
Look out! Sex is what they are after.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Ladies, do your partner's nocturnal erections bother you?
Posted: 4/15/2008 4:44:21 PM
I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEE waking up to it against me.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
i found the man of my dreams
Posted: 3/6/2008 8:41:20 PM
I found the man of my dreams too. We're now divorced. Oh well, maybe there's another man of my dreams out there. You go girl. Congrats!
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Do you still think about your ex?
Posted: 3/5/2008 5:21:13 PM
I think about my ex almost every day. Sometimes I think about the good times and sometimes I think about the bad times. The thing is, ALL men are going to have things about them we don't like. I think you sound like me, we are looking for a perfect guy. We might as well realize, they don't exist, but then, there are no perfect women for the guys either. There are things we are all going to dislike about one another, no matter how many guys we go through.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Over 50 And NO Fun !
Posted: 3/3/2008 5:12:39 PM
Do men go to the bar to pick up women only? I like to go and listn to live music, and dance, and I like to just sit at home and watch a movie and eat popcorn too. Depends on my mood.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 259 (view)
 
Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 3/3/2008 5:08:32 PM
I do not intend to ever marry again, but my theory is, we are getting older, and the older we get the closer we are to loosing what it takes to catch a man. Does that make sense?
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
for the ladies....can you TRULY say money ain't a factor?
Posted: 2/24/2008 12:21:15 PM
My ex and I were very comfortable financially. I had it made, and was unhappy. Money does not equal happiness. I am NOT looking for money. All I require is enough money to live comforably, not extravagantly, and I can provide that on my own.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 80 (view)
 
How Do You Men Feel About the Pouch??
Posted: 2/23/2008 11:35:20 AM
I am very healthy, rarely even get a cold. I was in good physical shape when I got pregnant and I exercised while pregnant. I have not the first stretch mark and I attribute that to not gaining too much weight during pregnancy because I exercised.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
I write this with a heavy heart right now
Posted: 2/23/2008 11:20:24 AM
I'm 47 and have never had a true friend. I don't think there is such a thing.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Do divorced women have to settle for any man that will take them?
Posted: 2/22/2008 4:40:55 PM
I, like a lot of you, will gladly live alone for the remainder of my life before I settle. I am picky and have always been picky.

Some men do get better with age, but some go bald, lose their teeth and widen in the rear.

My ex's new girlfriend is my age. He's not stupid. Well, not all the time
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
One night stands??
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:34:20 PM
Can some of you women not get a single guy to date you? The only thing the married ones want is a one-night-stand, or a few, but nothing more. The selection is slimmer for women who will sleep with a married man, so they settle for anything they can get.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
How Do You Men Feel About the Pouch??
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:24:43 PM
If your over 45 or 50 and you dont have a "little pouch" thank good genetics or your very skilled surgeon.

To the person who said if you are 45 or 50 and don't have a pooch, thank good genetics or your very skilled surgeon. I am 47 and have a stomach as flat as a teenager's and I attribute that to taking care of my body all of my life.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
anyone got any good tips 4 dieting?
Posted: 1/24/2008 4:45:49 PM
I jump start losing weight by eating only raw fruits and vegetables and water for a couple of days. This will cleanse the impurities, and give you the jumpstart you need. I suggest not going on a "diet", but eating the things you like, just less of it.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Animal Cruelty
Posted: 1/24/2008 4:41:47 PM
Tramp, are you my dad in disguise? My dad raised rabbits when I was growing up. One of the mother rabbits died and left newborn baby rabbits. I bottle fed those rabbits. They grew up to be happy, healthy grown-up rabbits, until my dad had one sitting on the dinner table one night. GRRRRRRR
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Animal Cruelty
Posted: 1/21/2008 4:43:07 PM
I call the local law enforcement the minute I spot animal cruelty. They don't need to know who you are. Animals are helpless without those of us who care. Report it.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Question for all you available women?
Posted: 1/7/2008 4:12:33 PM
Well, I have met a few men who the only way they can get a woman is to show them his nice home or car or etc. Wouldn't you rather have a woman interested in you because of who you are and not because of what you have? She is not dating your house after all.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
You Ladies want A Truly Hontest Man ?
Posted: 12/27/2007 7:10:05 PM
An honest man? Is there one?
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
is it really about looks or the heart of the person that counts
Posted: 12/27/2007 4:42:30 PM
I chose my first husband because he was good-looking mainly. I have come a long way since that time in my maturity. I think a truly mature person chooses a permanent mate based on everything else before looks, and that is what I am looking for now. If you have a good-looking mate, but have an a--hole of a mate, and can't stand to be around him/her, you still have nothing. I was married for almost 30 years to a buff good-looking football star, but most of those yearsI was unhappy. A good-looking man does not make me happy. A good man does. I am now looking for a good man, not a good-looking man. I have learned almost everything in life the hard way. By mistakes.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Orgasms
Posted: 12/26/2007 6:33:01 PM
I've faked and mature men aren't always the best.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Double Standard & Discrimination: At 50 date 20s!
Posted: 12/26/2007 6:31:10 PM
My dad is 68 and is married to a 37 year old. They have an eight year old daughter. Someone tell me what do younger women see in older men? I don't get it. Financial Security, maturity? What?
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 68 (view)
 
is everyone over 30 taking antidepressants?
Posted: 12/26/2007 3:32:10 PM
I was, and then I got divorced and didn't need them anymore.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Most women will have sex very early in a relationship
Posted: 12/25/2007 2:38:46 PM
You DID say you can go all the way on a second date. You must have done this several times. How else would you know that you could?

By the way, you guys are SUCKERS. We get our sex free from you guys, plus a good meal and a movie. You feel you have to buy us a good meal and a movie to entice us.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Home Alone For the
Posted: 12/25/2007 8:38:20 AM
I know exactly how you are feeling. This is my first Christmas alone in 30 years. But I think of other people who are dealing with worst issues. A family in my neighborhood lost two of their teenage children in a car accident a couple of months ago. I can only imagine what a horrible Christmas they must be having. There are people having a worst Christmas than just being lonely.

I too, would like to skip to spring, but life goes on. I'm rushing the days by.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 249 (view)
 
Has anyone ever used ice cubes for sex?
Posted: 12/23/2007 4:45:38 PM
It is not painful at all. The ice cubes melt very quickly.
 chrylann
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 351 (view)
 
Players! What is it like to play? C'mon be honest!
Posted: 12/22/2007 8:00:14 PM
Guess, I agree with Jrydel in most of what he said. And to the poster who said M church is of church and is honest. Maybe I misunderstand what you mean of church, but his profile says hes nonreligious.
 
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