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 Author Thread: What should I do a guy asked me for my number without any conversations??
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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What should I do a guy asked me for my number without any conversations??
Posted: 3/20/2009 5:38:12 PM
His first email was ** do you have a phone**??????
Should I give it to him or wait until we have talked in emails first or ignore the question????...
.I did write him and tell him I only give out my number AFTER I know someone.....did I do right?..
I feel like a first time teenager...well third timer..lol...I do not know the do's or don't when it comes to dating manners...Can someone clue me in...please!!!!!
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Why does it make you feel like a stab in the heart when a person dumps you on POF??
Posted: 2/23/2009 4:23:21 PM
Too bad they do not allow emails cause I think we could all become friends...maybe the big guy/lady here should make a catagory looking for friends men and women...I love doing crafts too...kindred spirits in more ways than one....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Why does it make you feel like a stab in the heart when a person dumps you on POF??
Posted: 2/21/2009 11:16:48 AM
EVERYONE YOUR ADVICE HAS BEEN A BLESSING TO ME....THANK YOU FOR ALL THAT RESPONDED OR THAT WILL RESPOND...and YES I will post my picture...Hoping this site does not allow grabbers cause on a site someone grabbed my photo and posted it on a headshot in a porn site...I nearly fainted when I found out my pic was there...hugs to all of you...and many thanks...
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Why does it make you feel like a stab in the heart when a person dumps you on POF??
Posted: 2/20/2009 11:43:53 PM
....We talked a longgggggggggggggggggggg , longggggggggggggggggg time...but after I sent him my picture he made me feel like I had been stabbed in the heart...All along I said** I am BIG.....I don't hide the fact.**..but somehow when he typed the words **I want someone alot smaller than you are **.......it hurt so bad. Call it self pity or whatever...I don't know...I guess it is cause I accept everyone...big or small....if not for a date ...there is friendship...
We had alot in common, but obviously it did not matter ...I am BIG, but....I am also handicapped where exercizing is not easy to do ...from a wheelchair....I do give him credit....he did the honest thing by being straight....I just think there could have been different way of wording it.....Am I wrong to let it break my heart or should I just act as though it never happened at all????
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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MEN IN ST.LOUIS
Posted: 8/9/2008 11:50:01 AM
Who cares if they are CUTE...where are the ones that like BBWs??????lol
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Valentine's Day
Posted: 2/5/2008 5:25:32 PM
Jules....First off..HAPPY BIRTHDAY...not sure if it is Feb 14th or what...My oldest will be 36 on the 12th...
...I have never sent myself flowers before...I HAVE recieved flowers from SECRET ADMIRER's that to this day have NOT fessed up to being the senders...lol...

As for the lady who bought herself flowers that were wilted...I am totally surprised that the Florist would allow them out of the place...most generally they take more pride in the bouquets since it does reflect on their business...I WOULD NEVER go back there..lol..
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Valentine's Day
Posted: 2/3/2008 2:53:44 PM
....I ONLY hope to find Mr Right for Valentine's Day...it would be wonderful to go out on a date....I WAS married 27years and NOT once did I get a Valentine's date...WE were married as FRIENDS...yeah...I know dumb Idea, but.... hey.... I was 18 and THOUGHT I knew WHAT WAS WHAT,.....then...KIDS started coming..and luckliy he fell in love with a family Friend and poof he was gone...trust me that was not an easy life to live....but you make the best with what you have!!!!....Now, being disabled it won't be an easy task to have a date but then again it won't be impossible....provided I find a fella that is willing to take a chance!!!!....

I did have a wonderful gift the Valentine's day 2004,,,,I was given by INTERNET FRIENDS the M & M NASCAR leather jacket...I was bumming no fella and had my amputee done August 6th 03.....sooooooooo Friends that i chat with went together and gave me one BIG SURPRIZE!!!!...I cherish their friendship to this day!!!! It made one Valentine's Day SPECIAL for me...!!!!
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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If a possible date has children in his custody..Is it wrong to offer him to bring them on your date?
Posted: 12/13/2007 8:38:41 AM
WITTY FOOL msg 44 ....that is exactly what I meant....thank you for figuring it out....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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If a possible date has children in his custody..Is it wrong to offer him to bring them on your date?
Posted: 12/8/2007 8:24:28 AM
....I do not have kids...I was referring to a date having them.....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Why when I show my picture(bald)(without hat)..the ladies they disappear ??
Posted: 12/7/2007 9:45:36 PM
...I would tell you what I heard about bald men but they would probably delete my answer due to the rating clause...lol...
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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If a possible date has children in his custody..Is it wrong to offer him to bring them on your date?
Posted: 12/7/2007 9:42:47 PM
....I often wondered IF it is wrong to offer that ...but now I will know what others think...I love kids and do not mind my date bringing them....afterall....it is a get to know each other date...what's the harm??????
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Long hair on older women
Posted: 11/25/2007 12:08:47 PM
Cigars.....I believe you are a very handsome fella....why is it you are single???...(smiles) Probably cause you do not live near Illinois..lol
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Would you date a NASCAR fan?
Posted: 11/23/2007 10:31:08 AM
....YES ....I would LOVE it!!!!....I have only seen the races from the television , but someday I hope to go to a real race....maybe Chicago....or the one in Illinois near St Louis MO which is closer to me...Being handicapped not sure how that will work...anyone know?????????
...I absolutely LOVE NASCAR....I follow 3 cars...Elliott Sadler #19....Carl Edwards #99 and #38 the M & M car.....but actually love the entire race...especially the wrecks when no one gets hurt...I believe it would be fun to watch it with a date....maybe even make some wild bets as to who will win....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Has any men got letters asking for Money...?
Posted: 10/10/2007 6:40:24 PM
You look good to me....
thanks for the responses....I was really curious....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Nascar 2005
Posted: 10/9/2007 10:52:43 PM
Today is Dale Jr's 33 birthday...October 10...HAPPY BIRTHDAY JR..
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Has any men got letters asking for Money...?
Posted: 10/9/2007 10:48:43 PM
I have a guy friend that got letters from ladies asking for money on this Plenty of Fish site....Is he alne or is there more getting them? For some reason he no longer has a profile on the site....that is why I am proposing the question to the guys...curious if he is alone getting them or if others are too....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 10/2/2007 12:42:28 AM
Seems I have created a MONSTER>...I was only asking IF that meant he was taken....but it did get some awesome responses.....Thanks for helping me...and NO I AM NOT A STALKER...Times are different now...I realize that I need to come into the right century...but when you have been burned byMEN who cheat I was curious as to could that be a sign he is....thanks again for the help,,,FYI....he is long out of the picture..LOL..
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 195 (view)
 
friends in wheelchairs - is the extra work worth it??
Posted: 7/30/2007 1:18:28 AM
Codee....You asked what is stopping me from finding Mr Right...well #1 NO Vehicle..(this town is very small ...but where I am the driveway is even with a steep incline...#2...being a CABBAGE PATCH Doll and not Barbie...strikes me out too...#3...My age...and then #4 there is that accessibility factor....I did venture out one day ...my daughter had to work in a town close to ours and she took me to my old stomping grounds a bar..( I don't drink BUT love the friends there..)...anyway...I was there about 6 hours one afternoon...the bathroom was NOT accessible so I had to roll 1 and half blocks to a gas station to use the facilities...Talk about cutting things close..LOL...Am hoping to get my power chair soon...that will make a world of difference...

My 4th year will be August 6th....maybe I will get good news that day that it is in the makings...

I am very independant other than going to the store ...dr...etc. because of no vehicle I have to depend on my daughter to take me...but I DID keep my driver's license current ...just incase I find a vehicle I can afford that has HC access....or...IF my daughter or friends need a designated driver I can lend a hand there...
....Any fellas...near St Louis MO...ILLINOIS side who MIGHT be interested in a CABBAGE PATCH DOLL???....contact me..LOL...hugs to all....Donna
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 170 (view)
 
OVER 50 And Alone....again.
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:39:38 AM
I am 55 ...WAS married 27years to my BEST FRIEND.....but the sad thing is WE were only friends...I HOPE someday to find out what the real meaning of LOVE is...does it really exist...Is it possible to fall in love at first meeting?....Is it possible for a handicap person to know IF it is LOVE or PITY...?...How can you be sure ...it isn't a put up deal to see what you will or will not do...or maybe what you might have in your checking account...(IF you are looking for a SUGAR MAMA...look somewhere else...I kissbut RICH comes from other places than money for me...sorry!!!....Honesty.....and Faithfullness....the two most wanted traits in a man that I choose....is HE out there????/
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 407 (view)
 
Mohican Reservation Camping trip Sept 7th-9th
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:27:27 AM
OMG...Gatekeeper...I REMEMBER my one SNIPE HUNT...I was 17....and BTW...NATURAL BLONDE..lol
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 317 (view)
 
Mohican Reservation Camping trip Sept 7th-9th
Posted: 7/22/2007 2:15:27 PM
TY Crusty.....Well I guess with that info....MIGHT as well hang up the thought of going....cause there is NO WAY this will go around in that type of turrane..
to the galant duo.....TY for the offers of the rides though ...that was sweet of you..
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 315 (view)
 
Mohican Reservation Camping trip Sept 7th-9th
Posted: 7/22/2007 2:34:37 AM
....I am not sure ....Golith and Daventhecorner.........if that post was for me or another...but .....either way...are you SURE you want to tackle trying to help a disabled OLD chick....lol....should've said OLD HEN but Chick sounds cuter..LOL......(NOT that am cute by any means of the fact...but...I am honest ...NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!)...I do have my power wheelchair in the works, but as of today ......NOT here YET....so that means the power by Donna and fold ...unfold thing..

..Clue me in how much are the cabins....any HC accessible????????...Do you bring your own food or how does that go?? ...Scavenger hunt sounds like fun....especially IF they allow us group hunting...say Me and 4 guys..LOL...would take that many to push me up some of the hills..LOL...but I do have a keen eye for details....and the win is in sight of anyone...................Smiles..I do have it made for seating : don't have to mess with a lawnchair..LOL...Yeah .........I joke about the chair....WHY not ...better than crying 24/7....when dealt LEMONS make LEMONADE...I do all kinds of crafts...do they have a auction or something that i can donate some stuff to????...I know alot of dumb questions but IF I don't ask how else will I know what is going on???....HUGS Donna
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 307 (view)
 
Mohican Reservation Camping trip Sept 7th-9th
Posted: 7/20/2007 9:18:18 PM
....I sure WISH I could join you...sounds like a blast...but I am disabled without a vehicle so no way can I attend...but when you are hanging out at the campfire ......think of me wishing I was there too..

.Aug 6th 03... I lost the lower half of my right leg due to a bad blood clot and now it is no fun being stuck waiting on people to take me to Dr appts...grocery stores ...etc....I still have Driver's license, but no vehicle to drive....I love camping....maybe someday i will be able to get my life back on track....hugs to all campers...and Rock ON!!!!!!!
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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How do you present the real you?
Posted: 5/16/2007 4:49:39 PM
....I am totally honest....any person who reads my profile ....Gets the whole story....probably TMI...but I am a talker and tend to ramble on and on..

.I recently met a guy from POF...who has a picture on here that must've been 15 years old cause he was NOT the guy in the photo....I do not have a photo posted but on request I do send them...my reasoning IS...... I was on another site and my photo was taken and put on different sites without my doing it , with awful names attached to it......this way IF they want to see me ...they ask and I send it in the next email to them...most of the time...I am NOT who they are searching for ...but it is the REAL me...my outward appearance is changing due to weight loss but it is a slow process.

..I am confused about guys asking for friends...but in reality looking for a soulmate....friends come in all kinds of packages....big or small....or am I wrong...????????
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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How do i speed up the IM process...????
Posted: 5/16/2007 4:37:30 PM
....When i get an IM it takes forever to get the thing to open...is it my PC..or just the way it is on this site???????...I rarely get them and would hate for someone to think I was not answering and loose interest in chatting with me...
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Blind date?
Posted: 5/6/2007 4:07:59 PM
Sounds like fun to me...where do i sign up at??????????
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Is it possible to know who has BLOCKED you from contact...before taking the time to send a message?
Posted: 5/6/2007 2:45:28 PM
Thank you everyone...You helped me alot....

[Redundunt - Closed Thread]
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Is it possible to know who has BLOCKED you from contact...before taking the time to send a message? [Closed Thread]
Posted: 5/6/2007 5:14:48 AM
.....I am confused I sent a message it said it was sent ..but looking at my Sent message list it was NOT there......Not sure maybe a reason why there too would be a good idea....
I know my profile is a difficult one to comprehend......but ....it is totally honest and given the time to meet me ...You just might like me even for just a friend...I am working on my weight problem...I know it is there....but instead of knocking me for it Help me do something about it...any suggestions on how to exercize from a wheelchair?????
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 180 (view)
 
friends in wheelchairs - is the extra work worth it??
Posted: 5/4/2007 1:06:30 AM
thank you for posting this forum...I WAS curious...being a wheelchair person...I was put here by a bad blood clot amputee....Having had the luxury of being able to walk 50 and a half years...sure puts a damper in a well established lifestyle....to me it is hard to adjust to the obsticles but I generally figure out what to do...or I ask for help...like in Wal_Mart ...it seems everything i want is on that blasted top shelf...I asked one lady for help one time and she refused....saying I should get it myself...I told her...I HOPE it NEVER happens to her to know how bad it is when YOU CAN"T DO the things you want to....I have a hard time asking for help now...fear has it that all people are too busy to help out ...same thing as for the dating scene....is my wheelchair too much bother to have some real fun for a change?....IF only I'd get the chance to find out if there is actually Mr Right who cares...no matter what obsticles there are to climb...I saw this on a response and I believe it says it all..........**In my opinion being someone's friend is about being there for them - regardless of a wheelchair or not!!**
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Approaching an anniversary or remembering day that someone close to you passed away....
Posted: 1/17/2007 11:18:21 AM
those days for me were 12-23-75 and 1-11-82 ....when my sons died....I generally get through the days planning on the holiday stuff or working on crafts suitable for the next holiday BUT this year I had a real hard time with it...and it was many years ago...not sure why it hit me so hard this year....one was 9 days before my birthday the other 9 days after....this year I turned the spped limit...(55)....not sure my getting older has much to do with it...any opinions????....Plus no shoulder to cry on doesn't help either..LOL..
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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It's the Holidays...can we come up with some goods thoughts
Posted: 1/17/2007 11:09:50 AM
well I only HOPE by Valentine's Day I have a man in my life to celebrate that day with....it is the only romantic day of the year and wooooo is me I am all alone....won't some sweet guy take pity on this old hag and charge her jets...LOL
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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MEN IN ST.LOUIS
Posted: 9/8/2006 10:35:25 PM
sctrrdr69...they just went across the river to Illinois so pop over and have some gr8 times....LOL
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 9/8/2006 10:30:12 PM
tacone....you do not look like you are 50....was that a typo???????????
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Do you like or dislike Holidays alone?
Posted: 9/3/2006 5:11:46 PM
Tomorrow will be another holiday alone....GEEZZZZZZZZZ,......where are you Mr Right????????....Come out whereever you are......
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Best Pro Wrestler of all time
Posted: 8/8/2006 7:04:27 PM
August 11th HULK HOGAN will be 53yo...how many others that old are still wrestling????????
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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MEN IN ST.LOUIS
Posted: 8/2/2006 11:58:10 AM
jeffcomale....sounds like alot of fun to me....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
MEN IN ST.LOUIS
Posted: 8/2/2006 11:56:27 AM
heyitsdoug...I have....but I think I like my man to be good when he is being bad...LOL
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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i was duped again
Posted: 8/1/2006 4:43:18 PM
thomasdearden.....you have seen my pics and I do not lie....just won't post one on here to have someone post elsewhere ....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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name one thing that is missing from your life that can make it complete?
Posted: 8/1/2006 4:40:51 PM
tersch.....do you THINK he actually exists????????
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 7/28/2006 9:03:00 AM
..I'd rather they say NOT Interested....but not saying anything is not easy for my ego to accept...I know I am not a Barbie or a Model...heck I could model for the Goodyear Blimp but I am also honest about it...We did not get to choose who our parents are...IF we could do you think I would have sellected the ones I had.....nope I'd ask for Pamela anderson or maybe Dolly Parton's but I didn't get to ....so I deal with it by being honest ....I do not wish it upon anyone but who can guarantee that they will look as handsome/pretty as they do now....you never know what is in store...a terrible accident....fire...who knows...would you be less the person you are because of it...no....but IF you look at the outside and not the inner person you MIGHT one day get a huge awakening....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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WOULD YOU DATE SOMEONE WITH A DISABILITY?PART TWO!
Posted: 7/27/2006 6:24:22 PM
Blackwolf...I have two disabilities #1 obesity and the other my right leg was amputeed below the knee in 2003...after 51years with 2 legs now I am in a wheelchair until Ican learn how to walk with my pros.( fake Leg)....I kee p hoping I wil;l find Mr Right but always seem to come across Mr WRONG....lol
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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MEN IN ST.LOUIS
Posted: 7/27/2006 6:15:59 PM
ok...then where are the baby boomer men in St Louis or that area????
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Does the guy in the movie SHALLOW HAL really exist????????
Posted: 7/16/2006 1:42:33 PM
.....I think my question was taken wrong....what I meant was is there aman out there that looks at a BBW as a thin woman in his eyes???
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Does the guy in the movie SHALLOW HAL really exist????????
Posted: 7/9/2006 11:24:01 PM
I sure hope so....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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I need your opinion.....does my profile sound honest or to much info??
Posted: 7/5/2006 7:59:05 PM
Martin ...the part of loosing the mold was suppose to be funny...guess you did not get the point...and the part about my 2 sons is a part of me....the wheelchair is a temporary thing..I am an amputee below the knee....as for my job.....I am a crafty Goddess...that's what I do....I MAKE crafts.....ask to see my picture I will send it....but the reason it is NOT posted is that a different dating site a bunch of people stole my pic and posted them in sites I was no where near...so NOT posting one here.....I do have a few to send IF asked....Donna
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Salt Water Taffy Recipes?
Posted: 6/15/2006 4:27:49 PM
Burn...just make sure you have apull partner....not an easy task to pull it alone.....
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 8:01:31 PM
tallgirl IF you are blocked when you send a message it tells you this person has blocked you...trust me I know..LOL....one guy that I met face-to-face was not a great person HE did things I was so scared...and when he got to his car I guess he had NET on cell phone he blocked me so I could not send him what I thought of him and his actions....so beware of some guys on POF....not all but some...
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 8:42:14 AM
Armurian......You have hit the nail directly on the head...I'd rather they say NOT INTERESTED.....

Thank you for putting my words that I could not figure out how to write....PINKY
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/8/2006 11:07:48 AM
BIKE-MAN.....you got the right idea...I would much rather they say NOT INTERESTED....You are not my type or you are UGLY than not say anything at all....

One day I will be able to correct the fact that I can't walk...but my looks are not in that pictuer....I am me and either accept me or don't your choice....but one thing is for sure my profile is totally honest and

STITCH.......I am glad I do not appear to your standards of life...but this way the guy knows I am straight up and not a fake!!!!!
 HOTPINKANGEL
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/6/2006 7:53:25 PM
awwwwwwwww.......stitch......typical Male answer......
 
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